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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Greyworld: 7:50am On Nov 28, 2014
2 d. Op: yu did wrong, enuf injustice 2 dat dude 2 make him seek revenge bt tnk God yu av accepted yur faults nd begged 4 forgiveness, so yu are forgiven.



2 yu MR EX: We knw she has seriously wounded yur ego n pride as a man but yu just av 2 let go. Just knw dat "In lyf yu don't get to choose if yu get hurt but yu sure av a say in WHO hurts yu" yu may yur choices ok?

Vengance places yu equal wif a man while forgiveness places yu ahead.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Samfigo1(m): 7:56am On Nov 28, 2014
Peaceemerald:


I dnt blame u, i probably deserve d insult
Thank God you knw...
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by 100Cents: 8:00am On Nov 28, 2014
Diffdeef:
Nonsense! What your ex did was wrong!

recording the whole sex scene??

[size=14] Infact,I personally want to see that video........!! [/size]





What nonsense!
Guys can be so heartless.

Okay..
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 8:00am On Nov 28, 2014
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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by taryour(f): 8:06am On Nov 28, 2014
F117AA:
okay maybe you are right.
I will probably not sue,but that video must proliferate the entire cyberspace.
What i will just do is to leave that area as soon as possible.

Now this is really funny you know, running away wunt wipe you out of the surface of earth na. You can always be found.

But really on a more serious note,am directing this question at you. If this where to happen to your elder or younger sis,what would be your reaction. Be very sincere.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by walearoy(m): 8:07am On Nov 28, 2014
modelmike7:
This is a very serious issue! I really feel your pain girl, I won't like to start castigating you for the heinous act you commited by cheating on your guy, I will only like to comment on the solution to your predicament, the only thing you can do is to keep begging him and let him know how so sorry you are, (tho I know how I will feel assuming it is a girl that did that to me anyway), tho assuming he even let u know he has deleted all, what is the assurance that he hasn't transfer it to another medium while making you believe he doesn't have it anymore? It is a very dicey situation you have put yourself into girl. I just pray he is the forgiving type, if not, I really feel for you for the consequence of your unfaithful act. I pray he forgives you and let you move on with your life, cos if not, I know some very crude actions some other girls will take to cover up this kinda act, it could actually take lives, which I don't pray this escalate to! So just keep begging him so he can have a change of heart!!! Some holes aren't just loyal!!!

Its simple!
Prepare for the worse (ur ex posting the video on social network)
And let him know you are ready to get legal with him!
Inform a lady lawyer to write to him so he knows you mean business.

Pls note
The earlier he deletes it the better for you cos once another eyes beholds it, it would go viral!

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 8:09am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:



Lol u tink its everyone d police can just arrest and toture? Wat if dey find nothing on him? Or u tink he is so dumb? Judt let naughty lady pay 4 her sins jhor




Peaceemerald:




Im not going to d police please, I'm begging



what else do u want her to do than beg u bros? guy soften your heart, and forgive her!

pls delete those pictures n videos!

God bless u

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by taryour(f): 8:10am On Nov 28, 2014
walearoy:


Its simple!
Prepare for the worse (ur ex posting the video on social network)
And let him know you are ready to get legal with him!
Inform a lady lawyer to write to him so he knows you mean business.

Pls note
The earlier he deletes it the better for you cos once another eyes beholds it, it would go viral!


GOD will bless you and butter your bread. Now that's someone being realistic.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 8:11am On Nov 28, 2014
On a second thought, this ish is bad.
The guy should forgive the naive babe and delete that video.
*imagine this happening to any of my beautiful sisters.
I would go berserk.*
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by taryour(f): 8:13am On Nov 28, 2014
F117AA:
On a second thought, this ish is bad.
The guy should forgive the naive babe and delete that video.
*imagine this happening to any of my beautiful sisters.
I would go berserk.*


Now you seeing from a clearer view.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by walearoy(m): 8:16am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:



Lol u tink its everyone d police can just arrest and toture? Wat if dey find nothing on him? Or u tink he is so dumb? Judt let naughty lady pay 4 her sins jhor

I feel you are the guy in question.
I don't know you or the lady but I'm appealing on her behalf.
The psychological trauma is sufficient punishment for her already and I'm sure she won't try it anymore (else she's the devils herself)

Forgive and don't forget bro
But pls delete the clip its not good for both of you.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Dexema(m): 8:20am On Nov 28, 2014
The guy has done something evil but why do I have a feeling this girl deserves to be tormented,in life there always has to be a scapegoat to serve as a lesson for BAD deeds.
FOR THE LADY
Approach the dudes friend with either your pastor or a respected elderly person and have a face to face conversation with the guy and iron matters out,you cud hav a recording of such meeting for future purposes,I'm sure behind the hurt there is
A logical man.

FOR THE guy
Releasing the video won't be only unciviised behavior but also barbaric.try to forgive her and pls delete ALL the pix and videos as secrets find their way into the open later,her merely seeing you after this incident wud giv her high BP cos she dosent know if you stil hav them that is enough eternal punishment for her.
For all those suggesting brute force,fire and brimstone,obviously you don't know how the law works,make the guy get beta lawyer he wud not only release the video and get away with it he might even sue the OP.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 8:21am On Nov 28, 2014
taryour:



Now you seeing from a clearer view.
I was just trying to play the 'devil's advocate'.
Blackmailing a lady with her nude videos is something i will never do.
It's bad,cheap and illegal.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by 100Cents: 8:28am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:



Lol u tink its everyone d police can just arrest and toture? Wat if dey find nothing on him? Or u tink he is so dumb? Judt let naughty lady pay 4 her sins jhor

Guy, forgive and forget her.

She is plain silly or stu..pid.

Some ladies are just not faithful. I have seen such confused lady. But she will still come back to your bed asking you to take her back when karma visits her in her next relationship.

Since you just wanna blackmail her for more sex. Don't allow any other person see the videos and don't hurt her physically..

But forgetting her is your best option..
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by emperorchedda(m): 8:35am On Nov 28, 2014
taryour:



Has much I did like to agree with you but on a second thought, begging will make this guy feel like a god. If he agrees now and let go what happens in the nearest future if another lady huts him and has no one to plead on a her behalf.

Please let's be very realistic.what the guy did is devilish,put the op in your sister or your female relative shoes!!! Will you as an elder brother keep begging him For how long

Will he be the first guy to be cheated on?? Hell no. Will he be the last guy to be cheated on?? NO

For heaven sake this guy needs to be taught a lesson. The stup1d guy will sure go haywire if same was done to his sister.

This is so annoying. This guy needs to have an idea of how a prison looks. Very very wicked soul.
ahhhhh you don't know how the law works.
If care isn't taken the guy will release the videos and still sue her all he needs to do is get a good lawyer and he has all right to share whatever in his phone he recorded. He can still release the video and claim the girl was the one who released it in order to blackmail him thereby turning the case against her. My dear you need to learn more, this case can't be won by threatening the guy especially if he is an educated lad who knows his right....

@ 'the dude' hmmm, you have all the right to this

But then again, she's just a hoe and you need to distance yourself from her, just delete this thing and let the b1tch keep fucckking around..you deserve better

I pity her new guy though, she's gonna cheat the hell outta him

Please I beg you bro! Check your mail

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by taryour(f): 8:36am On Nov 28, 2014
tkyl:




madam, (no insults intended)! i suggest you quit posting comments here! reasonable n peace keeping guys have been trying to resolve this issue n all you have been doing is pour more petrol to the burning fire!

these your comments are so harsh and trust me, you are worsening issues!

theplanmaker, bros abeg listen to all our pleas! we no say she Bleep up, but pls forgive her! be the hero...... delete those pictures and videos! God bless u as u do! God go give u correct faithful n loyal babe!



Yea right, reasonable and peace keeping guys indeed!!!

The longer you stay on here begging this wicked guy the more people he shows those pictures and videos to. Who know how many people he has shown it to already.


Now am directing this same question at you. If this were to happen to your elder or younger sister,what will be your reaction

Will you just sit back and relax waiting for reasonable and peace setting guys to keep begging While your sisters image and future is been tarnished


What exactly has she don sef to warrant such cruelty on her person.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by taryour(f): 8:40am On Nov 28, 2014
emperorchedda:
ahhhhh you don't know how the law works.
If care isn't taken the guy will release the videos and still sue her all he needs to do is get a good lawyer and he has all right to share whatever in his phone he recorded. He can still release the video and claim the girl was the one who released it in order to blackmail him thereby turning the case against her. My dear you need to learn more, this case can't be won by threatening the guy especially if he is an educated lad who knows his right....

@ 'the dude' hmmm, you have all the right to this

But then again, she's just a hoe and you need to distance yourself from her, just delete this thing and let the b1tch keep fucckking around..you deserve better

I pity her new guy though, she's gonna cheat the hell outta him

Please I beg you bro! Check your mail



" An educated lad who knows his rights"

As you put it, so an educated lad who knows his right also has rights to do what he did abi

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by walearoy(m): 8:43am On Nov 28, 2014
grin

taryour:


GOD will bless you and butter your bread. Now that's someone being realistic.
cheesy
taryour:


GOD will bless you and butter your bread. Now that's someone being realistic.

Have anybody noticed!
The OP stopped commenting

OP If you just put up ds story nd it did not happen, thunder go fire you!

Ladies!
Pls stop cheating, and if you have to BE SMART at it!
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by rago(m): 8:48am On Nov 28, 2014
modelmike7:
This is a very serious issue! I really feel your pain girl, I won't like to start castigating you for the heinous act you commited by cheating on your guy, I will only like to comment on the solution to your predicament, the only thing you can do is to keep begging him and let him know how so sorry you are, (tho I know how I will feel assuming it is a girl that did that to me anyway), tho assuming he even let u know he has deleted all, what is the assurance that he hasn't transfer it to another medium while making you believe he doesn't have it anymore? It is a very dicey situation you have put yourself into girl. I just pray he is the forgiving type, if not, I really feel for you for the consequence of your unfaithful act. I pray he forgives you and let you move on with your life, cos if not, I know some very crude actions some other girls will take to cover up this kinda act, it could actually take lives, which I don't pray this escalate to! So just keep begging him so he can have a change of heart!!! Some holes aren't just loyal!!!

my man, nice advice u got up there 4 d silly babe. wat she did was terrible. no sane man wud ever 4give her and erase that video. m telling u. m a guy of few words. pls i cant explain at great length..she shud move on. she is a slut. and so she deserved it!

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by theplanmaker: 8:49am On Nov 28, 2014
taryour:
@ op. Honestly I don't want to believe this your story is for real, but if its real then you are not smart at all. Hold on a minute,how old are you? Where are your parents? Do you have elder sisters,brothers,uncles and aunties? Cause really if you were to be a relative of mine I would give a very dirty hot slap first for not being wise.

How long are you going to beg for Is he your god Is he married to you or obligated to you in any way

YES you dint wrong by cheating on in while you where dating which is VERY VERY WRONG,you apologised to him and he forgave you. You said yourself that he deserved a better person than you are which means you totally know your flaws,so you left it cause your conscience wouldn't let you rest.

Now isn't it better you left than stay and he being a second fiddle You going back to him to have s3x with him makes you even less smarter than I thought.

Now the deed is done and he has your nUde pictures and a video of you having s3x. Wake up girl and take the bull by the horn. What the hell is all that? That guy must be so stup1d and a weakling, he is a big F00L.

Get up girl and regain your dignity!!! That is to personal,he has no right whatsoever on this earth to have such in his hands no matter what you have done wrong either you are married to him or not.

Stop begging him abeg, you making him feel what he did is right. Here is what to do.

Bear the shame and report the incidence to your parents, go with soldiers to his parents house and give then strict warning,if possible HE or his PARENTS to should write an understatement, For no reason whatsoever should your nude pictures and videos bee seen anywhere, not only on social media but also any other phone except his. If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.

Not just that alone o, if anything as liitle as an insect bite comes your way as vengance from his side,either he double crosses you or send friends or touts to hit you then he is in a deep sh11t.

You need to be very serious about this o, this souldnt be a treat but a strict warning cause this can tarnish your future and your image. GO with soldiers. Nothing should happen to you, not even a mosquito bite.

Quit the begging abeg, you cheated on him so!! He isn't your hubby yet oo,and do you know what he has also done

WTH that guy must be so silly in his brain and you are so DuMb to have go meet him to have sEx again after breaking up.

Arrant nonsense.




Honey you are just assuming that he is someone who can be pushed around.... Lol, there iz something called 'law' it is a tricky thing, but some people are trained in the act of wielding it. Soldier ko soldier ni

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by amhackdee(m): 9:01am On Nov 28, 2014
@Theplanmaker
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Bro you just have to delete the stuffs, though you may intend not deleting them, that you just want to keep them with you, but what if it leak out? Hmmmmmmmmmm. The best solution now is for you to delete it, you have thought this girl a big lesson, common bro, we gat a lot of fishes in the river, let her go and move on abeeeeggggg
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She will never forget you with these you have done, that is even enough, now she know that you are a real man, habaa!!!! So what more? Mtchhheewww bro abeg delete the stuffs and empty your recycle bin.
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Life is just to short, she might turn to be the one to later help you in matters of your destiny and what if you ended marrying her? You wana chase away the bone of your bone, the flesh of your flesh, the blood of your blood with these silly videos and pictures? Habaaaaa!!!!! Free her jhoooooooooooooooooooooooooooorrRRrRRRR, abegiiiii

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Pes13: 9:03am On Nov 28, 2014
I find it really difficult 2 believe dis

But if dis is true, there are only 2 consequence involve

its either d guy keep demanding 4 CONGI day and night

or

keep Giving d babe psycological headache..

And 2 those advising d babe 2 take a brutal force, u ar all kidding right ? People can be xo funny, enough said.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 9:06am On Nov 28, 2014
SeverusSnape:

Simple!...go to a police station,report him to them and give them his address, they'll go there without you, arrest him, bring him to the station, interrogate him;if necessary torture him,believe you me, He'll surrender everything, I trust the NPF on this one.
well you have no evidence to call the cops at him cunt..What you gonna tell em?that he has your nude? and when they ask him,he denies and even shows you his phone,besides you ain't dating lol..so don't tell em to call the cops dude
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by kellyJames5(m): 9:06am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:





Honey you are just assuming that he is someone who can be pushed around.... Lol, there iz something called 'law' it is a tricky thing, but some people are trained in the act of wielding it. Soldier ko soldier ni

Guy cool down,you hear?
Just forgive her,what she did was wrong we all know,but putting her through such trauma is way too much punishment you know!
So,just do it,I know its hard but you can and just have to do it,you hear!
Just try! Be a man and let it go bro!
God bless you as you do so!.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 28, 2014
[url=56hdehydyyd..com]WATCH THE VIDEO HERE[/url]
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by emperorchedda(m): 9:08am On Nov 28, 2014
taryour:




" An educated lad who knows his rights"

As you put it, so an educated lad who knows his right also has rights to do what he did abi


yes!
No soldier has the right to intimidate an individual to delete a ghost file.

No police can torture an unarmed individual to force him give up a file without evidence.

A lawyer will sort this out with our guy, no one can intimidate him, he has done NO OFFENCE

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by nofij(m): 9:08am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:





Honey you are just assuming that he is someone who can be pushed around.... Lol, there iz something called 'law' it is a tricky thing, but some people are trained in the act of wielding it. Soldier ko soldier ni
Baba abeg forget that taryour girl. She is still a baby. Just do what is right not because your ex deserves it but because you know it is right.
Nairaland pleads with you sir.

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by Sunkyphil(m): 9:10am On Nov 28, 2014
[size=18pt]lemme c d video first or ...........[/size]
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by FKBZ: 9:11am On Nov 28, 2014
rago:


my man, nice advice u got up there 4 d silly babe. wat she did was terrible. no sane man wud ever 4give her and erase that video. m telling u. m a guy of few words. pls i cant explain at great length..she shud move on. she is a slut. and so she deserved it!
Kindly delete the video.... Pls.
Before it spreads like wide fire.
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by FKBZ: 9:12am On Nov 28, 2014
Khakhiopen:

[url=56hdehydyyd..com]WATCH THE VIDEO HERE[/url]

Lol u no well
Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by thorbar(m): 9:14am On Nov 28, 2014
adepiero:
Be happy! that was how Kim Kardashian got popular grin
.....U̶̲̥̅̊ can become popular dis way...trust me

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Re: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by nairaman66(m): 9:15am On Nov 28, 2014
Peaceemerald:



Bros i thought of d police option, wat if he saves dem somwere nd delete it frm his fone? Bside if i arrest him, pepo ll ask wat hapnd, dstory will spread.

When he posts the video online.., the story will SPREAD for sure.. Pick your options lover girl.. cool

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