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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 12:59pm On May 04, 2015
Some parent sef !!!!!

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 1:02pm On May 04, 2015
@26? my mum won't try such, not even in her dream.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 1:03pm On May 04, 2015
May be ur mum is sick of ur presence, why not move out of her apartment xo she could bring her frend son home and start re producing for him.
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Aitee1: 1:07pm On May 04, 2015
pyyxxaro:
Pls would you marry me cry since you don't wanna marry him

Am young , fertile , healthy , soft , an ele/ele engr and not a Wiz kid , am still on my kneels till you tell me to get up cry


Our traditional would be on MAY 29th , I know your mom would be proud of you when I arrive with my bangwagon


My fellow nairalanders how una see this matter grin

It's not funny incase that was your intentions, first off that's a sensitive issue up there angry

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by jamex93(m): 1:07pm On May 04, 2015
bethyz:
Atleast am not looking too old for marriage. This pics was taken dis morning


babe go marry


n invite us to your weeding

we go come

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by talktofemi: 1:08pm On May 04, 2015
slimmy05:
madam, are you trying to market yourself. Come out straight and stop the unnecessary hate on your mum.

She even left her bbpin so they can start adding her. Ladies and their deception

Gbam!

Seems like subdue marketing...with all the innuendos.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by MRBrownJ: 1:08pm On May 04, 2015
@OP
i think she is just letting you know that its time for you to get your own place, and live your own life.
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Wendy80(f): 1:09pm On May 04, 2015
No one can force you into marriage. For a Child u didn't raise, u wanto force her into marriage not even a young fresh dude oh....Ur Mum get mind shaa,

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Bibol(f): 1:12pm On May 04, 2015
OP, I suggest you take down your picture. Its irrelevant to the issue you are seeking advice on. You'd be surprised at so many things people here have been advised to do by their well-meaning folks and still they didn't have to do those things because it just wasn't right. You aren't a child anymore, tell her politely but firmly that you will appreciate if she doesn't bug you with such a request again. Get busy, focus on your work/education, whatever it is you are doing right now. The less time you spend at home trying to argue with her, the more she will respect your decision and eventually leave you alone.

This can be handled well if you go about it in a matured way. No big deal about it because I'm pretty sure she won't drag you to the man's house. Just say No and stick to it

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by publicenemy(m): 1:13pm On May 04, 2015
bethyz:
Atleast am not looking too old for marriage. This pics was taken dis morning

Do you think this is wise?
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by publicenemy(m): 1:14pm On May 04, 2015
Bibol:
OP, I suggest you take down your picture. Its irrelevant to the issue you are seeking advice on

I tire oh...and she also has a pic on her profile...may be she is falling for her mums pressure.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by KanwuliaJara: 1:17pm On May 04, 2015
In this day and age? undecided
Tufiakwa!!!!
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by goshen26: 1:20pm On May 04, 2015
pyyxxaro:
Pls would you marry me cry since you don't wanna marry him

Am young , fertile , healthy , soft , an ele/ele engr and not a Wiz kid , am still on my kneels till you tell me to get up cry


Our traditional would be on MAY 29th , I know your mom would be proud of you when I arrive with my bangwagon


My fellow nairalanders how una see this matter grin

omg!!!!! I feel giving blow, but I don't fight on Monday......lol
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by grandstar(m): 1:20pm On May 04, 2015
Amybijou:


i wish u same in seven folds grin grin grin
undecided
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by justi4jesu(f): 1:20pm On May 04, 2015
bethyz:


I want to confront her to get it off my chest but then, I am having a second feeling not to, but my decision in my mind. I am just 25 going to 26.



There is something fishy about your mum. I smelllll lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by grandstar(m): 1:21pm On May 04, 2015
Amybijou:


i wish u same in seven folds grin grin grin
undecided

NL no go kill person with laughter o!
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Gboliwe: 1:36pm On May 04, 2015
bukatyne:


Forget the 15yr old married man; he is bad news

Do you currently have someone you are in a serious relationship with?

That one isn't even an excuse. There's no code that says she must be married in this lifetime sef. The way I have my mind made up, i'll rather remain single than marry a divorcee and one who may be twice my age? Yuck!

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by subzidi: 1:37pm On May 04, 2015
Poster I think you have come of age and no one has the right to chose a life partner for you! Are you still being catered for by your mum? If so pls get a job, I've discovered this the major bargaining chip most African parents use against their children in order to tilt argument their way! I started working and engaging in commercial activities by the age of 16yrs selling puf and akara cos one day mummy refused to give me money for an important item to me then based on that I made a vow not to be at anyone's mercy but God!
This independent attitude was carried into my adult life and I can tell you I'm better for it! Please be independent even if marry a billionaire today a word is enough! I grew up in the east by the way, Owerri precisely!

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by traware(m): 1:38pm On May 04, 2015
bethyz:
I have been living with my mum for the fist time since I was five due to seperation. Coming back as a grown up has affected my relationship with her. I grew up in the east while she lived all her years in the west. We have had a lot of disagreement to the extent I made up my mind no matter what she does I won't bother myself to react to it.

Firstly she has been hammering on me to get married or bring a man home, she has virtually been disturbing my life with marriage. To cut the long story short, my mother brought her friend's younger brother who has been married for 15yrs with no issue and having problem in his home to come and ask for my hand in marriage on the excuse that he is planning to chase away his wife soon. During the visit I was just smiling because of how close I was to my mummy's friend.

Now I am asking how could my own mother ask me to marry a man who has been married for 15yrs and still live with his wife? How can she ask me to consider marry him? I have kept quiet since this incident and I want to confront my mum about it, but I just feel if I decide to do that I will get so angry talking about it.

I want to confront her to get it off my chest but then, I am having a second feeling not to, but my decision in my mind. I am just 25 going to 26.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 1:40pm On May 04, 2015
publicenemy:


I tire oh...and she also has a pic on her profile...may be she is falling for her mums pressure.
The babe is already frustrated by her mom's words and maybe yielding to her nags.. Really a pity....

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by juman(m): 1:45pm On May 04, 2015
Look, marry the man as his second wife. God bless.

Sending the wife out because of you coming in is not good.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by zinosleek(m): 1:57pm On May 04, 2015
this one u put your pic up, maybe you are desperately looking for a partner. but pls ladies and gent esp ladies, marriage is not a must, dont get married because of outlook of society for society will not be there through the joy and trials esp the trials for they might come for child dedication and the rest. pls try and find happiness and fulfillment in yourself and this will reflect on outlook and u will beam joy and attract a joyful partner
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by zivility: 2:13pm On May 04, 2015
bethyz:
Atleast am not looking too old for marriage. This pics was taken dis morning

I like your confidence - you are a beautiful girl all you need is the right partner for life. Do no let yourself be under any preasure, because it will only led to unsuitable decisions.

If you can, move to another place and stay and be open-minded as to who will be your husband one day as you pray. God knows what is best for you.

Wish you well

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by bukatyne(f): 2:46pm On May 04, 2015
Gboliwe:


That one isn't even an excuse. There's no code that says she must be married in this lifetime sef. The way I have my mind made up, i'll rather remain single than marry a divorcee and one who may be twice my age? Yuck!

The babe is interested in marriage so just trying to gear her thoughts towards the solution.

The mother might be tired of catering for her or thinks she is getting 'old' at home.

The said man might also be rich and maale wants to use her as money spinning machine
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 2:48pm On May 04, 2015
@bethyz

Your problem is very simple. You must save the man's first marriage and the plan is simple. Consult the wife of the man who happens to be your mother's friend and extract a confidential agreement not to expose you in the game plan. She must tell your husband there is no need for him to divorce her, that she is happy that her friend's daughter is his chosen bride. That she accepts the proposal to bring in a second wife.

Then afterwards, there will be confusion, then tell your mom that you can not be a second wife to anyone, she should find a single man. (All these are games to buy time).

Then your mom will confront the man who divorce the wife, (I guess your mom has issue with the friend). Then consult your mom's pastor and extract confidential agreement that you wont be exposed as messenger, before telling the MOG that your mother wants to ruin someone's marriage and expose everything. Wahala don start. You stay for one corner, and be laughing.

Life is all a game, always enjoy the jokes that comes with each obstacles.

Then,

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 2:49pm On May 04, 2015
oyin17:
@26? my mum won't try such, not even in her dream.
you talk as if if she does heaven will fall. all this paper tigers self. mtcheeeeww.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nicepoker(m): 2:49pm On May 04, 2015
bukatyne:


Forget the 15yr old married man; he is bad news

Do you currently have someone you are in a serious relationship with?
relationship is just the word. Forget about the word serious.

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Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by bukatyne(f): 2:54pm On May 04, 2015
Nicepoker:
relationship is just the word. Forget about the word serious.

Serious matters o!

There are types of relationships grin
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nicepoker(m): 3:00pm On May 04, 2015
bukatyne:


Serious matters o!

There are types of relationships grin
one may think u are in a serious relationship not knowing it was only an illusion.
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by bukatyne(f): 3:07pm On May 04, 2015
Nicepoker:
one may think u are in a serious relationship not knowing it was only an illusion.

True again
Re: My Mothers Ugly Wish by Nobody: 3:10pm On May 04, 2015
Nashoji:
you talk as if if she does heaven will fall. all this paper tigers self. mtcheeeeww.




She won't try that with me, now bite yourself

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