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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Sounds like you have a good marriage. ![]() As you both work and both take care of the kids and the rest, how would the splitting of your properties in 50 / 50 be unfair after divorce? 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by raumdeuter: 8:35pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Babymama1: WHy would it be a problem to take financial care of a child I sired? No law needs to tell me to care for my child. Paying spousal support is what I wont and I have taken measures alredy against that. My wife is a high earner and wont ask for my money |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 8:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Off from what? He leaves the house daily and back at night, when he is back, he is served from the kitchen to living room and bedroom . . 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Dragonking: 8:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Honestly ..women prefer you tell them lies.. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by raumdeuter: 8:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Properties jointly acquired 50-50 would be split 50-50. If we jointly acquire a property, I would be a thief to want it all for myself |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:37pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:37pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: No dancing around in circles. If this is what you want, I am perfectly ok with it. Why would I even care? Do you want me to tell you what advantages there are in having a wife and a mother for your kids? Not my job. If you can't see any, that's your business. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:37pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:37pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Dragonking: You think the woman has no pride as well, you think it is easy for her to walk or call the cop that she has been beaten? Then, sum up the courage and dont worry about your ego to go and report if that is what you would rather do. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by raumdeuter: 8:39pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Noted. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
raumdeuter: And this is what happens in the West for MAJORITY of couples. They share bills and they acquire properties together. You can't look at these laws from a purely Nigerian perspective. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Then, you would NOT understand what we are talking about here . . . why NOT tell your wife to stay home and not work? Those things that MIGHT have been paid for cos it is NOT convenient is what your wife would have been doing either she likes it OR not if she was a stay home mama.... Anyhow, i wouldn't wanna be using your home as example cos i pray it will NOT break . . . so my brother, let us just back off the yarn jare. A woman that put her life on hold for the family MUST be rewarded if wahala hots the fan 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: You are dancing in circles my dear. I will repeat myself, if you don't see any use in having a wife, don't marry. Simple. If you do, then that is your business. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Una don hear am [size=18pt]If you don't comply your behind is ending up in the slammer [/size] All this back and forth is moot Officers with the Harris County Precinct One Constable's Office have arrested more than 40 individuals accused of failing to pay court-ordered child support. http://www.click2houston.com/news/dozens-arrested-in-child-support-roundup/26710434 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:41pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Didn't I say that earlier The only reason you get a divorce and get slammed with child support and alimony is because you got married and had kids To make sure that never happens,let them not marry As simple as abc |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 8:42pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: You go to work to make the money and you as the MAN told her to stay home and manage the home, you are paid for managing things at work and she ought to get paid for managing the home, while she is not paid, if you decide to kick her out, no wahala, pay her just like your employer will pay you off when they wanna fire you. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
raumdeuter: I am sure that this is true for more than 90% of all marriages in the West. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 8:43pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Babymama1: When will you understand what is being discussed No one here has any issue with child support If a woman has two legs and a Brain, why is she angling to get the mans wealth pre marriage 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:44pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Why should I tell anyone why a wife is important. Having a wife is important for some people and not important for others for different reasons. I don'T have to tell anyone why it is important or unimportant. You should be able to answer this question for yourself and all by yourself. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:44pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Dragonking: 8:44pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: you still haven't answered the questions... I ask, what do you think will happen when I go to the police station to report my wife who is maltreating me by slapping my face and hitting me on the head (even though it wasn't easy for me to do so)? what do you think will be their response especially from this part of the world we are in? Also, why do you advise men to walk away from such marriage but support the women to report similar incidents to the police, then get divorced and carry about 70% of the man's assets? why the biasness? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Is pre marriage wealth the subject of discussion here When did that come in? How many men in all sincerity had shishi to their names before marriage? Abeg 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 8:46pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: Sad you see it as those, i hope you would be proud to get home and open this thread for your wife to read all that you have said . . My brother, you will from that day kill something from her, cos she is as human as you are. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:46pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Babymama1: I have a better solution. If, like they say, life is so easy for women and marriage a lucrative job, then they only need to find a working woman who earns much money, marry her, impregnate her and look after the children, then divorce her and ....... voilà ..... they are rich. ![]() Easy, isn't it? ![]() |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by raumdeuter: 8:47pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: Some of these things we pay for include lawn mowing which is done every 2 weeks, Handyman work which is a daily thing, carrying the heavy load when we go shopping(Use Mexicans). We decided no one would stay at home and both would work. She put a lot into getting where she is and I wont be fair to tell her to stop working. WHy study for MCAT, PCAT, LSAT GMAT and all those exams and later sit at home. I wont want any boy to do that for my daughter |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:48pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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