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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Feb 01, 2015

A man should purposely arrange weekend away for his wife most weekends and holiday must be compulsory. She must travel for a long while. And you should be able to survive without any woman. You should always have your space most times. Staying away from your wife for months should be a routine. grin

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by veave(f): 2:47pm On Feb 01, 2015

komek:

U can lie.
This is just the figment of ur own imagination.

you do not have to believe honey...

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by musicwriter(m): 2:47pm On Feb 01, 2015

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

This's how men should reason for a successful relationship, whether marriage or friendship. Though I'm not married but I stay with my junior sisters 3 of them and none of them have ever washed my cloth, instead I do give it to my junior brother. I often say to myself I can't suffer them do that just because I can. The only time I can remember a sister washed my cloth for once was in 2003 and she begged me to allow her do it. I like doing it by myself or give out to drycleaners when it's many.

I don't know whether it's only me but I see women as vulnerable. Men should respect women. Women are no less human than me.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by eagleonearth(m): 2:48pm On Feb 01, 2015

You are a wicked person and your heart is black. If you don't change, the fate of haman will befall you. The bible says 'cleans the thoughts of your heart'. Thank God you quoted the scriptures, may it work for you too accordingly as you have wished for me.[/quote]one of the pharisees and saducees. How I wish our hearts can b submitted to Nairalanders for examination.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by stebell(m): 2:48pm On Feb 01, 2015

Me not jus that I wanna stay out but the nature of ma work as a Resident Engineer for ma firm makes it difficult to stay at home.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Feb 01, 2015

[quote
author=veave post=30328332]

Anybody who thinks and imagines bad for his fellow man is evil. You did
not say God should give them time to always travel together. You did not
say God should make provisions for them to take vacations together, you
did not see any good thing to say but to imagine one of them dead. You
are a wicked person and your heart is black. If you don't change, the
fate of haman will befall you. The bible says 'cleans the thoughts of
your heart'. Thank God you quoted the scriptures, may it work for you
too accordingly as you have wished for me.[/quote]
Theres no more power in the tongue, nowadays. So relax

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by nerodenero: 3:00pm On Feb 01, 2015

Balkan:
My wife made herself irrelevant.
My house help does the whole work.
Makes my food and always there for me.

I really don't miss my wife again.

This is a big issue.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by kandiikane(m): 3:02pm On Feb 01, 2015

Kachisbarbie:
lols
My husband can't stay. Not because he can't cook or take care of himself.
Basically, all he wants me to do is wake-up by his side, happy every morning.

He won't even be able to eat because we have grown used to eating together over the years.

you are married? You just look too young-abeg when my age mates are getting married why should I be surprised? Congrats sha.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by veave(f): 3:08pm On Feb 01, 2015

OnyeIbo:

Theres no more power in the tongue, nowadays. So relax

Honey, don't let the devil use anyone to curse you. Job 22:28, matt 18:18, james 3:5
Thank you

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by xtraordinaire: 3:23pm On Feb 01, 2015

orobs93:
I think some men stay outside their homes more than that.

Exactly my husband has stayed for 7 months at PH during my pregnancy although it was tough but i thank God for my life.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by klark3: 3:27pm On Feb 01, 2015

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

Wtf is this

?

Are u a man or woman?
You must be very close to your mum while growing up, probably that was how she instil that female mentality in u. Gosh, u reason like a woman.

What!!!!!! holding bag for your wife in the market while she is buying stuffs, damn!!! I won't even allow my younger bro do it.

Honestly, a man becomes a maid if he ends up doing all of d above.
It's lugubrious the world is increasingly producing more feminine men.

@op I don't see any reason why a normal man won't be able to stay without his wife for a minimum period of 1 year.

Your ex frnd isn't a man.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Forwetinnah: 3:30pm On Feb 01, 2015

annoymous:

By rear, you mean he likes rear entry How u take know? I dey suspect you

. I meant rare**

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by timilehin007(m): 3:43pm On Feb 01, 2015

truth be told its difficult its not easy for me to do without her even for a whole day

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by kenee24(m): 3:59pm On Feb 01, 2015

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Eberex(m): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015

I'm not married, but hell i dont think i would if i get married to my wife

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by adamskutty(m): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2015

kandiikane:

you are married? You just look too young-abeg when my age mates are getting married why should I be surprised? Congrats sha.

come lemme marry u nau

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by LewisO: 4:08pm On Feb 01, 2015

Why not?

a man who can't stay away need to pray to God to kill such addict!

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by esoboy875(m): 4:10pm On Feb 01, 2015

tivta:
. I doubt if you lived single for a while to feel like this. If you have tasted real independence, you won't miss her just because she is gone for one week.

4get weda I av tasted real independent or nt. For me, my wife is my flesh nd dat means I wil b uncomfortable witout my flesh whic is she.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Foxie: 4:11pm On Feb 01, 2015

sexyseun:
At the Bolded, what does that even mean? Ex- best friend? SMH

Meaning his wife is now his New Best friend.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by ocelot2006(m): 4:14pm On Feb 01, 2015

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

Your first point got me laughing. Hold her bag in the market? You've been watching too many Telemundo series bruv. But nice story.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by tulk2mi: 4:31pm On Feb 01, 2015

I can do every thing. by myself, meaning I can last long without my wife, but she's like part of my furniture, if she's not there it's like something missing. I don't feel complete guess thats how much I will be missing her all the time am doing my gragra

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by 1dafullymade(f): 4:37pm On Feb 01, 2015

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

oh dear, i'm praying so hard with u as well....& i'm certain God will answer & grant our requests...!

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by kandiikane(m): 4:54pm On Feb 01, 2015

adamskutty:
come lemme marry u nau

lol I am not desperate to get married.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Ezeanna: 5:10pm On Feb 01, 2015

tulk2mi:
I can do every thing. by myself, meaning I can last long without my wife, but she's like part of my furniture, if she's not there it's like something missing. I don't feel complete guess thats how much I will be missing her all the time am doing my gragra

Na wa o....
Part of your furniture? Just pray your wifey doesn't stumble upon this post or you go know the true meaning of inyanga dey sleep, trouble come wake am.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:17pm On Feb 01, 2015

Kachisbarbie:
lols
My husband can't stay. Not because he can't cook or take care of himself.
Basically, all he wants me to do is wake-up by his side, happy every morning.

He won't even be able to eat because we have grown used to eating together over the years.

Nice one
How long have you been married cheesy

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 01, 2015

veave:

Honey, don't let the devil use anyone to curse you. Job 22:28, matt 18:18, james 3:5
Thank you

A curse can only hold if given by a spiritual authority, e.g spiritual director or parents. Anything short of these is a mere commentary.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by MzQueen(f): 5:31pm On Feb 01, 2015

veave:
Okay, I'm not married yet.

My dad is supposed to be a super macho man yeah?
When ever my mum travels...
First night: superman
In the morning: runny nose
Evening: head ache
Second day: fever don start oh...
Na so the poor woman go just run come back...
He will even wear her night gown sef...
I'm praying so hard for a love stronger than theirs...
Not just praying, shining my eyes too

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Feb 01, 2015

martyns303:
Frankly He's just being lazy.

How was he surviving before he got married? After marriage he relinquished basic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning etc solely to his wife

These are the reasons why a couple should do chores together. Cos she can be sick, pregnant, had a baby etc.
I hope he appreciates her more after coming to the realization.

Guys your wife/fiancee/GF is not a machine or a paid maid, if you can't do all those chores. How do you expect her to do them all alone and she's the weaker sex?

Here's a few tip on how i share chores.

1. Follow her to the market, am terrible at pricing things so I don't even bother, but I carry the bags, by watching, I now know how much a particular item should cost on average. I can now help ones a while with market, tho she always say they cheated me.

2. Am with her in the kitchen, I help dice okra, clean fresh fish, blend tomatoes etc. Now am a pro in cooking.

3. We clean together, Saturday being a major cleaning day.

4. I wash my own jean, and help with hers, while she washes all our clothes that require hand wash, she is very meticulous. Boxers, bedspread, towels etc goes to the washing machine.

Like my mom will tell us her male children, "men don't NEED respect, it is women who need it, between a man and a woman, the man will always be respected, he doesn't need what he already has"

wow this is super amazing. God bless you and your wife manh.

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Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by Edusouls(m): 7:35pm On Feb 01, 2015

shhh you can stay and manage ur life,dont put so much trust in a woman, cos when the dissapointment comes, it will be heart failure for you....

esoboy875:
I can't stay because my wife is my back bone. Stayin witout her is lik punishing myself witout ar present. I pray 4 God to help me wit an understdin woman.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by ejikeme(m): 7:46pm On Feb 01, 2015

cococandy:
Depends on what you mean @OP

Some guys can take care of themselves perfectly but are not fine being alone even for a few days without the wife.

I had to cut short a holiday I took because DH was mounting pressure on me to come back even though he can do EVERYTHING for himself.

Men

what i have learnt from some married around me is no matter how independent a man may think he is, the moment he's connected to a woman through marriage bound by love and understanding, never you separate the man from the wife. stories abound where the husband couldn't take the shock of their wife dying.

Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by cococandy(f): 7:48pm On Feb 01, 2015

ejikeme:

what i have learnt from some married around me is no matter how independent a man may think he is, the moment he's connected to a woman through marriage bound by love and understanding, never you separate the man from the wife. stories abound where the husband couldn't take the shock of their wife dying.

lol we all know men can't survive when their wives die. That's why they remarry in less than 6months. grin

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