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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by iykedare(m): 7:35pm On Oct 12, 2014
elipheleh:
SINCE WE HAVE ALL AGREED THAT CHEATING IS NECESSARY. OUR ONLY AIM IS TO FIND OUT AN ACCEPTABLE FREQUENCY IN CHEATING



Lol
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by elipheleh(m): 7:35pm On Oct 12, 2014
Misogynist2014:
U no know d meaning of 'assuming'
















As 4 me, I allow my spouse to cheat cos that itself will give my courage to cheat more tongue

MAY GOD GIVE US WIVES THAT UNDERSTAND THE DESIRES OF MEN. ....AND OVERLOOK MINOR THINGS
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 12, 2014
elipheleh:


MAY GOD GIVE US WIVES THAT UNDERSTAND THE DESIRES OF MEN. ....AND OVERLOOK MINOR THINGS

"STIs can have serious consequences beyond the immediate impact of the infection itself, through mother-to-child transmission of infections and chronic diseases."

http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs110/en/

This is explains why so many i*diots populate this Earth.

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Misogynist2014(m): 7:42pm On Oct 12, 2014
elipheleh:


MAY GOD GIVE US WIVES THAT UNDERSTAND THE DESIRES OF MEN. ....AND OVERLOOK MINOR THINGS
I don't even have to pray that prayer. Any woman who is not content with my way of life can go for a divorce. Polygamy is a very good option and I won't stop until I have 10 wives. smiley

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by elipheleh(m): 7:42pm On Oct 12, 2014
carefreewannabe:


"STIs can have serious consequences beyond the immediate impact of the infection itself, through mother-to-child transmission of infections and chronic diseases."

http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs110/en/

This is explains why so many i*diots populate this Earth.

SHARRAP WHO TOLD U IDIOTS ARE AS A RESULT OF CHEATING?

IF YOU DONT KNOW IT IS BY CHEATING THAT HUMAN RACE SURVIVED. READ ABOUT SPERM WARS
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Misogynist2014(m): 7:47pm On Oct 12, 2014
carefreewannabe:


"STIs can have serious consequences beyond the immediate impact of the infection itself, through mother-to-child transmission of infections and chronic diseases."

http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs110/en/

This is explains why so many i*diots populate this Earth.
So I should live in a state of self denial. Maybe polygamy is just right wink .

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by elipheleh(m): 7:50pm On Oct 12, 2014
Misogynist2014:
So I should live in a state of self denial. Maybe polygamy is just right wink .

WOMEN AND THEIR CONTROL TACTICS. grin SHE CAN EVEN ADVICE U TO CUT OFF BLOKOS
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 7:50pm On Oct 12, 2014
elipheleh:


SHARRAP WHO TOLD U IDIOTS ARE AS A RESULT OF CHEATING?

I know you need to fvck around to prove to yourself that you are worthy BUT it won't change the fact that an infected pen*is that infects and impregnates a va*gina will negatively influence the development of an unborn child during pregnancy and after pregnancy.

There is a correlation between the attitude you and your likes display and the number of infections in this part of the world.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 12, 2014
Misogynist2014:
So I should live in a state of self denial. Maybe polygamy is just right wink .

Do whatever you want. Just don't bother me.

I prefer to surround myself with men I can respect.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 7:55pm On Oct 12, 2014
BABE3:


joke? Can't you see how detailed we are? These are the real struggles of a typical Nigerian marraige. cheesy

Bukatyne, you wear underskirt too? shocked cheesy grin

Do you know the use of underskirts?

Anytime you wear iro & buba, you must wear underskirts or a long loose goen underneath.

I wear iro & buba
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by elipheleh(m): 8:00pm On Oct 12, 2014
carefreewannabe:


I know you need to fvck around to prove to yourself that you are worthy BUT it won't change the fact that an infected pen*is that infects and impregnates a va*gina will negatively influence the development of an unborn child during pregnancy and after pregnancy.

There is a correlation between the attitude you and your likes display and the number of infections in this part of the world.

I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO PROOVE. IM ONLY DOING GODS ASSIGNMENT OF REPLENISHING THE EARTH.

AND HOW CAN YOU SERIOUSLY ACCUSE ME OF MAKING AFRICAN BABIES INFECTED.
I AM BUSY DONT GET ME STARTED
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 8:00pm On Oct 12, 2014
chaircover:


grin grin grin grin
dont mind coogar
I am sure he wears those poloneck sweaters under his buba and wears joging bottoms under his sokoto, saying its very cold tongue grin grin

LOL!
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 12, 2014
bukatyne:


God bless you my brother and help you uphold the vows

Gratitude
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 8:05pm On Oct 12, 2014
coogar:


keeping fit solves all problems. it's better to be safe than sorry.



she's fine, she's fit but she doesn't enjoy sex. eric benet was well in his right to cheat on her.

so a wife does not enjoy sex and the next thing is for him to cheat?

He could not work on her to enjoy it?

Marriage has become play thing these days.

It is well
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 8:07pm On Oct 12, 2014
Misogynist2014:
I think I won't go to hell if I have a second wife

I no know
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by efficiencie(m): 8:09pm On Oct 12, 2014
greatgod2012:



thank you!
Divorce is another good option in case of infidelity and abuse.
Believe me, i will gladly go for divorce(God forbid) if my spouse turns a cheat than suffering from several heartaches and fear from STDs, which means the person involved or affected has chosen to reverse to singlehood.

You can DIVORCE for the reason of Adultery but realize that as a DIVORCEE the scriptures does not permit you to remarry.

Mark 10:11-12

And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.


...and by implication you either mend your marriage and stay put or you divorce and remain single till your partner dies...Don't be in a haste to make a vow before the SOVEREIGN LORD GOD who never pardons vow breakers...


Ecclesiastes 5:6 Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands?
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Bolade005: 8:10pm On Oct 12, 2014
bukatyne:


so a wife does not enjoy sex and the next thing is for him to cheat?

He could not work on her to enjoy it?

Marriage has become play thing these days.

It is well

Oh so you think all men are animals, they see a problem and they just move on, is that what you think?

What makes you think Eric didnt try his best possible to work on her and make sure she enjoys sex?
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 8:11pm On Oct 12, 2014
bukatyne:

so a wife does not enjoy sex and the next thing is for him to cheat?

He could not work on her to enjoy it?
Marriage has become play thing these days.
It is well

he must have tried to work on it - but it didn't yield any result. she was a bigger star than him so his hands were really tied.

why would a woman even marry at all if she doesn't enjoy sex? huh? you cannot plant cassava & expect pawpaw to sprout of the ground.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Misogynist2014(m): 8:20pm On Oct 12, 2014
carefreewannabe:


Do whatever you want. Just don't bother me.

I prefer to surround myself with men I can respect.
It hasn't come to that(we are all on internet to share ideas and have fun). I'm not even married but I still think being a polygamist is respectable and does not merit those choice of words. angry

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by okotv(m): 8:24pm On Oct 12, 2014
Poznan:


that concept is wrong, biblically. CheckMatt. 19:9. Many translations use the expression- sexual immorality. One act of sex with an outside person is enough to warrant a divorce. Look at the principle. Marriage makes you one body with your mate. Wen one commits adultery, he/she has severed that union. The other mate is either free to remarry or forgive.

The bible does not teach that mistakes/lies in the past are enough to divorce a member. She lied that she is a virgin. The vow is to live from that day foward unless there is infidelity or death.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 12, 2014
elipheleh:


I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO PROOVE. IM ONLY DOING GODS ASSIGNMENT OF REPLENISHING THE EARTH.

AND HOW CAN YOU SERIOUSLY ACCUSE ME OF MAKING AFRICAN BABIES INFECTED.
I AM BUSY DONT GET ME STARTED

Ever heard of overpopulation?
Ever asked yourself why there are so many STDs in this part of the world?

In case you haven't, I can tell you why.
It's because of people like you.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 12, 2014
Misogynist2014:
It hasn't come to that(we are all on internet to share ideas and have fun). I'm not even married but I still think being a polygamist is respectable and does not merit those choice of words. angry

How does it concern me?
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by damiso(f): 8:33pm On Oct 12, 2014
coogar can like to argue..when you give him an example of a fit wife that someone cheated on he says she is dirty or hates s.ex or nags or has attitude problem when his original argument was that Nigerian women add 20kgs after marriage which is why they are cheated on cheesy cheesy cheesy

You just gotta love coogar and his contrarian views(pickabeau hope I got the spelling right grin) grin

I dey go skip cheesy grin Me I can't jog in my local park anymore it's getting dark like you said CC grin I no want one crazy person to chop me up and put me in a bin bag only to be found at the bottom of the Thames 3 weeks later all because I don't want my oga to follow size 8 opekes grin grin grin

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by shooze: 8:35pm On Oct 12, 2014
If someone wants to cheat he will cheat regardless og how fit ,sexy , kind or good in and out of bed. How many men in Nigeria remain the way they are after marriage. They add weight and become bald is that still a licence to cheat. As for coogar saying his colleagues jog. Try jogging on third mainland bridge to work or even surulere to VI then please give me feedback.

I am always amused when some people in the diaspora just stay stuff that they have not really experienced . I leave home 5.30am daily and get home by 9pm on the average and despite having a driver I know how fagged out I am after I must have sat in traffic for 2hours or more and this is me commuting from ikoyi to ajah. I have colleagues who spend 3-4 hours on 3rd mainland bridge daily and get home 10-11pm. The irony is adding weight is not just about eating bokoto as people often say. Not getting enough sleep, stress (for some people) long hours of sitting in a place actually aids weight gain
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 12, 2014
damiso:
coogar can like to argue..when you give him an example of a fit wife that someone cheated on he says she is dirty or hates s.ex or nags or has attitude problem when his original argument was that Nigerian women add 20kgs after marriage which is why they are cheated on cheesy cheesy cheesy

You just gotta love coogar and his contrarian views(pickabeau hope I got the spelling right grin) grin

I dey go skip cheesy grin Me I can't jog in my local park anymore it's getting dark like you said CC grin I no want one crazy person to chop me up and put me in a bin bag only to be found at the bottom of the Thames 3 weeks later all because I don't my oga to follow size 8 opekes grin grin grin





Lmaooooo @ last paragraph cheesy
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Misogynist2014(m): 8:39pm On Oct 12, 2014
efficiencie:


You can DIVORCE for the reason of Adultery but realize that as a DIVORCEE the scriptures does not permit you to remarry.

Mark 10:11-12

And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.


...and by implication you either mend your marriage and stay put or you divorce and remain single till your partner dies...Don't be in a haste to make a vow before the SOVEREIGN LORD GOD who never pardons vow breakers...


Ecclesiastes 5:6 Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands?
but I think if my wife divorce me for lawfully getting second wife, I think I haven't sinned, have I?

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 8:40pm On Oct 12, 2014
damiso:
coogar can like to argue..when you give him an example of a fit wife that someone cheated on he says she is dirty or hates s.ex or nags or has attitude problem when his original argument was that Nigerian women add 20kgs after marriage which is why they are cheated on cheesy cheesy cheesy

marriage is complex - but it would be less problematic if both parties keep fit & stay attractive to each other - is that too much to ask or are we going to pretend sëxual attraction is not a vital ingredient in marriage?


You just gotta love coogar and his contrarian views(pickabeau hope I got the spelling right grin) grin

hahaha - coogar the sage! cheesy
my list of clients would shock you. my advice helped hilary clinton keep her hubby after the lewinsky saga.


I dey go skip cheesy grin Me I can't jog in my local park anymore it's getting dark like you said CC grin I no want one crazy person to chop me up and put me in a bin bag only to be found at the bottom of the Thames 3 weeks later all because I don't my oga to follow size 8 opekes grin grin grin

skipping is good!
anything you do that makes you sweat is good even if it's running up & down the stairs 100 times. don't jog to your park in this darkness, biko.......
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by BABE3: 8:42pm On Oct 12, 2014
shooze:
If someone wants to cheat he will cheat regardless og how fit ,sexy , kind or good in and out of bed. How many men in Nigeria remain the way they are after marriage. They add weight and become bald is that still a licence to cheat. As for coogar saying his colleagues jog. Try jogging on third mainland bridge to work or even surulere to VI then please give me feedback.

I am always amused when some people in the diaspora just stay stuff that they have not really experienced . I leave home 5.30am daily and get home by 9pm on the average and despite having a driver I know how fagged out I am after I must have sat in traffic for 2hours or more and this is me commuting from ikoyi to ajah. I have colleagues who spend 3-4 hours on 3rd mainland bridge daily and get home 10-11pm. The irony is adding weight is not just about eating bokoto as people often say. Not getting enough sleep, stress (for some people) long hours of sitting in a place actually aids weight gain

Adding weight/maintaining a healthy weight is 70% what you put in your mouth and 30% exercise.


you can exercise right in your home 2 to 3 times a week (30 mins per session). How hard can that be? If you can find 30 mins out of your day to watch papa adjasco or Super Story, you can find 30 mins to work out.


Let's even assume you have 0 mins to spare, a good diet doesn't require "time". Or does it ? Water/juice instead of carbonated drinks....smaller portionsrof amala.... it's easy.
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by pickabeau1: 8:45pm On Oct 12, 2014
Damiso..correct spelling
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by coogar: 8:48pm On Oct 12, 2014
shooze:
If someone wants to cheat he will cheat regardless og how fit ,sexy ,kind or good in and out of bed. How many men in Nigeria remain the way they are after marriage. They add weight and become bald is that still a licence to cheat.

more women add weight after marriage than men but that's even besides the point. the husbands are the ones more likely to stray so it's your duty as a wife to keep him 100% satisfied before his testosterone gets the better of him.


As for coogar saying his colleagues jog. Try jogging on third mainland bridge to work or even surulere to VI then please give me feedback.

it doesn't have to be jogging. waking up early to do some normal work-outs is enough.....as long as you sweat profusely, your objective is achieved.


I am always amused when some people in the diaspora just stay stuff that they have not really experienced . I leave home 5.30am daily and get home by 9pm on the average and despite having a driver I know how fagged out I am after I must have sat in traffic for 2hours or more and this is me commuting from ikoyi to ajah. I have colleagues who spend 3-4 hours on 3rd mainland bridge daily and get home 10-11pm. The irony is adding weight is not just about eating bokoto as people often say. Not getting enough sleep, stress (for some people) long hours of sitting in a place actually aids weight gain

reduce the intake - watch what you eat.....exercise when you have the chance. bokoto is needless for adults who have already finished growing. children should be eating it more, not adults whose metabolism have slowed down & aren't even active enough to burn the excess fats in their body.

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Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 12, 2014
carefreewannabe:


I have never done it.

Why? tongue

Lies you tell grin grin

'Why?' I just said why. You find it superficial. Right?
Re: OPINION: If You Know You can't Keep To Your Marital Vow, Please, Remain Single! by bukatyne(f): 8:50pm On Oct 12, 2014
Bolade005:

Oh so you think all men are animals, they see a problem and they just move on, is that what you think?

What makes you think Eric didnt try his best possible to work on her and make sure she enjoys sex?

Where did I say men are animals?

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