Abeg leave the girl alone. She is exploring her body which is very normal. Why tell her mum or beat her? Damn you people are so backward. Abeg leave the girl jo, stop shaming her. She is 15 for God sake. Very age appropriate. It is very normal.

Smh! The world has really spoiled and i see no redemption in the nearest future. Maybe it'll continue this way till Jesus comes.

mirexxx:
hmmm tell her mom.
i know why am saying this

Nah, she might take it to another level shaa. Mothers do behave smhw sometimes...
The right person to talk to her should be d op or a qualified whats it even called...
Sex educator... Uhm, right?

She is a teenager..relax.

...How do guys like OP exist?...a 9yer old?? OP Is sick truss me!

falconey:
thankz .....thatz what I want to do, I bet she will hate me for it, and I pray her mum won't take offence( she doesn't like her husband siblings that much)

just let her know. even if she tries 2 deny it to cover for her daughter she'll think abt wat u told her and talk 2 her baby

elbinmanny:
the op don dey give u ideas

Me ke? ...Na d girls wey dey ask plenty na

I dont get what the problem is here.. Masturbation is normal.
Let the girl be, she probably just hit purberty & xploring her sexuality.
U should be more concern about teacher her about puberty, the likely changes she would experience, sex education & how to control her urge.

All these people I have mentioned are porn stars and self servicers in their respective fields and are employers of labor.












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Telling her mum will make you guys enemies for a long time. A brotherly piece of advice not to forget her studies between the two of you will do the trick.

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OmoAlata1:
Abeg leave the girl alone. She is exploring her body which is very normal. Why tell her mum or beat her? Damn you people are so backward. Abeg leave the girl jo, stop shaming her. She is 15 for God sake. Very age appropriate. It is very normal.

cirmuell:
cooked up story abi demential? Your first post said the brother is 11.

Where did you see 11?

She's experimenting with her body and whats happening is only a natural occurrence. What you as an adult have to do (or encourage her parents to do) is explain to her that you understand what is going on and that she's starting to discover herself as a woman. Then go ahead to teach her about se.x, stds and pregnancies. Do not shame her.

Good luck.


P.S: Next time be polite enough to knock before entering her room. She's a young woman and she deserves her privacy.

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

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AndreRose:

What was her look after you called her name? Was it someone that was caught in the act look or just a normal "oops my nephew saw me scratching my vagina look"?
She's your niece talk to her too.

Sarimah:
don't tell her mum yet ...why not talk to her first?wat was her reaction when she saw u?

I wonder o, you just saw what hundreds of other sec school girls are doing and instead of cautioning her you stand there like mumu.

Report to her mum, highest is for her to beat the girl and after that the girl finds more convenient means to carry on without being caught

Sarimah:
don't tell her mum yet ...why not talk to her first?wat was her reaction when she saw u?

I don't know what girls kept down dere dat dey keep scratching. d hormone in girls body dese days is something else

falconey:
you want me to video or snap my niece masturbating? Thatz clever

Yes, that's an evidence for us to believe this trash.

Zohan:

Nah, she might take it to another level shaa. Mothers do behave smhw sometimes...
The right person to talk to her should be d op or a qualified whats it even called...
Sex educator... Uhm, right?

okay then ur opinion

MrCork:
...How do guys like OP exist?...a 9yer old?? OP Is sick truss me!

The guy na mumu

Look for a verse in the bible that's against self servicing;and make her read it...after that walk away singing a christian song...anytym u see her watching anything funny wit ear piece on...*start singing that christian song again...you can use ds song..."You cannot hide it from God(2x);you may cover ur sins and nobody may knw...bt u cannot hide it from God;you can hide it from your mother,you can hide it from your uncle bt u cannot hide it from God...lolz...@ least this won't leave her wit a scar bt wit a moral lesson to @ least reduce the rate @ which she tinks of sex;bt apart from that,its totally normal and no matter what,she"ll kip doing it till she starts getting the real deal...

missjenna:
Op first of all, are you sure she was self-servicing?
What was her facial expression?
Did she notice your presence? If she did, what was her reaction?

If you actually believe she was self-servicing, I think the best thing is to talk to her mum.
Her mum should explain this things to her. She should know that its not right.

Parents should endeavor to teach their children these things early. Mothers should not shy away from sex talks with their daughters. It helps these girls to be aware of themselves.

Its really a pity that these days we can't curb the kind of things our this kids are being exposed to on a daily bases, both by media and by peers.

Talk to her mum for what, are you crazy? Whats up with all of you guys who can't comprehend the simple fact that boys & girls undergo changes at some point.

Would you prefer she goes outside to explore rather than taking care of her business herself?

@op mind your business, every growing girl will masturb*ate at some point, it's just nature & failure to acknowledge this means you're not fit to be a parent.

falconey:
thankz .....thatz what I want to do, I bet she will hate me for it, and I pray her mum won't take offence( she doesn't like her husband siblings that much)

Perhaps someone should tell your relatives about when do your own self service.

Can people have NO privacy from interfering busybodies these days.

Fourwinds:
I don't know what girls kept down dere dat dey keep scratching. d hormone in girls body dese days is something else

she wasn't scratching

she was masturbating

Bring her, let me knock her out, I have a ™.

mirexxx:
doesn't matter just let her know.
even if she tries 2 cover up 4 her daughter,i know she'll have thoughts abt it and talk 2 her baby!

telling her mum is totally wrong

mirexxx:
okay then ur opinion

Yea... It's normal with teenagers undergoing puberty... Its called Deep Sea Exploration.

falconey:
thankz .....thatz what I want to do, I bet she will hate me for it, and I pray her mum won't take offence( she doesn't like her husband siblings that much)

On that note, keep the issue to yourself and let the matter die like that... Simple.

Sarimah:
she wasn't scratching

she was masturbąting

They are mutually inclusive.

50calibre:


every growing girl will masturb*ate at some point, it's just nature & failure to acknowledge this means you're not fit to be a parent.

Sarimah, is this true?

OmoAlata1:
Abeg leave the girl alone. She is exploring her body which is very normal. Why tell her mum or beat her? Damn you people are so backward. Abeg leave the girl jo, stop shaming her. She is 15 for God sake. Very age appropriate. It is very normal.

" Omo alata "...Don't give that excuse please...
Today's bad habits ( nursed and pampered) are Tomorrow's struggles and failures!

OmoAlata1:
Abeg leave the girl alone. She is exploring her body which is very normal. Why tell her mum or beat her? Damn you people are so backward. Abeg leave the girl jo, stop shaming her. She is 15 for God sake. Very age appropriate. It is very normal.

my thoughts exactly. many hypocrites on here...