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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by kay29000(m): 10:19am On Mar 21, 2015
Edusouls:
is very simple, we planted the seeds of lies,dishonesty,mistrust,cheating,joking with each others feelings, and we practices wickedness with joy and commitment, what u sow u reap, we are reaping of harvest brother.

Hmm! True.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by kay29000(m): 10:20am On Mar 21, 2015
Ikengawo:


We have completely trashed our cultural values, that's why.
Also as societies get more prosperous, it's move difficult to maintain a low divorce rate.

Hmm! I really want to understand why that part is so.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by kay29000(m): 10:21am On Mar 21, 2015
Emmahunk:


Simple. Because women no longer call their husbands ' my lord' neither do they see them as such anymore. Contrary to how it was some light years away.
Civilisation, women lib, career, education etc all stem from this simple reason.

Ok.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by kay29000(m): 10:23am On Mar 21, 2015
Thank you all for the great comments...They have been very enlightening.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 10:24am On Mar 21, 2015
Justfollowit:

I don't know

You are the man

You tell me

But I will not use something that petty to describe a man
His administrative prowess.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 10:35am On Mar 21, 2015
Misogynist2014:
His administrative prowess.

I think the relationship between a husband and his wife should be like a partnership and yhe same a team work (leader and team members)

Not a master and slave relationship
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Misogynist2014(m): 10:51am On Mar 21, 2015
Justfollowit:


I think the relationship between a husband and his wife should be like a partnership and yhe same a team work (leader and team members)

Not a master and slave relationship
You are right.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by 400billionman: 11:02am On Mar 21, 2015
kay29000:


If I knew, I wound't be asking.

It may be your fault. You are not a good best man.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by nkemdi89(f): 11:08am On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:


That your friend na joke

The husband is better off without her.
That's what happen when you threat your girlfriend like trophy during courtship. The man no longer threats her the way he used to before.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by bukatyne(f): 11:11am On Mar 21, 2015
nkemdi89:

That's what happen when you threat your girlfriend like trophy during courtship. The man no longer threats her the way he used to before.

Treat GF like trophy How?
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by winner01(m): 11:11am On Mar 21, 2015
Vickybee:

1. Men are Sexists and Chauvinistic in nature

Most men are sexists and chauvinistic in nature therefore making them selfish and loathe independent women. They make denigrating remarks about women and you don't expect a serious, logical and virtuous woman to remain with such a rètarded being.
Women in other hand, are peace loving and cool but their anti-feminism husband keeps antagonising them and they don't have an option but divorce him.

undecided



Thunder fire each and every guy that quoted me on this thread.
Y'all didn't see that the first point raised by dude above me is anti-feminism/woman but choose to attack me for airing mine.

Bunch of hypocrites.
there is nothing like independence in marriage, stay single if you want to be independent...or drop all ds devilish new world introductions

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by ojosam29: 11:22am On Mar 21, 2015
These day bachelors and sprinters are no longer seek d face of God in respect to marriage d moment d presence of God is not available in marriage,a lot of mis-marriage here and there is been conducted in Churches. God will have marcy on us.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by nkemdi89(f): 11:28am On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:


Treat GF like trophy How?
During courtship he was worshipping her like one goddess just to make sure she agreed to his proposal cos she was an hot cake and she expected same to continue after marriage.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by bukatyne(f): 11:39am On Mar 21, 2015
nkemdi89:

During courtship he was worshipping her like one goddess just to make sure she agreed to his proposal cos she was an hot cake and she expected same to continue after marriage.

The guy is solely at fault then

I think the marriage was salvageable If they were willing to start courting afresh in the marriage

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by nkemdi89(f): 11:42am On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:


The guy is solely at fault then

I think the marriage was salvageable If they were willing to start courting afresh in the marriage
They gone their seperate ways now .
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by bukatyne(f): 12:16pm On Mar 21, 2015
nkemdi89:

They gone their seperate ways now .
Sad
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 21, 2015
Keep giving me mentions. I'm enjoying it.
Bunch of good-for-nothing men.

I'm responsible for whatever I type. tongue

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
Vickybee:
Keep giving me mentions. I'm enjoying it.
Bunch of good-for-nothing men.

I'm responsible for whatever I type. tongue

Awwww you're angry?
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by InHim4Him(m): 12:33pm On Mar 21, 2015
Vickybee:

1. Men are Sexists and Chauvinistic in nature

Most men are sexists and chauvinistic in nature therefore making them selfish and loathe independent women. They make denigrating remarks about women and you don't expect a serious, logical and virtuous woman to remain with such a rètarded being.
Women in other hand, are peace loving and cool but their anti-feminism husband keeps antagonising them and they don't have an option but divorce him.

undecided



Thunder fire each and every guy that quoted me on this thread.
Y'all didn't see that the first point raised by dude above me is anti-feminism/woman but choose to attack me for airing mine.

Bunch of hypocrites.

Sorry! I feel your pain and frustration. But who have you helped by your present position?
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Mar 21, 2015
aim5:


Awwww you're angry?
Angry for what? I hit a nerve and I can feel the effect on them. undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by KanwuliaJara: 12:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
smartigo:

shocked shocked Nothing to munch on again. grin grin.
How are u? It's been awhile.

Hahahahaha

I dey kamkpeeeeeee!!!!
Open marriage na the best ke!

No ACRIMONY in MATRIMONY!
Tell the "novices" please!
Newly-weds go cry taya I telly YA! Dem think say na virginity and fruit of the womb and blokos be the h-answer to all marriage problems!
Dem go fast and pray taya ke!!!!
MUCHECHECHECHECHE


Soooooo busy making TOOOOOO MUCH MONEY I swear!!!!! grin
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
Vickybee:

Angry for what? I hit a nerve and I can feel the effect on them. :\

Trust me you're angry. And how are most men sexist? Especially in today's society that is filled with manginas who worship the very feet women stand on.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 21, 2015
aim5:


Trust me you're angry. And how are most men sexist? Especially in today's society that is filled with manginas who worship the very feet women stand on.
Worship women feets, you say? That's because they want something in return and after they have gotten it, their true colour shows.

They are worst especially married ones who feels it's their right.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by smartigo: 12:47pm On Mar 21, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Hahahahaha

I dey kamkpeeeeeee!!!!
Open marriage na the best ke!

No ACRIMONY in MATRIMONY!
Tell the "novices" please!
Soooooo busy making TOOOOOO MUCH MONEY I swear!!!!! grin
Walahi, i dey gbadun u grin grin grin. But you know that open marriage is anti-African in its ideology. It can't work here except to promote western ideology that doesn't last but promotes lewdness.

I have no problem with whatever rocks people's boat;however, we should understand it's effect on the society as a whole.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by lastpage: 12:48pm On Mar 21, 2015
Justfollowit:


I can't remember

Yeah, that is quite honourable of him

He is not going to use and dump her like a piece of shit


What can you remember sef? sad shocked shocked
Everything, "I cant remember"!.... Wetin do ya brain?

Say the truth, you never read the book!

Lastpage!
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by smartigo: 12:50pm On Mar 21, 2015
Vickybee:

Worship women feets, you say? That's because they want something in return and after they have gotten it, their true colour shows.

They are worst especially married ones who feels it's their right.
Now you are generalizing. Typing from experience , hearsay or research?
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 21, 2015
lastpage:


What can you remember sef? sad shocked shocked
Everything, "I cant remember"!.... Wetin do ya brain?

Say the truth, you never read the book!

Lastpage!

You have a problem cheesy
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Mar 21, 2015
smartigo:

Now you are generalizing. Typing from experience , hearsay or research?
Reasearch and seen.
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by KanwuliaJara: 1:06pm On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:


The guy is solely at fault then

I think the marriage was salvageable If they were willing to start courting afresh in the marriage

Courting afresh in marriage ke? shocked
Only possible when you can truly forgive and forget o!
E get some kain TINZ wey dey happen for marriages wey you can NEVER FORGIVE NOR FORGET lai lai o!!!!
Courting afresh will do no good where couples have SUBLIMINAL resentments towards each other!
Most NIGERIAN couples live to co-exist and STUCK together ONLY because of the CHILDREN CONCEIVED BY MISTAKE. . . . . . NOT LOVE! kiss

Your posts on marriage and relationships IN GENERAL always make me smile with languid/laconic amusement.
It appears you have A LOT to learn or you truly have no experience at all in matters of the "hearts and wallets"! grin

I don't envy your "reality-check" navigation tools I swear. grin
You sound like you constantly live in a bubble. cheesy
I see many heart and nyansh breaks in your past, present, everlasting and after life oooooooooh! Chai!!!! cry
It is always desirable to be educated in the classroom and MOST IMPORTANTLY, ON THE STREEETS!!!! cool
Just thinking out loud. . . .

*dis babe is in for many rude awakenings I swear. i hope she never marries a NIGERIAN dude*

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by KanwuliaJara: 1:18pm On Mar 21, 2015
smartigo:

Walahi, i dey gbadun u grin grin grin. But you know that open marriage is anti-African in its ideology. It can't work here except to promote western ideology that doesn't last but promotes lewdness.

I have no problem with whatever rocks people's boat;however, we should understand it's effect on the society as a whole.

On the contrary MOST AFRICAN marriages are OPEN MARRIAGES, but those in perpetual DENIAL like you af course. . . .can never admit it!
Is THE AFRICAN CULTURE OF POLYGAMY not OPEN MARRIAGE? shocked
Especially FOR THE 25 and half(the house maid) desperado HAGS sharing one man's name all over Africa? cheesy

You need an open marriage to promote "lewdness"?
Affects which societies? undecided
African societies without ethical or moral compasses?

What a joke! cheesy

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Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by Bowaley17(m): 1:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
OP if u ask me,na who i go ask?
Re: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by cbrass(m): 2:09pm On Mar 21, 2015
Lizabeth25:
You are speaking out of tune. Internet n making cash? How old are u? If u are not above. 25, I don't think you have a say in this matter!

OK Grandma could you Please let me know what you mean by this undecided

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