hifaif:


I have told her countless times that I find it childish and irritating. She threatened to leave me for a man who cares but has not done so. Seriously, it is so irritating. I wish I could just have some space. It is enough distraction having her chatter while I am trying to gather my thoughts. It is making writing difficult for me.

Tell her you will only rock her when you are through with your work. If she insist or threaten you, have the mind to call her bluff, if she make good her threat, thank God for you. Though you will/might be down at first, but with time you will bounce back... Stand firm on your resolve don't be cowered because of her threat to leave you for another man..

AyokunleRuth:

what happened?

Which danger?

passionate88:
Which danger?

she might go extra mile to revenge.

i fear people that are too emotional oooo

Op my opinion is that she is just selfish
If she really love you she will let you be

Cuddle kor..cockroach nii

Next time she tries that again look for turning eba(stick) and use it to hit her head or better still you can use your lappy(laptop) as a sedative on her head too


Girls be forming since 2BC

passionate88:
Tell her you will only rock her when you are through with your work. If she insist or threaten you, have the mind to call her bluff, if she make good her threat, thank God for you. Though you will/might be down at first, but with time you will bounce back... Stand firm on your resolve don't be cowered because of her threat to leave you for another man..

I will remember that, bro.

AyokunleRuth:

she might go extra mile to revenge.

i fear people that are too emotional oooo

Then he should leave her, let her go find/look for someone who has more time for cuddling.

kevinberry:
Op my opinion is that she is just selfish
If she really love you she will let you be

Cuddle kor..cockroach nii

Next time she tries that again look for turning eba(stick) and use it to hit her head or better still you can use your lappy(laptop) as a sedative on her head too


Girls be forming since 2BC

Bro, it is so frustrating. And she isn't even slowing down. It doesn't look like she would ever get tired of asking to be petted to sleep.

passionate88:
Then he should leave her, let her go find/look for someone who has more time for cuddling.

the gal may be sincere now.
he just have to tell her his mind and how her attitude is affecting his job.
Trust me once she hear the acc balance is dropping she will reduce it.

Humm

hifaif:



Bro, it is so frustrating. And she isn't even slowing down. It doesn't look like she would ever get tired of asking to be petted to sleep.

use turning eba(works for me everytime)
Try it and chank me later

Adesewa19:
Humm

I will really like to hear what you have to say. Do you enjoy cuddling that much?

kevinberry:
use turning eba(works for me everytime)
Try it and chank me later

Hope it won't kill her?

mirexxx

hifaif:
mirexxx

my moniker

mirexxx:
my moniker

I thought you had blacklisted me.

hifaif:


I thought you had blacklisted me.

how do u mean? am jez seeing u

Me,i love it! it's sooooo romantic.

mirexxx:
how do u mean? am jez seeing u

I mentioned you earlier but I was roundly ignored.

About the OP, do you think I am overacting?

hifaif:


I mentioned you earlier but I was roundly ignored.

About the OP, do you think I am overacting?

no i don't think so

MzzTega:
Me,i love it! it's sooooo romantic.

Really?

hifaif:


Really?

yes!

MzzTega:

yes!

But it definitely can't be all the time. Like when I want to work. There ought to be time for everything.

hifaif:


But it definitely can't be all the time. Like when I want to work. There ought to be time for everything.

Yeah....i understand u. just explain things to her.

MzzTega:

Yeah....i understand u. just explain things to her.

I have. I will continue to tolerate her, though.

hifaif:


I have. I will continue to tolerate her, though.

Ok. goodluck with that.

hifaif:


But, do you like this cuddling and petting stuff and tickling. I know people do it. But shouldn't people be able to lie down and sleep. Must she sleep in my arms?

too much of everything z bad...it sudn't be everytym.

AyokunleRuth:
it's her love language at op . cuddling, petting and stuff like that.

Now let me be the bad girl.


if u are really getting tired of it and she's not considering u, Turn the cuddling into love making. i bet she will get tired

btw why is she always with u are you married?

Does evrytin hav to be about fvcking?

Gods help this generation.

PAGAN9JA:


Does evrytin hav to be about fvcking?

Gods help this generation.

read my post very well before quoting me


shikena

[quote author=hifaif post=30118852]This girlfriend of mine likes me to cuddle her every time she wants to sleep.

As a freelance writer, I am always busy on my laptop but she always wants me to come over to the bed and pet her to sleep.

At first, I put up with it for a couple of weeks but now, it is really beginning to irritate me.

Every time I complain or beg her to try and sleep by herself, she accuses me of not being romantic. She says I am too principled (WTF!!!) and that all the girls like to
According to Gary Chapman, The five love languages are: receiving gifts, words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time and acts of service. She's trying to tell you what her love language is but she's being selfish about it. You need to find your own love language too and ask her to speak it too. It is obvious her love language is physical touch. even if you buy her a car, she's not gonna feel loved till you speak her love language. I am a writer too and I cherish my private moments too especially in the early hours of the morning when I write best. I'd be frustrated with a partner whose love language is quality time. just browse more about the topic.

[quote author=lovemaths post=30137598][/quote]

I will. Thanks, lovemaths.

cutieberie1:


too much of everything z bad...it sudn't be everytym.

Thanks, cutie. I knew I couldn't have been overacting. I can cuddle her much as she wants. But I expect a little unselfishness from her sometimes.

hifaif:


I will. Thanks, lovemaths.

You're welcome. Our people say, "he who asks questions does not miss his way".