Disadvantage of having too many exs before getting married

Mke ur hobby trust you not to b d type dat will b flirting,hanging around n getin involved in nasty talks n chats wit ur exs n admirers. It important or else ur marriage is a hell of shit n wnt last. Shikina

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Divorce him and come to me

mutter:
Don`t call it a problem. It is simply a request your husband has.
You can copy the numbers before breaking the card but remember ..The breaking of the card is symbolic. It means that you now know that you belong to him as he belong to you.
The fact that he does not break his own card should not be the excuse for you breaking or not breaking yours.
The hard truth is that as awoman and a Nigerian you need to know that we have a polygamous society and nothing much has changed. The young cry out the are not polygamous but wait till the get a few years older. Many women that rant about it end up sharing their husbands some years later. This means you cannot compare yourself to your husband in this aspect.
If you have a "problem" with his request then you are not yet ready for a happy marriage. This issue is so trivial that it is not worth being an issue talk less of a problem.

speaking from a man's point of view it simply means he wants to invest all his life in the marriage the woman suppose to be happy, if he doesnt care he will just bone

zeb04:
So the husband does not have exes she should be weary of?
What is good for the goose,is good for the gander.

My sis, we are talking humans here. Am sure none of the lady or her husband is a goose or gander. There should be order in the family, a wife must always submit to her husband.

Famouspecky:
Am having problem with my hubby over my sim card. He's insisting I break my sim card after our wedding but he refuses to break his.
Honestly I don't think this is fair.



What do u think I should do?



N; Matured advice pls

Is either you break your SIM card or you break your husband. Choose one.

Funny dear.

Really no need for such demand.

If you really want to keep in touch with old flames, what stops you copying their contacts into a diary/address book or even into another phone?

A woman will cheat if she wants to, old sim or no old sim.

Now before your marriage, did you even think your hubby could make such a request?

You may have to brace yourself for more compromises. He might be a tad insecure and or controlling.

No need to be confrontational, used your number 6.

Do you think he might have gone through your phone and found some "colourful" texts and stuff in there?

Hmmm.....

Why did he marry you if he didn't trust you in the first place? I don't know why some men act selfishly after marriage. Nevertheless he is your husband and you have to try and convince him. If he insists, copy the numbers you need and send them your new number. But let him know you are not happy with it. *things we do for love*

voodoo85:


break it-all numbers r in phone memory anyway )))))) or if u have old phone- ask him to buy u smartphone for xmas and u won't lose your numbers be smart

In marrige u don't show smartness is about understanding, the secrent of susccesful marriage is submition, you haave to be submited to your husband in all area please it will help your marriage to grow stronge

Wie did u ppl met?....was it in a hotel

Madam, I advise you to break your sim and get a new new number if possible. Secondly, delete all your old male friends numbers to save your marriage. The Bible says women should be submissive to their husband. God bless your marriage.

I thought dey r already married sef.......dealing with trust and insecurity issues in a relationship is one thing but dealing with it in marriage is a different ball game... @poster be sure you no wat sort of marriage you r getting into b4 its too late...

If it is causing her to cheat or someone is threatening her life or marriage, then break the sim into 12....

Famouspecky:
I'm having problem with my hubby over my sim card. He's insisting I break my sim card after our wedding but he refuses to break his.

Honestly I don't think this is fair.


What do you think I should do?



NB: Matured advice please

Why spliting hairs over a senseless issue?

Transfer all your contact on your phone memory break your sim get a new sim and transfer back and continue with your life

treasuress:
speaking from a man's point of view it simply means he wants to invest all his life in the marriage the woman suppose to be happy, if he doesnt care he will just bone

That's a lie my brother. I know so many married men that are infidelity warriors, yet they can commit murder if they see an ant move near their wife.

mutter:
Don`t call it a problem. It is simply a request your husband has.
You can copy the numbers before breaking the card but remember ..The breaking of the card is symbolic. It means that you now know that you belong to him as he belong to you.
The fact that he does not break his own card should not be the excuse for you breaking or not breaking yours.
The hard truth is that as awoman and a Nigerian you need to know that we have a polygamous society and nothing much has changed. The young cry out the are not polygamous but wait till the get a few years older. Many women that rant about it end up sharing their husbands some years later. This means you cannot compare yourself to your husband in this aspect.
If you have a "problem" with his request then you are not yet ready for a happy marriage. This issue is so trivial that it is not worth being an issue talk less of a problem.

eurgh! So lucky my gifs aren't working..stup!do

bukatyne:


It shows their hands were not clean

I have up to 8 married relatives and NONE changed their numbers including myself.

I heard of this changing of lines on NL

yes but how is their marriage lmao. thats the real question. i mean judging by the sections you frequent on NL i can tell all is not rosy at home lmao

What are these people talking about

Is it only the phone number of exes she has in her phone? What about her distant relatives, childhood friends, colleagues and clients

Olutola88:
That's a lie my brother. I know so many married men that are infidelity warriors, yet they can commit murder if they see an ant move near their wife.

not all men are cheats you are a guy you also know good men, same apply to women too ,

zeb04:
So the husband does not have exes she should be weary of?
What is good for the goose,is good for the gander.

It's high time Ladies begin to understand d men...if a man is ready to offer u a lasting trust n love he test ur Respect n submissivness...why not just do it n be ready to do more.

Though I'm not pro-marraige but it's utterly wrong and absurd to tell your wife to do away with her sim after marrying her.

if marraige means getting hooked up with one person and cutting off all other kind of relationship - childhood friends, family friends, colleagues and all- you have built for years, even before meeting your fiancee/fiance then my anti-marraige state of mind just became stronger!

Are you going to tell your future wife to destroy her sim

TonYzeallY:

It's high time Ladies begin to understand d men...if a man is ready to offer u a lasting trust n love he test ur Respect n submissivness...why not just do it n be ready to do more.

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Break your sim jare, is ur marriage no more important to you than your precious exes and chairmen contacts, you will not even be told to do so, i smell cheating somewhere, emotionally, this young girl have not face the reality that the days of flirting calls anyhow is over, and she values her contacts more than obeying her husband..marrying these matured girls nowadays is a big problem, cos they have had various issues and complications wìth numerous guys and men in their single years, this complications wont end just because she got married..better wahala dey in women, may jehova help nowadays marriages..

Do as commanded, he is your guide now, remmember you have to format your life to the new you, forget about gender equality thing go back to the biblical history of marriage and find out your responsibility on each other. ....period.

sukkot:
yes but how is their marriage lmao. thats the real question. i mean judging by the sections you frequent on NL i can tell all is not rosy at home lmao

So changing of numbers or not makes a marriage?

All is not rosy at home because of sections I frequent which are?

Please don't quote me again, I can't remember quoting you.

Famouspecky:
I'm having problem with my hubby over my sim card. He's insisting I break my sim card after our wedding but he refuses to break his.

Honestly I don't think this is fair.


What do you think I should do?



NB: Matured advice please

He doesn't trust either you or your male friend's. Give him reasons to trust you. But you will still have to break the sim because if you don't it be become a regular topic in your marriage.

bukatyne:


So changing of numbers or not makes a marriage?

All is not rosy at home because of sections I frequent which are?

Please don't quote me again, I can't remember quoting you.

well you visit the romance section alot. a happily married person visiting the romance section is like a man who has just eaten a huge tuber of yam visiting chinese restaurant. thats the last thing on his mind is food because he is so full. if you was getting heavy romance in the crib you wouldnt be frequenting romance section. maybe, just maybe if you got rid of that ya sim and put more effort into ya relationship, maybe, just maybe you will not be gallivanting around the romance section like you done lost your gaddayum mind

mutter:
Don`t call it a problem. It is simply a request your husband has.
You can copy the numbers before breaking the card but remember ..The breaking of the card is symbolic. It means that you now know that you belong to him as he belong to you.
The fact that he does not break his own card should not be the excuse for you breaking or not breaking yours.
The hard truth is that as awoman and a Nigerian you need to know that we have a polygamous society and nothing much has changed. The young cry out the are not polygamous but wait till the get a few years older. Many women that rant about it end up sharing their husbands some years later. This means you cannot compare yourself to your husband in this aspect.
If you have a "problem" with his request then you are not yet ready for a happy marriage. This issue is so trivial that it is not worth being an issue talk less of a problem.

What are you saying? If the issue is so trivial he shouldn't have asked her to break the sim. And if it is symbolic as you say(which i see as ridiculous) shouldn't he be breaking his own sim too? This is how it starts, the next thing you know, he'll be asking her to quit her job to her dismay. Does that sound like a man who wants a happy marriage. Or does your defination of a happy marriage revolve around the happiness of the husband only?

Famouspecky:
I'm having problem with my hubby over my sim card. He's insisting I break my sim card after our wedding but he refuses to break his.

Honestly I don't think this is fair.


What do you think I should do?



NB: Matured advice please

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