Under no condition..
God hates divorce..

Divorce is nt allowed..
U can separate, Bt no one is allowed to marry again..

Separation is distinct frm divorce

inasmuch as God used marriage to show us what our relationship with Him is n should be, then we need to understand that since He (God) has not or does not cast us away irrespective of how we wrong Him everyday, then there is no reason for u to cast ur spouse away or dispose him or her off in case of inconvenience. there is no problem that is beyond solution, like someone said earlier that d problem is that most of those marriages r not founded on God, most people that call themselves Christians don't even know Him or hv d fear of God. if u r really a true child of God, if He is ur director then there is nothing His grace will not sufficiently provide for u to b able to stand at all times. ofcourse we all know that one cannot give what he/she doesn't hv. since God is love n d originator of marriage, then u need Him for ur marriage to succeed. if u want ur marriage to b successful;it will b, if u don't, nobody can help u cos d devil has vowed to destroy marriages cos he knows that any Godly marriage that succeeds will b a treat to hi kingdom because of agreement prayer n d Godly seeds they will raise as children. but wen he has succeeded in using u to truncate d little angels that would hv been a treat to him by making ur children traumatized by their parents separation then u hv a lot to answer before God. the bible said that if d foundation b destroyed, what can d righteous do. d problem marriages r facing today is a product of our wrong reasons of getting married n not been prepared or knowing what marriage entails before going in. just know that divorce is not an option before God, cos there is no problem He cannot solve but u r just telling Him he is incapable whereas u r d one who didn't invite or involve He that can make ur marriage work. again knowledge is very vital cos people perish for lack of knowledge. u need to study to show urself approved, read about marriage before entering n above all don't forget to always pray cos a little slumber n d one that has come to steal kill n destroy will take over.

angelTI:
Under no condition!

Remember it's till death do you part....

But it could be hard under some situations o

am sowwi 2 say this, but ur comment's unbelieveably naive.


@op, if u can no longer stand ur spouse then its beta 2 divorce instead of turning or being turned in2 a punching bag or worse!! E.O.D.

Elxandre:

Can you honestly forgive your wife 100% if you catch her red-handed with your friend?
What if you catch her a second time and a third time?

You will still care for her 100%?
Can you relate with her as if those things never happened even after a long time?

People keep saying A good Christian can't make mistakes in marriage, but it is pure fallacy.
Many Great Men of God have made errors.

My friend I am not married yet. There was a girl I dated till date she still after me cos she knew she goofed real time...few weeks into our rship she was guilty of the worst crime of a rship. I forgave her cos I realised I was even more into her. I treated her and never brought at any time cos I let go of it. She was more scared because I didn't react as a script would play out.

I strongly doubt the wife I will marry will do that...if such happens, don't think I will kill her...if I divorce I am not getting married. (Marriage na byforce self)?

Let me ask you, when such occur do you divorce your wife and then kill your friend? Is it worth it?

Jesus is my role model and not man of God. No real men of God would derail.


Are you the one that listen to people or do things to please others?

chingydaboss:
Under no condition..
God hates divorce..

Divorce is nt allowed..
U can separate, Bt no one is allowed to marry again..

Separation is distinct frm divorce

what is this one saying
"god hates divorce"? Na god some guys dey use do punching bag

Samabu07:


My friend I am not married yet. There was a girl I dated till date she still after me cos she knew she goofed real time...few weeks into our rship she was guilty of the worst crime of a rship. I forgave her cos I realised I was even more into her. I treated her and never brought at any time cos I let go of it. She was more scared because I didn't react as a script would play out.

I strongly doubt the wife I will marry will do that...if such happens, don't think I will kill her...if I divorce I am not getting married. (Marriage na byforce self)?

Let me ask you, when such occur do you divorce your wife and then kill your friend? Is it worth it?

Jesus is my role model and not man of God. No real men of God would derail.


Are you the one that listen to people or do things to please others?

You already sealed it with your claim that you won't remarry if that happens.

aisha2:
The Bible I realise has really beem twisted over the years
God was more concerned about adulterous men than the act of divorce itself but over the years the same adulterous men have de emphasised the adultery part and blackmailed women into staying in misery with adulterous men.

God spoke 5 chapters condemning adultery and unfaithfulness yet they never preach that. Hence people read the bible for yourselves

Beautiful

Happy Sunday

If one is truly a child of God, there is no divorce in the book of God and
more over God will be in their marriage, and once there is God there is
everything but since many people don't put God first their marriages
runs into problem and they resulted into divorce

Wat of a case whereby the husband didnt tell his wife dat he is impotent b4 getting married.it was after d wedding dat the wife discovered his predicament(which was afta 5months of marriage)dat was because d husband was always organising fast&prayers(,and u know it isnt a good idea to do dat tin during dat period).........so wud u say d wife shud remain in the marriage,knowing fully well dat she is not going to have intimacy wit her husband till death do dem part?

mencade5:
90% of christian marriages are shameful in the sight of God. A big disgrace.

God is never present in almost all weddings conducted in churches these days.

Reasons are double standard by the pastors. Instead of preaching abstinence they encouraged a fornicationalized relationship and joining them together in marriage.

Most of the ladies getting married are either 3 weeks, 1 month, or 4 months pregnants. Having the odacity to stand before a holy God is pure nonsense.

If God was their to bless them at all, he would have used a big thunder to strike these couples.

Lets stop deceiving ourselves all in the name of marriage. Divorce is rampant these days in christedom even the so called pastoprenuer are not left out.

Divorce will continue. Let people keep deceiving themselves. God does not attend saturday wedding these days. Quote me anywhere.

He hates adultery, he hates fornication, he hates murder ''abortion''.

Tell me most of these couples dont do this. Even the week of their wedding they still display this fornicating traits going round to sleep with the so called love of their lives for the last time before saying i do.

The world system has entered the church and its a big shame. Divorce will never stop after all when a man is impotent they woman will pack her property and run, later divorce follow.

When a woman cannot conceive, the man sends her away to get another woman.

Are these ones christians? They are all eye sores in the sight of God.

hmm, bros so na u holy pass U wan tell me say u never chop woman punny Piety no go kill us 4 dis country...


Anyway...

holyboss:
Why d hell do people marry In d first place with all dis surrounding it

Few of the Disadvantages of Marriage

>Fidelity is not a natural state for human beings, especially when they are young adults and their sex drive is at its strongest. Most married sex lives fade over time, which can lead to affairs and other forms of infidelity, such as the use of prostitutes, even in the most well-intentioned people.

>Many couples get stuck in a rut, repeating the same arguments over and over. The key differences in their personalities never go away. Petty problems, irritating habits, become magnified over time.

>Marriage restricts the freedom of individual. Single people can happily live their lives pretty much as they please without having to be concerned with the needs or wishes of others.

>Marriage means that couples have to deal with their partner’s family, which can be a source of problems and conflict.

>Getting married can add lots of extra bureaucracy and red tape to a relationship, especially when the wife changes her name and official documents such as social security, driving licenses have to be changed.


#TeamMarriageIsFraud ---- #BeingAPlayerRockBetter


Quote me to say rubbish nd I will dedicate Deuteronomy curse to u
Nd if u r a muslim don't forget Tanatiada is dir


*Over and Out

you get time to dey type epistle

simplemach:
Ok, lemme give u the condition as stated out by a Rev. Father in a wedding i once attended in kaduna.
The Rev. Father said, yes, u can divorce but with this condition. That u will gather thesame exact crowd that witnessed the wedding (nobody should be absent) seated before thesame priest who joined the couple. Then the divorce procedures can commence.

any bible verse to support that?

simplemach:
Ok, lemme give u the condition as stated out by a Rev. Father in a wedding i once attended in kaduna.
The Rev. Father said, yes, u can divorce but with this condition. That u will gather thesame exact crowd that witnessed the wedding (nobody should be absent) seated before thesame priest who joined the couple. Then the divorce procedures can commence.

...gather the exact crowd to where...and seated before the same priest? Is the church that will commence the divorce process? this is a dulling arrangement of the highest order.


ved in the divorce process ?

Mhizdimplez:
adultery commited by the other party.........Matthew 5:32

mhizdimples ni?? Where is dechandel Someone wants 2 take ur crown o
#MISSsexiestDIMPLES

'What God has joined together let no man put asunder'.
'For the Lord ur God hate divorce'.
'And I say unto u, Whosoever shal put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery' (Math. 19 vs 9)

Separation could be a better option than divorce. May God help our homes in Jesus name

FreddywellsNGN:


...gather the exact crowd to where...and seated before the same priest? Is the church that will commence the divorce process? this is a dulling arrangement of the highest order.


ved in the divorce process ?

methinks he was being sarcastic bro

franugo:


hmm, bros so na u holy pass U wan tell me say u never chop woman punny Piety no go kill us 4 dis country...


Anyway...

who is talking about piety.....it is message like this that nigerians hate to hear. Am not a pastor mr man. No one is perfect but what stops us from doing the right thing instead of this shameful acts.

No wonder corruption continues to cripple this nation due to the fact that people hate to hear you say the truth to them.

honeric01:


I hope you saw the headline? it's talking about a christian, infact a "born again" christian.

Who is a "born again" Christian"? Should a "born again" Christian be a "punching bag"?

Zakkyoz:
Use your instinct. Quit when you are fed up. Marriage is designed to be enjoyed and not endured.

Well sad. Divorce I keep iterating is the best thing that happened to the institution of marriage (a paradox I know, but it is what it is).

simplemach:
Ok, lemme give u the condition as stated out by a Rev. Father in a wedding i once attended in kaduna.
The Rev. Father said, yes, u can divorce but with this condition. That u will gather thesame exact crowd that witnessed the wedding (nobody should be absent) seated before thesame priest who joined the couple. Then the divorce procedures can commence.

smiling...come o...with all that crowd in attendance,chopping and flexing go dey?

freecocoa:
You are the one getting it wrong, I need you to understand that people can become what they never were or thought they'd be, there are factors that can contribute to that.

So tell me, those hardened criminals that later became pastors/preachers, the good girl that became a wh*re, the christian that became an atheist, the atheist that became a christian, etc?

These are divine interventions.. They were visited by a force (spiritual) that overpowered their weaknesses which was possible because they themselves wanted to be saved by God himself. Your comparison is not applicable in this issue.

Now can you compare this kind of change to that of a man or woman pretending to be mild only to show their true colors when they achieve their aim?

Can you become an armed robber? To become an armed robber is an after thought, it didn't happen overnight, it must have been formulated in your mind, debated and discussed in your spirit you before a stand to be a criminal is achieved.

Lastly on this.. I repeat, no one changes overnight, what you are today was as a result of multiple things you did, didn't do, acted on or didn't act on yesterday.. You're only manifesting the you of yesterday today.

Elxandre:

You already sealed it with your claim that you won't remarry if that happens.

Abobi stop to dey bring words out of my mouth...I am not your conscience. Do what you feel is right and take full responsibility of it afterwards!

Guess you weren't interested to hear that a girl I loved and dated cheated on several times...it was when It was clear she wasn't interested I left the rship....up to this very moment she wished we were back. All this while I stayed faithful. I didn't straff any hole not that I didn't have the opportunity. That's just me.

Marriage is critical before you divorce think and analyse carefully. You are in the shit not any one else.

4C2215131:


Well sad. Divorce I keep iterating is the best thing that happened to the institution of marriage (a paradox I know, but it is what it is).

I want to believe what you just said about divorce, but, I just can't!

Why do a lot of people nowadays end up twice, thrice or even four times divorced?

Cue in some sick excuses for homo sapiens we now call "celebrities" as a case in point. What is glamorous about J.Lo marrying Nick Cannon as hubby no (?)

By the way, anyone who calls himself a Christian should live by the Word of God, or he/she quits Christianity. Please remember to look at the topic again.

franugo:


methinks he was being sarcastic bro

i guess so too bro. happy sunday

boolet:

Who is a "born again" Christian"? Should a "born again" Christian be a "punching bag"?

There is nothing like a born again Christian, it's just a word conned out by those who are struggling to stand out as a christian in the midst of other "Christians" and non Christians at large.

Divorce came as a result of lack of spiritual consciousness, before gettin married it is very important for one to go the oracle n deities to consult if such person wil b compatible wit him or not, d moment dis is done I don't tink d issues of divorce can come in...pastor has no spiritual eyes to see this, because et they r not spiritually conscious....I wil urge Nigerian, African to go back to our culture because African is more Holy n Potent than religion

Dammyjohn:

Somebody tell me how this is possible,to devorce your wife by gathering the same exact crowd that witnessed the wedding and get them seated before the the same priest who joined the couple together?

Well, that is to tell u how 'almost impossible' it is in the Universal church.

Under no condition, a Christian must forgive 77*77 times thus says the Lord.

honeric01:


There is nothing like a born again Christian, it's just a word conned out by those who are struggling to stand out as a christian in the midst of other "Christians" and non Christians at large.

Sir, you gotta Bible, right?

Read John Chapter 3 Verse 3.

I may agree with you, though.

"Born Again Christian" as a term is what I like to call
an "Expedient Anomaly"

simplemach:
Ok, lemme give u the condition as stated out by a Rev. Father in a wedding i once attended in kaduna.
The Rev. Father said, yes, u can divorce but with this condition. That u will gather thesame exact crowd that witnessed the wedding (nobody should be absent) seated before thesame priest who joined the couple. Then the divorce procedures can commence.

wetin be the man evidence?

kittykat1:


In this case it will be an annulment not divorce cos she deceived the man into marrying her.

Say things you know or what the bible teaches. Can u substantiate this from the bible? Is it not adultery and death that annuls a marriage? So where does the bible teach what u just said?

synergycom19:

please tell us which verses

Read the whole of Malachi chapter 2