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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Ewizard(m): 8:41pm On May 26, 2015
adeitoro:
May be that is the last acid test she has for you to guarantee your love for her.

If you love her for who she is and you know you can afford the cash, I think you cement your proposals to her with this act of charity.

My2cent my fool sense



naw diz d bigga maga.... grin

kidz everywhere!

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 8:43pm On May 26, 2015
orimsamsam:
with ur comment. person go no say u don become maga for too long

by who?
I am only advising Op, I and myself don't hv excess time for boy and girl friend parol.
Currently man I am engross in building my career and business.

Op has time and cash so my advice is not out of place, you know.
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Brownville007: 8:44pm On May 26, 2015
ireneony:
looking at ur post, I will say what she did was very bad.
bro in everything u do apply wisdom.
let me tell u what to do...
send her the money infact send her more than she asked for, but remember not to tell her u want to send the money. after u might have send the money, don't call her....when she calls don't pick her call.
then she will begin to judge herself and come begging..
guy, the problem with u, is u are too nice to her and some girls hate nice guys


n.b: before doing this confirm from ur sister if she really in of need the cash for the said situation. if yes, u can u ahead. with ur plan


my final and sincere advice is for u to dump her...
please dump her and move on

This is the best reply I have gotten today. I forwarded the message to my sister immediately it came in cos we close. She needed money but she said I should go ahead and send it and just term it as what I send to the less privileged. You deserved an award.

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 8:45pm On May 26, 2015
Ewizard:



naw diz d bigga maga.... grin

kidz everywhere!

magad or not, op has the cash and time let him spend it.
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by ireneony(f): 8:46pm On May 26, 2015
Harbigail:
so dearie,u chased a gal 4 a year n she put u tru all dat n nw she wants 2turn u in2 her ATM?wow! am not gonna tell u wat 2do bt i blv u can stil save urself from future finger biting if u knw wat i mean.y make a guy chase u 4 a yr,who stil does dat?i knw some peeps may wanna say morals bt Zap morals.if u love som1 u beta let'em knw.
read the post again the op don't mind being her maga, but his concern is that the lady don't care or show affection towards him..
I bet u if the lady had been talking to him on phone over time, he wouldn't be here finding answers

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by 2dice(m): 8:58pm On May 26, 2015
Which money U wan send .... Why not take the money .... Go give those that need it ..... Or just use to Buy something for ur grannies .... May Dem pack blessing of million GByte dash U .... Or carry am go bet9ja shop carry Juventus straight win against Barcelona .... If dey win u get times 6 of ur doe back ... A wise guy will surely do one of these 3 .... Mtcheww ... She no get papa Ni?

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 9:00pm On May 26, 2015
ireneony:
read the post again the op don't mind being her maga, but his concern is that the lady don't care or show affection towards him..
I bet u if the lady had been talking to him on phone over time, he wouldn't be here finding answers
But he is ere finding answers. Somehow,we stil sayin same thin,did u read d part where he asked if she is using him as a back up?even tho he said he can afford wateva she wants(play d maga)
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by baralatie(m): 9:04pm On May 26, 2015
you sure you need advise so
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by ireneony(f): 9:05pm On May 26, 2015
Harbigail:
But he is ere finding answers. Somehow,we stil sayin same thin,did u read d part where he asked if she is using him as a back up?even tho he said he can afford wateva she wants(play d maga)
he already knew about that and he need not to be reminded..
all he want is a mature and a knowledgeable advice..
for err is human but to forgive is divine smiley
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by jayslick28(m): 9:09pm On May 26, 2015
Bros better use ur money for somtin much more productive.. Abeg

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by KingsJohnson(m): 9:10pm On May 26, 2015
adeitoro:
May be that is the last acid test she has for you to guarantee your love for her.

If you love her for who she is and you know you can afford the cash, I think you cement your proposals to her with this act of charity.

My2cent


You are stil a novice in dis game my guy, u wil neva understand women wit dis ur mentality and reasoning

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 26, 2015
adeitoro:
May be that is the last acid test she has for you to guarantee your love for her.

If you love her for who she is and you know you can afford the cash, I think you cement your proposals to her with this act of charity.

My2cent

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by GentleToks(m): 9:14pm On May 26, 2015
I didn't bother to read other comments so as to know if a similar advice has been given to you by a Nairalanders.

Here is my advice for you

You ll be most magacious Nigerian guy that has ever liveth

She ll survive either wt or without you

It's natural thing for a lady to exploit you when she knows you are in love with her.

You are feeling like this cos part of you still loves her

For d the fact you came out here and ask this question online shows how much like her

Give her d money and become eyes sore cos if a lady does not like you, d more you do, d more she hates you.

Pick up your career or studies and dump that babe

There are millions like her out there waiting for you

Finally, don't give her the money

Give her d money when she least expected

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by omoelu1(m): 9:22pm On May 26, 2015
She wants to use you for "money ritual" or maybe not.
But I don't think she wants a relationship with you, save yourself the torment. Help her if you want to (and can), but you shouldn't feel like its your obligation to help her.

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Uyi168: 9:40pm On May 26, 2015
Tel her to qo to hell...nr vex o,jux dy vex!
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 26, 2015
Don't turn MMS bro
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Juicysam(m): 10:08pm On May 26, 2015
Use the money are supposed to send to eat fresh fish paper soup and some bottles of origin..thank me later

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by nawtyqutekushj(m): 10:17pm On May 26, 2015
MzzTega:
You are now her new ATM. Trust me when i say her friends cajoled her.


Bros,u aint wicked

For you to think about it before falling into her trap shows that you are SMART.

Not smart enough for me..its too glaring to know m just a Pay Pal undecided
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Koolmexxi(m): 10:30pm On May 26, 2015
She finally accepted u, as her atm... She's trying to explore the prospects of u as a goldmine.. As soon as u make dat first payment, for her mind she don hit jackpot... Though u could jus feign ignorance sha and give her the benefit of a doubt.. Wen u confirm the obvious then u simply walk away...
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by MzzTega(f): 10:35pm On May 26, 2015
nawtyqutekushj:


Not smart enough for me..its too glaring to know m just a Pay Pal undecided

Well,if u read what he typed,its clear that he has never sent her a dime. he was able to decode what she was up to. That makes him SMART to me.
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Moscorinho(m): 10:40pm On May 26, 2015
Guy knock her mentality, dull her like arsenal dey dull dere fans for past 8years na. No time for bleeping shite
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by SilverSurfer: 10:41pm On May 26, 2015
adeitoro:
May be that is the last acid test she has for you to guarantee your love for her.

If you love her for who she is and you know you can afford the cash, I think you cement your proposals to her with this act of charity.

My2cent

This your advice get k-leg sha. The young man should move on with his life. I think the op should invest his money and time on what will yield something in return. But OP If you na father Christmas, Abeg I need cash too.

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Tmeey(f): 10:46pm On May 26, 2015
it seems like shes seeking the closest maga. shocked why did she remember you for money time? Ask her na

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by Nobody: 10:48pm On May 26, 2015
Dude it depends on what u really want if u want her to never near u for any reason don't send her that money in fact insult her join
But I if u want her to regret leaving u

Send her the money if she ask for bus money send her flight money

But don't tell her u ar sending it and after sending it don't call her don't pick her call either and don't reply her text u wld be very surprised

Bro u should invest more on psychological approach to situations if not girls will shatter ur life u seem like a very nice guy
I came across one guy selling e-book on women nd stuff sometime ago maybe u should try em book his post made sense I don't even know y am touched by ur post sef

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by U2ice(m): 10:50pm On May 26, 2015
As u park u for jst park up completely....dt bebe no luv u,she n her frnds don talk ur mata n de don beliv shey dem fit magarize u


Guy use ur head...


Bt if u get, me no go mind snd my account num too ooo grin
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by khiaa(f): 11:08pm On May 26, 2015
Do not send her any money, she doesn't care about you, she doesn't even want you as a friend. You are a pest to her and she only sees you as a means to an end, *MONEY*
Don't concern yourself that she is your sister's "friend" who would treat their friend's brother so badly.
I think it is the chase that really excited you, not the girl. You wasted a whole year of your life on a girl who is undeserving of you but yet you still continue to put yourself through the pangs of agony instead of seeking your true love who is out there waiting for you to find her. Why does it take a brick wall to fall on you to open your eyes.
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by khiaa(f): 11:21pm On May 26, 2015
skondo09:
i guess she's trying to magarize u
tot of my head: he frndz b lik u say dis guy hold bail bt u knw lik am, na james u lik wu cldnt evn recharge ur fone, wel such is luv bt dnt discard dis guy lik dt, he might be 'a frnd in ur tym of nid'
she: dts true
(they laf ur mata n clapped)


grin grin grin
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by oromankirisi(f): 11:22pm On May 26, 2015
..you have to man up and know what you want (no need asking her to give you a yes or no and all that) believe me if u had asked for just 2months instead of a year she woulda taken u more seriously, a real man is affirmative and firm,he takes the lead and not wait to be led,every woman wants a male-man. If she keeps you at bay, ignore her and quit the attachments and if she asks for cash and u'v got it send it to her, don't reply her thank you text or call to know how her trip was, that's how to take care of such and still come out with your boss status intact#

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by damijah(m): 11:30pm On May 26, 2015
EroticAngelina:
run for ur life o.
Really? Lol
Nice one tho
Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by FredHandsome(m): 11:42pm On May 26, 2015
The answer is right in front of U! A girl that has been ignoring ur calls and rejected ur fship proposals suddenly asked for a monetary favour... Oh C'mon! Who has bn meeting her needs all these while she's been ignoring you? Why you now? A 'magarizing' idea just flew into her mind, and she wants you to be the 'lab rat'... grin

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Re: After Saying No, Look At What She Sent To Me (advise) by khiaa(f): 11:42pm On May 26, 2015
ireneony:
looking at ur post, I will say what she did was very bad.
bro in everything u do apply wisdom.
let me tell u what to do...
send her the money infact send her more than she asked for, but remember not to tell her u want to send the money. after u might have send the money, don't call her....when she calls don't pick her call.
then she will begin to judge herself and come begging..
guy, the problem with u, is u are too nice to her and some girls hate nice guys
n.b: before doing this confirm from ur sister if she really in of need the cash for the said situation. if yes, u can u ahead. with ur plan

second advise:
my final and sincere advice is for u to dump her...
please dump her and move on.

pick the best as the spirit leads u smiley



If your advice is to dump her, then why do you advise him to send her money?
Is your point that she will regret her treatment of him because she realized the ATM machine she could have had?
Who would want to know that someone you thought you cared about regrets not being with you because of the money she thinks you have.

@op...move on with your life and don't waste another moment of your time/life on someone who is no-one.

By the way, he can't dump someone he never had.

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