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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by DNA9(m): 8:45am On Oct 21, 2014
[quote author=adeoladrg post=27319182]Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!



Well said,, if i shld ask u,, hav u eva run a business b4? Hv u owned a sch b4? Do u knw d cost of running a sch under 1 term?
Maybe NO!!
bt lemme sch u a little, in nigeria ehn, dere is wat we call motherless or ophanage homes plus other NGO's taking care of d needy lik (him). I jst tink if he was sensible enuf, he wud hv choose either of dos places, dan allowing his children be a nuisance to som1s private business... Copy dat..

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by MizEmpress(f): 8:47am On Oct 21, 2014
Well I thank God the man at least kept them together in a school instead of scattering them among relatives as helps. He deserves to be jailed..a man who's this heartless, who knows if their mother doesn't even know what this man has done with her kids-he may equally have refused to divulge information about their whereabouts to her. I really hope a responsible family member sees this and alerts the whole family to the situation.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by fpeter(f): 8:47am On Oct 21, 2014
adeoladrg:
Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!



what are you saying? what do you mean by calling people hypocritical for calling the man wicked?
who in his right senses,with the fear of God would abandon his kids for so long under the guise of
poverty? let me tell you,even if he had no money the least he could do was to visit,volunteer to
be a security,cleaner whatever in the school...visit a Church,Mosque,NGO,anywhere to solicit help
except you're capable of doing such to your own kids then i can understand you better.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 8:49am On Oct 21, 2014
You dont sound wise at all. I guess you are not a man yet , thats why you are sounding like this. True men dont abandon their responsibilty totally, no matter the condition they pass true. if you know you cant take their responsibilities, why bringing them to the world? to be sincere, if this happened in your family, will you say the same? i dont know how you people defend this man like this. For good 8 years? haba. There are many children that are doing well in public school which is very cheap by standard. So if you cant afford private school, then go to public school. it is not a crime. Using country's present state as an excuse dosent make sense to me.

adeoladrg:
Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!



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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Heyliesha(m): 8:51am On Oct 21, 2014
Can I adopt them?they are so cute
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by kaokao2015: 8:51am On Oct 21, 2014
The School authority should use the service provider of MR ADEPEAGBA phone to trace him if is still alive and his where-about and let him know that his children want him.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Ishilove: 8:53am On Oct 21, 2014
Christeety:
Even if the man is heartless.
Wat about the father's relatives likewise the Mother's relative. How much more, family friends, neigbhours, Cousins nd d likes,
isn't any1 asking after d children?
Something is definately wrong somewhere.
The policy of boarding shools is that a child cannot be released to anybody except the person who enrolled the child in their care. If the child is to be released to anyone,it has to be with the explicit permission of the said person. As it stands,nobody, not even the mother will be allowed to take those children. Sometimes even relatives may be barred from seeing without the parents permission.

This case is a peculiar case. As for the man, he is very useless and wicked

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by gergemam: 8:54am On Oct 21, 2014
all of una whey dey brag...... HEARTLESS, HYPO...... and the Rest......


He be like say una know no d evironment whey una dey.... Sheey una don forget say Juju and Alantankun dey bah.... lipsrsealed

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Edusouls(m): 8:59am On Oct 21, 2014
Shut up all you, u think life is easy, do you know the hell the man is going through where ever he is now, do you think he is happy with what is happening, do u know what hell he had gone through in the hands of her vry baad wife, he even saved the childrens life by not abandoning them on to their fate, he at least made a very good move to put them in a school where he knows people will be on them, where is their irresponsible and vry heartless woman that abandoned both father and children and dissapeared for good, see some women re doom when they enter ur life you regret been even born into this life, she will unleash hell to everything close to you, and you re just few years aways from early grave. May God help that man, i know he loves his children but has nothing to care for the kids, but he made a very clever move, now he has saved this kids from long torment of life they would have gone through if he had abandoned them just like her doom wife, and God will also bless the school for their devoution and patience for 8years, it is not easy, most schools wont tolerate that..and finaly i pray that their father is still well and alive, after regaining his stand he should come and reunite with his kids.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 9:02am On Oct 21, 2014
oh! i feel for these kids
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by maylisa(f): 9:04am On Oct 21, 2014
To say this man is wicked is an understatement.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by himselfmaji(m): 9:04am On Oct 21, 2014
May be the man noticed there are not his children. Sha he no try.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 21, 2014
... cry
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 9:07am On Oct 21, 2014
Some people dey look fro children and some dey run leave their own. A typical case of some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but they have no food. What an irony.

God dey.
sad
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by freecocoa(f): 9:08am On Oct 21, 2014
I just tire.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by freezyprinzy(m): 9:09am On Oct 21, 2014
Imagine wen somepple are looking 4 jux 1 child dis 1 is abandoning dem..don't knw d reason 4 him duin dat buh if his reasons ain't geniue he needs beating...if i b God eh nd dis kind people die i go jux give dem dier own firewood make dy go do dier own hell fire

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by lebesgue(m): 9:10am On Oct 21, 2014
It takes a lot to make me emotional, but this hit me in the depth of my heart. Chei, those parents are wicked.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Tunagee(m): 9:10am On Oct 21, 2014
Lacomus:
I don't shout when I'm FTC , that man is heartless

he is an idiot. Very heartless. Why the Bleep did he give birth to children he could not take care of? why? if tomorrow, one of them becomes Nigerian President he go dey show himself as their papa. Bastard

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by lebesgue(m): 9:10am On Oct 21, 2014
Edusouls:
Shut up all you, u think life is easy, do you know the hell the man is going through where ever he is now, do you think he is happy with what is happening, do u know what hell he had gone through in the hands of her vry baad wife, he even saved the childrens life by not abandoning them on to their fate, he at least made a very good move to put them in a school where he knows people will be on them, where is their irresponsible and vry heartless woman that abandoned both father and children and dissapeared for good, see some women re doom when they enter ur life you regret been even born into this life, she will unleash hell to everything close to you, and you re just few years aways from early grave. May God help that man, i know he loves his children but has nothing to care for the kids, but he made a very clever move, now he has saved this kids from long torment of life they would have gone through if he had abandoned them just like her doom wife, and God will also bless the school for their devoution and patience for 8years, it is not easy, most schools wont tolerate that..and finaly i pray that their father is still well and alive, after regaining his stand he should come and reunite with his kids.

May God punish you.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by rukks: 9:11am On Oct 21, 2014
Kudos to the school. An exceptional grace.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Tunagee(m): 9:11am On Oct 21, 2014
LilNetty:
Three children abandoned in a boarding school in Abule-Iroko in the Ado-Odo Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State are longing to meet their parents who have abandoned them for eight years.
WhenPUNCH Metrovisited Solid Model College, the children recounted their ordeal, noting that the absence of their parents was affecting their studies.
Seun Adepegba, 14,Seyi, 10 and Titilola, 13, had been severed from parental love and care since infanthood. After waiting for eight years, they seemed to have relinquished all hopes of reuniting with their parents.
It was learnt that their tale of sorrow began in 2007 when their father, Mr Segun Adepegba, who had been separated from their mother, enrolled them in the boarding school because he could not afford to take care of them.
According to the proprietor of the school, Mr Samuel Ayegbusi, Adepegba came to enroll them in his school on September 24, 2007 with a promise to always check on them.
He said, “Mr. Adepegba told me his wife had just left him and that he could not afford to take care of them, being a jobless man. The children were very little. Seyi was two, while Titilola was five.
“Mr Adepegba had pleaded with me to accept them in the boarding school. Mr Adepegba’s sister promised to bear the cost of their upkeep. They paid an initial N150, 000 for the three children for the first term.”
But according to the proprietor, Adepegba never kept his promise. He said after the first term, the school expected him to come and take his children home for holiday but he never showed up until four years later. He said the school had expended over N7m on the upkeep of the children since 2007.
The proprietor said efforts to reach the parents’ families had proved abortive, adding that calls to Adepegba’s phones were not always answered.
He said, “Whenever we called him and he realised who was talking on the phone, he would switch off his phones and for the next two weeks, the numbers would not be available. When the school contacted their father’s sisters, we were told that they had travelled out of the country.
“When we called one of them, we were told that they had sent money to Mr Adepegba to defray the children’s school fees and upkeep. But Mr. Adepegba has never come here to make any payment since the initial deposit he made in 2007.”
According to the proprietor, taking care of the children had further become cumbersome for him as one of them, Titilayo, had started misbehaving. He recounted how Titilayo ran away from the hostel twice without informing the school authority on the excuse that she was going to look for her father.
Ever since she was found, the proprietor said the school had had to keep her in a room, under tight surveillance, because she had vowed to run away to find her father.
He said, “The school is not even bothered by the cost of their upkeep. But anytime the school closed for holiday and parents come around to take their children home, Titilayo would fall into a sober mood and twice, she had run away from the hostel without informing anyone. It was a resident who stopped her and brought her back to the school.
Some of the teachers, who spoke withPUNCH Metroduring the visit, said the absence of the children’s parents was seriously affecting their studies. They said the appearance of their parents would boost their academic performance.
While recounting their days with their father, the children said he celebrated birthdays with them. They said they had never met their mother.
Titilayo said, “We do not know who our mother is. We grew up in Yaba, Lagos and all we remember is that there was a woman that washed our clothes and took care of us until we came here. We knew she was not our mother.”
Seyi, the youngest of the trio, however, was an exception as she kept a cheerful look during the visit. Seyi, who told our correspondent her dream was to become a medical doctor said, “Although I have a faint memory of my father, I will like to see him. If he comes today, I will ask him why he left us for so long.”
Seun added, “I don’t care how long he has left us. I just want to see him. I really need to see him.” WhenPUNCH Metrocalled Adepegba on Thursday, his phones were switched off.
Source: www.punchng.com/news/man-abandons-children-in-boarding-school-for-eight-years/


he is an idiot. Very heartless. Why the Bleep did he give birth to children he could not take care of? why? if tomorrow, one of them becomes Nigerian President he go dey show himself as their papa. Bastard
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Edusouls(m): 9:12am On Oct 21, 2014
Shuut up 4bobo, how old re you, u have not had life experience, u think life is easy, and u come here speaking english, brother life dosent end in speaking english, when u undastand that this life you live in is no man's place, unpredictable, cruel, tough, tormenting, unfair..and you re blaming the man that even made the move of at least keeping them where people will be with them, what do you have to say about their vry heartless and irresponsible mother that abandoned her family to their fate and dissapeared for good? You people should have the sense of justice..
4bobo:
You dont sound wise at all. I guess you are not a man yet , thats why you are sounding like this. True men dont abandon their responsibilty totally, no matter the condition they pass true. if you know you cant take their responsibilities, why bringing them to the world? to be sincere, if this happened in your family, will you say the same? i dont know how you people defend this man like this. For good 8 years? haba. There are many children that are doing well in public school which is very cheap by standard. So if you cant afford private school, then go to public school. it is not a crime. Using country's present state as an excuse dosent make sense to me.

Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 9:16am On Oct 21, 2014
adeoladrg:
Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!



nice write up,
Its good to see that our society still has reasonable people like you.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 9:17am On Oct 21, 2014
priscaoge:
shocked shocked shocked Can u imagine shocked Seriously some people don't deserve to be parents! How can you abandon your Kids for So long? How comfortable is he and the So called wife ? This is pure wickedness. I blame their mother more. After going through the excruciating pain of childbirth, you abandoned 3 beautiful most expensive gift from God for years? Jezzz people get heart I swear angry angry. Many people are childless and Seriously praying to have one yet those that were blessed with many can't even appreciate the gift. This is disheartening cry cry. I feel for the kids,they must have gone through a lot of emotional trauma angry angry

When I was in the boarding house, there was this man that was always forgetting the closing date. He would now beg the house master or house mistress to keep the child till he returns from his trip.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Tunagee(m): 9:19am On Oct 21, 2014
Edusouls:
Shut up all you, u think life is easy, do you know the hell the man is going through where ever he is now, do you think he is happy with what is happening, do u know what hell he had gone through in the hands of her vry baad wife, he even saved the childrens life by not abandoning them on to their fate, he at least made a very good move to put them in a school where he knows people will be on them, where is their irresponsible and vry heartless woman that abandoned both father and children and dissapeared for good, see some women re doom when they enter ur life you regret been even born into this life, she will unleash hell to everything close to you, and you re just few years aways from early grave. May God help that man, i know he loves his children but has nothing to care for the kids, but he made a very clever move, now he has saved this kids from long torment of life they would have gone through if he had abandoned them just like her doom wife, and God will also bless the school for their devoution and patience for 8years, it is not easy, most schools wont tolerate that..and finaly i pray that their father is still well and alive, after regaining his stand he should come and reunite with his kids.


women are known to be devils, anyway. I agree with you the father of the kids really tried, but at least, should pick his calls whenever the schools call his line. The children wants his attention, and he had better do it now before its too late. As for the mother, if truely she abandoned his three kids to go and marry another man for whatever excuse, she is doomed forever; and this still explains my point that women are devils and are heartless. Men that tolerate nonsense from women are trying. They are such useless beings.

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by ElekeNtioba: 9:20am On Oct 21, 2014
This is one place u see this pple applying 'sense'. Am sure he will show up to claim his children after another man has finished training dem. Useless pple!

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by priscaoge(f): 9:22am On Oct 21, 2014
adeoladrg:
Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!





Did u read the part that says some money was given to him from abroad for the upkeep of those Kids? Maybe u didn't! Abandoning those innocent kids in school for 8 whole years is WICKEDNESS! Those kids were little when their Mum abandoned them,trying to recover from that and their Dad did same! My dear the emotional torture is too much Please!

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Edusouls(m): 9:23am On Oct 21, 2014
Fool shut up ur smelling mouth, how old re you? U have not had life experiences, am sure u re still eating ur parents free food and housing, when u start to carter for ur self first, then u can talk, what about their mother that abandoned his own kids that she carried 9 months and dissapeared? U re here blaming their father that even made a move and saved their lives, if u re not up to certain age of reason u should not come here and talk senselessly..
Tunagee:



he is an idiot. Very heartless. Why the Bleep did he give birth to children he could not take care of? why? if tomorrow, one of them becomes Nigerian President he go dey show himself as their papa. Bastard
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Jinyjagz(m): 9:24am On Oct 21, 2014
adeoladrg:
Smh for you people oo!




He dropped them in school where he knew they'll get at least some care. Do you know what it means to be jobless in this country? And more as I presume, uneducated? If you do then you'd know better than saying trash because you have little bandwidth to express yourself on NL front page. The shoes of the father and the children are very sad shoes to be in, but calling the man wicked is to be HYPOCRITICAL!



Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by fapcrook(m): 9:25am On Oct 21, 2014
End time parents

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Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by priscaoge(f): 9:26am On Oct 21, 2014
Kachisbarbie:


When I was in the boarding house, there was this man that was always forgetting the closing date. He would now beg the house master or house mistress to keep the child till he returns from his trip.

Lol cheesy cheesy The man head don full i swear cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy But @ least he will beg someone to take care of them? It's better than abandoning them!

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