GoodGirl2:
Yes. That tone says it all.

lol....ur opinion tho

muh4lyf:
Most em wanted hummer,when it's becoming too late they'd be looking for any man... Guy boku outside only that they'v gat no dou and em ladies don't want to date or marry a broke guy... So stay single till em niggaz become rich... You go wait till jesus come.... LMAO

Seriously, harsh economy as experienced by guys in naija is the bane behind lack of marriages. So many young men of marriageable age cant do so due to harsh economy. Many factors sha contribute to it of which i cant exercise out time now to detail on them. Men dey, but those ready financially to marry be d wahala.

All of you should leave my baby jor
Chiamaka01, don't mind them oh. They won't understand the fact that we are betrothed already

*rolls to France*

lastchild:
you said any woman who is determined to get a husband will get one? How can one do that because their are many women willing to learn from you

Phew, I've been looking for you all over the place. I need your help to get rid of my spiritual husband, his name is Yazuma. He is very tall and muscular and handsome.
Wha do I do?

Blackchampion:
Stop ranting honey. It was just an advice.

Not bad if you take it somewhere else, right?

go gay

kwenu:
Ohh my GOD This story really made me laugh, and i get to wonder when women say theres no husband for them, this statement makes men feel very important. but to be honest i think ladies are to blame in these issue,
Sometimes u need to see the kinda hatred most women have for men who are not a husband matirial for them, it scares real and serious suitors for marriage.

this is my own honest advice

bro @ bolded very very correct... dunno why these ladies hate these guys. their hatred could even make them eliminate potential suitors that are broke at the moment always hissing as they walk down the street, throwing away their faces, some even do it to their brothers, cousins and nephew. you will find the married ones advicing the single ones against dating such men (whether out of jealousy or envy). sometimes i wonder what men these women want the singles to marry if not the single counterparts, maybe they want the singles to marry their husband. the number of rich single men compared to rich married men is getting smaller and smaller every passing day so long as Nigeria is concerned. if such men eventually makes it big tell me why they will not be heartless!

Chiamaka01:


God forbid, i'll live a long, happy, fulfilled life with my kids, grandkids and great grand kids surrounding my table.

Now, about that statement, must a human being marry? Is it a criterion for heaven?

If your mother didn't marry your father, I wonder how little you would have been born!

Well, it's not a must you marry. It's one's personal choice. But if u chose nt to, don't mock or insult others who chose and wished to marry! There are certain blessings that come with marriage.

It's obvious u're still a teenager. So I understand why u see things the way u see things. By the time u clock 40, and u see ur friends having fun with their hubbies and adorable kids at social events, I'm sure u'll be full of regret! Then u'll take to badoo, and make the same statement that lady made!

You better change ur mindset while ur mind is still mendable!

I know one of those women problem is that maybe they are feeling pompous to speak their mind out to the guy dey love as thing get out of hand for them .......
pls and pls make dem woo us(men) also and dem go know how it pain us when they are forming hard to get or embarrass us

The reason is because guys don't really have all the time in life to study Ladies manual

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

How old are you ?

fellis:

Phew, I've been looking for you all over the place. I need your help to get rid of my spiritual husband, his name is Yazuma. He is very tall and muscular and handsome.
Wha do I do?

Lol.. Am not a pastor,visit mfm

lastchild:
Lol.. Am not a pastor,visit mfm

Thanks!!!

Sophyrocks:
And by the way, the men coming up with the 'When they were young, they played hard to get line", are you trying to say all of you here dnt have girlfriends and girls have been rejecting all of you? while you men are/were young and in school, what were you using your girlfriends to do? why una no marry them? Na una dey cause all these chaos o. are you all ready to marry?

economy no good and with these politicians and co e no go ever good. So na for ladies to tag themselves to the moneybags and collect bs, remain single like broke guys, most single pple get sex so that is fine but some married women pocket some remaining single guys. The guys no get cash sha. Some single ladies don't want to start with not-rich guys. The cycle is crazy...women suffer the most.

Sophyrocks:
This is an old thread na. Who resurrected this thread? this is old news.

By the way, how many of the men are ready to marry sef when some of them all wanna be single for life and bed all females? we see a lot of threads here with some men telling us they dnt wanna marry. Some are not financially buoyant. So? Please dnt blame these females too much. the society has taught them that they cant breathe without marriage and they are nothing without marriage. The more they push this belief down their throats, the more they become dumb and dependent. many will see marriage to gateway of riches or a means to an end or even use jazz in the process since they have been trained to have it in mind 24/7. No goals, no achievements, no sense of independence or ability to think for themselves. The society has molded women to be the way they are. Society pushing them to marry at all costs while the men are running away from desperation all over the place. O pari! Why wont there be chaos? Well, let the ladies look inwards, examine their lives and stop giving boyfriends benefits reserved for husbands only.

By the way, men are not scarce o. Any man can be a husband. I no dey see the scarcity o. Every i go i see them o. Na good husbands dey scarce and na Only God dey give that one.

The problem won't go away...in short it is spiraling out of control.

The problem with most or all unmarried women is simple.THEY ATE THEIR TOMORROW...TODAY,NOW THAT TODAY IS HERE....THEY ARE LEFT WITH NOTHING.Nature follows laid down rules.

ferdimako:

economy no good and with these politicians and co e no go ever good. So na for ladies to tag themselves to the moneybags and collect bs, remain single like broke guys, most single pple get sex so that is fine but some married women pocket some remaining single guys. The guys no get cash sha. Some single ladies don't want to start with not-rich guys. The cycle is crazy...women suffer the most.

The guys wey dey broke wey even dey lucky to get better girlfriend help them from scratch, why them no dey marry these same girls? you never reason that one? You people are not ready for love, the girls then go for rich guys/sugar daddies. When una go ever ready? that is my question. Even the guys wey dey rich no wan marry. they wanna bed all the females on earth first till their blokos shrink and muscles shrink at 50. Why?

Singleeooooooo

This scarcity no be small thing sha

Chiamaka01:


Eyaah!

Why is it that you cant even quote properly?

Seems sophyrocks is one of them ladies seriously and desperately in need of a husband. I can use my connection give you one sha.

RedBenson:
Seems sophyrocks is one of them ladies seriously and desperately in need of a husband. I can use my connection give you one sha.

How do you know that? By the way, why are you not yet married?

Euroclydon:


http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2013/09/06/nigerian-ladies-worry-over-scarcity-of-men/

What baffles me most is that an average lady would rather prefer a Prince to approach her meanwhile she is not even a Princess, yet she will be claiming hard to get.

Na serious matter o,i tink its just d economy...the uncertainty surrounding "marriage" is jus too high.God bless our hustle.

I hope the scarcity of men we reduce the rate of their forming hard to get yet some will not

englishmart:
men are not scarce. At my age, I have about 6girlfriends +10crushes and many crushees!

But I have about 8 more years before I start thinking about getting married

keep talking, keep deceiving yourself mtschewwww

Who are these people saying there's scarcity of men?

Sophyrocks:


How do you know that? By the way, why are you not yet married?

This is it! If not that Jesus had to have mercy on the sick man, the sick man wouldnt have received healing when He asked the sick man what he could do for him, and rather than answering directly he needed healing, he started beating around the bush. Obviously, you're one of the ladies facing this problem and perhaps the reason of your being on NL and i just made it known i could help you strike something, rather than indicating optimum interest and grab the opportunity, you are asking me why i havent married and how did i know. Are you interested or not?

Sophyrocks:


The guys wey dey broke wey even dey lucky to get better girlfriend help them from scratch, why them no dey marry these same girls? you never reason that one? You people are not ready for love, the girls then go for rich guys/sugar daddies. When una go ever ready? that is my question. Even the guys wey dey rich no wan marry. they wanna bed all the females on earth first till their blokos shrink and muscles shrink at 50. Why?

yea.. you can do sugar dad runs...but na them still dey find a man of their own now. I know say some guys without proper pay no say them ladies go free them once a rich fella shows up or go dey go kpansh for cash ...so how u wan pop d question? To see a girl wey go support ur mission no easy...all go dey claim engaged...who come dey single? I be wan try see who go tag with me make we run stuff..no show. Na to carry my cross alone...maybe get one kid...don't ask me how. Whether my dicck shrink or muscles tear and wear mean nothing compared with when u marry who no wan see reality. seeing it only wen aging don show..may hav placed d poor guys on another level...u know younger chicks dey spring up every day. So issues dey!

dechandel:

Chei
Girlfriend number what am i again sef

choose any number u want to be.

Chiamaka01:


That is not my portion, maybe that of your female relatives.

You are depressed

RedBenson:


This is it! If not that Jesus had to have mercy on the sick man, the sick man wouldnt have received healing when He asked the sick man what he could do for him, and rather than answering directly he needed healing, he started beating around the bush. Obviously, you're one of the ladies facing this problem and perhaps the reason of your being on NL and i just made it known i could help you strike something, rather than indicating optimum interest and grab the opportunity, you are asking me why i havent married and how did i know. Are you interested or not?

Why all these long talk? to escape my question? Answer my question jare. Wetin dey make you no go marry your girlfriend? you dey wait make she clock 40? then you go come here dey make noise for single girls when una don succeed in wasting their precious time? Tell me why u never marry. Abi u wan bleep all the girls for naija?