Hahaha...spot on

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

Wonderfully written.

brito:





Why? will they eat sand in the marriage? I was telling myself this lie but now I've realized I was wrong. Marry the rich guy if he comes to u

you shouldn't have followed up with this comment on money... you were talking of something different from what he digressed to...I don't think money was more of the responsibility you were emphasising in your initial post.

Creamish:


@Bolded...i was just going to ask whoz been getting married every weekend to the men....if only OP & co know the number of weddings that occur weekly...they'd desist from over-reacting.

If the ladies u date are nuttn to write home about, then its their headache. U truly have no idea how many African women exist...talkless of the justification to use that word "MOST". Granted the aforementioned are bad traits but pls...how many ladies na? How many have u actually dated that are like dat?

Personally, i feel both sexes need to work on themselves. Guys believe this is their world..so they can do whatever and not have "10 things this or 10 things that" listed about them. Datz bull. Decent ladies dont need Mummy's pets, thugs, dirtbags, NFAs (No future ambition)etc.

U know where to meet decent ladies. Dont go to clubs expecting less makeup or fully dressed chicks.

Remember...birds of same feather..

In my own opinion, i think the op did a good job of making an attempt to bring some girls back to their senses.
You might be sure of yourself, but that doesnt mean other girls out there (even in here) are as enlightened as you. So please you should applaud the op, rather than bash him for trying to better your kind!

Mondisweets:
you will be shocked at how many of them cannot even hold up an intellectual conversation with a woman in real life.

Shocked? No, I don't think that will shock any right thinking human being.

Begonia:


Shocked? No, I don't think that will shock any right thinking human being.

i have to say this, you look gorgeous

Mondisweets:
i have to say this, you look gorgeous

Aww.. Thanks

Gr8 job jor. Ever since ive been a nairalander, ive only seen few inspiring topics like this. And i would encourage ladies not only to read this but to also try applying it to their lives. Men are funny: even the most foolish of them want the best of women.

brito:






I like your maturity, even poor guys have consequences. None of my daughters will marry a poor guy, I will make sure they are good to go too.

are u God to say non of ur daughter will marry a poor man. can u determine how long u will live. sometimes when I see people boastful about certain things I laugh. we were made from sand.

shut up foolish girl, you are here wasting,while ur mates are happily married bringing up their home, you loser are here claiming exposure to western life that have ruined most of your lives, you women are cursed to be blinded from the truth till destruction.., continue to pretend and lavish.,or move fast fast to follow the truth,to adore the chossen people and kings of earth, the alpha males so you can be accepted or you die unhappy...

chizzily:
you men (sorry 'boys') must really think y'all some kinda treasure.
you guys need some exposure, cause not every girl is desperate to get married. #fact

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

Oh dearie, I love this. You certainly have a world without them. Good for you

Good talk. Thank u

ABEngine:


Sorry, kindly remain single. You aren't ready if you can't mould your desired man from the unrefined baby he is.

ABEEngine, se you see the list the op posted eh. pls if you see a girl like that, kindy mould her to your desired and refined taste.

ALL THIS HEADACHE JUST BECAUSE OF MARRIAGE?? REALLY?? IL DO WHAT I WANT WHEN I WANT IT, IF A MAN ISNT OK WITH IT, THERES THE DOOR!!!

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

just a reader of NL comments and decided to join NL to assist brito. NL is not enough to solve your problems, no one has heard from the true story of what happened or has been happening and also from the other party, don't mind the quick responses or comments you are getting it may not help you, a conclusive advice cannot be given. All i can tell you is go and reconcile your home, except you have ulterior motives...

From other of ur comments, marrying or sleeping with rich men is not the answer. Are you a christian, i'd say seek godly advice.

Edusouls:
shut up foolish girl, you are here wasting,while ur mates are happily married bringing up their home, you loser are here claiming exposure to western life that have ruined most of your lives, you women are cursed to be blinded from the truth till destruction.., continue to pretend and lavish.,or move fast fast to follow the truth,to adore the chossen people and kings of earth, the alpha males so you can be accepted or you die unhappy...

you sound pained, frustrated and unhappy.
Don't give yourself a headache.
is this what the desire to get married does to people? see how you are ranting like a mad man.
please carry ur craze else where.

kayciano:

Because u Ladies now FEED MEN with INDOMIE..
Most Ladies only know how to BOIL WATER and COOK INDOMIE only..

NO MORE MARRIAGE for...
Anyway ,its not compulsory..
Since you are interested in CASH.... Let's just keep on dating and having S£X...while I pay u..
Dating is now profitable to most ladies..

What if i can pay my bills. What next? friends with wifi-benefit

Mondisweets:
so where u implying when you said brito should wait until she is Rita Dominic's age? Is the same Rita not enjoying a more fulfiling and fun life than her married counterparts that are constantly cheated on and abused by their husbands?
So marriage has to be forced down her throat simply because everyone else is getting married?

U need to get one thing straight, the best thing an African woman can achieve is not getting a husband. We can achieve so much more beyond that, this is 2014 not your mother's generation where the only thing women then could achieve was getting a husband and bearing children.

Marriage is a choice, its not by fire by force.

Sorry Miss did I offend you in ur past life or something?

I know ur speaking rhetorically but why bring my mum into this,why not use ur mum as an example....generalizing the African woman family idealogy would have made more sense

I believe in equality,Family union and the idea of marriage...

You can't judge all men by the few u meet because u end up meeting a guy with childish attitude doesn't mean all men in the world act that why

Reason why Dominic age was an example js because I understand that no matter how wealthy or rich or famous or beautiful or ugly or poor we are ,at the end of the day everyone needs a companion...not a borrows friend or one time fling...we all need someone we can pour our hearts to,someone who makes us a priority,someone to cuddle us when we are cold,some to defend us when we feel to weak...the beauty of marriage is more than what u think....thats why we all pray for the right partner...u may call this fantasy but it's real....couples live this happy life why can't u do so also

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

dis iz 1 of dem i swear!

brito:
10, no matured man to marry. You see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, its better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to grow up.
Being single is not a crime. Don't go into marriage thinking he will change with time cos he will never change. I need a world without em.

okwu nkasi obi!!!


keep deceiving ur self

macdelene:


is that so, but one over grown baby just gave a list of all his shi*t

I would like to know who ur talking abt

[quote author=macdelene post=30153258][/quote]am not married yet..

But when am ready..you can be sure its you am taking to the altar

Have no fear
You know I love you
I will always do



#CUPID

Rushna:
According 2 dis post,u made it looks like its only d womenfolks dat are guilty whereas u are absolutely wrong cos as we ave it in women dats aw it is wit d men,so,i think wen next u are opportuned 2 write again,u'd beta balance both sides i.e d women and d men.men are also guilty of some stuffs dat made d women behave dat way.

like what?

alberto2k:
The way u used "many" made it looks 90% of african women falls into every category...

Some girls are Different na

for your mind ni...
many+some = all (100%)

see am just right in what i said, and you have just proved me right, the curse of the devil is so strong upon you women that dammnation is your final destination.sorry loser you will die unhappy,wicked and miserable, no man will want to be with a lifeshortning and abusive woman like you., so continue to self destruct, while we choose and enjoy with the better girls, looser...

chizzily:

you sound pained, frustrated and unhappy.
Don't give yourself a headache.
is this what the desire to get married does to people? see how you are ranting like a mad man.
please carry ur craze else where.

Still waiting for one reasonable post from a lady on this thread

Nonsense as usual

brito:






I like your maturity, even poor guys have consequences. None of my daughters will marry a poor guy, I will make sure they are good to go too.

you just dey yarn without thinking. think first,then talk

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

nnamdizen:
In my own opinion, i think the op did a good job of making an attempt to bring some girls back to their senses.
You might be sure of yourself, but that doesnt mean other girls out there (even in here) are as enlightened as you. So please you should applaud the op, rather than bash him for trying to better your kind!

Sweetheart...no one is bashing anyone. I don't recall using any condescending word in my post. I recall acknowledging the truth in his list..as they are indeed possible faults ladies might have...but it’s always safer to use "SOME" in place of "MOST" and not always make it seem like a single lady is single because she is any of the listed. Its not always the case.

c'est tout..

kallmemrB:

Sorry Miss did I offend you in ur past life or something?

I know ur speaking rhetorically but why bring my mum into this,why not use ur mum as an example....generalizing the African woman family idealogy would have made more sense

I believe in equality,Family union and the idea of marriage...

You can't judge all men by the few u meet because u end up meeting a guy with childish attitude doesn't mean all men in the world act that why

Reason why Dominic age was an example js because I understand that no matter how wealthy or rich or famous or beautiful or ugly or poor we are ,at the end of the day everyone needs a companion...not a borrows friend or one time fling...we all need someone we can pour our hearts to,someone who makes us a priority,someone to cuddle us when we are cold,some to defend us when we feel to weak...the beauty of marriage is more than what u think....thats why we all pray for the right partner...u may call this fantasy but it's real....couples live this happy life why can't u do so also

just because most women want to have children does not mean every woman on earth wants a child too. Same goes with companion just because you feel there is a need for u to have a wife, it does not mean every woman on earth feels the need to have a husband. Some people can do just fine by themselves.

brito:





Lolzz, it's better to be single than been stuck in marriage with a man that refuses to grow up.

In what way do you think you've grown up yourself?

In my planet hear women work for d family and men stays at home to take care of choirs and cook for d family