bukatyne:


You are not in Nigeria and by magic, you know that all Nigerian wives are not fit?

My point is that the forefathers did not need to use fat as boju boju; they cheated when they wanted and married extra wives and besides, fat or plump was the in thing then

I apologize engaging you without knowing your beliefs; since you do not know the correlation between spirit of God and putting work in marriage

It is well

What's the correlation please? We have aethiests and "unbelievablers" with wonderful marriages.

Instead of paying attention to yourself, you're busy fasting and praying (not you), and tieing wrapper around the house. When exactly won't that spirit of God waka pass that marraige ?

And like they say, you're only as faithful as your options. A slacking spouse is playing with "faya".

carefreewannabe:


You definitely don't because if you did you would know that I consider poser photos awkward.

You wouldn't get a price for knowing that but you wouldn't draw wrong conclusions either.

All these just cos I asked about the price...SMBigH

Okay, brain tease:
How many people know you consider poser photos awkward? Does your dad know? Does he not know you?

BABE3:



What's the correlation please? We have aethiests and "unbelievablers" with wonderful marriages.

Instead of paying attention to yourself, you're busy fasting and praying (not you), and tieing wrapper around the house. When exactly won't that spirit of God waka pass that marraige ?

And like they say, you're only as faithful as your options. A slacking spouse is playing with "faya".

they said tying wrapper is the only way wives can portray decency.

coogar:


they still live way far healthier lives than black people. even right now in my borough, everyone is running & biking around like there's a beauty contest coming up next week.

They had better be careful. Its getting dark. Its safer buying a treadmill or step

coogar:
yes, sunny ade is regretting....
dokpesi, okoya, etc are all regretting. you think men are sold to emotions like women? he has lived his life the way he chose to. if he perishes, then so be it.

For every Okoya there are 1 million unknowns . . . .
The unknown retiree men sitting at home by themselves or at best living with one young boy from the village who helps him to cook soup, while his wife is in the US looking after her 10th grandchild
Every Xmas the kids send baba $250 to buy christmas chicken and Maltina and he gets a 5 minute phonecall once a week.
He is the lonlely old man who sits on his balcony reading Daily sport and watching the world go by.

coogar:

45??
where did you get this magic number from? there's no day i visit moremi hall & i don't see men with grey hair in the company of young undergraduates & these men don't look too loaded. who cannot afford N10k meal for a good sex in nigeria? even okada men are capable of doing that. men are always in demand - age is no barrier.

Go and sit down! Grrrrrrr
Which Moremi Hall? The one in your borough?
So according to you, 45 year old okada drivers have girlfriends in Moremi hall . . .Like my daughter says . . are you joking me?

coogar:

that's for the romantics & the emotional beings. you only live once......there's no promise there would be another life. men & women should strive to look attractive to each other in marriage. sentiments & emotions cannot cut it.

Yes!!! you can both do it together . . .and still enjoy life
Hubby and I put on our trainers and take evening power walks. Its fun and you are doing something healthy. it gives you a chance to jist and get some fresh air too.
There are a heap of other things that you can do to make yourself attractive to each other too. Size 8 or 6 pack doesnt mean your work is finsihed as a wife/husband.

coogar:


they said tying wrapper is the only way wives can portray decency.

That's what I heard too. Double wrapper, scarf and turtle neck....with white satin underskirt or 'tights'

austine4real:
am faithful oo.hope u'r nt married o make bros no kari gun blow me

Am not married! I just dnt like it when married women/men Cheat! Stay faithful or. Get a divorce or better still marry more. Than. One woman or man!!! (if you buy that school of thought anyways!!!

crackhaus:

All these just cos I asked about the price...SMBigH

Okay, brain tease:
How many people know you consider poser photos awkward? Does your dad know? Does he not know you?

Poser photos are one of the many reasons why I am not on Facebook, so people who know me, know what I think of them, even my father.

And my father also knows what type of men his daughter is interested in and men with half-n*aked bodies in their pics are definitely not what I would go for.

BABE3:

That's what I heard too. Double wrapper, scarf and turtle neck.

you forgot pink satin underskirt.

chaircover:

They had better be careful. Its getting dark. Its safer buying a treadmill or step
For every Okoya there are 1 million unknowns . . . .

who are they? abeg, any man who lived a fulfilled life wouldn't worry about loneliness or whatever. that's just nollywood.

The unknown retiree men sitting at home by themselves or at best living with one young boy from the village who helps him to cook soup, while his wife is in the US looking after her 10th grandchild
Every Xmas the kids send baba $250 to buy christmas chicken and Maltina and he gets a 5 minute phonecall once a week.
He is the lonlely old man who sits on his balcony reading Daily sport and watching the world go by.

so because he's not globetrotting like his wife means he's regretting? why would i as a father go to my son's house & spend 3 months there in the name of omugwo? someone should please tell chaircover that men(real men) don't give a damn about such nonsense........

and what kinda kids would abandon their father too? the scenario just doesn't add up. just because a man had many women in his life doesn't mean he would be abandoned by his kids. that assertion is just flawed.

Go and sit down! Grrrrrrr
Which Moremi Hall? The one in your borough? So according to you, 45 year old okada drivers have girlfriends in Moremi hall . . .Like my daughter says . . are you joking me?

money is the name of game!
if an okada man is willing to match the asking prices, he would get laid in naija.

Yes!!! you can both do it together . . .and still enjoy life. Hubby and I put on our trainers and take evening power walks. Its fun and you are doing something healthy. it gives you a chance to jist and get some fresh air too.

so you actually do your aerobics with your hubby and you are arguing like it's not important. why don't you refuse to go power-walking?

There are a heap of other things that you can do to make yourself attractive to each other too. Size 8 or 6 pack doesnt mean your work is finsihed as a wife/husband.

but it's a step in the right direction.
i wanna wake up everyday to still see the shape of the woman i courted.....that's the attraction. she has to keep me coming back for more.........that's the only thing that would make me tell my mates that i ain't going to the pub cos something appetising awaits me at home.

carefreewannabe:


Poser photos are one of the many reasons why I am not on Facebook, so people who know me, know what I think of them, even my father.

And my father also knows what type of men his daughter is interested in and men with half-n*aked bodies in their pics are definitely not what I would go for.

So you've never taken a picture of your man half naked before?? Men are just as superficial as women.

Not a big deal, but I get why you might find it awkward.

chlowi:


Am not married! I just dnt like it when married women/men Cheat! Stay faithful or. Get a divorce or better still marry more. Than. One woman or man!!! (if you buy that school of thought anyways!!!

i knw am just hppy d@ we'r cheating 2nght i wll xpectin u

austine4real:
i knw am just hppy d@ we'r cheating 2nght i wll xpectin u

you are a confirmed clown!!! Now enough of the mentions!!!

carefreewannabe:


Poser photos are one of the many reasons why I am not on Facebook, so people who know me, know what I think of them, even my father.

And my father also knows what type of men his daughter is interested in and men with half-n*aked bodies in their pics are definitely not what I would go for.

Carefreewannabe anytime we get into one of these our round arguments, you should always be careful making certain claims especially when it's with me, I have the memory of an elephant.

Are you not the one who at more than one time posted pics of half dressed guys with toned out abs and biceps?

Wait let me guess, you were only joking around and taunting the guys you thought would feel bad by it, yes?

carefreewannabe:


Poser photos are one of the many reasons why I am not on Facebook, so people who know me, know what I think of them, even my father.

And my father also knows what type of men his daughter is interested in and men with half-n*aked bodies in their pics are definitely not what I would go for.

Story for the Gods.

crackhaus:

Carefreewannabe anytime we get into one of these our round arguments, you should always be careful making certain claims especially when it's with me, I have the memory of an elephant.

Are you not the one who at more than one time posted pics of half dressed guys with toned out abs and biceps?

Wait let me guess, you were only joking around and taunting the guys you thought would feel bad by it, yes?

Exactly.

coogar: forgot pink satin underskirt.  

I added it to my post before you quoted me. Layers and layers of yeye undergarments; how sexy!

Coogar do you know some believe wearing a thong is a sin?.

coogar:


you forgot pink satin underskirt.



who are they? abeg, any man who lived a fulfilled life wouldn't worry about loneliness or whatever. that's just nollywood.



so because he's not globetrotting like his wife means he's regretting? why would i as a father go to my son's house & spend 3 months there in the name of omugwo? someone should please tell chaircover that men(real men) don't give a damn about such nonsense........

and what kinda kids would abandon their father too? the scenario just doesn't add up. just because a man had many women in his life doesn't mean he would be abandoned by his kids. that assertion is just flawed.



money is the name of game!
if an okada man is willing to match the asking prices, he would get laid in naija.



so you actually do your aerobics with your hubby and you are arguing like it's not important. why don't you refuse to go power-walking?



but it's a step in the right direction.
i wanna wake up everyday to still see the shape of the woman i courted.....that's the attraction. she has to keep me coming back for more.........that's the only thing that would make me tell my mates that i ain't going to the pub cos something appetising awaits me at home.

We both go powerwalking not becasue we are scared that either one of us will fall for a coogar or coogaress lookalike but because it is healthy and we enjoy spending time together.

You dont understand coogar
When a man begins to have other women in his life, the first wife is hurt and switches off emotionaly
The kids pick up on their mums hurt and sadness and tend to look after their mum more than their dad.
I know of someone whose dad asked him to send him money to buy a car. His response was NO! its not as if my mum will get to ride in the car and he went on and bought his mum a car. . . .baba still has no car.
The annoying thing with these baba's is that when they now become old frail and sick, the concubines run away and its the first wife who now gets to look after him
Ive seen several situations like this.

Meanwhile this your argument get k-leg cos even if he has an affair with a size 8, he still comes home to his fat wife and wakes up beside her most mornings. Why not just pack out and divorce his fat wife. Why one leg in and one leg out? Why the cheating? why the lies? why the deceit?

iykedare:


Story for the Gods.

I know you were working your azz off in the gym hoping that all ladies would get weak in the knees but it won't happen.

chaircover:


I am sure you know what I am saying.
There is really no reason to cheat. You made a vow and if you are not happy with the situation at hand, then you say or do something about it

Cheating is not the answer. You genuingly help your wife/husband to get over whatever challenges that they may have
I have a friend on a low carbohydrate diet. She is struggling becasue when she gets home, her husband insists that she make him poundo in the evenings. How is he helping her and encouraging her? . . . . .but he is the one complaining that she is getting too fat for him.

If a mans wife is overweight; will the man keep on having affairs till he is 90?
Do you know how much that will cost him in money and emotions in the long run
He is only cheating himself

Yes we can all look for reasons to justify bad behaviour but we are only fooling ourselves . .cos the truth is that there are no good enough reasons.

You are obsessed with caucasians jogging . . .the same ones that drink gallons every evening after work and jump off lamposts and have one night stands with strangers in alleyways. How healthy is that if I may ask?

Stop being so close minded joor and learn to love your own women. God made you a Nigerian for a reason . . . . or you would have been Clive on Poundland

TAA U DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. SEXING LOTS OF WOMEN IS GOOD AND HEALTHY. SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THIS FACT AND ARE JUST HIDING THIS TRUTH FROM US THE GUYS.
IF NOT ASK OUR TEENAGE GIRLS WITH 100 BOYFRIENDS NOW HOW CHEATING SWEET REACH.
ALTHOUGH I AM CLEAN NOW AND DONT HAVE TIME FOR FLIRTING AT THE MOMENT, I WILL HAVE MY OWN FUN ON LIFE TOO. JUST LIKE MANY YOUNG MEN, WE ARE BUSY BUILDING OUR FINANCIAL STATUS WORKING HARD NOW, WHILE OUR FUTURE WIVES ARE BUSY WITH POT BELLY ALHAJI.

LIFE NA BY STAGES. MY POINT? STOP SCARING YOUNG MEN WITH FALSE DOCTRINES ABOUT HOW CHEATING IS HARMFUL.

JUST ACCEPT THAT ALL OF US MUST CHEAT.

BananaBender:


So you've never taken a picture of your man half naked before?? Men are just as superficial as women.

I have never done it.

Not a big deal, but I get why you might find it awkward.

Why?

carefreewannabe:


Exactly.

Seriously lady, you need to surprise me and not be so darn predictable.

elipheleh:


TAA U DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. SEXING LOTS OF WOMEN IS GOOD AND HEALTHY. SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THIS FACT AND ARE JUST HIDING THIS TRUTH FROM US THE GUYS.
IF NOT ASK OUR TEENAGE GIRLS WITH 100 BOYFRIENDS NOW HOW CHEATING SWEET REACH.
ALTHOUGH I AM CLEAN NOW AND DONT HAVE TIME FOR FLIRTING AT THE MOMENT, I WILL HAVE MY OWN FUN ON LIFE TOO. JUST LIKE MANY YOUNG MEN, WE ARE BUSY BUILDING OUR FINANCIAL STATUS WORKING HARD NOW, WHILE OUR FUTURE WIVES ARE BUSY WITH POT BELLY ALHAJI.

LIFE NA BY STAGES. MY POINT? STOP SCARING YOUNG MEN WITH FALSE DOCTRINES ABOUT HOW CHEATING IS HARMFUL.

JUST ACCEPT THAT ALL OF US MUST CHEAT.

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crackhaus:



Seriously lady, you need to surprise me and not be so darn predictable.

Is there a price for it?

crackhaus:



We were not arguing 'polygamy', all I did was ask a question about that scripture.

Neither were we discussing law; it was just an expression

What scripture again?

chlowi:


you are a confirmed clown!!! Now enough of the mentions!!!

quiet plz dnt let ppl hear our discussion..i wnt us cheat LMAO:-D:-D

chaircover:

We both go powerwalking not becasue we are scared that either one of us will fall for a coogar or coogaress lookalike but because it is healthy and we enjoy spending time together.

yes - the above is the diplomatic explanation why you guys go power-walking. the raw truth is - it's deeper than that.

You dont understand coogar
When a man begins to have other women in his life, the first wife switches off emotionaly
The kids pick up on this and tend to look after their mum more than their dad.
I know of someone whose dad asked him to send him money to buy a car. His response was NO! its not as if my mum will get to ride in the car and he went on and bought his mum a car. . . .baba still has no car.
The annoying thing with these baba's is that when they now become old frail and sick, the concubines run away and its the first wife who now gets to look after him
Ive seen several situations like this.

i have seen the exact opposite!
women painting their husbands bad to the kids only for the kids to figure the real truth out later in their adult life. they run back to their father & abandoned the mother cos she often lied against her hubby......

different strokes!

Meanwhile this your argument get k-leg cos even if he has an affair with a size 8, he still comes home to his fat wife and wakes up beside her most mornings. Why not just pack out and divorce his fat wife. Why one leg in and one leg out? Why the cheating? why the lies? why the deceit?

he comes home happy as a whistle around 4am with empty loins. do you think he's concerned about the fat wife? he rarely even eats her food at this point.

divorce his fat wife ke? he has to keep up with the joneses. "happily" married man & a well known figure in the society meanwhile he's growing through hell internally.

nah, infidelity is the easier option. no one knows about it....wife is happy(thinking hubby is coping with the bi-annual sėx). mistress is happy & the man is happy.

what's not to like about this scenario?

BABE3:


I added it to my posted before you quoted me. Layers and layers of yeye undergarments; how sexy!

Coogar do you know some believe wearing a thong is a sin?.

I think you & coogar are just trying to keep this thread lively

I have an uncle who thinks wearing shorts around the house is wrong. So you know that make up, earrings etc. are off. My aunt's short skirts are below her knees and she does not wear sleeveless tops so your dress sexy at home, look good etc advises are lost on her. She till looks neat though.

Deeper life Church has millions of members. Please ask around to know their lifestyle.

BABE3:

I added it to my posted before you quoted me. Layers and layers of yeye undergarments; how sexy!

dirty looking underskirt......
you see them in church tying & retying the wrapper just to reveal the satin undergarment.

Coogar do you know some believe wearing a thong is a sin?.

any sėx position other than missionary is a sin for most naija wives yet they fast & pray for 40 days in the wilderness for the holy spirit to keep their marriage.

bukatyne:

I think you & coogar are just trying to keep this thread lively
I have an uncle who thinks wearing shorts around the house is wrong.

he thinks wearing shorts in the house is wrong? wrong for who? you, his wife or himself?

So you know that make up, earrings etc. are off. My aunt's short skirts are below her knees and she does not wear sleeveless tops so your dress sexy at home, look good etc advises are lost on her. She till looks neat though.
Deeper life Church has millions of members. Please ask around to know their lifestyle.

and this is one of the reasons bornagain christians have the highest divorce rate in the world. they throw logic out of the window & deliberately turn the holy spirit into a magician.

chlowi:


you are a confirmed clown!!! Now enough of the mentions!!!

later church tins

carefreewannabe:


Bacterial Vaginosis
Chlamydia
Genital Herpes
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Hepatitis C
Human Papillomavirus
Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)
Pubic Lice (Crabs)
Scabies
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis
Yeast Infections

...

Very healthy stuff.

Oh you didn't know?

cococandy:
God doesn't feel bad about creating women.if you do feel so bad about it,you can start by killing the women in your life and get married to a man.

Assshole!

LOL!

@edusoul,

Why don't you start by asking God how He feels creating your mother?

coogar:


dirty looking underskirt......
you see them in church tying & retying the wrapper just to reveal the satin undergarment.
any sėx position other than missionary is a sin for most naija wives yet they fast & pray for 40 days in the wilderness for the holy spirit to keep their marriage.

Mish is what the holy spirit ordained. We can't go against that.

bukatyne:

I think you & coogar are just trying to keep this thread lively
I have an uncle who thinks wearing shorts around the house is wrong. So you know that make up, earrings etc. are off. My aunt's short skirts are below her knees and she does not wear sleeveless tops so your dress sexy at home, look good etc advises are lost on her. She till looks neat though.
Deeper life Church has millions of members. Please ask around to know their lifestyle.

Good for your uncle and his wife.

cococandy:

Very healthy stuff.

Oh you didn't know?

No but NL enlightened me.

It is not only healthy but also body art. Better than a tattoo.
Check this out.

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