I guess you are more pained by the front seat issue than his smoking and drinking. Seriousl Babe, there are no perfect guys, seat him down and talk. If he satisfies your interest, fire down. If not, bang the door hard.

14DUI:
Girls love bad guys, this is another case study. As for the car thingy, make sure anytime you are going out, be the driver; that way even if he want his friend in the car, they can occupied the back sit if they want to.
if the guy get shame, he will stay in the front with you.
Regard the smoking stuff, he wont change, even prayer cant stop him from amoking. Accept him or leave.

You have made her Chaffers and driver

nickydof:
I guess you are more pained by the front seat issue than his smoking and drinking. Seriousl Babe, there are no perfect guys, seat him down and talk. If he satisfies your interest, fire down. If not, bang the door hard.

Most girls are clueless

Ilekeh:
Lollllllllllllll seriously.

Anyway get your own car and treat him the same if you don't like It

Simple

Joey82:
these ladies just complain about everything.
I know ladies who naturally retire to the back without been told.
haba, ur man is there like forever, let the guys enjoy their gist at least while they drive abeg

My wife goes back in auto mode

Your right

Op,
This is a bad beginning. Please leave this relationship in a hurry. Move on real fast for your own sanity.

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The guy is a sure boy....bros before girls I wish my friends did the same.....it's kind of weird to see a guy and his babe in the front and he is at the bavk so I totally support him.
As for the smoking and drinking,you knew of it before you started hanging out with him so you have to manage it. Give him a high five for him, few men are that loyal to their male buddies

Sorry to say this a NIGGA especially a hood NIGGA....a HOE is a HOE especially broke ass and bitch ass HOES

You better remain single and happy than to marry and be miserable.

Juliaann:
Nop at first I never knew he is a smoker I later found out but it was kinda late because we don't stay together I can't just leave home because of it then I thought its something I can change but hell no its mission impossible

by ma own reasoning if u find out late that his smoker after dating him 4 like a year or ova it.then u don't know the guy and if u argue that u know him that means it will take u approximately anoda year to know anoda bad habit of his.DARLING 4RM all indications u r not his gf but a SIDE BITCH

tonychristopher:

Most girls are clueless

Bros, wetin man wan do now? she bought a rotten food n complaning of foul smell hozzing from her back-side, abeg use pesticide, herbicide or insectcide to cover the smell cos perfume can't stop this odour..

OP u just mumu naturally, I just dey read ur post dey stroke my blokos cos we know how ur story go end...



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Modified : so him still dey fuccck up with that kin yansh u gather? Na wa oh some men no know wetin dem want sha,u sef wetin dey make u stay sef ? Na the fucck nii abi what? I for chyke u sef but that guy go don chop all the nutrient for ur body

You are the architect of your future. The tools you use to build it will determine the outcome. You know within you that you need to leave this man but you are holding on to the relationship simply because you might have allowed your emotions cloud your judgment.
#LeaveNow before it becomes extremely bad. There are things that he does that you didn't mention , things which are not in your interest but you have been managing them with the hope that maybe he might change. Well like I said earlier #LeaveNow and let the right man find you. I wish you the very best as you act.

lordizak:
does ur father have car? u want front seat u know how much that guy has helped him? think what is it about the front seat? if my big sister or mum wan seat my girl or wife go come drag sit with them?

are you normal?
You look matured, but i can not comprehend, why u posted such a childish comment

Juliaann:
countless times

MY TOKEN...... LEAVE HIM

cy4cent:
passionate 88, I no understand what you mean ooo

You said the right thing

lordizak:
does ur father have car? u want front seat u know how much that guy has helped him? think what is it about the front seat? if my big sister or mum wan seat my girl or wife go come drag sit with them?

Which skull did you attend ?

Are they on strike ?

Poster. Any guy who does what you just described is a relationship destroyer. How will you tell a girl you are jamming to go to the back seat for a fellow guy to replace her ? Coupled with his night crawling, drinking and smoking habits.

I don't know him or you but such marriage hardly lasts. He is a parley man. They value their fellow parleys above family..

MORNDEW:
When i see stories like this from ladies i don't spare them. I advise but with lots of criticisms. You met a guy nd u know he smokes nd u go ahead to tell us u ar inlove with him. As if thats not enough, he treats u like any other girl he picks on the road nd u tel us u ar in love with him. Thats the bad habit u let us know o. Because i know such guys have other bad qualities but ladies like u wont leave. To be frank with u, you are in love with his money and when anyone loves money he will get any treatment and call it love. Are there no good guys who dnt drink, smoke nd would treat you like a queen? There are but u wont give them chance cos they walk on foot. Am still waiting for the day u will open a thread telling us he picked up a lady on the way nd told u to go to the back. You are asking us weda to continue or not? Pls continue this is just 1 year maybe by 2 years he would have changed or ur age would hav decreased. There are good men look for them money is not everything. Thanks.

So aptly put.

benromeo39:
3 things are involved.

1) op uploads fake pictures(guys, una know fully well).

2) if she's just a girlfriend in need of fun, she shouldn't be opening threads disturbing us. If the motive behind the relationship is marriage, she would have left the relationship ages ago.

3) from the way she is attacking the people posting what she doesn't wanna see depicts that she has a bad attitude. That means something is missing from her story.

*drops mic*

@no.3,exactly my thought oooo. Pls op, don't attack me too abeg.

Juliaann:
OK I have been seeing this guy for a while now in short we are dating its been up to a year close to a year we started dating and I love him yes I do but the issue here is that whenever we are going out maybe to buy something or to chill out around the town it happens that if we run into a friend (his friend) he will ask me to go to the back seat for the guy to seat in the front but for what? the first day he did that I respected him and did exactly what he said but he has been doing this every time we see any of his friends on our way going out and I don't like it,,,,,assuming we all left home at same time including the friend I can seat at the back I don't mind but asking me to come down in the middle of the road just for his friend to enter I don't think I can take it any more and mind u for those of u that will start asking me to go get my own car if I don't like what he is doing I have my own car it won't be nice going out with different cars on a date since we can easily use one either his or mine

another one is that he is a hard smoker he smokes anything smokeable just name it,he drinks too but not much tho I'm OK with that one the worst is that he stays out late almost every night, I have tried discussing that with him on several occasion he always promised to change but for where he is getting worst everyday I really don't know what else to say or do to change him because I think I have done everything possible to atleast to make him reduce it but its not working,am thinking of quitting still having a second thought about it that's y I opened this thread for u guys to help me out

NB:::if u know you have nothing reasonable to say please am begging don't comment matured advice only

So my fellow NL'ers what do u suggest I do?

probably u are not a good wife material.... Shabi, na u dey abuse buhari abi.. If I curse u ehn,, na for booth Ur man go put u

Timijo:
The guy has shown u his true colour about respect. If u can bear it, stay in d r/ship but if u cannot, move out of it. Imagine on ur wedding day sitting at d front as u are going home and he sees one of his friends and he ask u to go to d back seat. U said he can smoke anything, meaning he smokes cigarette, wee wee, and anything smokeable. That means he is addicted to smoking. It is only God dat can deliver him from dat addiction. My question to u is: can u cope wit dat after marriage? Can u cope wit all d risks and sicknesses that are caused by smoking? Can u cope wit ill mental behaviour? Can u cope wit all sorts of women abuse? If ur answer is no, pls move out of d r/ship before u put ursef into another bondage.

Nice 1 bro.

What most modern ladies don't understand about relationship and marriage is this: every loving relationship or marriage u see, the lady or woman in that relationship is enduring a lot and keeping her relationship/marriage going.

But unfortunately, most ladies today believe relationship is a ferry tale like Romeo and Juliet where Romeo is ready to die for Juliet

@Juliann, pls take a closer look at 2face Idibia and Annie love story: Annie knows very well that 2face is a chronic womanizer and weed smoker but she is enduring it and all ladies are envying her marriage.

Bola Tinubu is a chronic womaniser and a weed smoker and Oluremi is still loving him.

Jay Z is a chronic cheat, weed and cocaine snuffer and Beyonce still love him and remains faithful to him.

Bill Clinto is a diehard womaniser and Hillary still condoned him and loved him.

So the earlier u learn to live with your man's flaws and cherish his good side, the better for u cos many ladies are ready to overthrow u and shower him with love.

As for the car issue, every guy will do what he does, except you are married to him.

But your profile status speaks negative of you- are u sure you love this guy or you are in love with his rugged lifestyle and maybe money Tell yourself the truth and decide within u cos non of us can advice u better. Good luck

Methinks he's gay

lordizak:
does ur father have car? u want front seat u know how much that guy has helped him? think what is it about the front seat? if my big sister or mum wan seat my girl or wife go come drag sit with them?

Excuse me !!!

Her man not her husband for God sake! Then, so be it.

As for the front seat issue,you have every reason to feel bad about it. Even if u guys are leaving home together with his friends you should still be accorded that respect,unless u rejects and insist his friend sits in front for respect sake. And speaking of his smoking and drinking habit,smh,my advice may sound odd but from experience o,don't go into marriage with a guy u hope would change after marriage. Men usually change for worst after marriage because marriage gives them so many edge over the woman,which you might get even more frustrated. If you were my sister I would advice u to quit. A chain smoker isn't easy to change dear,"He smokes anything smokable" same as drinking and getting drunk. Run while you still can.

Juliaann:
If I can cope with all that I wouldn't even bother myself trying to stop him but because I can't that's y am trying to know if he can stop it but its not working

Then quit the relationship thats my advice for you. Since you have spent sometimes in the relationship and the guy have refused to change his way, the best option is to move on with your life, it only takes God intervention for people to change their lifestyle, the wrong perception is thinking you can change the behaviour of another person so easily.

no big deal there him asking you to go to the back sit for his G to sit close to him... what you ladies don't understand there is nothing like tight friendship between two make folks... that's why for me to querel with my real guy because of my gf I rather leave that babe cos there are plenty babes out there that can replace her position but you will never ever I repeat never ever get a good male friend again if you let go of the ones you have most especialy those you grew up with and attended the same school with.....

as for the smoking issue pray to God and also if he has not been going to church invite him to church and I will recommend living faith church for both of you... try it and you will remember me....

Wit dis ur ukwu ehen, I no no wetin d guy dey carry hm friends join again. Beside dis man wit fake profile just want xmas from page abeg!!

Ojisik:
The guy is a sure boy....bros before girls I wish my friends did the same.....it's kind of weird to see a guy and his babe in the front and he is at the bavk so I totally support him.
As for the smoking and drinking,you knew of it before you started hanging out with him so you have to manage it. Give him a high five for him, few men are that loyal to their male buddies

Over here we say "Bros before Hos"

The truth is that the Leopard will never change its spots .He is a chain smoker like you said and you think you can change him,no, you can not,expect he is really willing to. He does not respect or have regards for you. if you leave, he's careless cause he does not really love you,he is just treating you like a door mat. Open your eyes ,don't be carried away with the materials things you are enjoying at the moment because the end of a thing is better than the beginning. Be wise.