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Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
queenbesha:
Ahn ahn.. this his not a fighting stuvs nau! |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by honourhim: 12:26pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
bukatyne: You people are playing hypocrisy. |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by humilitypays(m): 12:28pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
1. One sure way of knowing a potential poor man is that he condemns & hates beautiful women but admires ugly women 2. The number one quality of a poor man is humility 3. Every poor man is a monk, give him money & he will turn to a love-vendor 4. It is foolish for a woman to believe that a rich man will be faithful to her till death knocks 5. The most difficult challenge that mankind will never overcome is accepting truth based on reality 6. Don't ever tell a woman what you can do for her because she will hate you, instead tell her what you ought to do for her even if you won't do it and she will love you forever 7. One thing women find so difficult to believe is that all men cheat including the man preaching against infidelity 8. The easiest way to win people's love is by telling them what they want to hear even if its fallacy 9. Run far from people who believe that they deserve the best because they think they are the best 10. Most virgins always end up with spoilt partners out of curiosity 11. The only thing that can guarantee you a happy marriage is to remain single 12. Until a woman you desire to love turns you down as a man, you will never believe that life is unfair 13. To every woman she is the most beautiful creature on earth until she clocks 40 & not married; then she will realise how ugly she has been 14. If not for financial provision & security, majority of women wouldn't want to have a man in their life 15. If not for having children, most men wouldn't marry 16. Every man harbours one grudge against women in his innermost heart 17. When a man is about to die, the last thing that comes to his mind is “sex” Note: these quotes belongs to me and they are copyrighted...don't use them without permission. It is only shared to educate people, not to be re-quoted. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by smokescreen4: 12:29pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Wow with these mentality some men have, all they have to do in the after life is to give angel Gabriel a high five and begin to him about the nature of man and dat adultery isn't a big deal and all dose stuffs onatisi and toks2008 have bin saying and they will get a free pass into heaven, you've got to love the life of a man .toks2008 let me ask you a question, the commandment 'thou shall not commit adultery' do you think it applies to both sexes? 1 Like |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Funjosh(m): 12:30pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
FrancisTony: I don't agree with you on this, an abusive man over a cheating man |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by smokescreen4: 12:34pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
humilitypays:number 17 really? 1 Like |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by An0nimus: 12:45pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
*Spits on thread* |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by malbruno: 12:50pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
if this cheating has to do with having sexual intercouse with another woman, then it is definitely a 'No' and should be condemned and discouraged in all sense of it.'' Adultery is against the command of God our creator and should be totally condemned....... We can avoid that when we are led by the spirit of God because Rom 8:14--- said that when are led by God's spirit we are God's children i think we will all want to be God's children 1 Like |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 12:50pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
smokescreen4: How can i explain this? Ok get this right.. I do not support cheating or philandering because as i will always reiterate, i was with a lady for 12years without seeing the undies of another lady and every adulterous person will go to hell if he/she does not repent. But what i am implying is not about maintaining a status quo but the reality on ground which is the fact that most men wil cheat on their ladies/wives not because they do not love the lady but that is the nature of most men and YES monogamy is recommended for a man or people who are priests but nevertheless polygamy is not a sin. Finally i stated many times that guys should try to go for ladies who have the physical sexual endowments they want to at least reduce drastically the possibility of cheating on their wives at least for many many years until she is probably fifty something when she may even be the one to ask you to get a new small wife if you have the money to take care of the many wives. 3 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by anwo247: 12:59pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
TooNoisy: This type of Nonsense is called the Nonsense in Practice and the Nonsense that works! Men have always been different from women. The earlier they understand this, the better. Older women tend to know this. 1 Like |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by onatisi(m): 1:03pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
monex:the bitter truth is this and u can do ur research as well ,the most unfaithful cheating husbands usually by 98% have the most faithful wives in the world . Men who usually claim they are holy and are clean usually get the shock of their lives when they find out that the wife they claim or to be faithful to them actually bangs 3 or 4 men outside without the so called faithful husband knowing. You guys really need to move into town and see what is happening. 3 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Funjosh(m): 1:06pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Most Men Cheat, If you are among the Lucky woman that your husband is cheating on you please don't think about it, God will give you the strenght to overcome. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by anwo247: 1:11pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
onatisi: You are correct! 99.9999999% of faithful wives are wives to unfaithful men.... when you keep a woman busy in worrying about your unfaithfullness, she will hardly think of being unfaithful to you. Most women that cheat are wives to """"good""" men! I do know that we are unfaithful for many reasons. It is certainly not because we do not love our wives. And I do agree with this quote below: 14. If not for financial provision & security, majority of women wouldn't want to have a man in their life 15. If not for having children, most men wouldn't marry 1 Like |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by ekiloui(f): 1:14pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
onatisi: Not God oo...don't blame God for your lack of self control...rather blame the devil. If u've ever read the bible u'll know God frowns on Adultery |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by limamintruth: 1:19pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Amya: Well its your opinion & you are entitled to it. However, note that not 'all' men cheat & neither is infidelity a gender-specific act. BTW these unfaithful men cheat with women, not fellow men. So both men & women cheat in marriages. The only difference is that while cheating women are more discreet with theirs than the menfolk (thus they are hardly caught in the act). And if you are a christian, i expect you to know that God abhors adultery/immorality. God is our Creator, hence He instructed us to avoid the sins of adultery & immorality(amongst other sins) cos He knows we are capable of living a godly life that is free from such vices. So we must stop encouraging encouraging these immoral vices with our baseless claims that men cant abstain from it cos the fact is, Only lower animals possess zero control over their emotions. 3 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by tommyich06: 1:23pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by limamintruth: 1:31pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
onatisi: Lol, speak for yourself alone bro. If God did create us men to be 'cheats' or 'sex addicts' as you claim, why has this same God instruct us all (in the Holy books) to desist from adultery then? . Why will He ask us to abstain from immorality/adultery if He very well knows He created us in such a way that we dont have any control over our sexual urges (as you claim) Its obvious God knows both men & women possess the ability to put our sexual urges in check, while maintaining fidelity in our marriages. That is why He has instruct us against adultery. So lets kindly avoid spreading the sermon of satan that encourages infidelity please. 2 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Amya(f): 1:37pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
oseod: Thank you! You put it more better than I ever could. |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by limamintruth: 1:47pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Funjosh: Alot of men cheat & alot of women cheat too. And we still have men & women who dont cheat as well. Remember men cheat with women & vice versa; thus, infidelity is not gender-specific. Its all about self control & self discipline. And these virtue can be possessed by anyone irrespective of what gender one belongs to. Nowadays, we see young girls who are in steady relationships with their fiances still dating sugar daddies & married men by the side. Also, we see how alot of married women patronise young guys for sex while they pamper these boys with money. All these are vices we witness daily in our present times. Fortunately these are vices that only self discipline/control can solve. And the only way to be able to possess lasting self discipline is when one draws closer to God & keeps His words. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by limamintruth: 1:52pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
smokescreen4: Thank you very much for this great post bro. Some nairalanders have already assigned cheating/infidelity as a natural attribute of man as created by God, lol. I only pity the poor ladies that agree with that erroneous claim that 'all men cheat'. 2 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by chlowi(f): 1:57pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Tay16: The Vendetta ...funny how what we wish others we reject , thank you for responding |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by menxer: 1:58pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
malbruno: You assume everyone believes in 'God', what about the God-less? |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by menxer: 2:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
so we are still here splitting hair? na wa oooo... in a world that people are married to all sorts of things/animals, you should be grateful for having a spouse that cheats on you faithfully. |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Toks2008:just say u don't want to engage me in a debate because u know I will flaw you and ur warped opinion on marriage and fidelity.. but no worries, I understand. |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by limamintruth: 2:07pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Toks2008: And if i may ask, why do you keep saying that it is the 'nature' of men to cheat? Does that mean any man that doesnt cheat is 'unnatural'? Is infidelity or cheating gender-specific? Do these cheating men carry out the act with fellow men or with women? Are you aware that most of these runs-girls have fiances whom they are in steady relationships with respectively Note that the same way these married men are cheating on their spouses is the same way most of these runs girls sleeping with married men are cheating on their fiances too (whom they pretend to be faithful to & hope to marry someday in the future). Remember also that alot of wealthy married women also cheat on their husbands by engaging in sugar-mummyism with young boys. We have many of these kind of women in nigeria & abroad to this day. Therefore, its no one's nature to cheat. Every human has the propensity to cheat irrespective of gender. Thankyou. 5 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
pray for husbands not to cheat and not encouraging immorality.... a wife putting condom in her husband's traveling bag? what a generation? |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by chlowi(f): 2:12pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Stillfire: May the odds favour you ...... you spoke well |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
WOW!!!! This is the most despicable thing i have ever read lately! Imagine, making excuses for cheating? Adultery for God's sake! Once you are married and anyone cheats, it is absolute grounds for divorce! How can you break trust and say it's not the worst thing that can happen in a marriage? It is ONE of the worst things that can happen in a marriage!!!!! And if you are a woman and you wrote this, you are a disgrace to Nigerian women and women all over the world! Nigerian women have been victimized by their men for so long, they are suffering from a bad case of Stockholm syndrome! Shame on you OP!!!! And before you yarn dust, i am not a woman/feminist, but i am a firm believer in fairness and equity!!!! Plus i have a gaddamn mother and sisters and would absolutely not want my sister to be victimized by a cheating spouse!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: A Cheating Husband Is Not The Worst Thing That Can Happen In Marriage. by Unibentested(m): 2:29pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
onatisi: LWKM |
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