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brixton:



You are either lieing or fugly... Either ways I pray your village ancestors will just let rich and romantic guys notice your ministry.

Ting is yr bad manners will not let such guys come close to u

[quote author=jidestroud post=27413231]Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?
[/quote STH I LEARNT FROM MY EX, IS WEN D LUV OF YOUR LIFE WALKS AWAY, DONT CHASE IT, D MORE U PURSUE, D FURTHER IT GOES. IF SHE'S REALLY MEANT FOR U, SHE'LL BE BACK, IF NOT, HV IT IN MIND THAT SHE PAVED WAY 4A BETTER PERSON. BUT TRY N BE CAREFUL NEXT TIME, ITS NOT POSSIBLE FOR HER TO LEAVE WITHOUT YOU SEEING IT COMING, SIGNS R ALWAYS THERE, U WERE PROBABLY SO MCH ON LUV THAT U DIDN'T SEE IT COMING.

Stelvin101:
This guy you funny oo, people they leave cars, expensive Jewelry and even a well furnished apartment for there X, u wan collect fone back. Free it for her jorrr, after all when u dey fight Jet Li on top her she nor ask u to refund back her shaolin temple.

I left two things for ma X. Sets of Pants and Bra(s) I bought for her and all the bullshits I went thru for her

jet li Untop wetin? m sure this Nigger never see the honeypot talk more of touching it. I know him type . brother OP if you still get any atom of male hormones running through ya veins,rush that babe and finish her off in anyway possible. holla @me anytime you're ready to meet m.

Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

Oga 4get dt syde..All dis..."she will regret her action later,Na 4 Insyde NOLLYWOOD FILMS e dey happen,dt is what we re made to bilive by watchiong too many Nollywood films
If na Dangote pikin she go hook up with nko,i tell u she no go regret am,but regret say she neva leave d former r/ship TEY TEY

The babe have already broke up with u before her birthday, pls don't give a dam for any maturity. If the phone receipt still bear ur name just waka jeje and collect ur phone from her. 130 thousand is not a chicken change.

[size=16pt]@Op IMO I'll say collect your Phone back.
Let's see it this way, if she had a key to your apartment she would have dropped it or if her clothes were in your place she will/would come around and pack them....If your cloths were also in her wardrobe she will find a way to get them to you....So that nothing reminds her of you .....Op just one call schedule a meeting and take back what is urs it was a game all along [/size]

LOL!!!

I have never laughed this hard in my life.

Guy you need to calm down and carry your cross.

Truth be told, you behaved rather silly and this should serve as an eye opener for you and other mugus.

You should have seen the hand writing on the wall. Your ex requested for a gift she knows your salary cannot accommodate and you turned a blind eye to that huge red flag?

Gifts are not giving to be colected. If you go back to ask for the phone then I doubt very much your professed love for her.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

No more gifts giving sef. If she ask for 10k, give her 5h, tell her say make she manage am. I no just know hw some guys go dey spend for girls all because of toto When e b say d girls no like dm, not to talk of love sef. Some guys own mumu too much.

if i would be your sister i collect the phone from her and slap her
karma will do the rest

If i hear say the Op collect the phone back. The mumu go prefer say the biitch comes back to him rather than the phone. See advice like say una go point gun ontop Ops head to collect am back. Well na settlement for the banging u give am

2 things are involved. If you don't collect the phone, it will keep hurting u till you finish payment in the next 10 months. If you collect it, you will look like a loser. . . . .and if I were to be the new boyfriend, I will return the phone with the pack and get your ex an iPhone 6 or Note 4! so decode your faith and next time don't be caught unawares!

M sure those ones sayn d guy shud let go of d fone n act matured are kids. M sure u guys will never have the guts to light up 5000naira in flame. If u can do that den I won't oppose u telling the guy to be matured. If u can't burn ur own money in flames y do u want anoda person to burn his money on a sick fvck?

Krystalxxx:
Good good! Haven't you jilted some girls before and left them with nothing only to go back laughing with your buddies? Enjoy a taste of your own medicine. Guys should get a taste of what they give. Smart girl

Hm!
Last Bullet
You are claiming eye for an eye, it serves him right talks!
You v forgotten that the wages of sin is death. If not death, calamity. You didn't consider that the guy might not v cheated on a girl before. Innocent people do fall victims.
Your case dey heaven!

Hahaha
Sorry I had to laugh!

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

Guy go collect ur phone frm dat girl. And don't let her know u want to take it back, borrow it. In fact, she has been cheating on u with d guy so she has no regard 4 u, U better clap back.

You've already given it to her as a gift. Your pain should not be the gift but because you loved her and she could not reciprocate that love. Permit her to go and wish her well.

Tallesty1:
If they had dated much longer after he gave her the gift then I would advice him to forget.

But this one ended within 48hrs

Imagine.

. Exactly, I know its immature to collect bak gifts after break up, but dis one was too soon beko, it was selfish of her. If it was a sincere breakup she wuld av rejected it, knowin she was leavin him in a number of hrs. But sha in a relationship there are 2 sides to d story, mayb she also got him expensiv gifts in d past, who knows..?

Any normal human being would feel the way you feel but it was a gift so just do your best to let go.


It gets better, time is all it takes.

this is what I usually tell people, always define your relationship with the opposite sex.you took her as a gf and probably she took you as a maga or probably an ordinary friend.that girl is very very wicked.how come she didn't wait for a month before breaking up with you,which means she has been playing along juxt to get her birthday gift.sometimes I don't even blame guys that don't give their gf anything.dude you must be rich to have spent such money on her.I don't know how you will go about collecting that phone BUT YOU REALLY NEED TO COLLECT THE PHONE FROM HER.ANYWAY,ITS YOUR CHOICE SO DO WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND#### I dey vex now###

First of all, you are owing the cooperative. As long as that persist, when the payslip arrives and you see the deductions for payment for ''cooperative'' (the phone) you'll be pained! So, call her and get your phone back. Sell the phone, whatever its worth then remit the money back to the cooperative's purse. Secondly, the truth is you cant afford the phone! If you could you wouldnt opt to pay in 12 monthly installments. Thirdly, you're lucky its just a phone worth a few thousands, i have seen people who gave cars and the girls disappeared or ''broke up''-for want of a saner word. Next time dont push your self to prove any point. If you love someone let it be known to them via other means, not neccessarily materialistic. Many ladies today are simply superficial. Sorry bros. You'll find a better love. Goodluck.

Krystalxxx:


See this is how guys talk when they don't know anything. The first guy I met , he was handsome and rich and I was a virgin, I met him at my uni. I didn't want to be like all dese girls dat they say chop money so I NEVER asked him for anything. In addition after two years he still never bought me anything. After the two years we had sex he never bought me anything and he still tried to dump me. All dis tym I was extremely polite, almost called him sir most times.
You just keep quiet and stop saying what you don't know


The OP deserves what he got. I'm very happy here

My prob wit u is the arrogance u exhibit... I jokingly quoted u, u wrote back wit it "it's none of your business" and now you tell me to " just keep quiet and stop saying what you don't know"... Don't you know how to carry on a conversation without disrespecting the otha fela?

Krystalxxx:


See this is how guys talk when they don't know anything. The first guy I met , he was handsome and rich and I was a virgin, I met him at my uni. I didn't want to be like all dese girls dat they say chop money so I NEVER asked him for anything. In addition after two years he still never bought me anything. After the two years we had sex he never bought me anything and he still tried to dump me. All dis tym I was extremely polite, almost called him sir most times.
You just keep quiet and stop saying what you don't know


The OP deserves what he got. I'm very happy here

The Op decided to buy his X a fone on/for her birthday , you think he wouldn't have been buying cheap stuffs at least considering he had to do cooperative to buy her a fone this time.....I'm sorry about what you went through with your first love.....but not all guys are the same .....I swear....You should know now

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and of cos, no more phone giving

Thunder fire you if you no collect that phone.

See, I'm even ready to buy it from you at your cost price even as it has become used, please please please, collect it back even bleep her some more.

Tallesty1:
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.










I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She knew for sure that she would breakup with you yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

Seconded. Op collect the phone and resell it to clear the gbese. Rubbish

People jus let the "maturity" make dem fools

Tallesty1:
I'm certain that 90% of the likers of this comment would be people that collected big gifts from their partner and dumped them later.










I beg you in Gods name@OP. To jejely collect your phone if you can.

Someone who does not love you do not deserve your gift.

She knew for sure that she would breakup with you yet she collected it.

To hell with maturity.


Please use ur brain next time you wanna date.

:oDid she cast a spell on U/U don chop Efo arugbo(whoeva fit translate dis beta)b4 u parted with ur 'Samson'phone?Dnt go and disgrace urself cos of phone ooo,let her go cos she'll tell U IDI TI JE ooo(any English tisa here?)Believe that there's law of Karma,lif am for her,by the time her lucky jonhny chop/squeeze all her anatomy,she'll know that 'AYE GBEGE'.May God strengthen U to pay Up for the Fone/U wack Ur GARRI with EPA.IT IS WELL

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

Ishilove:

Seconded. Op collect the phone and resell it to clear the gbese. Rubbish

Ishilove, even you?

To whoever brain is given,sense is expected.

eminentme:
Pls just listen, my girlfriend said we shud stop dating if i cannot afford to let u know that thunder willl fire you.

bros i been no wan' comment, but your post got me rolling on the floor, infact....


1,000,000,000,000,000 likes

Well, anybody can sit in front of a screen watch other pple's lives and pass judgements, I mean its easier said than done. Besides, you should expect all kinds of advice from all kinds of people.
Am not going to tell you to either make fool of yourself and get the phone or lament for the next ten months, the question is:do you want to keep living your life like this for girls that are not your wife(s)?

In my own opinion, you should not give a gift that you are not up to (no offence meant) that's where using your head comes in (my apology) always live & give within your limit even if you are dying not to talk of just falling in love or are you Leonardo Dicaprio of Titanic

You are crying out loud cos she stole your phone, does it worth more than your heart stolen, am sure you'll never be fool again.

My candid advice to u bro,is to endure the pain for now but you will definitly get over it, then you can author a book on “story of love and betrayal”. Or organise tutorial for secondary school students on how to write “greatest lesson of my life” should it be part of the next essay of NECO GCEto regain your money. Men! U don turn pain to gain be that.

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

i know people will probably insult me for this but I don't give a fucckk...not that I have any to give though ...

i will collect my phone , you know why? Her story is a lie,
she used you just to get that phone, well I don't even care if the story is true

bro do the needful

modified...

how can I be in my right senses and buy a phone worth 130k for a girl ......

in tayo's voice...I'm I mad