rx1121:
Thanks everyone, i have given her so many chance for her to change but she still won't change. I hate talking about my relationship with people cuz i know we all have flaws in our relationship but there was a time that i was really sad and my mom had to beg me to tell her what's going with me , then she called her and talk to her . Infact my mom even supported her so she won't feel bad but she also advice her blah blah but till today my babe won't get over it she keeps telling me that my mom knows alot and that is not true. Even in her recent message to me she said i knew u already told your mom about this, i didn't even bother to reply cuz i know she don pass her boundary involving that innocent woman.

rx1121:
Morning my fellow Nairalanders , I just need your advise on this issue going on between me and my long time girlfriend , we never had an argument on any reasonable things than her material talk or needs, she knows I hate it cuz I like doing things for her out of pressure sometimes I even go extra miles cuz I truly love this babe tbh. We break up so many times but she begged and I accept her back but last week she said something bad and I can't take it anymore. She said am giving her ATTITUDE cuz I said "oh that's nice" to her material talk again and she also told me to check Instagram and other social network to see how girls are looking good, this is the girl that once told me that she never worn some of the clothes and other stuffs I bought her last year. I just can't take it anymore and since then I stopped talking to her and now she has been begging me again even tho I can't take it anymore I still need some matured advise. Why I post this issue is because she sent me a touching message even tho it doesn't touch my heart no more. She said I know u have a great heart please forgive me and stop ignoring me, I was like u know I av a great heart then u treat me like shit? Hmm u try lol

P.S : I'm not an attention seeker I just need matured advise as this happen to me for real and it's still fresh cuz it's just a week plus issue. I know many people will say am a fool but I don't care, I only need an advise. Forgive any typing error as my heart is running a relay at the moment.lol

ivyy:


Dickhead

rx1121:
Morning my fellow Nairalanders , I just need your advise on this issue going on between me and my long time girlfriend , we never had an argument on any reasonable things than her material talk or needs, she knows I hate it cuz I like doing things for her out of pressure sometimes I even go extra miles cuz I truly love this babe tbh. We break up so many times but she begged and I accept her back but last week she said something bad and I can't take it anymore. She said am giving her ATTITUDE cuz I said "oh that's nice" to her material talk again and she also told me to check Instagram and other social network to see how girls are looking good, this is the girl that once told me that she never worn some of the clothes and other stuffs I bought her last year. I just can't take it anymore and since then I stopped talking to her and now she has been begging me again even tho I can't take it anymore I still need some matured advise. Why I post this issue is because she sent me a touching message even tho it doesn't touch my heart no more. She said I know u have a great heart please forgive me and stop ignoring me, I was like u know I av a great heart then u treat me like shit? Hmm u try lol

P.S : I'm not an attention seeker I just need matured advise as this happen to me for real and it's still fresh cuz it's just a week plus issue. I know many people will say am a fool but I don't care, I only need an advise. Forgive any typing error as my heart is running a relay at the moment.lol

oloyolo:



Honestly u never disappoint me

diddydiva:
At op I will be direct and sincere with you.

Do you really know the lady you are dating?

how would a responsible lady ( if she is) allow herself to be touched and even controlled by the material things displayed on social networks. is she aware of how these people got what they are showcasing.

For how long will she continue to demand for these things?

how far can she go to get these things.

there is a saying that you don't know what you have until you loose it. And I think it's time to make her realize that.

Don't go back to her immediately or else she will continue to take your 'great heart ' for granted.


my piece

Beamborla:
Stop giving her excessively and see if she stays

rx1121:
Thanks everyone, i have given her so many chance for her to change but she still won't change. I hate talking about my relationship with people cuz i know we all have flaws in our relationship but there was a time that i was really sad and my mom had to beg me to tell her what's going with me , then she called her and talk to her . Infact my mom even supported her so she won't feel bad but she also advice her blah blah but till today my babe won't get over it she keeps telling me that my mom knows alot and that is not true. Even in her recent message to me she said i knew u already told your mom about this, i didn't even bother to reply cuz i know she don pass her boundary involving that innocent woman.

oloyolo:


Even tho I said I wld never quote u again

Best advice so far

But
This will the last time

ronald4lif:


Bro, which girl no dey demand? How many are they. True let him try to contain her demands but it can't be brought to a zero level. Women have needs that are to be met

diddydiva:

thank you !!!

Grandpa !!!!

happy Sunday

oloyolo:



Ok I will quote u one last time

Same to u

Btw I think am too old to be called a grandpa

malonephill:
can't they live if their needs are not met by men, that's why I dash out of so called relationship just tired of buying things for girls, I'm their parent

ronald4lif:

It appears she's got some bones to pick with your mom. I don't understand why she involves her in your affairs. Could it be that you are always quick to discuss your relationship issues with your mom or I just can't figure why she involves your mom in this

diddydiva:

what should I call u?

#thinking

Yeap!!!

Got it !!!


ANCESTOR!!!

rx1121:



I don't discuss my relationship with my mom or anyone, my mom noticed am really sad and she had to beg me to tell her what's going on with me. I think she's just looking for an excuse to put the break up blame on me. I don't even care at this point TBH

oloyolo:


Evil child

diddydiva:
At op I will be direct and sincere with you.

Do you really know the lady you are dating?

how would a responsible lady ( if she is) allow herself to be touched and even controlled by the material things displayed on social networks. is she aware of how these people got what they are showcasing.

For how long will she continue to demand for these things?

how far can she go to get these things.

there is a saying that you don't know what you have until you loose it. And I think it's time to make her realize that.

Don't go back to her immediately or else she will continue to take your 'great heart ' for granted.


my piece

ronald4lif:


Lol! You're not alone bro. Apart from the loneliness I think being single helps a lot. You run your own schedule, no one to argue with and most importantly you end up having better savings. The worrying thing sometimes is that even the working class ones who earns as much as you do still demands more than what you may want to sacrifice. This is the world we live in bro

kayciano:

I LOVE U

Mhizizzy:





God bless u for dah..........we gat needs although it sud not frustrate d man in our life buh we gat NEEDs

femcruz:

If u have needs go and meet your father to meet ur needs! The problem with most of u ladies is that u are never satisfied with whatever u have, that's why u suck every dick thats ready to meet ur vaanity needs. Get something doing!

Mhizizzy:





God bless u for dah..........we gat needs although it sud not frustrate d man in our life buh we gat NEEDs

femcruz:

If u have needs go and meet your father to meet ur needs! The problem with most of u ladies is that u are never satisfied with whatever u have, that's why u suck every dick thats ready to meet ur vaanity needs. Get something doing!

malonephill:
which loneliness, I swear I don't feel lonely, one of my ex girl, back then when we finished our ND's she worked in a bank as IT student earn 30k, where I worked they pay me 12k. I still pay her bills sometimes she would call to demand for somethings. Imagine


Me no dey that lane again jawe

Mhizizzy:

how Stewpeed are you?....my father is a man in my life so shut dah trash u call mouth if u can't read English and undastand...broke somebody..