Rexphobia:
The government is responsible

i guess PDP government

Emmalot121:
Blame game. It is nature, not society. Sometimes, I get infuriated when ugly women like you blame the society. Is society a man? It is both male and female dude. Do you want Nig to be like USA? Is that what you tag as lenient society? Where singles and single parents litter the streets? Smh.

Yeah that's the way forward after all we all want to be like then, including you,,,,

my uncle is looking for a good wife and a graduate to marry.. Call my number or add me on facebook with Terry N Okereke?

my uncle is looking for a good wife and a graduate to marry.. Call my number or add me on facebook with Terry N Okereke? 08187987500

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

I pray you don't learn in hard way, maybe you are one of few lucky ones.

i think there will be serious men if some of them have good job. those in marriage are not finding things easy as well. i wrote a narrative on this, pls visit bolanlesnuptialtales..com and read the present chapter. thank u

RedBenson:


Seriously, harsh economy as experienced by guys in naija is the bane behind lack of marriages. So many young men of marriageable age cant do so due to harsh economy. Many factors sha contribute to it of which i cant exercise out time now to detail on them. Men dey, but those ready financially to marry be d wahala.

Seriously, do you know some marriages come with blessings? Seriously! Forget issue of money what is needed is compatability and blessing of God.

Am not saying money is not needed of course u need it! If not how person go feed, clothe and rent house. But you musnt do it high, you know.wedding can be very simple

There are many couples that had nothing but its like the right woman, marrying for the right reason and sincerity helps a lot

I know of a number of couple that had nothinh , if you see them today..................hmmm

ferdimako:

yea.. you can do sugar dad runs...but na them still dey find a man of their own now. I know say some guys without proper pay no say them ladies go free them once a rich fella shows up or go dey go kpansh for cash ...so how u wan pop d question? To see a girl wey go support ur mission no easy...all go dey claim engaged...who come dey single? I be wan try see who go tag with me make we run stuff..no show. Na to carry my cross alone...maybe get one kid...don't ask me how. Whether my dicck shrink or muscles tear and wear mean nothing compared with when u marry who no wan see reality. seeing it only aging don show..may hav placed d poor guys on another level...u know younger chicks dey spring up every day. So issues dey!

Well news flash, some of una no dey serious. Una go date person for good how many years, leave am for another person wey na just meet how many weeks. If men dey serious, ready to marry and not spend all their youth sleeping around till thy kingdom come, you no go see ladies dey jump up and down with married men. Una no dey focused. As young ladies between 18-20 something dey spend their youthful years jumping around, na so una wey be men around that age dey do too. abi you think say guys between 18-20 something dey reason marriage? NO. Una no serious so ladies no go dey serious. Na until when una reach 40 before una go remember marriage. you cant blame the ladies. Only very few relationships lead to marriage.

Sophyrocks:


Why all these long talk? to escape my question? Answer my question jare. Wetin dey make you no go marry your girlfriend? you dey wait make she clock 40? then you go come here dey make noise for single girls when una don succeed in wasting their precious time? Tell me why u never marry. Abi u wan bleep all the girls for naija?

Oh, i see! Your bf actually wasted your time. Such is life sha. So many ladies had experienced that but that didnt pull them down from getting married at the right age. Why is yours different?

Chiamaka01:


You're referring to your sis and female cousins, so don't quote me.

do u av to insult please ?..... Neva fink I did insult u so please cut me some manners

RedBenson:


Seriously, harsh economy as experienced by guys in naija is the bane behind lack of marriages. So many young men of marriageable age cant do so due to harsh economy. Many factors sha contribute to it of which i cant exercise out time now to detail on them. Men dey, but those ready financially to marry be d wahala.

xactly my point.

Skipuru:
my uncle is looking for a good wife and a graduate to marry.. Call my number or add me on facebook with Terry N Okereke?

Y double posting when u can jus modify and add ....... at a click.

RedBenson:


Oh, i see! Your bf actually wasted your time. Such is life sha. So many ladies had experienced that but that didnt pull them down from getting married at the right age. Why is yours different?

Hahahahahaha. Nice try. Why are you not yet married?

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

You don't need to condem her; base on her own opinion. Like one of my friend do says "everybody have reason; and all reasons are important" you might view it from your own angle, to her that's what she believe, pleace don't crusify her. Thanks

Awon oloriburuko...nigba ti won ti fi oko(husband) se ale(concubine)...won wa sukun egbere...

englishmart:
men are not scarce. At my age, I have about 6girlfriends +10crushes and many crushees!

But I have about 8 more years before I start thinking about getting married

and who says u gonna live tomorrow?

Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.

i seriously dnt c any atom of curse in his post ooo...
I guess i now see why serious men are scarce in town.. kus enterin into marriage wit someone like ^^^.., simply means life imprisonment..

Sophyrocks:


Well news flash, some of una no dey serious. Una go date person for good how many years, leave am for another person wey na just meet how many weeks. If men dey serious, ready to marry and not spend all their youth sleeping around till thy kingdom come, you no go see ladies dey jump up and down with married men. Una no dey focused. As young ladies between 18-20 something dey spend their youthful years jumping around, na so una wey be men around that age dey do too. abi you think say guys between 18-20 something dey reason marriage? NO. Una no serious so ladies no go dey serious. Na until when una reach 40 before una go remember marriage. you cant blame the ladies. Only very few relationships lead to marriage.

yeah...men struggle to make bricks without straw. Economy, expectations and family background don't support to marry early. some hausa men marry early and dump early also. Almajiri na person child. some Yoruba folks get help from family members. For Ibo pple, u no hold be say nothing for early marriage as u dey huzzle to help lift ur younger siblings wey parents gather without any written agreement. US embassy knows Ibo guys no dey marry early...they use am catch guys wey claim their sisters as wives wen we still dey do lottery. So family setup poor...if u have fewer kids...they do things wen they are supposed. society is wicked. man no go gree make him wife come dey suffer...if ur rich bros cajole u into marriage...omo...after d wedding u are on ur own.

emiraty:


Seriously, do you know some marriages come with blessings? Seriously! Forget issue of money what is needed is compatability and blessing of God.

Am not saying money is not needed of course u need it! If not how person go feed, clothe and rent house. But you musnt do it high, you know.wedding can be very simple

There are many couples that had nothing but its like the right woman, marrying for the right reason and sincerity helps a lot

I know of a number of couple that had nothinh , if you see them today..................hmmm

I dont agree to that. Very wrong ideology and that's why poverty can't be eradicated in the society. Why do we still have poor couples with poor children today if that's the case?

Sophyrocks:


Hahahahahaha. Nice try. Why are you not yet married?

More hustling till i crash on some hard pounds. And you?

Some ladies av waste there precious time looking for the reach guy now there paying for the price of looking for husband @ all cost

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

don't marry oo just continue to be single u go soon hear it e go tell for ur body say woman without a man is useless

God fearing men and women are very scarce nowadays SMH

They need real man, not a husband, real man=-cash

ferdimako:

yeah...men struggle to make bricks without straw. Economy, expectations and family background don't support to marry early. some hausa men marry early and dump early also. Almajiri na person child. some Yoruba folks get help from family members. For Ibo pple, u no hold be say nothing for early marriage as u dey huzzle to help lift ur younger siblings wey parents gather without any written agreement. US embassy knows Ibo guys no dey marry early...they use am catch guys wey claim their sisters as wives wen we still dey do lottery. So family setup poor...if u have fewer kids...they do things wen they are supposed. society is wicked. man no go gree make him wife come dey suffer...if ur rich bros cajole u into marriage...omo...after d wedding u are on ur own.

Na wa o. Now you see say many factors dey involved. we no suppose to blame ladies everytime becos ladies no go marry themselves. Na men go marry them and if them never ready nothing wey ladies fit do. na to siddon wait o. If man no wan marry woman, she go kill herself? No be by force o. Na all these force force marriage dey make ladies dey marry Beast say na husband or make men marry women wey dem no like at all.

No go do till you reach 50 yrs o. E get as e be if 50 yr old man still dey carry small pikin. e no good o. u must not make millions. just make enough to cater for you, your wife and kid . Thats my opinion sha.

I have meet some of them claiming they are looking for husband, if you do closed marking, you will discover that they don't really know what they want, I meet them in church, social media, etc, fake life every where.....there's many guys outside there looking for wife........

RedBenson:


More hustling till i crash on some hard pounds. And you?

Good. I dnt want to be a liability. First things first.

SOME PEOPLE WILL BLAME GEJ FOR THIS.

Sophyrocks:


Na wa o. Now you see say many factors dey involved. we no suppose to blame ladies everytime becos ladies no go marry themselves. Na men go marry them and if them never ready nothing wey ladies fit do. na to siddon wait o. If man no wan marry woman, she go kill herself? No be by force o. Na all these force force marriage dey make ladies dey marry Beast say na husband or make men marry women wey dem no like at all.

No go do till you reach 50 yrs o. E get as e be if 50 yr old man still dey carry small pikin. e no good o. u must not make millions. just make enough to cater for you, your wife and kid . Thats my opinion sha.

Men get d BS too...but una own aplenty. But be productive, open leg less and be hopeful. We are expected to have cash, houses and cars to attract some reasonable ladies. However, as most chicks only sit and choose, they miss out as age is ever dwindling. They are left with marry anyhow guys and suffer or continue to wait till when? One party wey I go the other day, them fix one chick for a guy for consideration. She flew in to Lagos from Abuja. Not easy on both sides but una own aplenty with BS. We wey must build a huz etc faa?

Where u c money to cater for urself? Instead of dabbling into marriage without a real woman wey like reality check...na to bone marriage and wife oh.

ferdimako:

Men get d BS too...but una own aplenty. But be productive, open leg less and be hopeful. We are expected to have cash, houses and cars to attract some reasonable ladies. However, as most chicks only sit and choose, they miss out as age is ever dwindling. They are left with marry anyhow guys and suffer or continue to wait till when? One party wey I go the other day, them fix one chick for a guy for consideration. She flew in to Lagos from Abuja. Not easy on both sides but una own aplenty with BS. We wey must build a huz etc faa?

Where u c money to cater for urself? Instead of dabbling into marriage without a real woman wey like reality check...na to bone marriage and wife oh.

You are right about the expectations from females but if una dey encourage them to start from scratch with you by you remaining faithful and sticking to your girl/wife when the going gets good, e for better. Many discouraging stories like this dey. How many of una dey do am? Una no dey encourage them.

Anyways, both males and females need to work on themselves.

Sophyrocks:


Good. I dnt want to be a liability. First things first.

But your time is fast ticking unlike mine/men who can still do that at the due time. You can combine marriage and career together...no biggy. And me, some yrs are still left b4 i clock 30 (not like that makes me not due for marriage).

fellis:


Thanks!!!

Are you really serious about the issue?