Frankie9ice:


Guy, you do not speak for xtians, you speak for yourself. That a man cheats isn't an excuse in d Bible for his spouse not to submit to him. The man whose picture the Bible in that chapter where wives were asked to submit to their husband is certainly not 'brother' kinda man,........

onatisi:
this is the truth majority of young married ladies don't understand. But older married women do and that is why they are never bothered when they learn their husbands in cheating outside ,their only problem is him marrying them. Now we have married women who even pack condoms into their husband things when he is traveling. Women must know that the first thing in a man brain about the opposite sex is sex .that is the way god created us.

kay29000:

God bless you. You are a rare kind of girl. I posted something similar to what you posted on that girl's thread yesterday, and I received some bashing. I was just being realistic, and I hope more girls start to think like you, for their own sake.

ttomexy:
please, a cheating husband is the worst thing that can happen in marriage especially to a faithful wife, it is a taboo when a wife cheat but it is normal when the husband cheat?

TO ALL CHEATING HUSBAND- Wa ba eru re ni bode, ole koni gbe ( you will meet your load at the bus stop, it will not be stolen)
TO ALL LADIES CHEATING WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S HUSBAND: check it, you will never experience peace, what you sow, you reap
TO ALL WOMEN/MEN REAPING WHAT THEY HAVE SOWN: Be patient, you just need to reap it any way, but you can also pray for mercyyyyyy
TO ALL FAITHFUL SPOUSES: You will laugh last

My opinion

TooNoisy:
What exactly is your point? So women should expect their husbands to cheat? What nonsense is this?

FrancisTony:

An eye for an eye lead no where.

Practise yours, and leave hers.

ttomexy:



Oh you like such ladies, please marry one, she will kill you when she is sure you have gathered enough for her to live,

o ma se ooooo

chykdidi:


we re not talking about the building blocks of family, rather we talking about the nature of sex in me ... I am penis oriented... In the minds of me, the penis reigns supreme... “His big head is ruled by his little head”

Toks2008:


I love your post and i will quickly address the two bold parts.

1. Unfortunately it is a taboo for a lady to cheat on her husband and that is why even JESUS said that the only condition a man can put away his wife is when she sleeps with another man while married and there was no where in the bible where a woman was asked to divorce her husband for same reasons. Yes i know that Biblical injunctions are bi-gender in context but this particular quote was very gender specific and here it is:"But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and any man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"Matthew 5:32



[b]2.A woman is permitted to marry another lady's hubby.Yes hard to take in but its a fact.Women are very ok with being a second.third....wife and that is just their make-up.

There is really no husband snatcher but husband sharer but it is when the present wife refuses to mellow down and accept this that the man makes up his mind to stick with the new lady and dump the first wife but most times, we see men who marry second wife still showing great love and affection for the first wife.

I can't continue to stress this fact but please our young ladies should start learning this truth now.There is more to life than looking for a faithful man about. A faithful guy can become unfaithful and vis avis so do yourself a favor and stick with a man knowing that he could be unfaithful,polygamous or crazy hopeless philanderer.

For the guys, i always say if you know you are hopelessly lost to the spirit of philandering please and please do yourself,your wife and the children a favor by taking your sexcacades far far away and use a protection to at least reduce the chance of bringing home crazy infection to that decent and faithful lady. I will stop here.[/b]

FrancisTony:
I can only speak for Christians.

Bible said love your wife as Christ loved his Church.
Any Christian man that supports OP will definitely not eat his cake and have it.
Adultery and Pre-marital sex is evil - shun it.

Don't be a cheat and expect submissive/respectful wife.


N/B - Quote responsibly...

zed7:
How many Nigerian women have left their husbands for cheating only? Most cases of divorce I've seen is because of abuse, neglect, irresponsibility and maybe in addition to cheating.

Yet to see a woman who marries a hardworking, providing, and decent man whose only weakness is cheating. Men fantasize about sleeping with any good looking female. Sex doesn't equate to love for men, more like adventure.

FrancisTony:

Really??

Trust me, an abusive man is better than a promiscuous man.

P.S - I'm not supporting any.

onatisi:
To be honest with ourselves,this is a critical issue that has actually broken up a lot of marriages. When a man has sex outside and the woman finds out ,she decides to leave . If you ask the man he will tell u it was nothing that he was only playing and nothing serious. Women must understand this fact about men.men need sex all the time ,he may stray and misbehave but that doesn't change his love for u ,he still loves his wife but he just wants to have a quickie just for fun. I have seen and heard of true life stories where the wife entered the room to find her husband on top of another woman and all she told her man was just to commot his prick and stand up,the man later begged and begged . Up till today they are still happily married. women who have this kind of wisdom are usually happy because their man is happy. Don't try to cage a man sexual desire and satisfaction to u because once he breaks out he may never come back, look at him like a boy that needs to be naughty at times,but who always comes back home to his darling mommy at home .

FrancisTony:

I've said my own!

You should have accepted you're not a Christian and pass my post.
Consequence for cheating is an eternal damnation.

indiraserv:
I like no love your points
However your post got me thinking what is the worst thing that can happen to a marriage?

FrancisTony:

An eye for an eye lead no where.

Practise yours, and leave hers.

andromida:


In short women should accept anything and whatever, yes women should learn to "manage" after all they are lucky if a man marries them at all. Hehehe

slyfoxxjoe:
Only a woman with extremely low self esteem would condone any form of cheating from her man.. reason being deep inside she thinks she doesn't deserve or would never find anything better.. I strongly suspect OP is one such woman.

Toks2008:


I love your post and i will quickly address the two bold parts.

1. Unfortunately it is a taboo for a lady to cheat on her husband and that is why even JESUS said that the only condition a man can put away his wife is when she sleeps with another man while married and there was no where in the bible where a woman was asked to divorce her husband for same reasons. Yes i know that Biblical injunctions are bi-gender in context but this particular quote was very gender specific and here it is:"But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and any man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"Matthew 5:32



[b]2.A woman is permitted to marry another lady's hubby.Yes hard to take in but its a fact.Women are very ok with being a second.third....wife and that is just their make-up.

There is really no husband snatcher but husband sharer but it is when the present wife refuses to mellow down and accept this that the man makes up his mind to stick with the new lady and dump the first wife but most times, we see men who marry second wife still showing great love and affection for the first wife.

I can't continue to stress this fact but please our young ladies should start learning this truth now.There is more to life than looking for a faithful man about. A faithful guy can become unfaithful and vis avis so do yourself a favor and stick with a man knowing that he could be unfaithful,polygamous or crazy hopeless philanderer.

For the guys, i always say if you know you are hopelessly lost to the spirit of philandering please and please do yourself,your wife and the children a favor by taking your sexcacades far far away and use a protection to at least reduce the chance of bringing home crazy infection to that decent and faithful lady. I will stop here.[/b]

Amya:


Quick question. If you were a woman and you find out your husband slept with another woman what will you do?

a. Kill yourself by overdosing on pills.

b. divorce your husband and take your kids.

c. None of the above.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating for cheating husbands rather all what I'm trying to do is to let women know that if their spouse cheats on them, it's simply not the end of the world. They should not consider suicide. They shouldn't become bitter and depressed and feel they've failed as a woman just because their husband screws another.

Toks2008:

[b]
Anytime i write strong opinionated views concerning sensitive issues like this,people tend to quickly juxtapose my posts with my personality but this is not so.

I am a believer with zero tolerance to infidelity and a living example to that but lets tell each other the truth.9 out of ten men will cheat on you and let me ask these adrenaline filed ladies who believe its a ground for divorce some questions.

1. Would you rather leave your marriage for that husband sharer to fully take over your man?

2.If you leave your hubby will you ever date or marry another man?

3.If your answer is yes to question 2,is there a guaranty that this new guy will not cheat on you?

4.Will you rather spend all your life looking for a faithful guy about which is tantamount to being sampled by several guys in your quest to see mr faithful?


Please i beg our ladies especially the young ones who might still be filled with illusion of finding a prince charming that will never cheat on them to relax and channel their energy to something better.Expect that guy to cheat oin you even before he ever does so that when it happens you will be ready psychologically thereby reducing or eliminating heartbreak and if he never does then kudos to him and congrats to you.

Cheating in retaliation is the most foolish and clueless thing a lady can do because trust me,you will get a worse bargain of the consequence in all ramifications.[/b]

sunnydayasaba:



I reject ur prayer in Jesus name...Quit quoting me if u hv nothing meaningful to say...Am entitle to my opinion.