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Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 8:39am On Jan 21, 2015
I've noticed on Nl that you boys complain about how ladies are gold-diggers. I can't help but think this is a scapegoat for waste-men who simply can't afford to be a man. Young girls don't let these boys brainwash you because is he gonna sacrifice his body and life bringing your children into the world? Especially when he wants you to 'play' the role of raising the children. From the romance section I understand from the threads and comments that boys want you to be a freak in the bedroom, a waitress in the living room and a working woman in the streets. So what will they do if they can't even pay for dinner or buy you a gift. I think a woman who has all those qualities I mentioned deserves a man. A bmw driving, Armani suit wearing, shower you with gifts kinda man. So if your ass is broke then stay in your lane and don't expect of your woman what you can't provide because birds of a feather flock together. Make sure you're the type of man the woman your looking for deserves. And here endth my rant. Sorry I know this topic has been covered but I had to vent.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by banjicom(m): 9:00am On Jan 21, 2015
angry I comment my Reserve tongue

*waiting for other people opinion*
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by major466(m): 9:03am On Jan 21, 2015
*observing*
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by OGeeKush(m): 9:09am On Jan 21, 2015
*mouth agape* speechless embarassed
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Welrez(m): 9:44am On Jan 21, 2015
By the laws of feminism: What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. If she deserves a car owner, then she should work and own a car too.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by alberto2k(m): 9:55am On Jan 21, 2015
What is this one saying? undecided

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 21, 2015
I'm not a feminist more of a traditionalist but what I'm annoyed with is a generation of men who don't want any responsibility as far as a relationship is concerned. I believe good men are for good women so let good men prepare for good women. Because if we have children and I'm working who is gonna look aft who. Is he gonna cook and clean as well if so happy days. I have friends who work and come home to more work and they wonder why they're so unhappy.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by segxi1960: 9:55am On Feb 04, 2015
Very well said.

It's happens both ways in my opinion though.
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by cutieberie1(f): 10:21am On Feb 04, 2015
nyc1 op...
i noticed it too...its sad wat nl has turned some guys into...dey keep followin rules...
a gal must reply msg without wastin tym or i delete no gifts n so on....smh..
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by DieeDiee: 5:18pm On Feb 12, 2015
AMEN! There aren't many men on NL just a cluster of delusional little boys with metaphoric balls the size of marbles.
Problem is they suffer from SMS (small man syndrome) they know they ain't worth a grain of salt so they need to criticise and bring women down to make themselves feel better.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Feb 12, 2015
DieeDiee:
AMEN! There aren't many men on NL just a cluster of delusional little boys with metaphoric balls the size of marbles.
Problem is they suffer from SMS (small man syndrome) they know they ain't worth a grain of salt so they need to criticise and bring women down to make themselves feel better.

Hahaha baby girl you know what you're talking about. Men need to change with the times.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by change9ja(f): 10:27am On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:
I'm not a feminist more of a traditionalist but what I'm annoyed with is a generation of men who don't want any responsibility as far as a relationship is concerned. I believe good men are for good women so let good men prepare for good women. Because if we have children and I'm working who is gonna look aft who. Is he gonna cook and clean as well if so happy days. I have friends who work and come home to more work and they wonder why they're so unhappy.
we could actually make a shift
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 3:39pm On Mar 05, 2015
SILLY QUESTION

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:


Hahaha baby girl you know what you're talking about. Men need to change with the times.
i feel lyk slaaping u

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Mar 05, 2015
[quote author=Dimples192 post=

Hahaha baby girl you know what you're talking about. Men need to change with the times. [/quote] i feel lyk slaaping u

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2015
Welrez:
By the laws of feminism: What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. If she deserves a car owner, then she should work and own a car too.
U nailed it bro.... U nailed it bro....bro!!!
U own a car, private jet and a mansion is not a criteria u deserve a hardworking/trustworthy woman.
Most men own paradise yet treat women as dung, other men r comfortable yet threat their women as queen.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 3:51pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:
I'm not a feminist more of a traditionalist but what I'm annoyed with is a generation of men who don't want any responsibility as far as a relationship is concerned. I believe good men are for good women so let good men prepare for good women. Because if we have children and I'm working who is gonna look aft who. Is he gonna cook and clean as well if so happy days. I have friends who work and come home to more work and they wonder why they're so unhappy.
A man's responsibility to 2 cater, protect and love his woman. The woman is a help mate.
House chores has nothing to do with been a good man.

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 05, 2015
Godvilla:
A man's responsibility to 2 cater, protect and love his woman. The woman is a help mate.
House chores has nothing to do with been a good man.

May you find your help. I am an individual and a partner. We help each other.
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 05, 2015
change9ja:
we could actually make a shift
Shifts... like take turns?
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by change9ja(f): 5:19pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:

Shifts... like take turns?
Yeh sure
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:20pm On Mar 05, 2015
change9ja:
Yeh sure
That sounds like a plan right there
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by change9ja(f): 5:23pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:

That sounds like a plan right there
Yep, U were complaining how Guys wants D lady to do All d house chores, Taking Care of d Kids n Still Work...

I believe House Chores And Taking Care of d Kids should b 50/50 Btw Couples. For me, I would share dat shit with my Woman
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:34pm On Mar 05, 2015
change9ja:
Yep, U were complaining how Guys wants D lady to do All d house chores, Taking Care of d Kids n Still Work...

I believe House Chores And Taking Care of d Kids should b 50/50 Btw Couples. For me, I would share dat shit with my Woman

Hun your type are short within African men now a days. They want the traditional marriage where they take control and the modern theory where they want a woman who can also work and has her own life. And guys think we women are hard to please. It should be a partnership you know. Share everything have an equal. We are equal in our differences.
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by cyprianlah(m): 5:35pm On Mar 05, 2015
See them concurring! Always wanna rip we're they never sow

Op mama peace was instrumental to GEJ's education, look wat he is now

Can u beat ur hand on ur chest nd say I did dis for hm?

The ansa is NO' always want all ready made, always looking for ways to extort nd magarized

And if we are smarter dan u tot, u come up here nd put dis sh.it

I piri u gehzzzzz
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by change9ja(f): 5:37pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:


Hun your type are short within African men now a days. They want the traditional marriage where they take control and the modern theory where they want a woman who can also work and has her own life. And guys think we women are hard to please. It should be a partnership you know. Share everything have an equal. We are equal in our differences.
Yeah, I understand. I also blame ladies also.. I hope ur man is not like that
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 05, 2015
And I bet he is an ungrateful man aft she did that.
Why must there be someone who conquers? Why not mutual respect and partnership?


cyprianlah:
See them concurring! Always wanna rip we're they never sow

Op mama peace was instrumental to GEJ's education, look wat he is now

Can u beat ur hand on ur chest nd say I did dis for hm?

The ansa is NO' always want all ready made, always looking for ways to extort nd magarized

And if we are smarter dan u tot, u come up here nd put dis sh.it

I piri u gehzzzzz
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:44pm On Mar 05, 2015
change9ja:
Yeah, I understand. I also blame ladies also.. I hope ur man is not like that

I blame mothers who didn't show brothers how they should help their sister. And mothers who didn't show daughters how they should be treated so time will change things cause we are the future mothers who treat their children as equals. Daughters wash dishes and sons clean tables and floors. There are already a lot of men who are independent cooking and cleaning and they are proud of their independence. But we need more grin
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by cyprianlah(m): 5:52pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:
And I bet he is an ungrateful man aft she did that.
Why must there be someone who conquers? Why not mutual respect and partnership?




Ungrateful??
Wen he flaunts her all d place?

Switty stop dis nd build a man to ur specification
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 5:53pm On Mar 05, 2015
cyprianlah:
See them concurring! Always wanna rip we're they never sow

Op mama peace was instrumental to GEJ's education, look wat he is now

Can u beat ur hand on ur chest nd say I did dis for hm?

The ansa is NO' always want all ready made, always looking for ways to extort nd magarized

And if we are smarter dan u tot, u come up here nd put dis sh.it

I piri u gehzzzzz
Rip? Rip what? What are they Ripping? Or you meant R. I. P. Rest In Peace?

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Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by change9ja(f): 5:54pm On Mar 05, 2015
Dimples192:


I blame mothers who didn't show brothers how they should help their sister. And mothers who didn't show daughters how they should be treated so time will change things cause we are the future mothers who treat their children as equals. Daughters wash dishes and sons clean tables and floors. There are already a lot of men who are independent cooking and cleaning and they are proud of their independence. But we need more grin
Yeh, I support u 90%, we should blame fathers too. The examples they lay down, By sitting in d living room reading some silly newspaper while mother is busy fixing wat the family eat and also taking care of d Kids
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by cyprianlah(m): 5:59pm On Mar 05, 2015
Blackett:
Rip? Rip what? What are they Ripping? Or you meant R. I. P. Rest In Peace?

Ah feel bad for u son sad
Gerra cure for it embarassed

Maybe ripping a CD
Re: Can You Be With Your Dream Lady? Check Yourself! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 05, 2015
cyprianlah:


Ah feel bad for u son sad
Gerra cure for it embarassed

Maybe ripping a CD
Lol. It's really end times, if someone with dyslexia feels for me. . .

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