Krystalxxx:

No sweery

Aren't you?

laykorn:


Aren't you?

No I'm not

Krystalxxx:


Why do you think it is?

Because mine is not based on that. When I love, I love too hard even without reasons.

Krystalxxx:


No sweery

Very wrong!
It's safe to say attraction is based on beauty (which is widely relative). And it's not every time guys/girls get attracted by looks. Love on the other hand isn't same with attraction. So many folks are yet to get this. Like I tell people, love is not the feeling you feel when you feel the feeling. When you say you love someone, you're saying you've decided to be committed and to "love" the person irrespective of his/her shortcomings/liabilities. Looks have more or less a tiny role to play in this.

AgapeCharis:
Very wrong!
It's safe to say attraction is based on beauty (which is widely relative). And it's not every time guys/girls get attracted by looks. Love on the other hand isn't same with attraction. So many folks are yet to get this. Like I tell people, love is not the feeling you feel when you feel the feeling. When you say you love someone, you're saying you've decided to be committed and to "love" the person irrespective of his/her shortcomings/liabilities. Looks have more or less a tiny role to play in this.

This completely rules out the idea me love at first sight. There's nothing like that. You cannot love someone you don't know.

It all gets clear when the vapour of emotions begin to sublime. You'll get to know you never really loved the person.

Cc:kryrtalxxx

MrCork:

AgapeCharis:
This completely rules out the idea me love at first sight. There's nothing like that. You cannot love someone you don't know.

It all gets clear when the vapour of emotions begin to sublime. You'll get to know you never really loved the person.

Cc:kryrtalxxx

Your theory is wonderful and I would agree with you but let's look at the real world . How many care about this actual love? Face it, most value a pretty face than the one they love. They're too busy marrying good looking flashy types of beauties so as to secure the same luck for their offspring . Maybe people, especially guys, forgive my insistence on that, don't care about love as long as she's pretty

softysparky:

Because mine is not based on that. When I love, I love too hard even without reasons.

Well we can only trust the love we know. I'm sure you have a beautiful heart. But it's men that think that way mostly.

I agree to disagree with OP's view without doing a review of her view.

Krystalxxx:


Your theory is wonderful and I would agree with you but let's look at the real world . How many care about this actual love? Face it, most value a pretty face than the one they love. They're too busy marrying good looking flashy types of beauties so as to secure the same luck for their offspring . Maybe people, especially guys, forgive my insistence on that, don't care about love as long as she's pretty

The theory I gave you is what's applicable in my "real world". How can a man value a container more than the content? It's stupidity to me. Well, you used "most men" meaning you weren't generalizing. Even at that, the "most" is not completely true.

Marrying for beauty goes a long way to explain why we have so many disjointed marriages in the world today.

If you insist that guys marry for beauty, then I won't be wrong to say all ladies marry for money.

AgapeCharis:
The theory I gave you is what's applicable in my "real world". How can a man value a container more than the content? It's stupidity to me. Well, you used "most men" meaning you weren't generalizing. Even at that, the "most" is not completely true.

Marrying for beauty goes a long way to explain why we have so many disjointed marriages in the world today.

If you insist that guys marry for beauty, then I won't be wrong to say all ladies marry for money.

Lol we could say that about 50% isn't based on love

Krystalxxx:


Lol we could say that about 50% isn't based on love

Maybe.

AgapeCharis:
Maybe.

Yeah maybe

Krystalxxx:


I don't believe I am like that. The one I chose wasn't that dream person in looks at all. I am just saying what I have really seen men do. It's like being ugly is a crime a woman should be mistreated for.

But you chose him for a reason? If yes then you're just as guilty as the rest of us.

Romantic love is ALWAYS conditional. ALWAYS! So don't come here tryna judge others or maybe try to make yourself feel better coz you aint.

*just as guilty*

Adaeze003:


But you chose him for a reason? If yes then you're not as guilty as the rest of us.

Romantic love is ALWAYS conditional. ALWAYS! So don't come here tryna judge others or maybe try to make yourself feel better coz you aint.

Hey adaeze, you have the name of one of my close friends back in sec school,lol. But seriously, I get what ure trying to say.

starlingslimnet:
I agree to disagree with OP's view without doing a review of her view.

Hey you can rhyme very well.....maybe we should try a rhyming competition at the poetry section someday........so u don't agree.....well I'm glad you came to share your opinion in the first place

Krystalxxx:


Hey you can rhyme very well.....maybe we should try a rhyming competition at the poetry section someday........so u don't agree.....well I'm glad you came to share your opinion in the first place

Rhyming competition? aww....Alright No Problem

starlingslimnet:
Rhyming competition? aww....Alright No Problem

Yeah you'll be battling with nl's last winner of the poetry competition that held last year. I haven't been dethroned yet*wink wink*

Krystalxxx:


Yeah you'll be battling with nl's last winner of the poetry competition that held last year. I haven't been dethroned yet*wink wink*

Aw....so you won last year? That's interesting and encouraging as a matter of fact informative in the affirmative. When will the competition be holding again?

False, it goes beyond beauty other things are involved. Beauty can't keep a marriage you know. Certain virtues are of immense importance.

Moreover different strokes for different folks. People reason in manners that suits them.

Krystalxxx:
Love is definitely based on looks. So called fake love which is common in Nigeria. Girls look at fine faces and men look at boobs and ass. If a man is in a relationship with an ugly woman, he hardly honours her or treats her kindly. Most romantic gestures are extended to a good looking woman, while an ugly one no matter how loyal or decent, is treated like dirt and expected to be grateful she was even looked upon at all.

It is the undeniable truth that no matter how bad tempered an extremely beautiful woman is, she is treated like royalty. An ugly woman can never get away with such unless perhaps she is married. So called 'love' is not blind, partners, no matter how randy, are chosen for their beauty, by men , to a great extent. Does this not prove that this fake thing people call 'love' is based on beauty?

Your opinions are welcome.

Beauty laced with fine looks, shapelly assets(curves and boobs) can almost always get guys attention but it doesnt translate to love. infact, its more of infatuation & lust.
most times, guys are aroused to sensual desire on sighting attractive ladies. Average looking girls are more taken seriously are real love materials than strikingly pretty girls. Lots of pretty girls dont have characters that men want for their "for keeps" woman, frequent admiration by men make them arrogant thinking they most sorted after.

starlingslimnet:
Aw....so you won last year? That's interesting and encouraging as a matter of fact informative in the affirmative. When will the competition be holding again?

I have no idea , but I'm sure when the next comes up I'll know. It'll be announced.

starlingslimnet:
Aw....so you won last year? That's interesting and encouraging as a matter of fact informative in the affirmative. When will the competition be holding again?

And you rhymed again

DeRay98:


Beauty laced with fine looks, shapelly assets(curves and boobs) can almost always get guys attention but it doesnt translate to love. infact, its more of infatuation & lust.
most times, guys are aroused to sensual desire on sighting attractive ladies. Average looking girls are more taken seriously are real love materials than strikingly pretty girls. Lots of pretty girls dont have characters that men want for their "for keeps" woman, frequent admiration by men make them arrogant thinking they most sorted after.

Confirmed !this is my personal person, keep giving me hope please

Missmossy:
False, it goes beyond beauty other things are involved. Beauty can't keep a marriage you know. Certain virtues are of immense importance.

Moreover different strokes for different folks. People reason in manners that suits them.

That's a different opinion from mine but also a wise one

Krystalxxx:

Yeah maybe

Meaning it could be less than 50%.

Krystalxxx:

And you rhymed again

I Like your nose

Krystalxxx:

I have no idea , but I'm sure when the next comes up I'll know. It'll be announced.

Alright then will like to see you rhyme

AgapeCharis:
Meaning it could be less than 50%.

Lol .....for your mind bah

starlingslimnet:
I Like your nose

Thanks

starlingslimnet:
Alright then will like to see you rhyme

It's a duel. Till then