Nneka123:
your office?

I rather stay outside, and you can examine me from there

SkinnyDude:
i now see every girl as a gold digger. i also have stopped making friends with them.

this is what happen: this girl is not actualy my babe. we were just friends. so after writting jamb, i decided to get a job, so as to keep myself busy and not stay idle all day.
one month later, i came to her house. and she asked why i have stopped coming to her house, i told her i got job. the next thing she said was 'can you lend me money? i wil pay back next week'
i lent her my salary. that next week has turned to 3 years. and she has not given me a dime. she blocked me off her whatsapp and Fb. even changed number. she called me wicked and liar because i was demanding for my money. i couldnt fight, i cant fight a girl.

this is what happens when you trust people so much. i took this girl like my elder Sis.

what i learnt: never lend a girl money. she will not pay back

politricks:
No wonder they say 'FEAR WOMEN'

SkinnyDude:
i now see every girl as a gold digger. i also have stopped making friends with them.

this is what happen: this girl is not actualy my babe. we were just friends. so after writting jamb, i decided to get a job, so as to keep myself busy and not stay idle all day.
one month later, i came to her house. and she asked why i have stopped coming to her house, i told her i got job. the next thing she said was 'can you lend me money? i wil pay back next week'
i lent her my salary. that next week has turned to 3 years. and she has not given me a dime. she blocked me off her whatsapp and Fb. even changed number. she called me wicked and liar because i was demanding for my money. i couldnt fight, i cant fight a girl.

this is what happens when you trust people so much. i took this girl like my elder Sis.

what i learnt: never lend a girl money. she will not pay back

ronald4lif:


Scary. At least now you know lending money to girls isn't ideal. Many of them will always have excuses. If you should lend a girl money just have it at the back of your mind it's a free goodwill and if she pays fine but chances are most won't pay back. Girls hardly borrow money to another, they hardly trust themselves to pay back, so why should a guy borrow. When a lot of them believe every guy should worship them. Good you learnt your lessons, albeit the hard way.

ronald4lif:


Scary. At least now you know lending money to girls isn't ideal. Many of them will always have excuses. If you should lend a girl money just have it at the back of your mind it's a free goodwill and if she pays fine but chances are most won't pay back. Girls hardly borrow money to another, they hardly trust themselves to pay back, so why should a guy borrow. When a lot of them believe every guy should worship them. Good you learnt your lessons, albeit the hard way.

wristwatch:
Heart break is painful and can make a sociable person to becoming an introvert and a lunatic.

A guy who has been thoroughly used by a gold digger portray red signal attitudes that can make him an outcast.

Therefore, attitudes guys display when they have been used by gold diggers are;

They become extremely stingy

Category of such guys spend only on their needs and perhaps family members (Talking about sisters, brothers, etc). For an outsider especially ladies, a kobo will not drop from their pocket.


They become chronic womaniser

"Good boy Gone Crazily Bad" In order to pay back, they unleash their hidden flirting habit(chop and clean mouth character) by getting into every ladies skirt. They stylishly show the rudiment of love painting a perfect picture in the ladies brain he is the chosen one.

Love is wicked in their dictionary

Hate is love and Love is wicked becomes their quote. This marks a permanent prologue in the dictionary of their mind. They see love as evil and any lady that expresses this feeling become a desperate "Jezebel" to them.


Negative switching to homosexuality (gay)


Their emotion switch sporadically and irreversible to same sex. They feel same sex will not break their heart unlike the opposite ones.

They treat ladies with haughty contempt

Because of their evil intention, they disrespect ladies and treat them like waste products. All manners of haughty contempt you can think of is being unleash on the innocent lady.

Job and Career becomes their true love

They hunt for job and career development like guilder ultimate search. This is the period they get extremely busy to hurl away their hurt feeling. Job and career advancement consume their thoughts, social life and relationship with people.

They become alcohol champion

In terms of alcohol drinking, they can win un countable "drink d'or". Underestimating such people in drinking can cost your pocket. They become Usain bolt and an undisputed champion in alcohol consumption just to forget they were ever hurt.

They see all ladies as thieves

Every lady whether born again or not are tag thieves in their thought. They rain un limited curse on ladies and label them as gold diggers.

Truckpusher:
Op what's the difference between a real time player and the emasculated guy you just mentioned?

How beautiful would she be to unleash a real man into such a world?

Some guys exhibit all these characteristics over some other mental illness and not necessarily caused by heartbreaks.

Just treat the ladies the way your spirit moves you - You can a devil to one and an angel to the other one

All you're sure of is constant kpanshing whenever you want.

You can only be duped, used and dumped when you're a lame duck.

mmsen:
Why should men keep making the same mistakes?

If they keep running into gold-diggers why should not they not alter their focus to family, career and themselves?

james809:
Ones bitten twice shy

LewisO:
Nice write-up... But i totally disagree on number 4.

But i don't indulge in those act listed.

wristwatch:


People fast o! Kilode! . I neva press submit button, see comment dropping fast

wristwatch:


Thank u sir. But y?

Nneka123:
Hmm, so they turn gay just like that?


Nice points, Wrist

agarawu23:
Op ur points are cool


as for me sha, I can't be involved in any of the listed above because I am stingy; i don't spend for ladies