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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 10:49am On Dec 21, 2014
LordReed:

Don't worry I will hire you to wash it then I'll collect the hug, LoL! grin grin grin

odin forbid!
that task is your forte. patronising the weaker sėx to get your napë rubbed is the main objective of any skët-saving captain.

you remind me of a folklore i heard about years ago. there was this dude(i was told) on this forum with your attitude. he would defend the womenfolk to the hilt. he even confessed to having washed undies of his partners in the past & reh reh reh.

few weeks after his self-confession, about a dozen chics bombarded his email begging him to have their babies. some of the dozen chics included married women & a 44-year-old tpia. as far as the dude was concerned, it was mission accomplished.

few months later, same chics came on NL to cry how they have been scammed by the dude. half of them withdrew their students loans & personal savings to consolidate their union with this dude. in the end, they got burnt with multiple gnashing of the teeth.

the brainless bimbos consigning your comments & copping clïtoral erectiöns with your comments don't deserve my pity. don't get me wrong - i ain't saying you are a scammer & even if you are one, it's not my intention to knock your hustle. the whimsical coogar just wonders if history will repeat itself......scratch that, the cynical coogar wants history to repeat itself.

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 21, 2014

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 10:54am On Dec 21, 2014
Nonso23:

Please keep posting the gifs that is your true calling cheesy
At least one gets a reprieve from your usual kata kata talk.
camman sharap and go and sweep your Moms sitting room wink



be an obedient child tongue

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 21, 2014

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 10:58am On Dec 21, 2014
Nonso23:

You are gradually losing it. From ego to farmland to sitting room. It's not surprising though.
Where are the gifs?
I said go and sweep NOW tongue


that's what kids do

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by adebisicutie: 10:59am On Dec 21, 2014
It's pathetic how the resident trolls start attacking any man who disagrees with them undecided Nairaland insecure men who go about from posts to post whinning about women and then when they are shamed by intelligent and mature men they start throwing around insults since they have no relevant points to make.

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:01am On Dec 21, 2014

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 21, 2014
SAMBARRY:
and he's not trying to close the gap and distance between them. Shebi I've seen many women going out of their way trying to please and satisfy their mils despite insults. Why can't he too do the same. Abi is he too big to do this


even reasonable people (man or woman) have their limits

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 11:03am On Dec 21, 2014
Nonso23:


Do kids in your village take instructions from mad people
do men in your kindred make meaningless noises wink
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 11:03am On Dec 21, 2014
Rxpetite:
even reasonable people (man or woman) have their limits
grin grin




have a nice day grin
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 21, 2014
adebisicutie:
It's pathetic how the resident trolls start attacking any man who disagrees with them undecided Nairaland insecure men who go about from posts to post whinning about women and then when they are shamed by intelligent and mature men they start throwing around insults since they have no relevant points to make.

What do you expect from insanely st*upid individuals who claim that women do not enjoy s*ex and that a baby's head is hit when having s*Ex during pregnancy and that Germany is bankrupt? grin grin grin grin grin

And a few males will join him because their IQs are even lower so to them he sounds intelligent.

Chai chai chai grin grin grin

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:05am On Dec 21, 2014

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by adebisicutie: 11:07am On Dec 21, 2014
carefreewannabe:


What do you expect from insanely st*upid individuals who claim that women do not enjoy s*ex and that a baby's head is hit when having s*Ex during pregnancy and that Germany is bankrupt? grin grin grin grin grin

And a few males will join him because their IQs are even lower so to them he sounds intelligent.

Chai chai chai grin grin grin

Lmao, he has spent years on nairaland and is always the first to resume posting in the morning and last to close posting at night grin all whinning about women. You never find him having intelligent discussions that contribute anything to the economy instead rambling on all the time and telling us how the white man is superior and more intelligent than black men. Self hating , insecure man

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:10am On Dec 21, 2014
SAMBARRY:
grin grin




have a nice day grin
undecided you too
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 21, 2014
adebisicutie:


Lmao, he has spent years on nairaland and is always the first to resume posting in the morning and last to close posting at night grin all whinning about women. You never find him having intelligent discussions that contribute anything to the economy instead rambling on all the time and telling us how the white man is superior to black men. Self hating , insecure man

We are talking about dumb and dumber now. grin
The other one is quite the same but prefers to discuss smelly vag*inas for a whole week. grin

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Arsenate(m): 11:14am On Dec 21, 2014
coogar:


odin forbid!
that task is your forte. patronising the weaker sėx to get your napë rubbed is the main objective of any skët-saving captain.

you remind me of a folklore i heard about years ago. there was this dude(i was told) on this forum with your attitude. he would defend the womenfolk to the hilt. he even confessed to having washed undies of his partners in the past & reh reh reh.

few weeks after his self-confession, about a dozen chics bombarded his email begging him to have their babies. some of the dozen chics included married women & a 44-year-old tpia. as far as the dude was concerned, it was mission accomplished.

few months later, same chics came on NL to cry how they have been scammed by the dude. half of them withdrew their students loans & personal savings to consolidate their union with this dude. in the end, they got burnt with multiple gnashing of the teeth.

the brainless bimbos consigning your comments & copping clïtoral erectiöns with your comments don't deserve my pity. don't get me wrong - i ain't saying you are a scammer & even if you are one, it's not my intention to knock your hustle. the whimsical coogar just wonders if history will repeat itself......scratch that, the cynical coogar wants history to repeat itself.
buhahahahaha
I swear it coogar I wanna be just like you when I grow up....
you're da man....

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 11:19am On Dec 21, 2014
coogar:


odin forbid!
that task is your forte. patronising the weaker sėx to get your napë rubbed is the main objective of any skët-saving captain.

you remind me of a folklore i heard about years ago. there was this dude(i was told) on this forum with your attitude. he would defend the womenfolk to the hilt. he even confessed to having washed undies of his partners in the past & reh reh reh.

few weeks after his self-confession, about a dozen chics bombarded his email begging him to have their babies. some of the dozen chics included married women & a 44-year-old tpia. as far as the dude was concerned, it was mission accomplished.

few months later, same chics came on NL to cry how they have been scammed by the dude. half of them withdrew their students loans & personal savings to consolidate their union with this dude. in the end, they got burnt with multiple gnashing of the teeth.

the brainless bimbos consigning your comments & copping clïtoral erectiöns with your comments don't deserve my pity. don't get me wrong - i ain't saying you are a scammer & even if you are one, it's not my intention to knock your hustle. the whimsical coogar just wonders if history will repeat itself......scratch that, the cynical coogar wants history to repeat itself.

Keep wishing maybe Odin will grant you your wish LoL! grin

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Specialist900(m): 11:26am On Dec 21, 2014
LordReed:


Thank you dey heavy for him mouth. LoL!
Abi.

Car wey we go draw timetable on top, days wey i go drive am and days she go drive am.
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by V0lv0(f): 11:26am On Dec 21, 2014
crackhaus:
Woman fights husband because mom brought him a new wife...

This is quite a catchy heading, I must admit cool
I have heard a lot of things but this by far takes the cake. How can you compare apples to meat? Did her father being her a new husband? If that was the case then obviously it would be a big issue but it's not that but a car. I really don't see what the big deal is if the father bought his daughter a car to help her out of the difficulty they are facing. Real men don't get bothered by trivial things like this. If it was a male friend that bought her a car then that would be wrong but her own father undecided

If the guys father/mom bought him the car he would not accept it? Would his parents first consult his wife first? Or will he not accept it because of his wife ego issues with his mom? That's stupidity at its highest order.

Compare apples to apples and not apples to meat. How can you compare bringing another wife home/husband to a car? Seriously

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Specialist900(m): 11:28am On Dec 21, 2014
Mondisweets:
Thank you!
wink
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 11:40am On Dec 21, 2014
Chillisauce:
And people will still marry these ones oh. cheesy

See reasoning! Gifts from your parent must pass through them as per being the 'head'.

Head of gini kwa? grin
If na only this head dey available, let me walk and live headless grin

Atalaka.

I will proudly walk headless everywhere I go with my father's car.





This post killed me.. Lmao. cheesy. I'm so enjoying this thread. I still have a lot of pages to catch up with though

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 11:41am On Dec 21, 2014
Specialist900:
Abi.

Car wey we go draw timetable on top, days wey i go drive am and days she go drive am.

I tire o! See me see wahala of foolish childish pride. Tomorrow na same man go shout "what has your family done for me?"

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Specialist900(m): 11:45am On Dec 21, 2014
LordReed:


I tire o! See me see wahala of foolish childish pride. Tomorrow na same man go shout "what has your family done for me?"
you see am. I think people just think that once you're married your parents cease to be your parents. They can't buy you things , take you out etc
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 12:03pm On Dec 21, 2014
carefreewannabe:


What do you expect from insanely st*upid individuals who claim that women do not enjoy s*ex and that a baby's head is hit when having s*Ex during pregnancy and that Germany is bankrupt? grin grin grin grin grin

And a few males will join him because their IQs are even lower so to them he sounds intelligent.

Chai chai chai grin grin grin

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Dumb and dumber.

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 12:05pm On Dec 21, 2014
SAMBARRY:
Please stop calling omo mummies aka mummies boys men . They are not men. They are wimps who their mom have to determine every thing for them. Omo mommies have a brain ofa 6 year old and the body of an adult.


Oh he is now a mummies boy for accepting a gift from his mother, He is now a mummies boy for accepting a nice delicious meal from his mother who loves him, gave birth to him and has been there from him since he was born. As opposed to un-healthy meal from his wife.

Are you not sure it is not the woman who is insecure, What is wrong with the woman, Does she want her husband to suffer and continue staying malnourished. What is wrong with a mans mother preparing a nice meal for her son and giving it to him as a gift. Shouldn't she be happy the mother is providing for her husband good food which she cannot cook. Why are you resorting to calling the man a mummies boy for eating a better food from his mother since his wife has been feeding him thrash.

This is me turn the tables to show you exactly how you guys sound as you go on bloating on how insecure the man is. Without trying to ask the op for more context surrounding the man's actions.

I would repeat this again hopefully the smart ones among you who do not salivate at the opportunity to bash men would take note.

CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING PEOPLE.

In my own example I made with the mother inlaw I provided you context that resulted to his action, the woman would be right to be mad with her MIL. She would be right to be mad with her husband for not seeing how her mother inlaw ploy to undermine her effort.

What I have always tried to make you all understand it this ...

No sane man ... I know would feel slighted if his father inlaw decides to shower his daughter with gifts. Buy her a car, build her a house or buy her a freaking island. No sane man in his right mind would feel bad. Infact he would be very grateful to his father inlaw for his kind gesture and proceed to enjoy it with his wife ... because what ever belongs to his wife belongs to him and vice versa. Who no like better thing.

A sane man would only freak out if this action is carried out with an ulterior motive,

1. As a ploy to undermine his role as the head of the family.
2. As a ploy to clandestinely remind him of his in ability to carry out his responsibility.
3. If he feel his father in-law has a habit or history of interfering in the way he runs his family.

It's not about given someone a gift, what matters the most which we are neglecting is the role the motive behind a gift, and the way it is given, go a long way in deciding how a gift is accepted.

So for me the main bone of contention is not whether the man is right or wrong, or insecure or secure, wicked or kind.

My main bone of contention is fact that majority of people on this thread are running to a conclusion crying blue murder and straight up accusing the man of been egotistic, and crucifying him on the alter of Men vs Women.

Instead of focusing their energy to seek to understand the context of his action and [b]probing the Op to get further get more details on why he acted the way he did. On getting more details can we go on to come to a conclusion. [ /b] whether he is wrong or not. the focus should be to decipher What it is the OP is not telling us.

I expected this thread conversation to flow in this line.

@Op
What is the relationship so far between the Man and his FIL been like in the past.

Does the father inlaw have a habit of interfering into his daughters marriage in the past.

How was the gift presented to the family in what vibe. Is it under the tone of "Mr man why are you allowing my daughter to suffer like this, this is not how she was raised, since you can't provide her a car my angel go into the garage and pick one car."
Or like. My son, I see you both are having issues with your old car I would like to gift my wife one of my cars to aid your situation for the time been till you both get back on your feet.

No sane man would be stupid enough to reject the car gift in the later tone.

I repeat Context is every thing ... before passing judgment and ranting about how men are insecure and egotistic seek context .

Because one thing I know as a man is that yes we may be egotistic but at the same time we would not turn down a car from our father in-law that would help alleviate the pain our family is going through if that said car is presented with the right motive and context.

If you can still read this piece and still do not understand the angle I am coming from ... It is well.


# MathewBriggs


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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by shigo20(m): 12:05pm On Dec 21, 2014
I think sumtyn is wrong wif d man upstairs

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 12:08pm On Dec 21, 2014
Specialist900:
you see am. I think people just think that once you're married your parents cease to be your parents. They can't buy you thinks, take you out etc

I fully expect my children to be independent when they grow up but if I want to give them a treat I wonder how that becomes interfering in their lives. Na wa o!

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 21, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:


LordReed isn't a rare breed. LordReed is typical of a man in charge of himself. A man who wrestles with his ego only to be swiftly rabbit-punched into knockout submission, exactly the same way, every single time he endeavors to gain an ounce of control, will naturally have trouble understanding him. I can tell you now that they're levels to this shyt. Becoming a palooka, or in extreme cases, giving up completely to serve as the new water-boy just outside the ring. Handing in the gloves and shorts to fuel the seemingly unconquerable ringmaster E(go) instead, electrolytes & sweat-rag in hand like a good little water-boy aught. He never quite understood that rabbit-punches were the lay of that land. No WBO there, just you, your ego and the life you'd live by either controlling it, or it you.

They wrongly style themselves as "alphas", but live in the shadows, unable to garner that status, often threatened by the slightest of provocations, real or imagined - see thread(s) & see RL. They regularly fail at long term associations, especially with lovers. And no amount of the female (or even fellow male) ego-stroking they require could ever quench their thirst, and save them from the underlying malady of being a slave to their own egos, and as a result destructive to self and surroundings alike.

Such men crave loyalty, but never command it. And in truth only understand it at child level, hence the reason they're best kept as friends, tools of brief mutual gratification, or nothing at all. A women who ventures to love such a man does so at her own peril. LordReed is sensible, yes, but don't put him to extinction because of the sheer overwhelming amount of palookas and water-boys running amuck on here. There's always time and room for growth, knowledge, and self-improvement for those who desire it.

What an Intelligent piece. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this. Much respect!!

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by juman(m): 12:08pm On Dec 21, 2014
It was just a story sha.

But in real life the wife supposed to tell the husband when her father telling her to pick a car not just go home with the car like that without informing the husband before.

That's demeaning to the husband.

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by veave(f): 12:11pm On Dec 21, 2014
LordReed:


I'll like to see them at that stage of their lives.

They'll be the first to claim the poor guy is not good enough for their precious daughter

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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 12:16pm On Dec 21, 2014
LordReed:


Keep wishing maybe Odin will grant you your wish LoL! grin

grin grin

Everything to this set of males is about panty sniffing. No intellectually stimulating thought. Just panty sniffing. Any man who disagrees with them is a panty sniffer. Tells you how messed up and perverse they are psychologically. They say these things as a means of consolation for their messed up personalities. The thought that another male is more superior in IQ, more human/compassionate in character, more secure in his manhood than they are, crushes their Ego. Its plain insecurity. Ego is everything to them. Dnt be surprised they have substances they snuff into their noses before logging on to nairaland. So how else do they console themselves than to tag you a panty snifer.

grin grin grin grin

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