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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by blaezderek: 6:17am On Apr 10, 2015
[color=#990000][/color]Any man that lays his hands on a woman, could be classified among the lowest animals, he is worst than a goat.
Personal opinion though.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:35am On Apr 10, 2015
frank043:


That's the basic reason women put on white veil while wedding. It signifies that they(women)are a mystery that can never be understood! We keep studying them,never to graduate...we study them till death do us part.


Hahahhaha
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:36am On Apr 10, 2015
blaezderek:
[color=#990000][/color]Any man that lays his hands on a woman, could be classified among the lowest animals, he is worst than a goat.
Personal opinion though.

It's a very shameful and barbaric act! No man should be proud of it! No man should engage in it.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by vega84(m): 6:38am On Apr 10, 2015
Even u op,will still go ahead with the courtship so forget am, few slaps is nt enough to throw 4yrs away. #vegatalks
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:42am On Apr 10, 2015
vega84:
Even u op,will still go ahead with the courtship so forget am, few slaps is nt enough to throw 4yrs away. #vegatalks

I'm a guy shaaa....

But if I were in her shoes, I'd walked away....
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:50am On Apr 10, 2015
Frankaka8:

Na ur papa be the first mad man roaming around and impregnated anoda mad woman and u are dia end product. Mtcheeeeew!!! ***So shallow minded to rate all men as mad and d same***

At least I know my papa.



BROS, YOU GET PAPA? ??
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 10, 2015
agarawu23:
thats y u remain single at the age of 40



Your sisters that are still single, in thier 40s and unmarried, your papa don chase them comot fir house? YOU MUST BE UNREPENTANTLY StUp!d. sad

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by agarawu23(m): 6:55am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:




Your sisters that are still single, in thier 40s and unmarried, your papa don chase them comot fir house? YOU MUST BE UNREPENTANTLY StUp!d. sad
tongue e pain her tongue I don't reply insults with kids
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:05am On Apr 10, 2015
agarawu23:
tongue e pain her tongue I don't reply insults with kids


Pain me ke?
Hian! Agbaya! tongue
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:09am On Apr 10, 2015
blaezderek:
[color=#990000][/color]Any man that lays his hands on a woman, could be classified among the lowest animals, he is worst than a goat.
Personal opinion though.

God bless you jare. You will not die before your time cheesy

Dont mind all this gf/wife beaters here.Frustrated idiooots, who on a normal day will not floor their fellow guys. Na for woman body dem dey flex power. Useless bunch! Bastards!

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by LasoulMacuby(m): 7:11am On Apr 10, 2015
Runs into thread, All this insults because a guy slapped a babe whose mouth was gushing trash like pumping machine. All these females will come here claiming equality this and that, but a slap meant to reset the brain is now being frown upon. Whenever a woman starts to quarell, I walk out of that place instantly, not because I can't talk back but because I hate an oppressor who behaves like an oppressed. Not saying slapping a lady is the real deal. But ladies should learn to keep shut at times.
See how some nairaland ladies will be running their mouth like sewage tanks, if u call them out to meet you at Eagle square for the fast and furious match them, they will gbaga

Imagine the op above me exchanging words and insults with those guys as if she can physically do same in a ring
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 10, 2015
I always classify women beaters as rapists.Always felt since they can subjugate women with physical abuse, they can as well rape them.To me there is no difference.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:14am On Apr 10, 2015
And if a man runs his mouth anyhow, he shouldn't be slapped. Na only women sabi run mouth? Abi you never see a quiet housewife with a loquacious Husband? undecided
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:
I always classify women beaters as rapists.Always felt since they can subjugate women with physical abuse, they can as well rape them.To me there is no difference.

I think it's a deep character flaw on the man's part to raise his hands on a woman - let alone his wife or fiancée.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by breakeven: 7:23am On Apr 10, 2015
Beamborla:
Abort Mission kia kia... I wouldn't dare
There is no perfect relationship u know. Take it and move on
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:26am On Apr 10, 2015
breakeven:


There is no perfect relationship u know. Take it and move on

Would you have continued with the relationship?
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by LasoulMacuby(m): 7:28am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:
And if a man runs his mouth anyhow, he shouldn't be slapped. Na only women sabi run mouth? Abi you never see a quiet housewife with a loquacious Husband? undecided
Not what am saying. If u can't do the time, don't do the crime. Yes! If a man runs his mouth anyhow, and the wife is capable of factory reseting his brain, good and fine cos I have heard when men were beaten by their wives. But if she knows she can't cope with a slap she better keep mute.
If a woman keep running from relationships because of slaps she receives, I tell u she would remain unmarried for life or married to a woman wrapper
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by just44: 7:29am On Apr 10, 2015
Want happen b4 he slap her cuz knw man or guy we raise hand and his love, so pls ask question fist
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:31am On Apr 10, 2015
LasoulMacuby:

Not what am saying. If u can't do the time, don't do the crime. Yes! If a man runs his mouth anyhow, and the wife is capable of factory reseting his brain, good and fine cos I have heard when men were beaten by their wives. But if she knows she can't cope with a slap she better keep mute.
If a woman keep running from relationships because of slaps she receives, I tell u she would remain unmarried for life or married to a woman wrapper


Woman wrapper is better than a woman beater 100 timetimes . Women nags, a man should deal with you.He should nag back or leave the house.THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION TO HIT A WOMAN THAT NAGS, it's a very silly excuse!

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Rajjah(f): 7:33am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:


So you mean anytime you are at fault and he slaps you, you will forgive him.And those times he will be at fault, please will you slap him?


Chai! Chai! !! Chai! !!!!!!
THERE IS GOD OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
but he is d man
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:33am On Apr 10, 2015
You don't beat a woman because she talks too much, just the way many housewives can't leave their marriages because their husbands cheats.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:34am On Apr 10, 2015
Rajjah:
but he is d man

So what? Are you not a woman ? shocked shocked shocked shocked
You are the weaker sex, your body needs to be respected.
THIS YOUR MINDSET ISNT HEALTHY AT ALL!

I never tolerated that from my father! Hell not to talk about my husband!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Beamborla(f): 7:38am On Apr 10, 2015
XBLadez:

What your bad mouth can do to a man's feeling at times can push him to react with more than just slap. By 'courting', understand that your relationship has gone beyond 'dating' already. You're heading towards marriage!
You should instead try to know why he overreacted. Of course, that's a shocker for u coz he has never acted that way since u met him. If he sincerely apologizes, I don't see any reason why u must leave. If u can't be tolerant ur not supposed to be in a relationship
Oga mi, the truth is we are yet to start living together and he's already slapping me... Ah! According to the op, that was not the first. A man who can not keep his anger in check is not man enough and I know myself very well, I watch what I say or how I behave a lot. I can make comprise but not the beating kind of compromise

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Beamborla(f): 7:40am On Apr 10, 2015
breakeven:


There is no perfect relationship u know. Take it and move on
I can't stand this type of dangerous imperfect relationship. What is the guarantee that the slapping wouldn't lead to beating and death in the end?
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Beamborla(f): 7:41am On Apr 10, 2015
johnsonjosbles:
good advise tho! But ur guy may be punch bag you now and you still stay just for love but now advising others to quit. We know many of you.
At least you agree it's a good advice and that is fair enough cheesy
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 10, 2015
Beamborla:

Oga mi, the truth is we are yet to start living together and he's already slapping me... Ah! According to the op, that was not the first. A man who can not keep his anger in check is not man enough and I know myself very well, I watch what I say or how I behave a lot. I can make comprise but not the beating kind of compromise

Madam, even if your mouth na typewriter, no man should touch you.There is absolutely nothing to prove.As for me, slap and blow no dey reset my mind, it can only increase my murderous tendencies.Person go think say my eventual quietness na the brain reset, FOR WHERE!!! THE DEMONS ARE RESTRATEGISING MEHN!MAN wey dey beat me no dey go free, EVEN IF HE IS MY FATHER!I ALWAYS COOK A WAY TO HURT HIM BACK.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by chigbogbo: 7:50am On Apr 10, 2015
Her name don turn to "SORRY" be that. Wish her all the best. But as the saying goes....... A word is enough for the wise; if she has any brain cell left in her head, the best thing to do is run with her heels touching the back of her head. NO LOOK BACK OOOH.!!!!
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Beamborla(f): 8:06am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:


Madam, even if your mouth na typewriter, no man should touch you.There is absolutely nothing to prove.As for me, slap and blow no dey reset my mind, it can only increase my murderous tendencies.Person go think say my eventual quietness na the brain reset, FOR WHERE!!! THE DEMONS ARE RESTRATEGISING MEHN!MAN wey dey beat me no dey go free, EVEN IF HE IS MY FATHER!I ALWAYS COOK A WAY TO HURT HIM BACK.


Lol... You badt gan o
And you can imagine they've been friends for five years before love enter the matter and he still have the mind to slap her. I can only but wonder what he would do to someone whom they didn't start as friends.
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:07am On Apr 10, 2015
Beamborla:

Lol... You badt gan o
And you can imagine they've been friends for five years before love enter the matter and he still have the mind to slap her. I can only but wonder what he would do to someone whom they didn't start as friends.

Beamborla, o ti tooo
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:08am On Apr 10, 2015
EggovinMma:


Madam, even if your mouth na typewriter, no man should touch you.There is absolutely nothing to prove.As for me, slap and blow no dey reset my mind, it can only increase my murderous tendencies.Person go think say my eventual quietness na the brain reset, FOR WHERE!!! THE DEMONS ARE RESTRATEGISING MEHN!MAN wey dey beat me no dey go free, EVEN IF HE IS MY FATHER!I ALWAYS COOK A WAY TO HURT HIM BACK.

Murderous tendencies ke?


Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:14am On Apr 10, 2015
chigbogbo:
Her name don turn to "SORRY" be that. Wish her all the best. But as the saying goes....... A word is enough for the wise; if she has any brain cell left in her head, the best thing to do is run with her heels touching the back of her head. NO LOOK BACK OOOH.!!!!

It her call. I just hope she can still see the subtle red flags and be responsible enough to take the right decision.

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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 8:21am On Apr 10, 2015
Beamborla:

Lol... You badt gan o
And you can imagine they've been friends for five years before love enter the matter and he still have the mind to slap her. I can only but wonder what he would do to someone whom they didn't start as friends.

My sister, every woman prayer isn't to marry for love alone, but compatibility. People are missing this in their relationship. If you want peace in life, seek compatibility first.I donto think I can marry because of love alone.If I can love a guy on the scale of 30%, I am ok! My issue is the compatibility aspect of it! Can he tolerate me? Is he understanding? Is he matured? Can he address issues at home with maturity? This is very important! Is he the type that loves to dialogue? Because my dear, if a man exercises maturity in my life, I am still trying to find out where I will get the guts to insult him.Fear no go gree me sef. cheesy.I know how to respect myself if a man acts matured in a relationship especially when he is principled and disciplined. That is the kind if man I can be compatible with. Anything short of that, will be a disaster!


Love isn't everything please. Dont marry someone that will bring the worst in you.This goes for both gender.

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