EggovinMma:


Well, since she has confessed, it's left for her pray her husband accepts her back. Truth, there is nothing like having a clear conscious. I know the value of that! But the psychological damage/effect on her husband....hhmm! *smh*It s painful though.

Yes its painful
One thing I know is two wrongs cannot make a right
For people shouting if my hubby cheats I wil cheat
I am happy she realised her mistake and asked for forgiveness
But there r women dat there conscience are dead already
These r people dat can cheat and lockup till death

EggovinMma:


How will he find out? .She stopped cheating period! Is he an investigator? Life continues abeg.....Since she wasn't caught red handed, and there's no blackmail.


As for the bolded, I am not married, I owe no man the monopoly of what I do with my life! .Until I am married, I do whatever I like.

May providence rid this already decadent world of women such as yourself. Ashe eledunmare...

Thank God i am from ESAN tribe if my wife cheated on me it wont be up to a yr befor she will DIE

Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo

Look at what this person posted! Freedom of expression is really being abused...

uromicom:
Thank God i am from ESAN tribe if my wife cheated on me it wont be up to a yr befor she will DIE

Jesus Christ !!!

Same applies to men too right?

liquidmetall:






Yes its painful[b]
One thing I know is two wrongs cannot make a right
For people shouting if my hubby cheats I wil cheat[/b]
I am happy she realised her mistake and asked for forgiveness
But there r women dat there conscience are dead already
These r people dat can cheat and lockup till death

Well, there are people that won't stop cheating till death!
Like i always insist, in marriage, cheating as a means to retaliate is foolishness. Seriously, it makes no sense.There is absolutely nothing to prove.I for example cannot divorce my husband on that ground, if he cheats,i sit us down, we discuss about it.It's not a new thing to me, my mind is already warped to accept that part of bullshiite from most men.At a point, it may not burden me any longer as I don't like psychological stress.I try to abstain completely from it.

She confessed, Good for her! I won't advice any married woman to cheat in the first place. No need for all the palaver et al that may arise from infidelity.It's stress na.

Life....
Isn't it a pot of hot beans?

adbokus:

May providence rid this already decadent world of women such as yourself. Ashe eledunmare...

Yawns!

EggovinMma:


Well, there are people that won't stop cheating till death!
Like i always insist, in marriage, cheating as a means to retaliate is foolishness. Seriously, it makes no sense.There is absolutely nothing to prove.I for example cannot divorce my husband on that ground, if he cheats,i sit us down, we discuss about it.It's not a new thing to me, my mind is already warped to accept that part of bullshiite from most men.At a point, it may not burden me any longer as I don't like psychological stress.I try to abstain completely from it.

She confessed, Good for her! I won't advice any married woman to cheat in the first place. No need for all the palaver et al that may arise from infidelity.It's stress na.

I love your reply

Can "jahbles see this"

I think her soup got burnt this nite

Dats y shes angry

Hmmm 'forgiveness is a sin" Aiye language. *flee cultism*

klark3:
d man made d right decision, cheating shouldn't be Condoned by any sane man.

Personally, forgiveness is a sin, when it comes to cheating...

The fact that she confessed means she is a woman with conscience who deserve a second chance but its also pity her husband would have lost complete trust in her because what she did is very bad. I guess she should give him sometime, inorder for him to decide. Its not an easy decision to make because if na me I go don dey full of rage the man need time.

liquidmetall:








I love your reply

Can "jahbles see this"

I think her soup got burnt this nite

Dats y shes angry

Lol.
Every body with their own approach to life.I live easy, simple and free.I don't like men stress, I don't even have patience for it.I don't hide if i choose to cheat. I am VERY FREE TO A FAULT. I can decide one month I don't wnt to see anybody, including my bf, I stay on my own. I don't give or promise to give what I don't have.I don't like lies.If I tell a lie, then I am forced to.I don't believe in loving more than three person in a life time.If I love a guy, I can still feel his smell years to come even if we part ways.So if i wanna have fun, I do it fully. When I get serious, I am serious.

EggovinMma:


Lol.
Every body with their own approach to life.I live easy, simple and free.I don't like men stress, I don't even have patience for it.I don't hide if i choose to cheat. I am VERY FREE TO A FAULT. I can decide one month I don't wnt to see anybody, including my bf, I stay on my own. I don't give or promise to give what I don't have.I don't like lies.If I tell a lie, then I am forced to.I don't believe in loving more than three person in a life time.If I love a guy, I can still feel his smell years to come even if we part ways.So if i wanna have fun, I do it fully. When I get serious, I am serious.

Wow am seeing a tendency of u cheating o

Cos you may love a guy and u guys part ways and later you will marry.

Does it mean that the smell of ur ex will still be on u,even when ur with ur hubby

Dats "smell cheating"" o

liquidmetall:









Wow am seeing a tendency of u cheating o

Cos you may love a guy and u guys part ways and later you will marry.

Does it mean that the smell of ur ex will still be on u,even when ur with ur hubby

Dats "smell cheating"" o

When I meant smell, it may go a long way to mean 'memories'.Forget marriage, I know I can't cheat when I am married for sure.But truth is, i don't forget someone loved easily.It can be very bad! Usually take years! I may not even see him till eternity, but sure, memories lingers on . Make my future husband no vex o .He can take his wife, have me completely, but my memories, he may not wipe off.

elantraceey:
Love covers ALL things, if she's truly remorseful its not so difficult to forgive .

Yeah right

If she loved him so much, why cheat on him?

CaptPlanet:


Yeah right

If she loved him so much, why cheat on him?

Is there anyone above mistake?

uromicom:
Thank God i am from ESAN tribe if my wife cheated on me it wont be up to a yr befor she will DIE

What does that mean ?

Jahblessme:
She should move on from the limp d ick already.
If he's been faithful he has a right to judge..if not,abeg make him gerrout.

She was stupid to confess though..giving the dude unnecessary upper hand.

Olodo

Your g/f or wife will definitely cheat on u based on ur comment.

IDEApro:
I can forgive a cheating wife who came begging accompanied by both parent, the person she cheats with, a clergy man as witness and same confession to all our grown kids.

Ogun and Amadioha fit make appearance too

EggovinMma:



When I meant smell, it may go a long way to mean 'memories'.Forget marriage, I know I can't cheat when I am married for sure.But truth is, i don't forget someone loved easily.It can be very bad! Usually take years! I may not even see him till eternity, but sure, memories lingers on . Make my future husband no vex o .He can take his wife, have me completely, but my memories, he may not wipe off.

Some men can take your memories and can even wipe them off

elantraceey:


Check yourself , you've probably done worst things that you've never admitted to . Every one that errs us deserve a gift of forgiveness and forgiveness even help you more than the person , take it from someone who have been so unforgiving for a long time .

Forgiveness is not the issue. Trust is

CaptPlanet:


Forgiveness is not the issue. Trust is

Both cones hand in hand if you truly understand the meaning of forgiveness .

braine:
Yes, true, the trust would be damaged. But still, something should work out.

The divorce should work

elantraceey:



Both cones hand in hand if you truly understand the meaning of forgiveness .

I can forgive or even be mad at you and still live with you.

If I can't trust you, I cannot live/be with you.

elantraceey:



Is there anyone above mistake?

Oh! Mistake hmmm...let's see,
I guess she was taking a stroll around her vicinity,minding her business as usual when she "mistakenly" fell on an erect preek.

Oh no! How unfortunate....

CaptPlanet:



The divorce should work

Having a divorce is not as easy as you think o.

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

she is a thief and should be punished as one

EggovinMma:


How will he find out? .She stopped cheating period! Is he an investigator? Life continues abeg.....Since she wasn't caught red handed, and there's no blackmail.


As for the bolded, I am not married, I owe no man the monopoly of what I do with my life! .Until I am married, I do whatever I like.

Like u don't know how the devil works overtime ba?

One day her husband wil be chilling in a bar with some guys when one guyman will want to show him a picture of his new catch he's been telling him about;

behold! Yawa don gas

koyyess:
If this had happened the other way round, male folks here wouldn't be talking this much trash as they are now. How does the following statements below sound? 1.Let him forgive her after all, she confessed and asked for forgiveness.2. Let him forgive, afterall how is he sure the next woman he marries won't cheat? 3. He must have been the cause- he didn't satisfy her well enough.4. Let him go on his knees and pray for God to protect and sustain his marriage bla bla bla. No male who sees himself as the victim will listen to the above. But this is the same thing I expect that woman's husband to consider. He cannot say he hasn't cheated before(maybe not). If he wants to play saint and divorce her- fine. But I tell you, if he is the cheating kind, he had better forgive his wife otherwise, history will keep repeating itself. LET HIM GO ON HIS KNEES AND BEG GOD TO GIVE HIM WISDOM TO SAVE HIS MARRIAGE.

Everyone, man or woman in this situation has therightto

koyyess:
If this had happened the other way round, male folks here wouldn't be talking this much trash as they are now. How does the following statements below sound? 1.Let him forgive her after all, she confessed and asked for forgiveness.2. Let him forgive, afterall how is he sure the next woman he marries won't cheat? 3. He must have been the cause- he didn't satisfy her well enough.4. Let him go on his knees and pray for God to protect and sustain his marriage bla bla bla. No male who sees himself as the victim will listen to the above. But this is the same thing I expect that woman's husband to consider. He cannot say he hasn't cheated before(maybe not). If he wants to play saint and divorce her- fine. But I tell you, if he is the cheating kind, he had better forgive his wife otherwise, history will keep repeating itself. LET HIM GO ON HIS KNEES AND BEG GOD TO GIVE HIM WISDOM TO SAVE HIS MARRIAGE.

Everyone, man or woman in this situation has the right to do what's best for them.

If I cheat on my wife and get caught or whatever, ofcourse i'll apologise and "hope" she takes me back not "expect" her to.

It's better to move on than be miserable in the marriage.

Emaprince:
last time I crossed path with you was in 2013 where you used this line " as far as I'm not married, I can sleep with any man I like"..nne take it easy, you hear?

braine:


Having a divorce is not as easy as you think o.

It's easier than being miserable forever