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7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 6:05am On Apr 27, 2015
Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once…at least nobody in their right mind plans to.
If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent- On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy.
You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet.

2. Her dressing- believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started practising.
There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together.
Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses?


3. She’s rude- I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude(to you and to every other person around) and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her.

4. She’s emotionally unstable- if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step.

Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage.
5. She lies- lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!

6. You have absolutely nothing in common- if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice.
When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love?

7. She mismanages everything- a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by AllNaijaBlogger(m): 6:07am On Apr 27, 2015
Applies to men too


Rude, BMF (blow money fast), dependent men are not marriage material...

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by agarawu23(m): 6:10am On Apr 27, 2015
she get big eye

you take her out for shopping and she point a bag of #250,000 sad

she is never satisfied even after 4rounds of sexx

like seriously what else after 4 rounds shocked better draw your two ears and run from her

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Aklofs: 6:11am On Apr 27, 2015
d poster above me is a 419ner.i own dat plot of land but he moved me 2 dis place.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Cutehector(m): 6:11am On Apr 27, 2015
Thr is a man for every woman and a woman for every man....

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 6:17am On Apr 27, 2015
agarawu23:
she get big eye

you take her out for shopping and she point a bag of #250,000 sad

she is never satisfied even after 4rounds of sexx

like seriously what else after 4 rounds: o better draw your two ears and run from her

yes and your wallet is just #1500 cool

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Cutehector(m): 6:26am On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:


yes and your wallet is just #1500 cool
loool d guy dey eff up seriously grin
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Tallesty1(m): 6:26am On Apr 27, 2015
AllNaijaBlogger:
Applies to men too


Rude, BMF (blow money fast), dependent men are not marriage material...
Is not a human material.


A girl that doesn't apologise, hates your family and does not know how to cook nice meals is the worst material ever. Stay away from her.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Nobody: 6:37am On Apr 27, 2015
Ooooohhh.... shocked

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by agarawu23(m): 6:38am On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:


yes and your wallet is just #1500 cool
imagine sad

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 6:42am On Apr 27, 2015
KashyBaby:
Ooooohhh.... shocked

suspect? cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Ezemarcel(m): 6:43am On Apr 27, 2015
Correct
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by AllNaijaBlogger(m): 6:44am On Apr 27, 2015
Tallesty1:
Is not a human material.


A girl that doesn't apologise, hates your family and does not know how to cook nice meals is the worst material ever. Stay away from her.


Not necessary. She can be a side chic grin

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Nobody: 6:45am On Apr 27, 2015
falconey:


suspect? cool

Suspect who?
cool

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by MizAlero(f): 6:54am On Apr 27, 2015
Very true buh den d guys arent left awt in dis ooh...also applicable 2 dem

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 6:56am On Apr 27, 2015
KashyBaby:


Suspect who?
cool
ok accused ni cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 6:57am On Apr 27, 2015
MizAlero:
Very true buh den d guys arent left awt in dis ooh...also applicable 2 dem


I don't think 2,3,4 is applicable to men. cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by ginawest(f): 6:58am On Apr 27, 2015
lwkmd...I don't know y I find Dis thread funny...

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by menshealth1234: 6:59am On Apr 27, 2015
END PREMATURE EJACULATIONN NOW!!!
Are you unable to last more than a few minutes in bed?
Have you ever felt embarrassed after having sexxx?
Has a woman ever made fun of you because of your poor "performance" in
bed?
Has a woman ever dumped you because you didn't satisfy her in bed?
Do you lack sexual confidence when you are around women?
....
IF YES, Then Logon To W WW. E N D P E . T K

Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 7:00am On Apr 27, 2015
ginawest:
lwkmd...I don't know y I find Dis thread funny...

suspect! cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by alberto2k(m): 7:00am On Apr 27, 2015
ginawest:
lwkmd...I don't know y I find Dis thread funny...
Maybe 'coz you're guilty of some undecided

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by feldido(m): 7:02am On Apr 27, 2015
When u both don't have a chemistry
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by falconey(m): 7:04am On Apr 27, 2015
wristwatch:


She is lazy..

Good write up bro

seriously? cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by ginawest(f): 7:05am On Apr 27, 2015
alberto2k:

Maybe 'coz you're guilty of some undecided
or maybe its because I jes realised dat my bf has bin wasting his tym.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by Trailblazer2: 7:07am On Apr 27, 2015
In case smiley
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by adorablepepple(f): 7:07am On Apr 27, 2015
undecided
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by sinizia: 7:09am On Apr 27, 2015
8. She's lazy.
9. She can't cook, even indomie.
10. She sucks in bedmatics.
11. She nags a lot.
12. She's on NL, 2go, Twitter, Instagram, Viber, Whatsapp, BBM, Tango, Facebook, at the same time. Is she omnipresent? shockedshocked
13. If her role model is Cossy Orjiakor.
14. If her celebrity crush is Derenle or Charley Boy. lipsrsealed

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by alberto2k(m): 7:12am On Apr 27, 2015
ginawest:
or maybe its because I jes realised dat my bf has bin wasting his tym.
Oh Lawd of Mercy shocked

choi! Babe u wicked o sad free the dude na if you know u don't wanna be his wifey, why waste his damn time? undecided
Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by FLAWLES(f): 7:13am On Apr 27, 2015
You take her to a show and she scream and Faintz on seeing WIZkid >cheesy

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by CountDracula(m): 7:14am On Apr 27, 2015
Goodluck getting a girl dat doesn't hav atleast 3 of wat u jus listed

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Re: 7 Signs Your Girlfriend Isn’t Meant To Be Your Future Wife . by ginawest(f): 7:14am On Apr 27, 2015
alberto2k:

Oh Lawd of Mercy shocked

choi! Babe u wicked o sad free the dude na if you know u don't wanna be his wifey, why waste his damn time? undecided
hehehe....lolz...its impossible to stop sumtin u r enjoying

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