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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2015
A lot of people still don't know the implication of this genotype tyn
lolaxavier:

I know the guy lied but somehow, i believe the wife was just looking for an avenue to opt out. I guess she already has someone or else, she wouldnt have vacated the house that way...
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by jericco1(m): 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2015
No be today
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by betrani(m): 8:30pm On Mar 07, 2015
Ohhh! I witnessed a similar case recently! In fact in my family! In this case it was the other way round; the lady according to the husband told a lie! I love my niece! With God she sure will grow strong and be a worrioress! Its not your fault dear that we were born SS! We rock! No mind them

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by crackhouse(m): 8:31pm On Mar 07, 2015
thorpido:
^^^
The two posters above me..............the situation this woman found herself is a very serious situation.The man lied to her but it's not just the lie but the consequences of two people with the AS genotype in a marriage.
As it stand now they have a high probability of having a child with the SS genotype.Dealing with that in a family is no child's play.
u dey mind them? They thought it's a minor issue that can be ignored.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by teejah03(m): 8:31pm On Mar 07, 2015
I feel she's quitting d marriage because of somtin more

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DuchessLily(f): 8:32pm On Mar 07, 2015
Ipledge:
are you for real,I shake my head for you

Yes I am.. grin

Don't shake ur head too much , lest it falls down tongue
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Joshuadon: 8:32pm On Mar 07, 2015
steppin:

Old hag, continue! You think I'm one of those guys you intimidate in the Romance section.
Silly rat!
Na ur papa u wan insult this evening...chiri iri!

nwoke oginii ?? Biko giri ya nwayooo........chetakwa na jisos na bia.......
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by hardeh89(f): 8:33pm On Mar 07, 2015
DuchessLily:


Yes dear, love , faith and pray

They r married already... If they were not married I would advice her/them not to try getting married @ all

But d has already been done
what's ur Genotype? If u r AS, dnt even dare 2 marry AS so as nt 2 regret it 4 d rest of ur life. People r nw gettin wiser n d rate of SS is reducing cos Love cannot heal a child dat is SS. Leaders r preaching against AS n AS getting married

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:33pm On Mar 07, 2015
DuchessLily:


Yes I am.. grin

Don't shake ur head too much , lest it falls down tongue
lets be serious,u mean u will continue if you are d woman
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DeBret(m): 8:34pm On Mar 07, 2015
That one no be true love ooooo... Shebi na for better for worse not for sweet for stay and for bitter for depart wink

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by veave(f): 8:36pm On Mar 07, 2015
Evina:


Upon receiving our pre marital medical reports, my fiance told me God changed his genotype, from AS to AA. I laughed it off, not because I don't believe in miracles; having personally experienced several, but because he could be very mischievous.

He insisted and asked me to ask his mum. So I asked, "mummy, what is your son's genotype?" She said, " AS". I asked again, for certainty, she said, "AS of course, what's the matter?".

So yes, God changed his genotype! Several tests confirmed it!

To those doubting the efficacy of fasting and praying, SMH. You are on a looooooong tin.



Thank God for you. If you know how many suitors i lost already just because of this issue.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Mayflowa(m): 8:38pm On Mar 07, 2015
cococandy:
What is wrong with people?
it is like some of you don't know how serious the genotype thing is.
If you knew you won't be saying this.

He shouldn't have lied about his genotype.

The one asking her to stay married and pray the next child doesn't turn out to be SS. SMH undecided

And if it does nko? Will prayers cure the child?
Isn't it better to separate than bring kids into this world to suffer needlessly?.
I'm so happy for this first one that turned out alright.

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4k for monthly feeding of the child?
This magistrate na wa.
Does the child each only crackers and water?

I hope u saw the part of educational and medical allowances? Moreso, this guy is a factory assistant,so what do u expect? He also didn't bring the child alone into the world. The mother should play her own part too espectially when shei s fully aware of the lone responsibility that goes with the divorce she asked for.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Blackkie: 8:38pm On Mar 07, 2015
Genotype wahala pass wahala.
She is right to move on!
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 07, 2015
Nah this small thing make these two old yoruba coupled to go to court?

Ppl self the find their own baby yet them neva see anyone despite their everyday prayer.

Una wey Baba God don bless with one child,
Una stl get mind go court say wife say nd husband no say........

Jobless minded coupled abeg make una go rest with una nonsense complain.......

Them say nah geny..waiting self? No vex I don forget am.......
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by kevoh(m): 8:39pm On Mar 07, 2015
It's already difficult for a man to find an eligible spinster who has the good qualities like women had back in the 70s and 80s(not nowadays), after finding one you then discard her because you are both AS? undecided YOU GO TAY WELL WELL BEFORE YOU MARRY BE THAT

Oh by the way, AA do change to AS in some cases that's number 1, Nigerian Labs misdiagnose the whole genotype thingy sometimes. You could be made to believe that you are AA from birth by some labs meanwhile you are AS.

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by donodion(m): 8:40pm On Mar 07, 2015
cococandy:
What is wrong with people?
it is like some of you don't know how serious the genotype thing is.
If you knew you won't be saying this.

He shouldn't have lied about his genotype.

The one asking her to stay married and pray the next child doesn't turn out to be SS. SMH undecided

And if it does nko? Will prayers cure the child?
Isn't it better to separate than bring kids into this world to suffer needlessly?.
I'm so happy for this first one that turned out alright.

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4k for monthly feeding of the child?
This magistrate na wa.
Does the child each only crackers and water?
Husband is a factory worker.in Nigeria how much does a factory worker as n per month ? N4000 plus my medical and education...that cold justice I'd say.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by HOPE8888(m): 8:40pm On Mar 07, 2015
Hmmmmmm.... Genotype issue no b small thing oooo.... The girl I asked out was AS, I checked mine recently thinking I was AA but turned out to be AS.... The situation is weighing me down ATM.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DuchessLily(f): 8:40pm On Mar 07, 2015
Ipledge:
lets be serious,u mean u will continue if you are d woman

If I love d man and no other motive of leaving him, why not?? One child is enof, even if I want one more, its not me who lied, God will not prefer a divorce.. Den na to pray and have faith. God makes ALL impossibilities possible

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by smudge2079(m): 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2015
She did what she has to do..... Life goes on
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DeBret(m): 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2015
veave:




Thank God for you. If you know how many suitors i lost already just because of this issue.
miracle indeed
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by pinkyruledworld(m): 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2015
Great woman, evtremely wiser than the foolish husband. U did a great thing because once u have a child with SS its a great problem, and i cant imagine me being an SS, i will curse my parent
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by donodion(m): 8:43pm On Mar 07, 2015
taryour:
That woman took the best decision she could ever take in her life. All you posters saying she made the wrong move,I wonder what you would if they end up having a child who is ss. Abeg leave matter you wunt be there to nurse a sick child with her o.
I support her decision too.I've witnessed twice the passing v away of two SS genotype youngsters.Not something any parent would wish to be encounter.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by shejane: 8:45pm On Mar 07, 2015
Is her call and she made the right call

Marriage of deceit

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by xtervaganza(m): 8:47pm On Mar 07, 2015
Only illiterates will go ahead and continue with the relationship




The woman is 100% right
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DeBret(m): 8:49pm On Mar 07, 2015
pinkyruledworld:

Great woman, evtremely wiser than the foolish husband. U did a great thing because once u have a child with SS its a great problem, and i cant imagine me being an SS, i will curse my parent
OK the future is coming
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:51pm On Mar 07, 2015
nofin annoys me more dan to c some sily morons mention god's name while an issue dat requires facts is on deck......u clergy hags had berra find where 2 stick ur pocker heads in

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Engrkay11(m): 8:51pm On Mar 07, 2015
DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

I think d woman basis for divorce is justifiable. Since both having the same genotype AS, there is tendency dat one of their offsprings (children) could b a sickler SS. Though , religiously this is determined by God , biologically there is chances of one out of four (25%) of having SS. For me i dont blame her if her faith could not bear it, let the woman be.
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by yahaya2014(m): 8:51pm On Mar 07, 2015
Islie:




......... Is that enough to make her quit the marriage the husband query
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 8:53pm On Mar 07, 2015
DuchessLily:

If I love d man and no other motive of leaving him, why not?? One child is enof, even if I want one more, its not me who lied, God will not prefer a divorce.. Den na to pray and have faith. God makes ALL impossibilities possible

[b] I've been following your posts for sometime now.

You talk like someone who has been utterly & irrevocably brainwashed.

You type like a primary school dropout.

What has god got to do with as/as marriage?

Its plain simple that if they give birth to another issue, his/her genotype is bound to be either as/ss.

WTF is wrong with you people?

God would even punish people like you who advice others wrongly.
When you sit in the comfort of that your bacha & type rubbish in the name of giving "advice" & the repercussion comes out, would you be there to face it with the couple?

If you know nothing about something, why don't you do research on it or SHUT THE HELL UP?!??

Your type makes me wanna puke.

Get a life & stop doling out stupid & ignorant thrash in the name of giving out "advice" undecided



****

As for the Lady in question, she did the right thing.

If I find myself in her situation 1million times, I'd do the same thing 1million times [/b]

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by yahaya2014(m): 8:54pm On Mar 07, 2015
DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?
The problem we certainly in dis country is dat we are too over religious..

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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 07, 2015
kevoh:
It's already difficult for a man to find an eligible spinster who has the good qualities like women had back in the 70s and 80s(not nowadays), after finding one you then discard her because you are both AS? undecided YOU GO TAY WELL WELL BEFORE YOU MARRY BE THAT

Oh by the way, AA do change to AS in some cases that's number 1, Nigerian Labs misdiagnose the whole genotype thingy sometimes. You could be made to believe that you are AA from birth by some labs meanwhile you are AS.

or even believe u r aa whereas u r a certified ss,not until he starts experiencing d crisis will he be promted 4 anoda confirmation test.....but it still shudders me that @ dis golden age ppl still carry around dat poor thinkin dat science is actually wrong,not knwin dat dey r infact ignorant
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by stingbreed(m): 8:56pm On Mar 07, 2015
The lady made d right choice but it seems she has had a first hand experience with someone with ss genotype,,,, the man shouldn't have lied cos this is a very serious issue

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