MizEmpress:
i seriously hate this silent treatment thing, the lady has no way of guessing when it's going to end or what he's thinking so she'll be constantly on edge and that's enough punishment on its own. I'm not in anyway implying that she's doesn't deserve some form of discipline for her actions but the man should come out of his cocoon and let them decide if their marriage would survive or not, the earlier they start-the better.

funi enuf, the husbands reaction is the best in such situation, he might not be a cheat himself,he tot that is the best punishment, i once did that,i caught her, she didn't see me, i greeted the guy who happens to be my friend,nd den her, den i left, my friend never talked about it,same with me,but the gal was in total mess,she tried bringing it up,but i would never want to talk, the point is, i a;ready forgave her,i truly loved her though i was seriously pained, i cried many times in ma quiet time, but once i am with her i act normal,@ some point, she couldn't take it anymore,she suggested we break up, @ some point i got slaps nd punches from her just to get me angry nd den make me talk about it, but no, i will just be mopping @ her, next thing na to sleep, lolz,it sounds funny to me now, anyways, that's life,its too short for bullshit. but catching the one u love cheating is as good as hell, but more dangerous if u never caught or knew she was cheating.

The husband is my kinda guy....no need to shout, let suspense do the killing for you. At least I bet her blood pressure is over the roof by now while she wallows in her suspense and worry. It ll eat so deep into her coupled with a little *malfunction* of the car brake system. She looses focus while driving and has an accident. Hubby sheds crocodile tears at funeral...and smiles at the young lady who comes to console him. And the rest is on nollywood.

Royver:
A woman came to the hospital today very anxious, sleep deprived, poor appetite, headache, generally a nervous wreck. When questioned she says her husband caught her cheating on him by walking in on them in a compromising position at her shop.

He responded by turning and walking away. She returned home later that evening after thinking of how best to confront the situation but the man has not brought up the matter since then.

She said it has been over a week now and Oga is carrying on as if nothing happened and she is going crazy with anxiety because she doesn't know what is running through his mind.

I asked if she had done something like this before and she swore she hadn't, that it was bad judgement on her part with a former ex. I suggested she be the one to breach the subject to her husband but some of my colleagues believe she should let sleeping dogs lie and take a sedative.

What do you guys think?

The man is really brave and courages for walking away from that ugly scene. But I'm kind of curious as to why he has not brought up the issue yet. Anyway, I feel the lady should break the silence by speaking to man about it. No need for explanations. She should just beg for forgiveness, with a firm promise that such will never happen again. In any case, she is now at the mercy of the man.

Royver:

she said she tried to bring it up that night but he refused. Told her they would discuss it later. Unfortunately she hasnt attempted to broach the subject again since then.
This may sound crazy, but is it possible the man has forgotten? She says he goes around happily, not carrying face or sulking.

Forgotten what! Don't repeat that nonsense here, again.

We are not dealing with boyfriend girlfriend cheating here.

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He's gonna use her for rituals, I've seen it happen before. The woman died a mysterious, slow and most excruciating death while the man's net worth exploded before he remarried a prettier woman just a few months later.

Royver:

I suggested she write him an apology letter.

The moment you do that you are finished that's an admissible evidence you don't want to have that

Royver:

According to her, her husband is the "walk away and cool off type". Has hit her only once since the marriage, apparently not the violent type. my colleagues said to give her drugs and send her home and she should be extra nice to him and all will be well. But with all this stuff i see on nairaland about man stabbing woman am not so comfortable with that.

you are on point

Exjoker:
Time bomb: I suggest she should confront her husband to shot everything out. What will it cost her to wake him up in the night to beg for mercy. If his intention is clear he will forgive her

Trust me even in the afternoon I'd u wake me in my sleep I IL hate you don't try it

lilmax:
That woman should pack out if she wants to survive the man has plans deadly plans.... She might beg him for life.... I like the man

She should run, run and keep running. Not even to her parents hoUse. Though she should go and tell them everything then drop out of sight. The man is deadly and I'm not being literal. The lover boy too should run cos he's a gonner

Godforbid .....this to happen to me...but if it happens....I will behave like dat Man in de context....but De tym am giving to her Is to use and change ma hauz keys..... Ma join account.....meeting ma people on how and wen we will get our dowry back......den finally sending her back to her parents...in order for her to have Nice time her ex ......quiet guys .though......beware of dem mbok

She has to break d silence, apologise n ask for forgiveness esp since she's now remorseful. We are all prone to such mistakes....both men n women. But d husband's reaction is unusual n very deadly......he has a plan......to kill her with silence or physically or to retaliate in kind, or sth worse. She may have just given her husband d weapon n license to cheat without conscience.
She needs to get him to react n face d consequences. There's a punishment for bad behaviour.
My humble submission

It's Possible the man is just acting out/ experimenting what he saw in a recent movie to her and is not really up to anything. lol
But seriously, the man must not be planning nathin as some implied. Maybe he doesn't like the lady that much and have been seeking for an opportunity/ justification to play away match. Poor lady just served him that on a platter n our guy is grateful (as against hurt).

Pamcrest:
She has to break d silence, apologise n ask for forgiveness esp since she's now remorseful. We are all prone to such mistakes.

speak for yourself!..the fact that you do it does not mean other women are cheap and prone to it...there are many women with self control and will never destroy their marriage through slu.ty lifestyle.

D man is in great shock! He's probably thinking what he did wrong to make his wife go to that extent ,now he's tinkin abt d life both have built together ,the dreams they had and the memories,oh iywao y!,chai all those wonderful moments together thrown away now........sha iyawo O.Y.O

ADRILL:
Thats my kind of man! It only proves the 'E' for Endurance in LOVE. This really hurts. But who could show better maturity if not the man. I'm positive he'll just lay it out like he's requesting for the salt container during dinner. #TRUEDEFINITIONOFMATURITY

@ADRILL if u r a female pls dnt feel its a sign of maturity completely,when a man is silent to his woman after she has done something wrong,its big trouble on the way ,he might be thinking how and when to dish it......but cool with it? Jonzing!!!!!

Nitefury:


Bro me, Na core course o. If you pick am as elective Na at ur own peril o

abeg wetin b d lecturer's name? NITEFURY?

daey118:

"She could "wake up dead" ". How does somebody that is already dead wake up ?biko?

this got me cracking.....nairalanders nd dere comments dont cease to amuse me. C whr person think go

Octaevius:


this got me cracking.....nairalanders nd dere comments dont cease to amuse me. C whr person think go

She's letting her imagination roam wild like the mind of God... #iGuess

aliyuabbaashiru:
abeg wetin b d lecturer's name? NITEFURY?

karma Tha Biiatch

very soon he will throw her out,
he is just looking for the right time to do that
*unfaithfulidiot

Nitefury:


karma Tha Biiatch

oya no ves biko.

aliyuabbaashiru:
oya no ves biko.

lol. I no vex o. Just trying to say karma has a way of teaching people lessons in life

She better go on her knees before her husband and refused to stand up until the man embraces her and lift her up. What she did is abomination.

luluosas:
She better go on her knees before and refused to stand up until the man embraces her and lift her up. What she did is abomination.

hmm o, jst like a nollywood movie.

lol.

that husband is a very good bad guy
the wife has just reminded the husband about the good old days..
when boys are boys
the woman has woken up the thing in the man

too bad, for the woman. whether she ask or not wetin don be don be
i pray for her to find peace, lol for where na

menix:

Wat a gr8 man shez got as husband, I blive dey ve got kidz nd d man aint ready to sacrifice d happiness of doz kidz by doin d rite thing.

OR
D man is goin to up his game wivout fear of being caught.

I'll agree wit u. Som men re obviously more Vulnerabl and deeply insecred dan most would readily admit.
Best Case scenario: He's desperatly tryn 2 salvage d Marriage dat has obviously been shaken 2 its foundations.
Worst Case scenario: He's plannin a personal Vendetta...
In any case, Confrontin Him would be FOOLISH and practically INSENSITIVE of u. U shld knw ur man, or any man beta than goin 4 a direct confrontation.
My Opinion: Initiate a 5 *star* APOLOGY PROTOCOL. Dependin on hw mch d marriage means 2 u.
He has 2 blow off d steam inside... And u shld be d one 2 aid him.
And pls... Get rid of ur Ex...

menix:

Wat a gr8 man shez got as husband, I blive dey ve got kidz nd d man aint ready to sacrifice d happiness of doz kidz by doin d rite thing.

OR
D man is goin to up his game wivout fear of being caught.

I'll agree wit u. Som men re obviously more Vulnerabl and deeply insecured dan most would readily admit.
Best Case scenario: He's desperatly tryn 2 salvage d Marriage dat has obviously been shaken 2 its foundations.
Worst Case scenario: He's plannin a personal Vendetta...
In any case, Confrontin Him would be FOOLISH and practically INSENSITIVE of u.
Wat u re tryn 2 do is PLACATE d issue, nt AGGRAVATE it.
U shld knw ur man, or any man beta than goin 4 a direct confrontation.
My Opinion: Initiate a 5 *star* APOLOGY PROTOCOL. Dependin on hw mch d marriage means 2 u.
He has 2 blow off d steam inside... And u shld be d one 2 aid him.
And pls... Get rid of ur Ex...

vascey:
Mister composure if you are reading this, I would like to commend you.

It is time to start Phase 2 - just wake up in the night and start staring at her. If she doesn't feel ur stare and wake up, startle her and then return to staring position.

Whenever she's busy, just start staring but with nothing in mind except to spook the creeps out of her.

As humans, we learn very well by association. Whenever she thinks of cheating, the palpitations you engineered into her will return and she will think twice.

jeez this is really scary and wicked.

Rufdyamond here you go, do you want more?
This debunks your fantasies.