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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by ifyalways(f): 6:58pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Nonso23:Lending a helping hand is seen as "meddling" in your place? Not so in mine. Like I said, my own "Okafor" won't see it as a biggie, he would call FIL sef to thank him. Life is easy when we make it so. Whatever works for you, my dear. No time for argument at all. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 6:59pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chillisauce:Sharrap and get married first then come back here and tell us what you ended up with in full details then we would answer your question. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Nonso23: I don't have to ask my parents for anything. They know what I need and give it to me if they can. Very simple. No need to ask anyone for permission to receive gifts from my parents. Ridiculous. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chillisauce:As if one Mr Okegbulam ever took you serious in your entire life. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: So if you and FIL had issues, you would be unable to handle it in a mature way and leave your wife out of it who would be caught in the middle in this case? Very mature. I hope, you will remember it in case your wife and mother don't get along well. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
I am 100% sure that most of the male posters here would sing a different song if in this scenario the hubby got a gift from his parents and the wife was throwing tantrums. 9 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:lolz @OP: think about it. How would you as a father whose nutured and brought up his daughter feel, seeing her suffering, knowing you could help ease her discomfort? Does being married mean that you as a father would totally wash your hands off your daughter?the father must watch his daughter being inconvenienced because of ordinary husband, imagine! If your parents had bought the car for her instead, would you still feel so miffed about it? Or still hold the opinion that your parents are interfering with your marriage?some men are silly 4 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Truckpusher: Jehofa |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 7:08pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets:You lots are the silly people here. Someone cooked up a story without any confirmation but you lots with too many emotional baggage are swallowing everything hook,line and sinker. Are black women just naturally dumb ? cc SirShymexx Ilekokonit Come and see how dumb our ladies are. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar:We hope you will ask your son in-law permission to do anything for your daughter in the future 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 7:10pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar: Excuse me, a gift overrules which decision? 11 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Truckpusher:if you have nothing to contribute, just exit the thread in peace. Posting a comment is not by force Are black women just naturally dumb ?now you are going too far, bros we are not friends like that. Park well 12 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Nonso23: My family remains my family whether I am married or not and just because I have a husband, they don'T have to ask anyone for permission to give me a gift. Additionally, my family is my hubby's family too once we get married, this is why you call your wife's parents MOTHER-in-law and FATHER-in-law. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 7:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets: of course.... once my daughter is married, her hubby is the next of kin, not me. young couples should be allowed to build together, learn together & err together. i will not undermine my son-in-law just because I feel like throwing my weight around. only irresponsible fathers do such - the nouveau riche are most likely to have this rotten attitude. why can't 2 people share a car? if the wife can't get pregnant, will the father sleep with her to ease her worries? LordReed: your greek gift overrules my decision. i intend to be the head of my house though so i woulda put you in your place long before I get married to your daughter. keep your gifts to yourself or to your other unmarried kids. this is why i tell men of today to make money before ever thinking of getting married. can you imagine? you would gift my wife a car without my consent as her hubby? what a joke!!! better prepare the guest room under your roof cos your daughter & the car would be coming back in the evening as your guests. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 7:14pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Tashamania:Truth be told. Most of these ladies never got a proposal from anyone since they attained maturity ,yet they come here to talk trash about men on a story without a reliable source just to feel good about themselves. I have seen a lot of them ,they are empty,dumb,ugly with nothing to offer apart from sex with a loud manner and no man in his right senses would end up with such things. After all ,women are so cheap that sex from them can be bought even by an imbeciile. So, what is the point of trying to feel one thing when you and I know that they'd sell their body when the chips are down.......all they need is a man with the right amount and almost 98% of them talking rubbish here will open their legs even for dogs. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:18pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar: Wtf. Is this not morbidly disturbing? Did you type that ish with a straight face? *closes thread* 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:18pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets: Hehe calm down, you should know Truckpusher by now naa |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:20pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 7:21pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: what is so disturbing in daughters getting helped by their fathers as it's been explained here? we read naija news everyday of all sorts of incëst going on in hundreds of thousands of households so i am not surprised by the reaction i am getting here. |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar:so she cannot receive a gift directly. Someone has to give a stamp of approval first, shebi he has become her second father? young couples should be allowed to build together, learn together & err together. i will not undermine my son-in-law just because I feel like throwing my weight around.if she has meetings to attend during the day she has to move around in cabs with is quite costly, simply because you don't want to bruise your son in-law's ego? only irresponsible fathers do such - the nouveau riche are most likely to have this rotten attitude. why can't 2 people share a car? if the wife can't get pregnant, will the father sleep with her to ease her worries?rotten attitude abi? If he has to work late, who will pick her up and take her home in time to make dinner? If she has business meetings to attend to during the week who will drive her around? If she wants to attend a wedding out of town and he wants to go watch a game with friends at the bar, who will sacrifice what for who? 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 7:24pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets:What makes my contribution worthless and yours worth reading? You see the problem you lots have is that you do not hesitate in generalizing but once you are called out you feel bad. Tell those your fellow NL closet feminists to sharrap and get married first then they can come back and tell us how rosy it is out there. If I have a wife and she gets a car from her parents I'd be more than happy as my money would be channeled towards other thing, I might just use that opportunity to get myself another nice car or maybe a 7 seater family SUV. That story doesn't make sense and sounds ridiculous but what's even more ridiculous is the attitude of these ladies you roll with that has nothing to offer any man unless their over used puccy. Quit following them and you might just get some peace from me.....PEACE 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:24pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar: Gah. What exactly are you implying?? |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:25pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar:Every woman needs a sense of security. They need to go into marriage, knowing they have a father they can always rely on, that way tjey won't suffer silently in marriage. |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:26pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Tashamania:I do joke around with him but thats not a pass to just disrespect me like that, because i never do that with him. I know my limits. I was just making that part clear thats all |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Truckpusher(m): 7:28pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets:Where is the disrespect in what I wrote? Truth is bitter, now I know...bye bye 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 7:30pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Mondisweets: she cannot receive gifts that would question his hubby's competence. she's now married - i as her father shoul focus on my own marriage, my other unmarried siblings & leave the daughter alone to deal with her teething problems.
who chose the hubby for her? did i? she decided herself that she's found the best man for herself - let her deal with the challenges that come with it. if she needs help, it must be with consent of her hubby. no hidden secrets.
i expect her to have considered all these things before bringing him to my house that she's found the one. i don't do medicine after death. all i need to ask if she's sure the man she's brought home is her wish. i would endeavour to ask her these questions 3 times before giving my blessings to them. if she answers affirmatively, then i dare not interfere until they seek my counsel. Ibadannimowa: suffer silently in marriage? what kinda daughter do you intend to raise? my daughter's sense of security would be her intelligence, not me. so wives with no parents have no security? |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 7:32pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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