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"5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 10:03pm On Dec 12, 2014
So let us all just have a view about this..wat u think??
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1. You have a friend -- and friendship matters. Let’s start with the first word in that phrase. "Friend". Don’t we need someone we can trust, confide in, escape with, laugh with? Someone we can play with? Don’t most heterosexual women enjoy the chemistry that floats in the air when exchanging banter with a friend of the opposite sex?

A friend with benefits is someone you're attracted to, generally someone you like, and someone you enjoy having sex with. He may have started out as a friend and the magic isn't there, but you have a great time together -- especially in bed.

2. Sex has its perks. Now let’s talk about the benefits of those “benefits” -- as if you don't already know.
Don’t we want to enjoy the flirtation, the fantasy, the sensation and the sense of well-being that comes from sexual pre-intimacy and sex itself? Who doesn't love the jolt of energy, the boost to mood, the sparkle of feeling fully alive that comes from jst ur "friend"

3. You can (and should!) practice safe sex-- And remember a friend with benefits is not a one-night stand and he is not a stranger. He is a partner -- of a specific sort.!

4. It's a good way to experiment--One of the advantages of a friend with benefits is freedom from overly romantic attachments. In other words, try out something new! For some women, there's less worry about a friend with benefits. So why not experiment with your special friend, if the thought appeals to you?

5. Freedom! In the years after Heartbreaks -– whether we have chosen it or not -– freedom comes with benefits of its own..
Some may view a friend with benefits as "no strings attached" sex. Others may view it as great sex with enough emotional connection to feel at ease, without transforming the relationship into something that it isn't. If it no longer suits you after a few months? Move on.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Ewizard(m): 10:12pm On Dec 12, 2014
Yea dats kul.. I knw u'd feel gr8 wen u realize ur serious date is ma friend wit benefits.
Anyway,lyk u said we jus fwends smiley "no strings"....
Clueless homosapiens drownin in d missisipi of self delusion!

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2014
Ewizard:
Yea dats kul.. I knw u'd feel gr8 wen u realize ur serious date is ma friend wit benefits.
Anyway,lyk u said we jus fwends smiley "no strings"....
Clueless homosapiens drownin in d missisipi of self delusion!
.Huh??3-|

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by ednut1(m): 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2014
I can't find my debit card. Did anyone ere see it

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by fuckshit: 10:34pm On Dec 12, 2014
FÜCKING good one grin grin
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 10:38pm On Dec 12, 2014
fuckshit:
FÜCKING good one grin grin
...Thanks mhan.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2014
ednut1:
I can't find my debit card. Did anyone ere see it
..Chck ur asshole bruh,u'd probably find it there
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Abbey2sam(m): 10:46pm On Dec 12, 2014
You can never see girls on this kinda thread

I love friends with benefit, that's what most of my female friends are

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Spicylate(f): 11:20pm On Dec 12, 2014
toh...goodluck.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by phayvoursky(m): 11:23pm On Dec 12, 2014
No one has anything good to offer these days.



Only sex talks

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 11:31pm On Dec 12, 2014
Spicylate:
toh...goodluck.
...Like u dnt av a frnd u emotional attached wt
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by justmag(m): 5:59am On Dec 13, 2014
Girls can't handle friends with benefit.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Mprex(f): 6:02am On Dec 13, 2014
Nonesense and ingredients

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Nobody: 6:12am On Dec 13, 2014
If you have a girlfriend,how do want her to feel,with this uncooked jargons

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by yagochem(m): 6:14am On Dec 13, 2014
Friendships like this require more than just finding the right person, they also require you to be the right person. When someone believes in you enough to lift you up, try not to let them down. True friendship is a sweet responsibility to be nurtured, not an opportunity to be exploited. For more information CLICK HERE.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by shyshally(f): 6:53am On Dec 13, 2014
FWB is good oh,the only ish is that after sometime one of the parties falls in love with the other.and if it doesn't grow into a relationship,the person gets heart broken

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Nobody: 7:19am On Dec 13, 2014
fwb is d best. anyday anytime.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Spicylate(f): 10:30am On Dec 13, 2014
peekeeks:
...Like u dnt av a frnd u emotional attached wt
hmm, i see someone wants to know. very candid, i dont.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by braine(m): 11:24am On Dec 13, 2014
I think this would be the new way. Tired of uptight relationships.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by braine(m): 11:25am On Dec 13, 2014
shyshally:
FWB is good oh,the only ish is that after sometime one of the parties falls in love with the other.and if it doesn't grow into a relationship,the person gets heart broken

This is the major downside. And its usually the babe who falls.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by shyshally(f): 11:46am On Dec 13, 2014
braine:


This is the major downside. And its usually the babe who falls.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by shyshally(f): 11:47am On Dec 13, 2014
braine:


This is the major downside. And its usually the babe who falls.
And the guy who pretends that he hasn't fallen,meanwhile,all his other relationships aren't working out

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by braine(m): 11:50am On Dec 13, 2014
shyshally:

And the guy who pretends that he hasn't fallen,meanwhile,all his other relationships aren't working out

You can't be sure his other relationships aren't working out. You'd be surprised that if the guy decides to make the fwb relationship a serious one, the babe wouldn't object.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by shyshally(f): 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2014
braine:


You can't be sure his other relationships aren't working out. You'd be surprised that if the guy decides to make the fwb relationship a serious one, the babe wouldn't object.
Yeah,to most girls,sex is more than just something you do to relieve your self.most guys don't take it serious

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by braine(m): 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2014
shyshally:

Yeah,to most girls,sex is more than just something you do to relieve your self.most guys don't take it serious

Exactly. So you see my point now.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 7:20pm On Dec 13, 2014
shyshally:
FWB is good oh,the only ish is that after sometime one of the parties falls in love with the other.and if it doesn't grow into a relationship,the person gets heart broken
..Yeah u definitely right,Seems u once had one.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by shyshally(f): 6:18am On Dec 14, 2014
peekeeks:
..Yeah u definitely right,Seems u once had one.
Lol,no oh,just from others experience,have you been in any?
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Babe2sure(f): 6:48am On Dec 14, 2014
Rubbish! Utter rubbish!
Benefit ko, detriment ni. undecided











I know, its men that will read and digest the five benefits. The benefits is for them. Na their stock in trade. lipsrsealed
Won ti gbe nkan ti e mon je de.

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by peekeeks(m): 7:38am On Dec 14, 2014
shyshally:

Lol,no oh,just from others experience,have you been in any?
..Lol..someone wants to knw. Used to av a friend i hung out with,we were practically jst friend not until she started fallin for my male perks and ofcourse she was engaged,we really had some crazy fun,went to parties 2geda,had some greatsex wt no strings. I sometimes act as her bfrnd to some dinner parties..Until she couldn't handle it,she became emotionally attached and driven,she wanted something serious.
Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by TheSonOfMark(m): 8:16am On Dec 14, 2014
shyshally:
FWB is good oh,the only ish is that after sometime one of the parties falls in love with the other.and if it doesn't grow into a relationship,the person gets heart broken


Exactly missy.

Twice I've been vilified by females who wanted more. I had feelings for both at different points but they both acknowledged being in thriving relationships and they still acknowledged they fancy me and consistently get in between the sheets with me so I suppress my feelings.
Months later, they quited their relationships and wanted to start one with me. I mean, Missy,you stated the rules, why break it?

You fell in love with me along the line? Well, I made an earlier offer and you turned it down. No way. Next thing I'm accused of USING them as sex objects. Hello! WE WERE USING (ENJOYING) each other!

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Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 14, 2014
Babe2sure:

Rubbish! Utter rubbish!
Benefit ko, detriment ni. undecided











I know, its men that will read and digest the five benefits. The benefits is for them. Na their stock in trade. lipsrsealed
Won ti ge nkan ti e mon je de.
lol its true especially the small boys thou

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