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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:17am On Jun 02, 2015 |
babyosisi:Lol. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Bibol(f): 5:48am On Jun 02, 2015 |
ClassicQueen: A gown should solve the dress code problem, don't stress it. Like someone said, its advisable you kneel down to greet her, usually a good mother in law will even lift you up before you reach the ground. Mine did. As for it not being a part of your culture, I do understand but doing it won't hurt and remember that once you marry a man, you marry into his family, his culture and every other thing that comes with him If you can't buy her a fabric, you can get beverage or fruits. Just don't overdo it and be sure its something you can sustain as time goes on. Pack up your dishes when you finish eating and try to feel free. You will be fine |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 02, 2015 |
Thank you all for the advice... |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Leonidas1: 9:03am On Jun 02, 2015 |
i have a husband suit but i need a wife material |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by An0nimus: 12:03pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
veave:This post killed me 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOR1234(f): 12:45pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
arried women in d house.....please how do u cope with house chores,nursing ur baby, building a career, ur job and business......whoops all the aforementioned are sometimes killing,mostimes am on d move all day, gat to wake up as earlier as possible to prepare meal for my family and rush out again before 8am only to come back and resume home work.......d idea of getting a maid is out cos we have decided no third party.....is anyone in my shoes....how do u cope cos dis is affecting my family (Modify) (Quote) (Report) (Share) |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 1:23pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234: What about your husband? 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOR1234(f): 2:38pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
bukatyne:. My husband.....he is fine....he helps with the baby only sometimes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 2:47pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234: Ok |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 2:58pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234: For your post, You have job, do business, build career, chores and nurse you child and your husband seems not to be the helping type. 1. Job: What kind of job do you do? What is the distance between your house to work? Do you work weekends? 2. Business: What type of business is it? Can you combine with work e.g. selling stuffs...? Can it run without you? e.g. having a shop etc. or do you have to actively involved in it e.g. handcrafts? 3. Building career: What do you mean by this? Gaining experience in your job should already be a major way of building your career; do you mean certifications? Is your job different from your career path (e.g. you got a job randomly when searching; our Naija na wa) 4. Chores: Can you cook in bulk and store in the freezer? Get a washing machine to ease washing. Since you both are not open to a live-in maid, can you have someone clean maybe twice weekly? 5. Child: Does he/she go to the crèche? Is your work baby friendly? Do you have a nanny who comes daily? Would like answers to the question Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Me tooo, was so surprised reading she's almost 20years in marriage. . We still be learners oo The comments on that page fit make person rape her husband.. This thread just got sweeter 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234: Super woman. The Lord is your muscle. I'll say, I'm having it pretty easy. My mum and MIL take turns to come care for our son. And I must say, they do an AMAZING job! They also help with breakfast and dinner sometimes. I do mostly bulk cooking which is usually fourth nightly. We also hired a part time domestic help. She comes in thrice a week, does all the cleaning, washing, shopping, errands etc while keeping mama company too. I do think you should look at available options to reduce your stress level so one doesn't pack up when needed most. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Honestly lol. I was almost pushed to taste but..... Chai 20 years, I'm still very surprise. Ma'am EfemenaXY, when I grow up I will want to be like you. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by adesbreath: 5:51pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
I don't know how to create a new handle... Pls can someone put me through. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 7:16pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
adesbreath: Simply open a new email address, then click on join nairaland, register with the new handle u ve got in mind with the new email adress since notification wud be sent to the email adrex. Then you are good to go. Hope I was able to help 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:36pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234:Lady,if you have a husband who doesn't help much around the house,there is no way you won't need a help. If you don't want a live-in househelp then get people who would come in to do the housecleaning.Also try to do bulk buying and cooking of food so your husband just does the warming.He should be able to take care of that. Don't breakdown by trying to be a superwoman. *you forgot to add that you still have to do bedroom service. 9 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Ngokafor(f): 8:36pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
FOR1234: ...oh dear!!!...this is too much!.. ..how on earth do you think you can cope with nursing a baby,cooking and doing the chores,and trying to build a business/career...ALL ALONE without help?...no paid help or even relations to help out.. ....apart from cooking in bulk and all that,getting a help that would clean the house at least thrice a week would suffice. ... ..Dont burn yourself out trying to be a superwoman,as you have observed,your tactics aint working and your home is suffering. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Shiningmama(f): 11:03am On Jun 03, 2015 |
fem29: Thanks dear, God bless you real God. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Shiningmama: Ur welcome hun, keep your head up, God bless |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
thorpido: The problem is, is there light to preserve cooked food for more than 1 day. Do they have a generator and fuel that can carry freezer. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 2:18pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fem29:They should get a deep freezer if they can afford it.The deep freezer can keep food for days. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
thorpido: Yes they probably have a deep freezer but Is there electricity 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 3:02pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fem29:It shouldn't be so bad that they wouldn't have light once in three days. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:38pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:sorry if you see it that way but I don't see it as such. Abeg i dey fear my head biko. someone who has nothing to hide should have at least cleared himself with a much simpler reply. Since, he didn't honor the question, then it's not my fault. I wonder why one person would create an account without any prior into. I didn't feel comfortable that's why. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:33am On Jun 04, 2015 |
And madampinkoko deactivates Hmm 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by babygirlfl: 3:46am On Jun 04, 2015 |
Babymama1: Ohh No. Madampinkoko you have to come back pls. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 4:07am On Jun 04, 2015 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
cococandy:NL isn't for life. People have been leaving here everyday Deactivation ain't that serious a deal. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Wendy80(f): 8:19pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
EfemenaXY Chai kim broke internet, Efe has destroyed it |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by veave(f): 9:18pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
As i dey so my body dey hot like fire. Anybody wey do anyhow e go shock. I go show am anyhow. Before you change am for me, I go change am for you 10 times. If you try nonsense you go collect. Mtchwwwww. Fear no dey catch you? My type of people dey una village? So make I chop your sh.iii.t becos sey na husband i dey fine. You never see anything, you dey look me like gentle geh because i dey sing for church. Just try yourself first. Try am. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
veave: Shuuuu! Who collect your chin chin na? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by coogaluta(f): 10:08pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
veave: Bro. Jeremiah is in trouble |
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