TrishaP:
Have you disclosed these complains to her already? It's in your hands to put her to order, she is your wife. Tell her the about how you feel about the physical abuse and if she doesn't show any signs of changes then give her some space. Who knows....she might be going through something she ain't telling you.. Study and find her problem. To me I don't think divorce is an option here.

Omotolu:
...I like your initial response of not responding to her. Stop engaging her in any physical combat. Be the cool man, work away anytime there is disagreement.. .

Dyt:
Pray brother
Just pray

igbsam:


I came here to look at people's profile picture

and to read comments

and to occupy frontpage

and to look at the thread

and to see the silly man whose wife is beating him

and to see the op that posted this topic

and to see the mod that moved it to the frontpage

and to see how many views the topic gets

and to see who gets the highest number of likes

and to see how people will yab each other

and to see those that will shout GEJ till sh.it comes out

and to see the sai buhari crew

and to see the adverts people

and to see myself.

Mr And-to-ny...

I Modified it to tell u... This is the funniest post that got me "lolling" big time on Nairaland!

Funny you!

bokom:

We have a strong business together. We both play a big role in the company and the company is here in Nigeria.... She cant do her part of the job if we are divorced. Also for the record. she loves me so much, just that she wants it to be just me and her alone...no family or friends around

50calibre:


Dumbo!! For how long is he going to continue walking out when there's a disagreement?

LewisO:

Mr And-to-ny...

Omotolu:
...for as long as she resorts to violence...

Dragonking:


If the man decides to use the strength to solve the problem, people like you would be the first to call him a beast, monster etc...you can see why I called you a hypocrite... Now the woman beats the man, she is not a beast or monster and divorce isn't the best option..mtchheeeww.

olu77:


In a nutshell you need job abi?

LewisO:

Mr And-to-ny...

SirShymexx:
Lmao...emasculate men just make black men look soft.

Hey, just give her two shoulder punches and let her feel the pain without any scar and/or anything she can use as proof(s) of domestic violence . And trust me, she'll never try it again.

And if you live in Europe, go report the aggressive neanderthal to the social services.

But this is beyond hysterical. Sorry bruddah, I had to laugh.

Reference:


Women. When problem arises they know the man is captain of the ship but when the beastiness emerges they are lion and you are lion tamer. Kwarraption.

mascot87:
Hehehehehe
Your wife must be a PDP member

But seriously, you don't have to hit your wife back.What if she faints or God forbid she pass out during d process,what would be your explanation ehn. We will not be interested in all this your story of how she hits u first. Solve your problem in a diplomatic & civilized way dude.

M4gunners:
Bros only 10% of Oyibo will listen to any reason you will give her for giving money to your family. The guy is not the first person going through this at all. The reason it that they are not brought up that way . Everybody has his or her money. They are not used to giving. Op just divorce her before you kill her.

SirShymexx:
Lmao...emasculate men just make black men look soft.

Hey, just give her two shoulder punches and let her feel the pain without any scar and/or anything she can use as proof(s) of domestic violence. And trust me, she'll never try it again.

And if you live in Europe, go report the aggressive neanderthal to the social services.

But this is beyond hysterical. Sorry bruddah, I had to laugh.

igbsam:


I came here to look at people's profile picture

and to read comments

and to occupy frontpage

and to look at the thread

and to see the silly man whose wife is beating him

and to see the op that posted this topic

and to see the mod that moved it to the frontpage

and to see how many views the topic gets

and to see who gets the highest number of likes

and to see how people will yab each other

and to see those that will shout GEJ till sh.it comes out

and to see the sai buhari crew

and to see the adverts people

and to see myself.

Misogynist2014:
Completa

Prixus:
try this. when she's angry try to make love to her. let her beat u then rape her. she might end up enjoying it. I had a girl who was like that. each time we quarrel I'd be her then she'd calm down n we'd have set but one day I held her hands and got hard and then forced her to have sex surprisingly she came like never before and I realised it was a fetish for her. she loved being raped especially when we had a fight...

igbsam:


I came here to look at people's profile picture

and to read comments

and to occupy frontpage

and to look at the thread

and to see the silly man whose wife is beating him

and to see the op that posted this topic

and to see the mod that moved it to the frontpage

and to see how many views the topic gets

and to see who gets the highest number of likes

and to see how people will yab each other

and to see those that will shout GEJ till sh.it comes out

and to see the sai buhari crew

and to see the adverts people

and to see myself.

igbsam:


I came here to look at people's profile picture

and to read comments

and to occupy frontpage

and to look at the thread

and to see the silly man whose wife is beating him

and to see the op that posted this topic

and to see the mod that moved it to the frontpage

and to see how many views the topic gets

and to see who gets the highest number of likes

and to see how people will yab each other

and to see those that will shout GEJ till sh.it comes out

and to see the sai buhari crew

and to see the adverts people

and to see myself.

missjenna:
Op, I read your post and I have to say that I am sorry you found yourself in this situation.

First of all, the fact that you have endured through the beating and you have controlled yourself from hitting back all this while shows how responsible and mature you are. I wonder how many Nigerian men would let their wives hit them and they wouldn't hit back. Irrespective of her race.
Having said that, I think from everything you wrote, your wife is only annoyed because of the fact that you are giving financial assistance to your brother

Op, let me ask you this question, how huge is the money that you are disbursing to your family. Perhaps its a bit too much and hence your wife finding fault.
I believe you and your wife should sit together and talk things through.
Explain to her why you have to help your brother. Tell her that if not from the help your brother rendered to you, you wouldn't have met her in the first place

Your wife is a business minded woman. She believes the business won't grow as it is supposed to, if you keep on giving money out
I think you and your wife should sit down and plan your spending
You should agree on the amount of money you would dissipate to your family
I think she should understand

I also believe your wife gets angry because of the fact that you don't inform her before you give money to your people
You both run a partnership business with the same account number so its best you inform her before lending out money

Op I believe your wife loves you and you love her equally. Please don't let this issue lead to any problem in your marriage.
Your wife is hot tempered and you should talk to her. Caucasians tend to respond to talks
Sit her down and advise her to improve on herself. She can be better person.
Or better still, get the services of a marriage counselor

Op, I hope I helped.
I wish you success in both your marriage and business.

Thanks and God bless