This is tricky, i cant beat my wife is easier to say than done...there ar lots of way to punish ones wife if she deserve it but i dnt pray for any scenerio that would leads to beating my wife...but if she carry pestle and i dnt av a way of escaping well for nw

debrihachi:

I do hit my bf and he doesn't hit back. ...... If u can't hit ur mother u should never hit ur wife

una see abi?
what kind of world do we live in?

men dey suffer too much sha...one is happy that she hits her bf regularly and am very sure most people on nl will think its ok.

50calibre:


I'm sorry but you are very stup*id for comparing a man's wife to his mum who birthed & raised him.

Idiotic comments like yours are the kind of things which might earn you a slap from someone like me. That boyfriend of yours must be the world's most idiotic guy, he's a perfect match for you.

Take off that blonde weave on your head so you can get fresh air, whenever black girls adorn ridiculous weaves like that, they tend to talk & act stupi*d

chai!!!
i go laugh till next week oh

Misogynist2014:
My kind of man, would have called you a real man but that word does not exist, so will prefer calling you a man. Just like the lady stalking me, women have to be viciously and vigorously caned from time to time in order to reason well, just like babies.

If according to you women have to be caned from time to time, then you also have to be tortured/burned from time to time.

Your own worse pass our own

The question is..What do u mean by if your wife fights you? Is it just a slap? Cos I imagine that's the most she can do. So u'll beat the devil out of your wife who you have more physical strength than.

Op there's is no justification for beating up your wife, except of course u have animalistic tendencies. As a post said the best kind of punishment to give to a woman is the silent treatment.

God help you the day u beat the devil out of your wife and the devil enters you and kills her...your life will be ruined, and trust me..women have been beating to death.

As for my fellow ladies...under no circumstance should you marry someone who doesn't have qualms about beating his wife, because from that moment your life will be ruined. And if you do, pack your things and leave after the 1st slap, even the bible allows divorce under such circumstances.
And no...don't consider that you have children with a man who treats you like a punching bag, cos when he's done with you and no one can recognise you (if u don't die sef) he'll marry another woman and either u'll either be without your kids or with your kids alone.

Becareful who you marry ooo...sometimes it's better to stay single than marry your murderer. Forget about societal pressure and marry a man that respects and loves you.

5minsmadness:

Bro, wetin u do?

Na small coded bleeping when backfire guy.

ccaramel:
malice is worse. Better to fight/ yell ,express your mind then make up right away or day after. My friend does the same. She doesn't fight her husband when he wrongs her....just ignore him for weeks. The husband go beg tire.

Which side r u? Ur comments not clear me.

The Poster is simply an attention seeker and I must confess that his aim of opening this thread have been achieved.

kestolove95:
If my wife. Raise ha hands. On me...I will just leav d house and come back at nyt...by den d devil go don leav her..may. God not let me raise on on ma wife

.....a non-solution proffering thot,........ by then she would have had enough time to soak your cane in rain water, so when you have fallen asleep, as she begin whip you, you go dey dream say rain dey fall!
Better wake up from your dream strategy of walking away and returning to a repentant woman.
I can assure you that next time, she will break your leg first, before beating you.
Marriage is a partnership, and you had better wake up to the responsibility of defining who the senior partner is and who the junior is.
If not your wife will decide that!
Reverence for the husband is vital in marriage. It aids your role as the head of the union and family.
Any being with two heads is a monster!
It's important your wife knows you are her husband and not son!
By the way, have you ever heard of a devil leaving of its own accord? There is no willing surrender of territories by demons. They are forced out. So wake up!

agentofchange1:





Any man who beat his wife for any reason is a BIG FOOL......I repeat , a BIG FOOL.

get mature guys........

na this type of man em wife go slap am,unzip em trouser and bite off his dicck...and when we see it in the news,we'll start asking how it happened...what was he doing before she injured and perhaps killed him...
no offense sir.

[quote author=rationalmind post=30984710]

You must have been watching lots of American movies.
Is not American film is true life n direct. U re nt even scared of beaten her. O boy nawa 4u.

XBLadez:
That's why it's good to fight ur girlfriends and determine their physical strength. Before person use mistake go marry female Klinchsko

lol oh!!
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaheheheheha!

Abeg, wetin i see for my eyes o!

Woman or man, why u wan fite like baboon sef. Ehn, unless ur intellect be so-so.

Op has got his reasons, just as everyone that make their intentions known...

Just as

katzz: wow women r not as strong as men are. Cant u just hold her and stop her.

as said...

I believe no lady is as powerful than hubby... even the fact that they call him their hubby make them restless to confront him...

But if we are to ever IMAGINE due to too much Hollywood movie (I used Hollywood movies cos nollywood movie don't go that length to show how disrespectful they are)...
I think I'll just tell her... "you look cute when u are trying to touch your man", but never try that...

kullozone:


na this type of man em wife go slap am,unzip em trouser and bite off his dicck...and when we see it in the news,we'll start asking how it happened...what was he doing before she injured and perhaps killed him...
no offense sir.

sorry sir..she won't even try that in the first place talk
less of the aftermath . but even if such "mistakenly" happens , they're better ways of handling such matters & not by beating /fighting her .


BTW: I'm still single.

rationalmind:


Even when she hits me first? I should fold my hands and watch as it turns violent and she injures me?

Sorry, like I said, I'll beat that devil out of her.

so you are longing for a fight so you can act? You sound so hash...

KoloOyinbo:


As an Irishman I was raised NEVER to hit a woman. If she raises her hand to me I will ward off the blows as best I can. Elsewise as a REAL man I can take anything she can muster!

In our culture only a GAY or a COWARD would strike a woman.

I appreciate some African cultures are different but all cultures have their positive AND negative points and on this particular issue I much prefer my own.

The alternative encourages violence against women which we see all too often.

Sir, do you believe that men and women are equal

Bridgetown:


Na small coded bleeping when backfire guy.

I feel u bro. Best thing to do in such situations is to plead for amnesty

this niigga is prolly one of the 21million nigerians being talked about earlier.

ekiloui:
The question is..What do u mean by if your wife fights you? Is it just a slap? Cos I imagine that's the most she can do. So u'll beat the devil out of your wife who you have more physical strength than.

[size=20pt]Op there's is no justification for beating up your wife, except of course u have animalistic tendencies. As a post said the best kind of punishment to give to a woman is the silent treatment.[/size]

God help you the day u beat the devil out of your wife and the devil enters you and kills her...your life will be ruined, and trust me..women have been beating to death.

As for my fellow ladies...under no circumstance should you marry someone who doesn't have qualms about beating his wife, because from that moment your life will be ruined. And if you do, pack your things and leave after the 1st slap, even the bible allows divorce under such circumstances.
And no...don't consider that you have children with a man who treats you like a punching bag, cos when he's done with you and no one can recognise you (if u don't die sef) he'll marry another woman and either u'll either be without your kids or with your kids alone.

Becareful who you marry ooo...sometimes it's better to stay single than marry your murderer. Forget about societal pressure and marry a man that respects and loves you.

.....hmmmmmm, ...........silent treatment for a wife who is beating the husband?
It is well!
I think you should know ahead that someone who can beat silence into you, can equally beat it out of you.
Chikena!

Ufodu ndi ji ogu bia, ha ji ogu bido. Uwa dikwa egwu.

Of course bro you can beat your wife and you will beat her but just remember the favour does not extend to another man's wife. So happy beating for you and your darling wife.

elantraceey:
Wow , can't believe someone is harbouring thoughts of fighting even before marriage

you are funny

People need to get real and stop arguing as if they were some robot with no feelings...... Some women are violent and only calm down when they get an equal or more violence in return. Only a disrespectful woman will get angry to the point of slapping or hitting a man. I have seen a woman slap a man and even spat on him during an argument.

It is so easy for men who have never been recipients of violence from such women to come out here and preach about not hitting a woman no matter what, that's a lie. 90% of male folks will respond equally at least to a woman that slaps or hit them out of provocation, we are all feeling human beings, it is only Natural to act in this same manner.

The preaching should be that nobody, be you man or woman should slap or hit anyone in provocation, no matter how bad it is...... Just as a man is expected to work away in a charged atmosphere, so should a woman do too. Any argument that seeks to suggest that even if a woman hits a man it is wrong for the man to respond back is hypocritical and playing to the gallery.....

i have never had to hit any woman that did not hit me even in the face of provocative comments, but I have had to respond in equal measure to a lady that pointed her fingers at me, pulled my trousers and asked me to do my worst, I shoved her and got a resounding slap that got me seeing stars that say get that bitch, the result was an equally reassuring thunderous slaps that reminded her that I could actually inflict even more violence on her than she can on me..... Everyone that witnessed the whole thing go down supported me because I had been tolerant enough to the point of empowering the foolish girl. Again, if a woman attacks me and expects me to just cowl in fear of not being seen as a woman beater then she is in for a big disappointment cos I won't hesitate to respond to her gesture. Na so.

debrihachi:

I do hit my bf and he doesn't hit back. ...... If u can't hit ur mother u should never hit ur wife

very soon you will be surprised when he fights back.

My dad used to beat up my mum back in the day and I can tell u its not a pretty sight. I feel there are other ways to punish a woman instead of resorting to physical violence. I personally will never beat up a woman under any circumstances because you lose all respect in the society. Its not going to be easy due to my very quick temper but I pray God helps me.

incrediblestev:
People need to get real and stop arguing as if they were some robot with no feelings...... Some women are violent and only calm down when they get an equal or more violence in return. Only a disrespectful woman will get angry to the point of slapping or hitting a man. I have seen a woman slap a man and even spat on him during an argument.

It is so easy for men who have never been recipients of violence from such women to come out here and preach about not hitting a woman no matter what, that's a lie. 90% of male folks will respond equally at least to a woman that slaps or hit them out of provocation, we are all feeling human beings, it is only Natural to act in this same manner.

The preaching should be that nobody, be you man or woman should slap or hit anyone in provocation, no matter how bad it is...... Just as a man is expected to work away in a charged atmosphere, so should a woman do too. Any argument that seeks to suggest that even if a woman hits a man it is wrong for the man to respond back is hypocritical and playing to the gallery.....

i have never had to hit any woman that did not hit me even in the face of provocative comments, but I have had to respond in equal measure to a lady that pointed her fingers at me, pulled my trousers and asked me to do my worst, I shoved her and got a resounding slap that got me seeing stars that say get that bitch, the result was an equally reassuring thunderous slaps that reminded her that I could actually inflict even more violence on her than she can on me..... Everyone that witnessed the whole thing go down supported me because I had been tolerant enough to the point of empowering the foolish girl. Again, if a woman attacks me and expects me to just cowl in fear of not being seen as a woman beater then she is in for a big disappointment cos I won't hesitate to respond to her gesture. Na so.

Gbam!
10000000likes for you sir!

ekiloui:
The question is..What do u mean by if your wife fights you? Is it just a slap? Cos I imagine that's the most she can do. So u'll beat the devil out of your wife who you have more physical strength than.

Op there's is no justification for beating up your wife, except of course u have animalistic tendencies. As a post said the best kind of punishment to give to a woman is the silent treatment.

God help you the day u beat the devil out of your wife and the devil enters you and kills her...your life will be ruined, and trust me..women have been beating to death.

As for my fellow ladies...under no circumstance should you marry someone who doesn't have qualms about beating his wife, because from that moment your life will be ruined. And if you do, pack your things and leave after the 1st slap, even the bible allows divorce under such circumstances.
And no...don't consider that you have children with a man who treats you like a punching bag, cos when he's done with you and no one can recognise you (if u don't die sef) he'll marry another woman and either u'll either be without your kids or with your kids alone.

Becareful who you marry ooo...sometimes it's better to stay single than marry your murderer. Forget about societal pressure and marry a man that respects and loves you.

It's funny how you didn't warn the ladies never to deliberately provoke their husbands under any circumstances. Either by words or actions cos violence beget violence. See how you talked about domestic violence like it's a one sided thing.
Double standards at its peak

Raypawer:



if u respected yourself enough she is not a demon to beat you first

God no go let u meet stubborn woman. Just pray for the grace of God to deal with such women and stop talking like a naïve guy

pomsky:


.....hmmmmmm, ...........silent treatment for a wife who is beating the husband?
It is well!
I think you should know ahead that someone who can beat silence into you, can equally beat it out of you.
Chikena!

Oga why should your wife be beating you? Are you married to the female mike tyson or something? How many women can actually beat up their husbands.

If you like beat your wife to death because u want to show how much of an animal can be. That's your biz

No real man will beat his wife and that's the simple truth...instead he'll hold her off from beating him

incrediblestev:
People need to get real and stop arguing as if they were some robot with no feelings...... Some women are violent and only calm down when they get an equal or more violence in return. Only a disrespectful woman will get angry to the point of slapping or hitting a man. I have seen a woman slap a man and even spat on him during an argument.

It is so easy for men who have never been recipients of violence from such women to come out here and preach about not hitting a woman no matter what, that's a lie. 90% of male folks will respond equally at least to a woman that slaps or hit them out of provocation, we are all feeling human beings, it is only Natural to act in this same manner.

The preaching should be that nobody, be you man or woman should slap or hit anyone in provocation, no matter how bad it is...... Just as a man is expected to work away in a charged atmosphere, so should a woman do too. Any argument that seeks to suggest that even if a woman hits a man it is wrong for the man to respond back is hypocritical and playing to the gallery.....

i have never had to hit any woman that did not hit me even in the face of provocative comments, but I have had to respond in equal measure to a lady that pointed her fingers at me, pulled my trousers and asked me to do my worst, I shoved her and got a resounding slap that got me seeing stars that say get that bitch, the result was an equally reassuring thunderous slaps that reminded her that I could actually inflict even more violence on her than she can on me..... Everyone that witnessed the whole thing go down supported me because I had been tolerant enough to the point of empowering the foolish girl. Again, if a woman attacks me and expects me to just cowl in fear of not being seen as a woman beater then she is in for a big disappointment cos I won't hesitate to respond to her gesture. Na so.

Were you born in Nigeria? Because you have a very exceptional perspective of reasoning. I couldn't agree more with you bro if only people can be realistic.
All this domestic violence related argument wouldn't have ensued if both gender have kept their hands to themselves.

seunoni34:

It's funny how you didn't warn the ladies never to deliberately provoke their husbands under any circumstances. Either by words or actions cos violence beget violence. See how you talked about domestic violence like it's a one sided thing.
Double standards at its peak

That's how most women are. Like I stated, I don't have respect for men who tee off of women for the heck of it, but with the way most of them acting, I lose sympathy for them.