You hear things like; “ I don’t get along with women,” “ I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or “ I’m don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”

A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way.

Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival.

A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong.
The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much?

1. Jealousy :
Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex:
Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride :
Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity:
Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves.
Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
For women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.

For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence.

Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating.
Life is too short, after all.

FTC even for the forth time today?
Do the competitive nairalanders go for an holiday.. i'm sick of having all these spaces for myself.
My sister Accomodated me when i gained admission, and i stayed with her for 4 months with no problem, but when my other sister joined us, just a month.. all those thing in writing above happens for real between them.
Thanks to Nairaland, i never got bothered by their fight, even when a lamp is smashed or window panes broken

my brother who cares so long they dont stop me from having their cookies.

Strictly your opinion, i don't easily make friends with ladies doesn't in any wise mean any of the above you claim, simply individual differences.

Cholls:
my brother who cares so long they dont stop me from having their cookies.

baddo. Always takin advantage

@op, can u edit dt 'order' to 'other' pls

Cholls:
my brother who cares so long they dont stop me from having their cookies.

me too ooooo.... anything other than that is story for the gods

Ur points do not apply to every girl OP

Reasons why women hate each other:
1. Women are surprisingly competitive, amongst each other, and shockingly territorial about their men. It is this natural state of aggressive competition that creates a degree of perceived animosity between women, especially between single women who will usually see other single women as a threat to their own search for a mate.
2. hormones...When all other reasoning fails, refer to the second reason.

na dem problem

after all I b g*y


















I mean I b guy

lolx

OP is actually right..atleast One category applies to some girl...

Cholls:
my brother who cares so long they dont stop me from having their cookies.

You just spoke mah mind

Yea its true. I hate the OP already biiaaaaatchhh!!!!

Enegod:
Reasons why women hate each other:
1. Women are surprisingly competitive, amongst each other, and shockingly territorial about their men. It is this natural state of aggressive competition that creates a degree of perceived animosity between women, especially between single women who will usually see other single women as a threat to their own search for a mate.
2. hormones...When all other reasoning fails, refer to the second reason.

lol ...hormones?

TR0UBLeMaKeR:
Yea its true. I hate the OP already biiaaaaatchhh!!!!

lol ma dear don't be vexed,the truth has to be told...

Cholls:
my brother who cares so long they dont stop me from having their cookies.

bia ...bekiaful

Let's state d fact.. Ladies esp girls hate demselves coz of class, endowment in body parts e.g boobzz, azz, hairdo..... D guys dey go out wit...

Enegod:
Reasons why women hate each other:
1. Women are surprisingly competitive, amongst each other, and shockingly territorial about their men. It is this natural state of aggressive competition that creates a degree of perceived animosity between women, especially between single women who will usually see other single women as a threat to their own search for a mate.
2. hormones...When all other reasoning fails, refer to the second reason.

try to xplain the hormonal aspect

Cutehector:
Let's state d fact.. Ladies esp girls hate demselves coz of class, endowment in body parts e.g boobzz, azz, hairdo..... D guys dey go out wit...

true talk

ebubey:

true talk

so r u gona buy me a drink

Lol only for immature ladies!

Ojukokoro

Very true... That stare they make when another lady walks in or just pass by is common among them all

It's a mate snagging kind of thing.
Anything to appear better than the other woman so as to get the male attention.

I get breast you get breast
I get yansh you get yansh
Why should hate you
It doesn't make sense oh!

Truly,I've been very surprised how the female folks hate themselves.A lady can really hate another cos another female is just talking and laughing with her man or crush.Not that the guy is flirting with the said lady though. A lady can hate another just because she is prettier,more intelligent and confident than her,which is obviously not the fault of the pretty girl.Pls ladies learn to love yourselves.

Characteristics of men
Fun
Laughter
Co-operation
Peace loving
Easy going
Trust-worthy

Characteristics of Women
Bitterness
Jealousy
Hate
Back-stabbing
Conflict
Anger
Competitive


TGAG (Thank God am A Guy)

Really. ....

I think it's natural... Even the female animals hate each other