STARSHYNE:
D age gap shldnt be dat wide
but seriously,oldies takes good care of their properties
They hardly cheat

mirexxx:
so we should marry a man who is 20 yrs older because Beyonce married old jayz ??

kinglekan:


How many years older do u prefer them to be?

jmoore:

I never said you all should. It is a personal choice. Don't crucify those who did.

mirexxx:
is it now about education and finishing school?
In this century, an18 year old is even more inclined to marriage than most women in their 30s Lol
they ain't scared no more!

kinglekan:


Well I thought the issue was just on dating not necessarily leading to marriage.

Plus really why is the age tingy such a big deal? If the 18yr old lady decides to date a 21yr old guy, it still doesn't mean they would end up getting married and live happily ever after.

Age shouldn't really be an issue in my opinion. And I don't mean some outrageous age gap like a lady dating someone old enough to be her father.

I think the major thing to consider is the reason for going into the relationship in the ist place. Young guys break hearts, Older guys break hearts.

Sex would always be sex, whether its with a younger guy or older guy.

STARSHYNE:
6/7yrs

missclasssy:
First of all, let's bare in mind that humans develop emotionally and cognitively with age.
The older a guy is, the more experienced he becomes in many areas such as decision making, finance, handling stress, and taking care of his partner and running a relationship

He is able to make better decisions due to the knowledge garnered all through the years.
He also becomes more mature in perception and judgment.

We ladies believe that an older guy must have engaged in a relationship or two before ours so he would be shrewd in handling our own
Women naturally feel more relaxed being under a protective figure and we have a default perception to seeing older guys as such.

Op, we shouldn't also eliminate the critical concept of love making
Most ladies believe an older guy must definitely be more competent in satisfying their sexual needs.

mirexxx:
cool

mirexxx:
really? na them cheat pass
i know oldies that cheat!
any man that wants to cheat will cheat! oldies or youngies

marieolae:
It all falls down to the stage you're in.
An 18 year old JAMB candidate, most likely won't be able to handle the emotional stress and so on.
At 28, you're at a different stage in your life, well in most cases. So I think it's more acceptable.

STARSHYNE:
I said they hardly cheat
Show me a man dt hasn't cheated?
Oldies would have definitely learnt their lessons

Mind you, I have never cheated and I will never cheat

daveP:
care! Thats a key word here if i can emphasize. But we've seen cases where she had alot o' care and he still still went out. Some dont even know why they go out. Some say they've given all she'l need, and that's exactly where the idea of taking 4-5 others comes in

STARSHYNE:
D age gap shldnt be dat wide
but seriously,oldies takes good care of their properties
They hardly cheat

I wonder what makes you girls believe so.

He could be cheating with another young girl you know

STARSHYNE:
I said they hardly cheat
Show me a man dt hasn't cheated?

Oldies would have definitely learnt their lessons

daveP:
it has to be a very very important chord to strike when talking of dating. It may not be important if you reason in the realm of temporary dating. The come, do and go kinda.(the reason sugar daddies and mummies arent much to bother about, cos the AGE DOESNT MATTER AND ITS TEMPORARY AS WELL) But if na marriage........

tosyne2much:
Mind you, I have never cheated and I will never cheat

tosyne2much:
I came late

Naij aboiy abeg remind me when this thread gets to the HQ

Yes boss!

STARSHYNE:
LOL....Fingers ain't equal
d yoruba adage says "make u pound yam for mortar,cook d most delicious food...no be everybody go belleful

Dahs just it

naijaboiy:

I wonder what makes you girls believe so.

He could be cheating with another young girl you know

STARSHYNE:
.and he's lying

Hehehehe

I just wish all men were like me

jmoore:

Where is my catapult?

mirexxx:
is it now about education and finishing school?
In this century, an18 year old is even more inclined to marriage than most women in their 30s Lol
they ain't scared no more!

akinsadeez:
For me the main emphasis should be on 'Love'. once there is genuine love in the relationship the age doesn't really matter provided the girl is above 18. If a 30 yr old man will love, cherish and respect her why should she neglect that for a stormy relationship with a young boy?

daveP:
lol sure.

My own na say if u empahsize on care alone, there are many infact millions of men who can take care of women but still cheat. Thats when you hear the usage of "Inasmuch"

STARSHYNE:
Cos we know


And dahs his own cup of Origin

And you don't care because he buys you Brazilian hair and make up kit

kinglekan:


Well I thought the issue was just on dating not necessarily leading to marriage.

Plus really why is the age tingy such a big deal? If the 18yr old lady decides to date a 21yr old guy, it still doesn't mean they would end up getting married and live happily ever after.

Age shouldn't really be an issue in my opinion. And I don't mean some outrageous age gap like a lady dating someone old enough to be her father.

I think the major thing to consider is the reason for going into the relationship in the ist place. Young guys break hearts, Older guys break hearts.

Sex would always be sex, whether its with a younger guy or older guy.

naijaboiy:

Those ones wey fit make their daughters 48th wife

missclasssy:
First of all, let's bare in mind that humans develop emotionally and cognitively with age.
The older a guy is, the more experienced he becomes in many areas such as decision making, finance, handling stress, taking care of his partner and running a relationship

He is able to make better decisions due to the knowledge garnered all through the years.
He also becomes more mature in perception and judgment.

We ladies believe that an older partner must have engaged in a relationship or two before ours so he would be shrewd in handling our own.
We believe an older guy to be more emotionally stable than someone younger.

Women naturally feel more relaxed being under a protective figure and we have a default perception to seeing older guys as such.

Op, we shouldn't also eliminate the critical concept of love making
Most ladies believe an older partner must definitely be more competent in satisfying their sexual needs.

kinglekan:


So should there be like an age gap ladies should look out for and not exceed when going into a relationship?