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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 10, 2015
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 New International Version (NIV)

28 - If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered,
29 - he shall pay her father fifty shekels[a] of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by cococandy(f): 12:30pm On Jan 10, 2015
anakobembash:

I haven't ascertained or assumed it to be best ( note - "even IF"wink. You can simply suggest how thing ought to be done instead of concluding on my comment

Suggest? The damn rapists should be locked away and little girl rehabilitated and sent back to school.
should this even be up for discussion?

A rapist is a mentally disturbed individual who likes to inflict pain on his/her victims by sexually torturing them and bending them to his/her perverse desires.


How does this guy even fall under the hypothetical 'even if' for the best that you were trying to say?

There shouldn't even be any reason for them to consider setting him free because he and his fellas will rape someone else soon enough apart from the little girl that is already condemned to a daily dose of rape for the rest of her life.

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by akinsadeez(m): 12:32pm On Jan 10, 2015
cococandy:

Death by stoning for the woman who's the victim.



Huh Now this can't be true. I refuse to believe this.

How can a young lady who was violently robbed of her innocence be condemned to death by stoning as punishment. Punishment for being raped Even if some certain parts of Islamic religion are very archaic and bile-inducing, I don't think it is this bad.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by tuffgongjo(m): 12:36pm On Jan 10, 2015
venivedivici:


Lol @ "layman". I understand you man. Why I feel it's not applicable here is that she is the direct recipient of the physical pain and emotional anguish, and now again, this (which she most likely isn't in support of). The father is simply trying to save face
I think if u hurt my little gal,u are hurting me also.too much emotions from my angle sha.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by akinsadeez(m): 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2015
babyosisi:


The Koran allows marrying infants and children, don't be deceived
The prophet of Islam married a 6 year old when he was 54
Can a 6 year old consent to marriage?

It also allows rape of captured females

It allows killing of people who leave the religion or oppose it

Don't let them deceive you
The Koran and hadiths can be assessed online
You can read these things yourself
Every single thing the strong adherents do that sound weird to you,is koranically correct


Well he married her when she was six, but he steadfastly refrained from touching her. She remained with her parents and the marriage was only consummated when she reached the age of nine or ten years cry
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by waternogeteneny: 12:41pm On Jan 10, 2015
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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2015
carefreewannabe:
She is 13 cry cry cry

Does she want to get married to her ra*pist? cry cry cry cry
My thoughts exactly

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by superstar1(m): 12:43pm On Jan 10, 2015
The lesson from this story is:

1. Gang rape a lady that you like and plead for forgiveness and ask for her father's consent to marry her.


If the Muslim Women Society cannot speak up for this injustice, wetin be my own?

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2015
akinsadeez:



Well he married her when she was six, but he steadfastly refrained from touching her. She remained with her parents and the marriage was only consummated when she reached the age of nine or ten years cry

Sick!

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
how sir?

What a question!!!! you ought to have known before that gentleman up there even said it; Islam is the most mischievous and unpredictable religion of our time.

I only pity and lol @ my Yoruba brothers and sisters who are into this shameful belief; Islam.

Having read Quran, i found all sort of atrocities or cruelties carried out by a man called Muhammed or whatever his ass is called and I began to ask myself since then.........

The questions have asked myself over the years are:

As educated as my Yoruba brothers and sisters are, are they blind to see/read all these atrocities?

Are they not educated enough to see how this man committed what we called Rape today?

Have they not come across where he married under age girl?

Are they blindly following his belief without asking their conscience if the genocide(killed loads of people while spreading his false belief) committed by Muhammed was right or wrong?

Would they be happy if any of their children or family members fall as victims of what Muhammed preached against other religion?

Are my Yoruba brothers and sisters realised that even our traditional belief does not ask us to kill other people who practise or believe in other religion?

But finally, It is a battle muslims can't never win cos it ll only take Israel (not to talk of US, Russia, UK, Germany, France) alone to nuke Islam world to oblivion........









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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by cococandy(f): 12:46pm On Jan 10, 2015
akinsadeez:



Huh Now this can't be true. I refuse to believe this.

How can a young lady who was violently robbed of her innocence be condemned to death by stoning as punishment. Punishment for being raped Even if some certain parts of Islamic religion are very archaic and bile-inducing, I don't think it is this bad.

I do know that in sharia a woman's testimony can't stand except she has a male witness.
What female will have a male witness while being raped?
So unless the man agrees to having raped her, a woman's admission of being raped is tantamount to confessing to fornication or adultery and is punishable by death.

That's only in a sharia court o.

Read more:
Even the rape of a Muslim woman is almost impossible to prove under strict Islamic law (Sharia). If the man claims that the act was consensual sex, there is very little that the woman can do to refute this. Islam places the burden of avoiding sexual encounters of any sort on the woman.The crime of Zina is not confirmed except if the fornicator admits it, or with the testimony of four trustworthy men, while the testimony of women is not accepted.

Since it is incredibly unlikely that a child molester will violate his victim in front of "four trustworthy men", Islamic law amounts to a free pass for sexual predators.

Islamic law rejects forensic evidence (such as DNA) in favor of testimony. An interesting situation thus sometimes develops in cases where a victim alleges rape and the man denies that sex even took place. In the absence of four male witnesses, rape cannot be proven. The woman's testimony then becomes a "confession" of adultery. She can be stoned, even though the male is unpunished, since he never "confessed" to a sexual act.

Some clerics blame rape on the woman. Australian Sheik Feiz recently said a rape victim "has no one to blame but herself. She displayed her beauty to the entire world... to tease man and appeal to his carnal nature."

One of the world's most respected Sunni scholars, Sheikh Yusuf al-Qaradawi, recently told an audience on his al-Jazeera television show that "To be absolved from guilt, the raped woman must have shown some sort of good conduct."

Culled from:

http://www.islamreview.com/articles/WOMEN_ARE_RESPONSIBLE.shtml

http://www.breitbart.com/national-security/2014/10/28/punished-for-being-raped-the-burden-of-women-under-sharia/



http://www.aina.org/news/20081117111817.htm
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by bejeria101(m): 12:48pm On Jan 10, 2015
All of the above,my sentiments exactly. Rape? Geez.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by lacreamieboie(m): 12:49pm On Jan 10, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
how sir?
U're asking how then it's either u are blind or you can't read!
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by macof(m): 12:49pm On Jan 10, 2015
This is only according to the rules Yahweh and Allah gave in the Bible and Quran respectively...any Christian condemning this probably hasn't read his Bible

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by AreaFada2: 12:52pm On Jan 10, 2015
It seems those people are still in 7th century.

Can you imagine. Knowingly marrying a kid to known rapist. God forbid.

If ordinary Yerima can achieve marrying babies in the NASS, Buhari as president can make raping a girl the new/easy way to marry her.

Just rape that fyn girl that passes by your house every time and she's your wife.
Olorun maje

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by amsoslim(m): 12:54pm On Jan 10, 2015
lalasticlala:
Dad Allows Man Who Gang-Raped 13-Year-Old Daughter Wed Her In Kano

Both the rapist and the father of d girl wwho consented to such appalling act shuld to sent 2 asyllum asap

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by olayinka63: 12:55pm On Jan 10, 2015
carefreewannabe:
She is 13 cry cry cry

Does she want to get married to her ra*pist? cry cry cry cry


Islam does not have any quarrel with a rapist marrying his victim, provided
certain conditions are met. “First, the girl has to observe Istibira’i, a month
period to ensure absence of pregnancy. The girl should not also be among
those prohibited for the rapist. Provided those conditions are met, marriage
can take place with the consent of the girl and her parents.”
But while he said the sin of committing zina (adultery) and its punishment
would be there for the rapist, “That cannot stop the marriage.”

the ultimate of the decision will be from the girl then in the future if somebody narrated this story to you will you marry her be sincere
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Ayomivic(m): 12:55pm On Jan 10, 2015
F00028:


what they did is actually biblical not Islamic.
Do you actually understand what you are saying? The instance in Bible is different to this.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by nduchucks: 12:57pm On Jan 10, 2015
venivedivici:


But the story itself calls for religious input (or bigotry sef), don't you think? It isn't just a neutral person who in the spirit of good faith and humanism did what he did. Islamic injunction contributed to his decision as well as the acquittal of the rapists. So one can't help but still refer to religion, my friend.

You can discuss or refer to religion without exhibiting bigotry.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jan 10, 2015
EroticAngelina:
OMG! either the man z a heartless n wicked imbe or he z a really foolish being!
thats rly bad!
I feel sorry 4 d gal.
FTC! grin frontpage things!


Not the man alone, the girl's father is a foool too

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by cao(f): 1:01pm On Jan 10, 2015
justscorch:
Where that Cao girl make I rape her tongue



The way paedophiles don increase ehn na God go save our smallie dem
What the hell?! Hell to the freaking no, don't you ever say that to a woman. That shtako is not funny, don't use that as a joke or as a compliment. When you (men), decide to go out for the night, you don't even think of the possibility that you'll be raped, you have a drink, you can leave it on the table, to go to the loo. You can decide to walk or get a taxi back home drunk without any incident. Worse case, your drunk arse will get in a fight.
Women, not so much. It is there in the back of your mind, you go out with friends, you learn self-defence, rape whistles, mace/pepper spray, you act like a hawk - so some opportunist doesn't spike your drink, you pray to God/Budda/any deity that will listen that you arrive home intact & alive. Even when you go out with a guy, that doesn't guarantee your safety - dude could also be your rapist. Then to top it all off, if you do get raped, they're folks who would blame you saying you asked for it because:
A. The way you're dressed.
B. The guy spent x amount of money, you should have freely opened your legs.
C. You should have watched your drink.
D. You shouldn't have gotten drunk.
E. You already said yes, why did you change your mind?
Or whatever new ways people go victim shaming, the fact that they're rapists who get away with it. I'm always grateful that it has never happened to me, but I do know people it happened to. I had a housemate, who got raped & actually went through to report it to the police, go through all the hoops and the rapist got away scot-free.

Don't you ever pull this s*** again, and to any guy who thinks he's complimenting a girl by saying he would rape her, y'all need to really have a sit down and a good think. Since some people seem to lack empathy, let me put it this way for those men who don't understand - A man tells you that he wants to rape you, I'm guessing you won't react with a smile & a thank you...

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by lastpage: 1:03pm On Jan 10, 2015
IamDejman:
To all insulting the man. Take a look from this angle

His daughter was raped. Under Islamic parlance, she might possibly not get married cos of that lingering issue on her. Since the rapist decided he would marry her, the father was happy that the shame would soon be over and therefore agrees provided there isn't any use of pregnancy in a month.

Note: the rapist in the afterworld would have his punishment cos of direct contravention to the forbidden act he committed (Haram)


#ProudlyChristianThough wink

Stop deceiving yourself about being a Christian, that ideology of yours is not found anywhere in the Bible.

AfterWorld my foot! how many of you people parroting "Afterworld" have been there to know how it is or whether it even exists?

Let him serve his punishment here first... after that he can decide if he wants to marry her.... PROVIDED SHE ALSO WANTS TO MARRY HIM!.


I know "Bullshyte" when l see one.... this is definitely one!

We cannot keep "creating" excuses for these Paedophiles! Marriage is NOT the punishment for R@pe!

Lastpage!
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by PAGAN9JA(m): 1:05pm On Jan 10, 2015
briliantsak:


Ma, am a Muslim nd not a terrorist. Thanks

You are a terrorist for accepting this religion of arab slave drivers and Fulani cowboys.

You are a terrorist because u endorse a religion of terrorism. Your hypocrisy have a hand in this.

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by mu2sa2: 1:06pm On Jan 10, 2015
Stelvin101:


My dear God bless u for this one u talk. The reality is a different one. I know of a fellow Corp member who is betrothed to a man she has never met by her family and she has no say other than to marry him after her service is over next month.
There's a difference btw arranged marriage and forced marriage. The corper can say'No', if she isn't interested, but her silence implies consent. You're still too young to understand that it's the wish of every reasonable parent to see their child happily married. Many arranged marriages actually work. Some marriages that are supposedly based on so-called love crumble in no time - go to our courts and see for yourself. You will be surprised that 30 years from now the corper will still be happily married to the man. Maybe you wanted the corper to say 'no', but the girl loves and respects her parents, knowing that they'll always desire the best for her.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by justscorch: 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
cao:

What the hell?! Hell to the freaking no, don't you ever say that to a woman. That shtako is not funny, don't use that as a joke or as a compliment. When you (men), decide to go out for the night, you don't even think of the possibility that you'll be raped, you have a drink, you can leave it on the table, to go to the loo. You can decide to walk or get a taxi back home drunk without any incident. Worse case, your drunk arse will get in a fight.
Women, not so much. It is there in the back of your mind, you go out with friends, you learn self-defence, rape whistles, mace/pepper spray, you act like a hawk - so some opportunist doesn't spike your drink, you pray to God/Budda/any deity that will listen that you arrive home intact & alive. Even when you go out with a guy, that doesn't guarantee your safety - dude could also be your rapist. Then to top it all off, if you do get raped, they're folks who would blame you saying you asked for it because:
A. The way you're dressed.
B. The guy spent x amount of money, you should have freely opened your legs.
C. You should have watched your drink.
D. You shouldn't have gotten drunk.
E. You already said yes, why did you change your mind?
Or whatever new ways people go victim shaming, the fact that they're rapists who get away with it. I'm always grateful that it has never happened to me, but I do know people it happened to. I had a housemate, who got raped & actually went through to report it to the police, go through all the hoops and the rapist got away scot-free.

Don't you ever pull this s*** again, and to any guy who thinks he's complimenting a girl by saying he would rape her, y'all need to really have a sit down and a good think. Since some people seem to lack empathy, let me put it this way for those men who don't understand - A man tells you that he wants to rape you, I'm guessing you won't react with a smile & a thank you...



You just so cute when you flare up,knew you where gon react this way and speak some sense,I'm against rape just as you are
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Kinikini: 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
englishmart:
Islam is an unpredictable religion..

Not at all. Islam is perfectly predictable and clear. It really depends on how you choose to practice it. I believe it is same for other faiths
.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by homesteady(m): 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
If the man was a southerner, I would have said the father made the biggest mistake of his life, because the man will surely hate the girl and he'll treat her badly!
But since he is a Muslim Northerner, half of my fears have been quenched!
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Originalsly: 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
F00028:


what they did is actually biblical not Islamic.
Most of these Christians running offf their mouths wouldn't know that since they don't read their Bible...but they are quick to condemn Islam...which they also know very little if anything about.

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by iamakbar(m): 1:08pm On Jan 10, 2015
carefreewannabe:


This the theory, the reality is a different one.
If the reality is different for some muslims, then the fault lies with them not the religion.
Muslims might not be perfect people but ISLAM surely is a Perfect religion.
Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jan 10, 2015
olayinka63:



Islam does not have any quarrel with a rapist marrying his victim, provided
certain conditions are met. “First, the girl has to observe Istibira’i, a month
period to ensure absence of pregnancy. The girl should not also be among
those prohibited for the rapist. Provided those conditions are met, marriage
can take place with the consent of the girl and her parents.”
But while he said the sin of committing zina (adultery) and its punishment
would be there for the rapist, “That cannot stop the marriage.”

the ultimate of the decision will be from the girl then in the future if somebody narrated this story to you will you marry her be sincere

I am a woman, so I will definitely not marry her.

And I don't care what is written in the Quran or even the Bible, a girl at the age of 13 should be going to school and allowed to grow and develop instead of being married off. She is still a child!

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Re: Rapist Begs To Marry His 13-Year-Old Victim & Her Father Agrees (Kano) by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jan 10, 2015
nduchucks:


Apparently you are not bright enough to make counter points succinctly. Stoopid people discuss personalities while bright ones address issues. Prove that you are bright by discussing the issue at hand.
you must be a fool I tell ya, u just read wad happen to d small grl, in christianity we condemn such act unlike islam dat encourages it. Wen dem muhammed straff 6 years old y dem no go support am. Ya sister dem go gang rape am den wen dem post am we go support d rapist dem. Foolish ya

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