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Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 1:26am On Mar 01, 2015 |
DollyParton1: It's an unwritten rule, and dads likewise do the same whenever mums and their friends are having a conversation. It just shows being respectful. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:27am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx:Hope you'll do the same. The world needs more men like you. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:30am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx:woooooow. are you this dense. This is not Saudi Arabia. There is no gender segregation on an OPEN INTERNET FORUM. The key word being "open" here. I dare you post such on Yahoo news and watch as they rip you apart. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 1:31am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Lool. Are you sure about that? |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:31am On Mar 01, 2015 |
aim5:Its an analogy not a direct parallel. 2, you're not Sir Shymexx. I stopped addressing posts to you the moment i noticed you watched a lot of boondocks. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:35am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx:The world is a global village. Black women are not a monolith. I'm betting you have a girlfriend now or have had sex with more women than you can count. Thats one effect on black women. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by DollyParton1(f): 1:35am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Good.... this is how you should have put it initially.... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 1:35am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: WTF. Boondocks? Anyways I hope you actually grow out of this feminist stage and become a respectable human being. Please? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 1:36am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Well, I don't do Yahoo News - the place is where nutters like you have ya daily swim. Learn basic etiquette and pass it to ya future daughters - you just don't butt into every convo, unless you're a sociopath. And you definitely sound like one right now. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by DollyParton1(f): 1:37am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: MarieSucre: Lawd!!! I cant deal. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 1:37am On Mar 01, 2015 |
DollyParton1: I'm out, man. The other chic done lost her marbles...or perhaps she's on her period, who knows? Cramps can be a biitch sometimes. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:37am On Mar 01, 2015 |
aim5:I hope you will stop directing posts at me till 1, you stop using swear words like an american-wannabe. 2, you stop with your condescending posts like your ancestors-wanabe:-) |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 1:41am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: You're so sexxy. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:42am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx:You butted into quite a lot of convos yourself too coz your history is riddled with 'quotes'. But of course it becomes 'ema-baba' convo when someone calls you out on your archaicly ridiculous misogynistic bullshit. and stop with fossilic diss of 'period cramps'. being a western-wanabe is not a good look. only children use insults to win. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:43am On Mar 01, 2015 |
aim5:Thanks hon. You're not so bad yourself. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: You've never seen me so you can't say that. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:47am On Mar 01, 2015 |
aim5:Well it doesn't hurt to say something nice to someone. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by MarieSucre(f): 1:48am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Well I'm off to yahoo news. not as much sexism or misogyny but a lot of religious hate. But at least you can call out the bullshit. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Dheartless: 2:00am On Mar 01, 2015 |
I love being a man just like the way some three brothers on here described how the black man nature should be |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by SirShymexx: 2:31am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Lmao... this got me on my Ric Flair shiit. And thank ya stars I don't have ya time. Else, you'd be crying right now. Ric Flair!!! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by jaydude(f): 4:20am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Justfollowit: R u sure u a female? Ur comments quite insensitive for one! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by wadremremmy: 8:44am On Mar 01, 2015 |
[quote author=bokom post=31170420]Hello Guys My name is UD (not real name), a Nigerian and i am married to European who is 10 years older than me. We met in Europe but got married in Lagos. Well, after our marriage, we always have family issues and fights like every other couple, but the problem i am having with my wife is that any time we are having our small misunderstanding, she always gets physical.. Initially, its just a small slap to my face and some nail scratching on my body here and there. And when this started in Europe, i will always try to walk away or hold her hands to calm her down, but seems the more i take the beatings, the more courage and bold she becomes in always hitting me during an argument or small misunderstanding with her. Recently, we both came back to Nigeria for a business we brought down from Europe, and since we started living in Nigeria, i couldn't hold myself any longer as i have tried so in so many occasions to avoid hitting her back, but at a point i couldn't take it any more and i had to hit her back! though not so hard, but like oyibos, her skin where i hit her turned purple color and the next day everybody at our office was looking at me like the devil himself and a woman beater... I felt very very bad that i swore never to touch her again! But last night she came all out for me again, hitting me, throwing lamps and whatever at me, and i lost it again and had to hit her! This time a bit hard! Please what am i supposed to do because i don't feel good after this fights especially when i have to hit her back. And some of you might ask, why are we always fighting Well, i happens to be the bread winner in my family, but my wife doesn't understand why i should give money to my brother to help him in his business or pay for a new home for my mum. She said my family is too lazy and they should go and fend for themselves. My family is all i had and i feel obliged to help them even as i have a joint business venture with my wife and we run same account, thus finds out anytime i give them money. My brother was the one who helped and paid for my studies in Europe when his business was moving fine...now i feel i have to support him too because he has some problems with his business, but my oyibo wife will not hear of it and thus leads to our fighting and she getting physical with me.. Please guys, advise me what to do if you are in my shoes...only matured advises needed. Thanks[/quote] u don enter trouble, cos u go married ur mama mate cos of money, y Nna go understand Nna self, O ti gbe egun elegun, meanin u don carry person bone |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 9:22am On Mar 01, 2015 |
MarieSucre: Damn!! You're really feisty! Your mariesucre, sucre means sugar, but all I see dropping out out your mouth is shi*t!! Or have you got that somewhere else, your puss*y perhaps? First SirShymmex is not 50Calibre, I am. I've seen your comments where you accuse me of advocating rape, lol what about my comment wast clear to you? Nah! I'm not advocating rape, I'm advocating greater responsibility. If you've read my previous posts, you'd see I'm against violence from anyone either man or woman. I'm tired of women being treated with kids gloves. Somehow women think they don't have to take responsibility for their actions, and that is why a woman would have the effrontery to physically attack a man So @ the bolded.... if you claim to be anti-violence, that means you're in support of men responding to violent women? |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by 50calibre(m): 9:26am On Mar 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: True talk! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Tymax(m): 11:02am On Mar 01, 2015 |
She hurled a lamp at you? Bro one day her missiles might not miss. Anyone who has such fierce, blazing, blinding anger is not a safe partner. Keep yourself safe man. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by FAJFARM(m): 11:34am On Mar 01, 2015 |
VickyRotex: Apparently, you are related to Shekau. Social networks don't fit pple like u. Instead save your internet money and give it to d poor VickyRotex: Apparently, you are related to Shekau. Social networks don't fit pple like u. Instead save your internet money and give it to d poor |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by venatus25(m): 12:31pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
igbsam:I really like your comment... Just sounding like me I'm tired of always commenting within the topic. Like me na phine gal profal pishures cally me com here o |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 1:31pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
venatus25: better oil dey ya head. we be brothers |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by VickyRotex(f): 2:34pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
FAJFARM: Okay |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Danvianey(m): 3:23pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
You should sit ur wife down and let know the reason<s> why u should offer help to your family.... Since you two runs a partnership business, before money goes out of the bank you two should be award and the purpose of money. THANKS AND GOD BLESS YOU! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by uncjay(m): 3:50pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
kandiikane:Like? |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by esiri4jesu(m): 3:54pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
missjenna: |
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