Smartestelvis:
.....but it still shudders me that @ dis golden age ppl still carry around dat poor thinkin dat science is actually wrong,not knwin dat dey r infact ignorant

DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

decode55:


[b] I've been following your posts for sometime now.

You talk like someone who has been utterly & irrevocably brainwashed.

You type like a primary school dropout.

What has god got to do with as/as marriage?

Its plain simple that if they give birth to another issue, his/her genotype is bound to be either as/ss.

WTF is wrong with you people?

God would even punish people like you who advice others wrongly.
When you sit in the comfort of that your bacha & type rubbish in the name of giving "advice" & the repercussion comes out, would you be there to face it with the couple?

If you know nothing about something, why don't you do research on it or SHUT THE HELL UP?!??

Your type makes me wanna puke.

Get a life & stop doling out stupid & ignorant thrash in the name of giving out "advice"



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As for the Lady in question, she did the right thing.

If I find myself in her situation 1million times, I'd do the same thing 1million times [/b]

decode55:


[b] I've been following your posts for sometime now.

You talk like someone who has been utterly & irrevocably brainwashed.

You type like a primary school dropout.

What has god got to do with as/as marriage?

Its plain simple that if they give birth to another issue, his/her genotype is bound to be either as/ss.

WTF is wrong with you people?

God would even punish people like you who advice others wrongly.
When you sit in the comfort of that your bacha & type rubbish in the name of giving "advice" & the repercussion comes out, would you be there to face it with the couple?

If you know nothing about something, why don't you do research on it or SHUT THE HELL UP?!??

Your type makes me wanna puke.

Get a life & stop doling out stupid & ignorant thrash in the name of giving out "advice"



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As for the Lady in question, she did the right thing.

If I find myself in her situation 1million times, I'd do the same thing 1million times [/b]

Abali1:
Having gone through some of the posts in this thread, I will say those arguing that the woman took the best decision are right in their own opinion.
But let's also take the seriousness of the marital vow into consideration. What the woman is doing now is what she should have done during courtship. Being afraid of having a SS child is not enough reason to end a marriage. Moreover she already has a child, who is AA.
My question, why not stop at that one and give him the best you can offer? What if that AA had been SS and the husband decided to end the marriage, how will she have taken it?
.
My point is this,
1) She is already married, and her fears is not enough reason to seek for a divorce.
2) Her son will now grow up without the love of at least one parent. cos his home is already broken.
3) She could have chosen to give her child the best, and equally give hubby a choice in raising his own kid.
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4) Being SS is not a death sentence. And I will continue to advice against AS/AS couple getting married. But since they were already married, she should tried to make her marriage work............etc

DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

Abali1:
Having gone through some of the posts in this thread, I will say those arguing that the woman took the best decision are right in their own opinion.
But let's also take the seriousness of the marital vow into consideration. What the woman is doing now is what she should have done during courtship. Being afraid of having a SS child is not enough reason to end a marriage. Moreover she already has a child, who is AA.
My question, why not stop at that one and give him the best you can offer? What if that AA had been SS and the husband decided to end the marriage, how will she have taken it?
.
My point is this,
1) She is already married, and her fears is not enough reason to seek for a divorce.
2) Her son will now grow up without the love of at least one parent. cos his home is already broken.
3) She could have chosen to give her child the best, and equally give hubby a choice in raising his own kid.
.
4) Being SS is not a death sentence. And I will continue to advice against AS/AS couple getting married. But since they were already married, she should tried to make her marriage work............etc

kevoh:

Come again! Please rephrase this part!

DuchessLily:
Eyaahh.... Ok he lied, agreed..But wife u already have a child nau, and d child baby boy is AA. U can still be married to ur hubby, forgive him

U can add one more child, with faith and prayer ur next child will not be SS

Maybe u don't love ur hubby anymore?

Fawklicant:



My dear, this is a serious issue. The trauma associated with raising an SS child is not what any parent would want to relive. It is just too much. The frequent trips to the hospital in the middle of the night, the sleepless nights, the agony of watching the child suffer for the sins of the parents, living in constant fear that all your love and care for the child could all be in vain, the anxiety, all the physical and emotional toll it takes on all involved, not forgetting the money that would be expended, trust me it is not 'beans'. No child should have to suffer for their parents' indiscretion. In the end, the happiness the parents seek by being together in union would have been annulled by the trauma of seeing their seed go in and out of crisis.

The couple got lucky with the first child, let them leave it at that. If they happen to get back together, they should consider adopting.

cococandy:
My kid sis was once misdiagnosed to be SS and we spent quite a few years living in worry until sometime later when she was really sick and at the point of***

Another diagnosis from a better hospital revealed that we had been worrying god nothing all along.that was when we started looking for other sources of her illness and then discovered it was something else all along.
Because of the wrong diagnosis from where she was born,we assumed she had been suffering from sickle cell anemia all the while

Thank god she's all good now.

I'm saying your guy could have been misdiagnosed before now.

All these God-changed-genotype stories do sound quite far fetched.
no offense pls.

DuchessLily:


God bless u for ur insults

Its my opinion, which I have a right to ...its none of ur business . get off my mention

People like you shouldn't be allowed to have opinions.

You shouldn't even be allowed to roam the streets freely.

With this kind of "advice" you're giving, You're a walking time bomb.

You should be bound hand & foot, gagged with an oily rag & thrown into a dungeon somewhere

soulglo:


You've focused on the suffering of the parents and not even the child. The pain and suffering that child will suffer because their father consciously made that choice.

I feel sorry for the one that said pray that the next child does not end up being SS. You are everything that is wrong with this world.

CounsellorWise:


Be plain enough! You don't believe in GOD'S ability to do such a miracle! Give the glory to medical science and perhaps the devil since that sounds more logical to believe. Faithless generation of regular church guests!

this line you're towing is a two-way thing. You know?

I could also say you've been radicalized.

We all know there's a God up there somewhere. (Even Science proves it)

But deciding to "try" God & wait for Him to perform a "miracle" in such a situation would even pull the couple farther away from the said God.

Madam, park well, don't shove your religion down someone else's throat

decode55:


People like you shouldn't be allowed to have opinions.

You've shouldn't even be allowed to roam the streets freely.

With this kind of "advice" you're giving, You're a walking time bomb.

You should be bound hand & foot, gagged with an oily rag & thrown into a dungeon somewhere

veave:




Thank God for you. If you know how many suitors i lost already just because of this issue.

decode55:


People like you shouldn't be allowed to have opinions.

You've shouldn't even be allowed to roam the streets freely.

With this kind of "advice" you're giving, You're a walking time bomb.

You should be bound hand & foot, gagged with an oily rag & thrown into a dungeon somewhere

Islie:




......... Is that enough to make her quit the marriage the husband query

Evina:


Wow!
Well, you better start fasting n praying oh!!!

veave:



You will not understand. Well, my faith is unwaivering. Some have it smooth, some have it tough but we all get there in appropriate time.

Evina:


He will bring you your perfect gift in the perfect time.
#hugs.

Fawklicant:



Easy bro. I get that you are pretty exasperated right now but she is entitled to her opinion. Everybody is. Quit with the insults, it is a petty way of handling a discourse like this. Some people here need to be informed and properly educated on these things and raining insults on them isn't gonna cut it. It would rather have the opposite effect.

Let us educate one another, this is a serious issue.

Dude, my problem with this particular female is that she knows nothing about an issue as grave as this.

& she's dishing out "advice" like one consultant pediatrician.

I get your point about the whole enlightenment thing but some certain people need to be put in their place

harry509:
ummmM! I don't tink dats is her main reason 2 divorce husbnd. Sumtin tell's me dat she meant by havin 1 borbor @ side who know's more dan her husband. Bcus nigeria women Rr nt 2rusted animo xpcially d gals.

decode55:


this line you're towing is a two-way thing. You know?

I could also say you've been radicalized.

We all know there's a God up there somewhere. (Even Science proves it)

But deciding to "try" God & wait for Him to perform a "miracle" in such a situation would even pull the couple farther away from the said God.

Madam, park well, don't shove your religion down someone else's throat