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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Mcflaxxy: 10:18pm On May 15, 2015
amokeme:
That was how I told my Dad's younger brother "how are you sir" and the man took it P sad and reported me to my dad that I don't have respect
infact u lack manners
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by ledaman: 10:21pm On May 15, 2015
when u r in Rome, behave like a Roman ok
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 15, 2015
I detest yorubas for their greeting sycophancy, how can a girl be calling her boyfriend *brother Taiye*

Orisirisi
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by splashbaby(m): 10:56pm On May 15, 2015
mrborntodoit:


Big.ot!

Why don't you do the world a favor and hang yourself?

Your independence will never come... Until when all the lunatics amongst you see the reason to accept the facts that in Nigeria some other tribes are better than yours and will naturally make progress... Peace will elude all children of sorrow and anger.



With common sense, you will realise that I am far better than you in this engagement... But your stupidity will not let you stop... Until I use "sledge hammer" of rethorics re-shape that your flat head...just like your fathers... Cowards like you don't pick the battle they can win.

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Ghost01(m): 11:14pm On May 15, 2015
It's an integral part of our culture. Some take it to the extreme though, which shouldn't be so. Besides, OP, if I were you I'd keep on ignoring that attention-seeker who demand that you must greet her every time, whether I have something else on my mind or not.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by masqot(m): 11:22pm On May 15, 2015
You better close one of your eyes when you get to a land where people have one eye each. Or else..
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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by bbjummy: 11:26pm On May 15, 2015
We yorubas up north careless

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by amokeme(f): 11:32pm On May 15, 2015
Mcflaxxy:
infact u lack manners
undecided
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by haibe(m): 11:43pm On May 15, 2015
Awoofawo:


You are a proper ipata mi gbo mi gba kind of person. Ti e dowo Olo'un oba.

Just pray you don jam some real area-fathers na that day you go sabi important of greeting cool

I now agree u are mumu as someone said undecided
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Nobody: 11:49pm On May 15, 2015
Not my business...
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by chronique(m): 11:53pm On May 15, 2015
It's only in yoruba land that someone would postrate and use his white agbada to clean the floor while greeting yyou,but would still insult you and tell you ori e o pe,the next minute.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by mariamjane(f): 11:55pm On May 15, 2015
@ poster, this is to say that you were not tutored well if don't appreciate African tradition and respect for elders

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 12:09am On May 16, 2015
papichula:
Good day everyone, i was going to shop yesterday where i learn tailoring. I passed the shop beside us when a girl of about five to seven years older than told me that i passed without greeting her. I know it is right to greet those older than you but there are sometimes you're thinking of another thing and greeting is not on your radar. I smiled and passed thinking she was joking...

In the afternoon me and my senior passed, none of us greeted...she now told my boss dat i don't greet...

Thank God my boss is a watsup man so he just told me that i should try to greet..

The point is
why didn't she complain about the other guy with me? What nutrient do people gain from greeting them that she does not want to let me be...

Work that i just started less than 3 weeks, they want to spoil my name angry


Yorubas, not all are too obsessed with greeting. You will never see an Hausa person complaining about greeting...


That's not only the person I have seen complaining.

This story sounds more like a feminine egocentricism and less of culture. She wants to keep u realizing that she pass u and she's not ur level or so
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by mayor20(m): 1:50am On May 16, 2015
LuvSwollenPussy:

This story sounds more like a feminine egocentricism and less of culture. She wants to keep u realizing that she pass u and she's not ur level or so


Greetings in Africa culture is not unique to the Yoruba culture alone. It cuts across most culture in Africa.
From the narration you made above, you said d person reported u aware to ur master who in turn ask u to try and be greeting people. No culture in Nigeria teaches arrogance or disrespect. If the person is familiar to you then I think you should greet. Am sure you were taught that from home. What I see here is pride because you are know the advertorial in woman but you decided to be work past her on more one occasion.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by mayor20(m): 1:57am On May 16, 2015
chronique:
It's only in yoruba land that someone would postrate and use his white agbada to clean the floor while greeting yyou,but would still insult you and tell you ori e o pe,the next minute.


a woman use her her to wash Jesus if. In the Hebrew culture the host will wash the feet's strangers or visitors. It her culture. Use of Abusive language is universal in all languages. Try to be adaptive and learn how tolerate others peoples way of life.

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by mrborntodoit: 2:11am On May 16, 2015
splashbaby:
Your independence will never come... Until when all the lunatics amongst you see the reason to accept the facts that in Nigeria some other tribes are better than yours and will naturally make progress... Peace will elude all children of sorrow and anger.



With common sense, you will realise that I am far better than you in this engagement... But your stupidity will not let you stop... Until I use "sledge hammer" of rethorics re-shape that your flat head...just like your fathers... Cowards like you don't pick the battle they can win.

You are obsessed with igbo people. The best thing for you is to hang yourself because you will never become anything in life.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by tjcoded: 2:59am On May 16, 2015
Hi

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Awoofawo(m): 5:34am On May 16, 2015
haibe:


I now agree u are mumu as someone said undecided

You just confirm that you lack proper home training. Useless oyinbo he-goat!
A rootless ape forming modern civilization. Ode!
Hopeless acultural monkey.

If your parent should hear all the trash you vomit here, they will definitly be ashame. cool

Many people who are far more better than you, educational, financial, social wise, don't have your kind of mentality but a deranged soul like you is here dancing naked thinking he is something....

Do the below, to flush out of your life all the negative acquired traits in you. Stup!d fool.

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Awoofawo(m): 5:48am On May 16, 2015
precisionindepth:
thks....u r so blessed

Someone just subtle insult you, and you are thanking him! cool

He is indirect saying you lack manner, and guess what? He is right.

Your inability to read between the line also confirm you lack sound educational foundation. Shior!
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by ubath(m): 6:18am On May 16, 2015
It is In Yoruba culture to greet politly. Don't get it twisted.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by chisom18: 6:36am On May 16, 2015
coded01:
You may call it obessession grin but we call it RESPECT... cheesy



Because "we value the importance of greeting"... cheesy



I will also call it Traditional Ethics, we as Yorubas have been taught & grow up to happily live that way... cheesy
ehyaaa i hear you...mr traditional ethics(what%#*?) pls give us 5 importance of "greeting" if u wud. Like what do i stand to lose if i dont "greet" o!
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by chisom18: 6:40am On May 16, 2015
ubath:
It is In Yoruba culture to greet politly. Don't get it twisted.
and why sir is that always the one and only habit(not cultuure) that you ppl always seem to boast about all the time why?!
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by gabbytabby: 7:02am On May 16, 2015
Make the Igbos in the house enlighten mua. Is it that in your culture you just wake up for morning see an elder on your way to the stream and pass by without any word of greeting, see your mother or father and just close mouth they look. your mother and father in law nko you swell like bread whey them put inside water waka pass.

To me every African culture has respect for elders and community at its heart and what way to show this than an acknowledgement of each other when we meet. Even in US and Canada greetings are no biggie.

The generations are getting rude and discourteous and at times instead of addressing this some try to justify it.

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 7:11am On May 16, 2015
mayor20:



Greetings in Africa culture is not unique to the Yoruba culture alone. It cuts across most culture in Africa.
From the narration you made above, you said d person reported u aware to ur master who in turn ask u to try and be greeting people. No culture in Nigeria teaches arrogance or disrespect. If the person is familiar to you then I think you should greet. Am sure you were taught that from home. What I see here is pride because you are know the advertorial in woman but you decided to be work past her on more one occasion.

What's this. How does this relate to what I replied.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by haibe(m): 7:37am On May 16, 2015
Awoofawo:


Iu. Stup!d fool.
dumb. Foul.... I have being having discussion s with tens of pple here and no issue but ur useless uncultured self will place his first argument and be using sensitive words.. stiupid fool.. oponu aiyerada...

You are just an example of the yoruba hypocrites I was talking about on the thread before you came to show usa ppractical example . Ode.. you clame u are a cultured yoruba person but use insultive and sentitive word.. bloody dumb hypocrite.. u have luck I don't have time this morning, would have shown u how stupid you are to the core.. nonsense african he-goat with slave mentality. . Everyone educated and intelligent person understood my point on this thread that respect should be reciprocal. Only a african foool like you would not comprehend that easily.. even if u can, ur slave like mentality will never allow u to demand respect from everyone person all because of some useless aspect of a culture some people founded, of which God even condemns.

When u grow sense, u can argue with people outside ur enclosed and enslaved world. Dont come and be disgracing urself in public... oponu jatijati undecided

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by chisom18: 8:11am On May 16, 2015
splashbaby:
Your independence will never come... Until when all the lunatics amongst you see the reason to accept the facts that in Nigeria some other tribes are better than yours and will naturally make progress... Peace will elude all children of sorrow and anger.



With common sense, you will realise that I am far better than you in this engagement... But your stupidity will not let you stop... Until I use "sledge hammer" of rethorics re-shape that your flat head...just like your fathers... Cowards like you don't pick the battle they can win.
sledge hammer of rhetorics kwanu lol you be thor? all these big gramma just because someone touched on a nerve. ndo o!
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by bayulll01(m): 8:13am On May 16, 2015
steppin:

Their ignorance in that area is shameful.
Even the educated ones think same way.
Once you're not from the North, you're automatically an Igbo.
One of the major reasons why Uncle Joe lost, was because majority of them thought he was an Igbo man.

Ur jona dull lost becos he is the most clueless presido ever liveth,live with that,as for the greetings we are not people that will wake up and kick our fathers,that's what the oba told u,if you can obey the law of the land,kindly relocate or lagooon is the another solutions,awon omo iran ki ran

As for u @op u just started the work abi,continue that way u will be out of the job soon,maybe you are wiser than your boss that told you to greet

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Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Awoofawo(m): 8:33am On May 16, 2015
haibe:
dumb. Foul.... I have being having discussion s with tens of pple here and no issue but ur useless uncultured self will place his first argument and be using sensitive words.. stiupid fool.. oponu aiyerada...

You are just an example of the yoruba hypocrites I was talking about on the thread before you came to show usa ppractical example . Ode.. you clame u are a cultured yoruba person but use insultive and sentitive word.. bloody dumb hypocrite.. u have luck I don't have time this morning, would have shown u how stupid you are to the core.. nonsense african he-goat with slave mentality. . Everyone educated and intelligent person understood my point on this thread that respect should be reciprocal. Only a african foool like you would not comprehend that easily.. even if u can, ur slave like mentality will never allow u to demand respect from everyone person all because of some useless aspect of a culture some people founded, of which God even condemns.

When u grow sense, u can argue with people outside ur enclosed and enslaved world. Dont come and be disgracing urself in public... oponu jatijati undecided

Go find your root in nearest refuse dump!

And let me cure you of one your ignorance, you said you alway switch to english because there no e or o form of addressing elders in it!

Wow! Sir and madam are african words for salutation. Moreover, they are yet to born anyone in your generation that would be bold enough to address the british royals ( or any member europe royal houses ) with your gutter level english eloquence.

Even here in Nigeria, there people you can't open your stinking mouth and address anyhow in your delusion of mastery of english.
Now say after me "YOUR ROYAL HIGHNESS, YOUR MAJESTIC, MY LORD, YOUR HONOUR, IF IT PLEASE YOU...... Declare me your slave. cool

And you indeed a slave to western culture. Ode
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Awoofawo(m): 8:41am On May 16, 2015
gabbytabby:
Make the Igbos in the house enlighten mua. Is it that in your culture you just wake up for morning see an elder on your way to the stream and pass by without any word of greeting, see your mother or father and just close mouth they look. your mother and father in law nko you swell like bread whey them put inside water waka pass.

To me every African culture has respect for elders and community at its heart and what way to show this than an acknowledgement of each other when we meet. Even in US and Canada greetings are no biggie.

The generations are getting rude and discourteous and at times instead of addressing this some try to justify it.

Don't mind those american wanna be. The problem black american are facing now can be trace to lack of respect of elders, which killed the closely knitted family affection present in many rural african home.

We in the cities all over africa are moving unwittly in that direction now. Soon children will start giving their parents the beating of their live......or calling the police on them cool
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by chinenyeInc(f): 8:45am On May 16, 2015
The funny thing is that there own kids don't even greet you. They will just pass you by.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by jahjehova(m): 9:36am On May 16, 2015
Responding to this post will be a waste of space.
Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by Nobody: 10:06am On May 16, 2015
vision2050:
e Karo oo
e ka San ooo
e kale ooo
e Ku irole ooo
e Ku oru ooo.
e Ku ise ooo
e ka bo ooo
e Ku ojo ooo
e Ku erun ooo
e Ku ase ooo
e Ku jije ooo
e Ku ile ooo
e Ku dun ooo
e Ku subsidy ooo
e Ku strike ooo
Yoruba can greet to any length, we have respect for people like they says respect is reciprocal , don't wait for someone to greet you, you can be the first to greet.
#repoduduwa#
since 1450AD what have we gained from the greeting? if a girl greets quickly they will say she is a good girl. Those that doesn't will be wrongfully accused.
If a man or woman minds his/her buisness well he/she won't even notice if smebdy greet or not.

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