Forwetinnah:


God bless you. Your type is rear, men mostly look for women to take care of them which is wrong, very wrong G. Why should one expect to get what they can't give??

By rear, you mean he likes rear entry How u take know? I dey suspect you

Truckpusher:
Every man out there can survive a life time without a woman.

As a prostitute, yes they can.

I can stay peacefully without her upto a year untill she comes back,except for those that are not faithful.

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

He should be a man ooo, If the wife come kick bucket nkoo? Him sef go follow am enta grave? Am not wishing him dt shaa, juz saying my mind.

You can when u are in a situation like mine. Doing my professional masters in OAU, wife and cute son in kogi state. miss them like crazy though.

tivta:
Any man who has lived alone will have no problem coping without his wife for even years. As far as am concerned, its only men with low self worth that can't cope without their wives for just one week. What happens is she is sick? Posted outside? I have a married friend whose wife is in us yet he is in nigeria. So what's the fuss about? Such men should just grow up. I would have understood if it was a woman complaining. Na wa for some men sha.

I don't really agree with you on this. The issue of self esteem doesn't really come in except of the husband is insecure about her wife's itinerary. If they have been living together for all these years and the wife suddenly leaves on a trip, it will require adjustment on the part of the hubby but if they started out as a couple in a long distance relationship and the wife is usually not around anyway, then the husband won't see it as a big deal.

shevon:
^^My brother, it goes beyond the house chores. What about the companionship?
I barely survived it the last time my wife traveled for 3 weeks. Those were the three roughest weeks in my life. It was so bad that people that I don't speak with in the office were forced to come and ask me "Hope there is no problem"
The truth be told, any man can stay without their wife for a period if only they will live long enough to tell the story.
But same can not be said for guys that have extracurricular activities with the reserve side chick's. Those ones can even survive a lifetime without their wives.

Extracurricular lol

striktlymi:
My ex best friend is really cracking me up. He has been 'styling' for the wife for a while now....

Just recently the wife had to travel to take care of some very important stuff.

After forming 'Super man' for about a week, he called me yesterday and said:

"Emma I just realized that I can't take care of myself.... this lady should hurry up and come back.."

I couldn't help but laugh...

So married dudes, is it same for you?

What are those things your wife helps out with that you think you can't do for yourself?

Side runs come to mind hehehehee

Today is exactly 1wk that my wife travelled to take care of some biz & I'm still here waxing stronger than ever.



Ace

sauceny:


Thatz ur way,nt mine.

kul if u really not a faker

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

...NKEMAKOLAM na you be this ?

Can married women comment.

to live without my wife for a week is like a rollercoaster ride where everything is on fire and am on fire too, all because I'm in hell.

Hell! Yes that what will happen when I found her and we get married, then she left for a week.

eagleonearth:
He should be a man ooo, If the wife come kick bucket nkoo? Him sef go follow am enta grave? Am not wishing him dt shaa, juz saying my mind.

I rebuke you voice of darkness In Jesus name! And i curse you to be shut forever!

As long as i got a side chick. I can survive a year without her[/quote] den u r nt yet married

I can't from intelligent and genuine loving wife, otherwise, it is better to have two homes even more..

LordReed:
You can usually tell if my wife is away, I get lean.

Lols

veave:


I rebuke you voice of darkness In Jesus name! And i curse you to be shut forever!

my sis calm down. I'm not a voice of darkness, just that u did not read my post well. I only made an illustration. Grow up pls

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

Life of a bachelor is very diff from that of a married man, a lot of things changes along the line and @times it comes a habit kinda. As a bachelor u can eat anywhere u like come home anytime u like, but once u are married all that changes and it becomes a lifestyle .

Lemme scan through and read comments from the husbands.... I just pray that women have not invaded the thread with their funny tales of 'my hubby cant stay'. Ain't implying he can stay... But please let him talk... Brb

eagleonearth:
my sis calm down. I'm not a voice of darkness, just that u did not read my post well. I only made an illustration. Grow up pls

That your so called illustration was completely off and uncalled for.

veave:


i curse you to be shut forever!

and mind d way u curse every tom dick and harry u feel that provoked u, lest d curse boomerangs. He whom God has blessed let no man curse. I doubt if u've ever stepped into an ivory tower before cuz u sound so backward. I never wished ur dad dead, reread my post watch it!

I remember once my mom went for two weeks and even with my sisters being good cooks my dad made us patronise restaurant to the extent they always reserved our table and even knew all our names. upon that the man by day5 was shrinking even though he drycleans everything he was confused because for 24yrs he has never taken care of himself like that. By day 12or so he made the best dinner i have ever eaten but not after wasting all the ingredients and almost burning the house.
*sobs* can feel the nostalgia kicking in

peedeeasobie:




That your so called illustration was completely off and uncalled for.

u seem and sound out of touch with reality. Nolens-volens, a spouse must leave the other someday permanently and there is no written order of exit. So what r u talking about?

The question should have been "Husbands, can you stay one week without your girlfriend? "




What does a married man want his wife for when he surely has numerous girlfriends and concubines to keep him busy




Men don't even want their wives around them, they are happy when wifey has to travel.





In conclusion, your friend was just pretending . In the depth of his heart he was sincerely flexing his wife's absence.

I can absolutely do without everything you can mention but not without my wife. Since the question is just for a week I can bear it. No doubt, it'll be emptiness in her absence.

AceVentura:
Today is exactly 1wk that my wife travelled to take care of some biz & I'm still here waxing stronger than ever.



Ace

Surely, there is one babe waxing you stronger...than ever.
Hmmmmmm,hope she rides "It" well too

annoymous:


I don't really agree with you on this. The issue of self esteem doesn't really come in except of the husband is insecure about her wife's itinerary. If they have been living together for all these years and the wife suddenly leaves on a trip, it will require adjustment on the part of the hubby but if they started out as a couple in a long distance relationship and the wife is usually not around anyway, then the husband won't see it as a big deal.

. Agreed, BUT one week is just too short,unless the man is not working.

eagleonearth:
and mind d way u curse every tom dick and harry u feel that provoked u, lest d curse boomerangs. He whom God has blessed let no man curse. I doubt if u've ever stepped into an ivory tower before cuz u sound so backward. I never wished ur dad dead, reread my post watch it!

Anybody who thinks and imagines bad for his fellow man is evil. You did not say God should give them time to always travel together. You did not say God should make provisions for them to take vacations together, you did not see any good thing to say but to imagine one of them dead. You are a wicked person and your heart is black. If you don't change, the fate of haman will befall you. The bible says 'cleans the thoughts of your heart'. Thank God you quoted the scriptures, may it work for you too accordingly as you have wished for me.

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

Your pop dey wear your mums night gown.
Hmm Okay oo.

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

U can lie.
This is just the figment of ur own imagination.

NairaMode:


Your pop dey wear your mums night gown.
Hmm Okay oo.

Some times when she travels