Evina:


you still doubting! God will prove Himself to you real soon.
Don't forget to share!

Honey he really proves himself in ways I can't communicate but I claim this one too I addition to then other blessings I get everyday. Amen

You too.

Joy1706:


Jst the way your mother is whoring herself out and calling it a job abi career. Hahahahahaha

Laughing alone at ur silly posts? It runs in the family.
How's ur mother? She still dey murmur for yaba left?
Just give it a year, you'll join her.

Abali1

dre11:



I have this feeling that the man lied verbally to the woman without her asking him to see the result of blood test...
Anyway, the man was totally wrong to have lied but she could have asked for the blood test result and not believe the mans word verbally to safe her the consequences of having a divorce so early in her married life

This is what must have happened and I blame the woman.The standard thing is to both go for the test together and when the result is out,the lab scientist or doctor declares it to you both.Same thing with tests like HIV.
You don't just take verbal statements as enough proof.

steppin:

Laughing alone at ur silly posts? It runs in the family.
How's ur mother? She still dey murmur for yaba left?
Just give it a year, you'll join her.

I'm laughing at your inherent stupidity which you obviously inherited from your parents and which you'll definitely pass down to your children. Now go and cuddle up wit yo mama, that's if shez not on night duty *wink*. Again, hahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!

cococandy:
My kid sis was once misdiagnosed to be SS and we spent quite a few years living in worry until sometime later when she was really sick and at the point of***

Another diagnosis from a better hospital revealed that we had been worrying for nothing all along.that was when we started looking for other sources of her illness and then discovered it was something else all along.
Because of the wrong diagnosis from where she was born,we assumed she had been suffering from sickle cell anemia all the while

Thank god she's all good now.

I'm saying your guy could have been misdiagnosed before now.

All these God-changed-genotype stories do sound quite far fetched.
....and needless to say it, I do not believe it....not even at all
no offense pls.

I truly did not wanna rain on her parade
....but that post can mislead a lot of people....add misguided faith to an already overblown "religiousity", bam! Sicklers everywhere!
Totally heart breaking seeing a sicker having a pain riddled haemolytic crisis

That post is an epitome of one of our biggest problems as a country..

am really surprised at posters saying "just because of genotype" seriously, if you don't know the pain and agony these ss kids go through you wont understand. the woman did the right thing. I personally feel its pure wickedness bringing children into this word to suffer all because of ignorance or "blinded love" on the part of the parents.

Though I don't support divorce but dats a serious matter. Come to think of it, if dey av SS child, d fin stress and traumal d child will go thru

Islie:




......... Is that enough to make her quit the marriage the husband query

Dyt:
Abali1

Why you dey call my name

Abali1:

Why you dey call my name

No vex
Actually wanted u say smth
But u seem not to be in a good mood

Dyt:


No vex
Actually wanted u say smth
But u seem not to be in a good mood

Am actually very much in a good mood. How are you?

Having gone through some of the posts in this thread, I will say those arguing that the woman took the best decision are right in their own opinion.
But let's also take the seriousness of the marital vow into consideration. What the woman is doing now is what she should have done during courtship. Being afraid of having a SS child is not enough reason to end a marriage. Moreover she already has a child, who is AA.
My question, why not stop at that one and give him the best you can offer? What if that AA had been SS and the husband decided to end the marriage, how will she have taken it?
.
My point is this,
1) She is already married, and her fears is not enough reason to seek for a divorce.
2) Her son will now grow up without the love of at least one parent. cos his home is already broken.
3) She could have chosen to give her child the best, and equally give hubby a choice in raising his own kid.
.
4) Being SS is not a death sentence. And I will continue to advice against AS/AS couple getting married. But since they were already married, she should tried to make her marriage work............etc

Joy1706:

I'm laughing at your inherent stupidity which you obviously inherited from your parents and which you'll definitely pass down to your children. Now go and cuddle up wit yo mama, that's if shez not on night duty *wink*. Again, hahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!

*wink*? Kai! This girl na Olosho!
Something tells me this silly girl is Dyt and she logged in with another account, just to breathe down on my neck.
Sadly, ur replies are boring. It doesn't amuse me anymore.

Abali1:

Am actually very much in a good mood. How are you?

Am fine

What if she wants more kids?
She shldnt have divorced?
And sometimes inlaws can be really crazy, Yoruba's will say olomo kan never born ooo.

Dyt:


Am fine

What if she wants more kids?
She shldnt have divorced?
And sometimes inlaws can be really crazy, Yoruba's will say olomo kan never born ooo.

what if her first kid had been SS? Would she have divorced?

Abali1:

what if her first kid had been SS? Would she have divorced?

So she cld have stayed?
I bet u, in no time that love they share will go sour

Dyt:


So she cld have stayed?
I bet u, in no time that love they share will go sour

I am saying, she should have stayed and given her son the best she could.
Divorcing the man on the grounds of AS/AS is just too flimsy.
Look at it this way, if her son were to be SS and her husband had left her (as some men do) won't the world be shouting how wicked men are?
.
Moreover that child may grow up without the love and guide of a Father.

Abali1:

I am saying, she should have stayed and given her son the best she could.
Divorcing the man on the grounds of AS/AS is just too flimsy.
Look at it this way, if her son were to be SS and her husband had left her (as some men do) won't the world be shouting how wicked men are?
.
Moreover that child may grow up without the love and guide of a Father.

Well we all are entitled to our opinions
To me, she clicked right

And who says the child will grow without fatherly love?

Abeg make I go chop before I start blabbing

Dyt:


Well we all are entitled to our opinions
To me, she clicked right

And who says the child will grow without fatherly love?

Abeg make I go chop before I start blabbing

It's actually funny how women tends to support a point of view when it favors them. But when the table is turned against them, they start screaming about how evil the men folk are.
I will still ask, if this woman's son were to be SS will she be quick to seek a divorce
If the hubby had left her because she bore a SS, will she also see it as being fair
.
By the way, the world has never been fair...... It's all about self interest.

Abali1:

It's actually funny how women tends to support a point of view when it favors them. But when the table is turned against them, they start screaming about how evil the men folk are.
I will still ask, if this woman's son were to be SS will she be quick to seek a divorce
If the hubby had left her because she bore a SS, will she also see it as being fair
.
By the way, the world has never been fair...... It's all about self interest.

Are u saying she shld wait till she's got one SS?
Na wa ooo

OK what if the child happened to be SS and she still leaves? Bad decision?

Dyt:


Are u saying she shld wait till she's got one SS?
Na wa ooo

OK what if the child happened to be SS and she still leaves? Bad decision?

I doubt that she would have left if the child were to be SS.
I am not saying she should have gotten an SS. NO.
Rather she should have taken into considerations that she already has a AA, and try to give that child a better life within the confines of marriage. If she needed more children there is always an option for adoption.
Moreover, she didn't consider her husband and ask the question......."if the tables were turned, how will he have acted?"
.
Courtship is a period of learning. A testing ground before marriage proper.
Why didn't she try to be double sure about her husband's genotype before signing the dotted lines?
.
Anyway some are even saying that marriage is over flogged.

thorpido:
This is what must have happened and I blame the woman.The standard thing is to both go for the test together and when the result is out,the lab scientist or doctor declares it to you both.Same thing with tests like HIV.
You don't just take verbal statements as enough proof.

That's where the woman did act foolish.... She believe her word and decide to go with the marriage plans
What happens to going together and have the test.

Am sure the guy didn't show her the report of the test.... She just assumed.

Maybe the guy says thus when in the heat of having fun with her and a guy can go to any length to have his way into her skirt and he says that.


The two are suppose to go there and have the test.
To me there is more to the divorce than the genotype

Abali1:

I doubt that she would have left if the child were to be SS.

U can't just be so sure


Not everyone wants adoption and sticking with just a child

Abali1:

I doubt that she would have left if the child were to be SS.
I am not saying she should have gotten an SS. NO.
Rather she should have taken into considerations that she already has a AA, and try to give that child a better life within the confines of marriage. If she needed more children there is always an option for adoption.
Moreover, she didn't consider her husband and ask the question......."if the tables were turned, how will he have acted?"
.
Courtship is a period of learning. A testing ground before marriage proper.
Why didn't she try to be double sure about her husband's genotype before signing the dotted lines?
.
Anyway some are even saying that marriage is over flogged.

Thank you sir for the emboldened part

Dyt:


U can't just be so sure


Not everyone wants adoption and sticking with just a child

Ok.
We can always agree to disagree.
And disagree to agree.

I know a colleague that the husband forged the test result to show he was AA . So for Those saying she did not see the test result how do we know .

A man that can lie about that will have told several other lies and he is Very evil .

If the lady had lied that she was Virgin and the man discovered that place was like a trailer park i am sure people here would have been calling for her blood

steppin:

*wink*? Kai! My mama na olosho!
Something tells me this silly girl is Dyt and she logged in with another account, just to breathe down on my neck.
Sadly, ur replies are boring. It doesn't amuse me anymore.

Aint Dyt and yes I agree wit u ....ur mama na olosho

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DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

I know the guy lied but somehow, i believe the wife was just looking for an avenue to opt out. I guess she already has someone or else, she wouldnt have vacated the house that way...

Seeing is Believing... even in ur marriage

DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

are you for real,I shake my head for you