Reason :

Any day a lady gives you mone and in future when conflicts materialize , 99% will use it to brag . Men ,stay away from collecting money from ladies. gbam

good for you, your ego must be larger than life itself.

firstEVA:
good for you, your ego must be larger than life itself.

It not about ego .. I only make reference to the girl u dating ..gf/bf things.

luvola:
It not about ego .. I only make reference to the girl u dating ..gf/bf things.

that's my point exactly, why draw a conclusion that she will brag with it, so many girls out there do stuffs for their bf and on one hears about it, so its more of ur ego

No biggy in it collecting money from your babe bro. Babes are getting more matured by the day and you'll marvel at what some of them can do for their guys these days.
Imagine babe fighting his guy cos he doesn't like her to come in whenever he is broke. Almost led to a break-up.

I'd stay penny less than ask a guy for money

Jennimma:
I'd stay penny less than ask a guy for money

Lmao....Date me already.. hahaa!

Jennimma:
I'd stay penny less than ask a guy for money

WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LIE...

Jennimma:
I'd stay penny less than ask a guy for money

WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LIE...

redcliff:


Lmao....Date me already.. hahaa!

hmmmmmmm

Jennimma:

hmmmmmmm

Thats a yes....looool

It all depends on the level of mutual understanding you guys share. Trust me, if you operate on the same frequency, and she is matured enough as you are not to overdo it, there is nothing to worry about. Got my drift?

Davidairmarshal:



WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LIE...


WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LIE...

na u get ur mouth,sowie fingers.

luvola:
It not about ego .. I only make reference to the girl u dating ..gf/bf things.

My girl has serious issues with me on this. It has almost led to fight several times. She says I don't collect money from her or say anything when I'm broke and that she won't be taking gifts or money from me anymore.

I try to do it, but I can't. We both decided to about it and move on.

There's nothing actually wrong about it. A girl you take care of will always want to find the opportunity to treat you well too. I'm just not able to do it - dasall!

redcliff:


Thats a yes....looool

lolz

Smh at some guys mentality,i reserve my comment.

My mother paid all my school fees while in uni even my big bros takes money from his wife so but OP you have a point some ladies brag about it. Some not all

me and my lady have this connection so well that i need not to even tell her when am broke.....she raises me asap..cos she is assured she is getting 120% returns in every way.....and even in certain cases when she is in need i just give her my ATM, she already knows the pin... and ask her to withdrawal what she needs.....its all about connection bro...

@op it because you dont have a good understanding and connection with your partner...

U better go and ask those brothers in university Fellowships on how they go about it if you are broke.
I hear sisters give them money a lot and even worship the ground they walk on that is ontop of the money wey them give them ooòo. It is working for some people

bigt2:
It all depends on the level of mutual understanding you guys share. Trust me, if you operate on the same frequency, and she is matured enough as you are not to overdo it, there is nothing to worry about. Got my drift?

Yes ..

GlorifiedTunde:


My girl has serious issues with me on this. It has almost led to fight several times. She says I don't collect money from her or say anything when I'm broke and that she won't be taking gifts or money from me anymore.

I try to do it, but I can't. We both decided to about it and move on.

There's nothing actually wrong about it. A girl you take care of will always want to find the opportunity to treat you well too. I'm just not able to do it - dasall!

The rate at which some brag is alarming. This exclude Husband - wife scenero .

OP guess you've barely started living. Got a big ego? You better back it up or that big ego of yours is bullshit! It depends on the kinda girls you're asking for money and the kinda money involved. You won't ask a young girl you're dating for a large amount of money(maybe house rent 60-100k) and she gives it to ya and then tomorrow you cheat on her. And you expect her not to use the rent money against you? That's you being naïve! Some girls could not mention the money when things go sore but it takes maturity. And you guys do same. Helping a girl out financially and then she cheats on you or breaks your heart, you guys also announce the heaven and earth you gave her. Duh!

Missmossy:
Smh at some guys mentality,i reserve my comment.

Somehow at some girls too that brag just because they helpt a guy . We all read a thread days ago when a lady disgraced her bf on nairaland just because she helped him financially.

Op all girls are nt d same...if u stick with a matured mind gls u will surely see the diffrence in dem...i also believe in such thing b4 bt now..there's nothing der my brother..but till now have nt ask a gl 4 money except my elder sister we be paddy till now.

KingTom:
My mother paid all my school fees while in uni even my big bros takes money from his wife so but OP you have a point some ladies brag about it. Some not all

We are not making reference to assistance from siblings but rather bf/gf relationship.

firstEVA:
that's my point exactly, why draw a conclusion that she will brag with it, so many girls out there do stuffs for their bf and on one hears about it, so its more of ur ego

So many girls out there lamented how they helped their bf when he has nothing and later got dumped. Ladies are very fond of doing that after a break up. I did this for him, I did that for him. Rubbish!


It is not ego, it is wisdom.

igwemoagbo:
me and my lady have this connection so well that i need not to even tell her when am broke.....she raises me asap..cos she is assured she is getting 120% returns in every way.....and even in certain cases when she is in need i just give her my ATM, she already knows the pin... and ask her to withdrawal what she needs.....its all about connection bro...

@op it because you dont have a good understanding and connection with your partner...

If you do give her in return ,then it a balanced equation.

[size=30pt] Stupid thread.... Spits on op [/size]

Tallesty1:
So many girls out there lamented how they helped their bf when he has nothing and later got dumped. Ladies are very fond of doing that after a break up. I did this for him, I did that for him. Rubbish!


It is not ego, it is wisdom.

how about not breaking up with her

evegran:
OP guess you've barely started living. Got a big ego? You better back it up or that big ego of yours is bullshit! It depends on the kinda girls you're asking for money and the kinda money involved. You won't ask a young girl you're dating for a large amount of money(maybe house rent 60-100k) and she gives it to ya and then tomorrow you cheat on her. And you expect her not to use the rent money against you? That's you being naïve! Some girls could not mention the money when things go sore but it takes maturity. And you guys do same. Helping a girl out financially and then she cheats on you or breaks your heart, you guys also announce the heaven and earth you gave her. Duh!

Thank God u said It takes maturity to move on.. I call it pride if anybody is involve be it guys or ladies.

Op u r on ur own lst week wednesday my guy askd me to giv him 20k dat he is broke.... I told him i av only 9k whc was d last money in my acct, i gav it to him since den hungry want kill me thou surprise dat he is askin me for money cos he is vry rich... He cam today smilin at me in my ofice nd askd for my acct no.. Waooo he paid in 50k... I fitened shout... Swythrt i will alwz love u.. Woman nd money shaaaa

Kunleskey:
Op all girls are nt d same...if u stick with a matured mind gls u will surely see the diffrence in dem...i also believe in such thing b4 bt now..there's nothing der my brother..but till now have nt ask a gl 4 money except my elder sister we be paddy till now.

Except for some mature ladies , most will brag when quarrel set in.