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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by SAMBARRY: 10:34pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
Come,wats ur problem?? I came ere to respond to d thread nt to throw shades around..respect ursef,pls
after you respect yourself, wimp wink
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by pickabeau1: 10:35pm On Apr 03, 2015
Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo

I assumed you were married
Your posts connote anger
Why r u angry

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Emaprince: 10:37pm On Apr 03, 2015
suggyspic:
I know its painful, but if she can confess without any one telling her, i believe God have forgiven her. It may not be easy on the marriage, but with time she might make up for her sin.
you are busy feeling too proud. I think you are the woman. But then, its the man's choice to stay or seperate. Not all men can live with a promiscous woman. I won't even advice any man to do it. Its dangerous and the thought of the woman being shameless enough to spread her legs for another man is enough to quit.

As for the confession part..there are many reasons why she may do that. Its possible her bubbles were about to burst and she decided to confess. Maybe somebody very close to the hubby caught her and she felt the right thing to do is to confess than allowing the man to find out by himself. One pastor's wife who sleeps with her driver confessed after the guy left her due to a quarrel. He threatened to expose her to the hubby with pics, na so the woman run go confess sharpaly...lol..

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Dheartless: 10:38pm On Apr 03, 2015
they said " once a cheat always a cheat".
yes those people said it.......I nor wan mention names.
( but na some women like that) because them think say na only men dey cheat grin, I wonder wetin their responds go be for this case now.

me I believe in possibility of a sincere change.


but if the man wants a divorce then let him do what pleases his peace
after all it's( adultery) the only reason for which even the bible allows a divorce (some people don't agree with this though)
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Emaprince: 10:43pm On Apr 03, 2015
suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

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now you want to lash out at the man? Una too selfish sha. When she was sleeping around, she didn't remember her vows? She didn't remember that it could lead to divorce? The man is very right in what he wants to do!! And I think the cheating woman is you. Bear the consequences!

Cheating wives everywhere yet, these same women will keep making it seem as if men are the only cheats.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by SAMBARRY: 10:54pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
your mum,ryt shocked Oops..
It is only a man that wasn't opportuned to have a mom or good home training that will refer to another person's mother like that. Gutter child

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 03, 2015
SAMBARRY:
It is only a man that wasn't opportuned to have a mom or good home training that will refer to another person's mother like that. Gutter child
Ok..u done?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Jahblessme: 11:19pm On Apr 03, 2015
Pickabeau,

Wetin I do you sef?? I'm married,yes.
Allow me to troll in peace naa
Ah ah

As per Op,is it not her fellow women that chop in peace and still go home and live happily?
Her man may be chopping,has he confessed?
All these local guilty conscience people.

Y I no go vex for her?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Misogynist2014(m): 11:20pm On Apr 03, 2015
Divorce is the best thing to do, what kinda bïtch is dat?

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by mechanics(m): 11:21pm On Apr 03, 2015
D husband shud learn to forgive, she shud report d case to where dey wedded n i believe it wil b handled.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by omenka(m): 11:22pm On Apr 03, 2015
I can't forgive such honestly. A gurlfriend, yes, a wife, Never!
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by elantraceey(f): 11:23pm On Apr 03, 2015
Love covers ALL things, if she's truly remorseful its not so difficult to forgive .

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by ijustdey: 11:24pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
If i was d man..forget d marriage.. Men can cheat and get forgiven but not women cheesy ...


your post irk out immaturity......
so, its waste of time to advice you

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by habeebcole: 11:25pm On Apr 03, 2015
hmmm..........i dont even knw wat to say
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:25pm On Apr 03, 2015
[s]
ijustdey:



your post irk out immaturity......
so, its waste of time to advice you
[/s]

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Feraz(m): 11:25pm On Apr 03, 2015
pickabeau1:


I assumed you were married
Your posts connote anger
Why r u angry
grin grin

I am waiting for some particular monikers to give their advice. cool
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by delonz(m): 11:26pm On Apr 03, 2015
suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.
If I hear forgiveness, do you want the man to die before his time? No man can live with that thought in his heart with such a woman under the same roof. My advice the woman should go and marry the man she cheated with.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by braine(m): 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
If i was d man..forget d marriage.. Men can cheat and get forgiven but not women cheesy ...
Women shouldn't cheat. The only reason I'd forgive her is coz she told me. If I found out by myself, thats the end.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by habeebcole: 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015
elantraceey:
Love covers ALL things, if she's truly remorseful its not so difficult to forgive .
.......hmmm..........i oppose that motion
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Ushiefrank(m): 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015
edwife:
If he wants a divorce,she should let him go because if she continues begging him over and over that's how she will live for the rest of her life trying to make up.The trust has been broken,it's either he forgives and totally start afresh or they go their separate ways.
U re right
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by millionaireman: 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015
She doesn't want to live anymore in guilt in a marriage,

And her husband is okay to seek for divorce, else, it shall forever remain a wretched marriage relationship.
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by ebugreat: 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015
If it is the man's choice so be it, but I expect him to show some pity because we are humans and not short of temptations.... Can d man swear Dat he hv Neva touch a woman outside? Anyway...

God bless Nigeria
Sai GEJ
Sai buhari
Sai Ebugreat.... cool



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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by IBRAHIMOVIC84: 11:28pm On Apr 03, 2015
[color=#990000][/color]He need to forgive her since she has confess
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by peedeeasobie(m): 11:28pm On Apr 03, 2015
Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo



This one is also included in the advice!!!
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:29pm On Apr 03, 2015
braine:
Women shouldn't cheat. The only reason I'd forgive her is coz she told me. If I found out by myself, thats the end.
if u not d patient,good and softhearted man..even when she willingly confesses her sin,it wuld make u lose trust on her and u start thinkn,wat if she's been doing it or does it again without my knowledge..
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by ijustdey: 11:29pm On Apr 03, 2015
AlphaGentMan:
[s]who re u again and who asked for ur advice..kindly,mimd ur biz..thank u[/s]

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by passionate88: 11:31pm On Apr 03, 2015
If I was the husband, I'd first of all asked her why she cheated on me. If it's something I can improve on, I will divorce her for not telling me first, if it's something I can't improve on, I'd divorce her cos I know she'd do it again.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:31pm On Apr 03, 2015
Make I follow her cry


cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
But why did she confess na? Anyway conscience is a bad thing, although men hardly have that kind of conscience when they cheat undecided undecided undecided.
I support her for confessing as long as it's the institution of marriage. Forgiveness from her husband is what she should pray for, I suggest she involve her spiritual director and a respected elderly couple in this issue.

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by elantraceey(f): 11:31pm On Apr 03, 2015
habeebcole:
.......hmmm..........i oppose that motion

My dear it does, If a man could lay his own life down for you just because of love then you should be able to forgive anybody .

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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 03, 2015
[s]
ijustdey:



your post irk out immaturity......
so, its waste of time to advice you
[/s] u stupid,honestly..
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 03, 2015
Yawns, continue @ Op with your nollywood story undecided

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