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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by bodee(m): 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
jaybee3:Hmmn, very true |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Bifwoli: 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
oyin17: I won't blame the man,i blame the raging hormones inside him.Clinton's been tempted,Arnold Schwarzenneger done that and even Jesse Jackson fathered a baby with another woman due to raging hormones. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Aminat508(f): 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
ayusco85:. . Na error nah |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Why will a house wife employ a maid to do her house chores?The maid may even be good in bed and cook than madam. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
I will blame the man's d!ck.. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by myklangelo(m): 10:17pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Cutehector(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
the wife is to be blamed |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by eliwa47(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
i don't know ooo. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by spardee(m): 10:21pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
For me, the large part of the share should go to the man for stooping so low to marry a woman who won't make him a good wife out of sheer irresponsible nature. Women should get this straight, if you open your gates for temptation, it will swallow you. Imagine you got married to someone and the only thing you expect is for him to keep his marital vows while your moral leaning is lost to wanting to be the madam. You must strike a balance between whatever you do and your home. Though a cheat won't stop at his promiscuity, but why start it by giving him the chance. Some foolish people still think I'm blaming the man when the woman actually threw her supper to the cat. I blame your incapacity to discern between marital vows and marital events. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by freecocoa(f): 10:22pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
cococandy:I'm in shock for real, like seriously? They are blaming the woman? How is it sane that the wife should be responsible for her hubby's errors? 7 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by vintop: 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Both are to be blame ooo |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by freecocoa(f): 10:24pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
peeparty:So if I can afford a maid, I shouldn't, just so my hubby don't cheat? What sort of reasoning is this? 4 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Spells(m): 10:24pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
The men are to be blamed...1. The fact that ure a married man alone should make u abstain from anything under skirts except that of ur wife... This reason is reasonable enough for a reasonable Man, a husband, a father to be or a Father. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Baboo13(m): 10:24pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
To me, I don't really support having a househelp except when the work in the house is becoming too stressful.. But if a man is disciplined, no matter who the househelp is, he won't stoop low to do such.. But at times, konji can be a bastard sha 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by ayusco85(m): 10:26pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Aminat508: error keh . issoraite |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
When people say that the husband is stooping so low, I don't understand; are they saying that the housemaid is less than human, just because she happens to be an housemaid? The Nigerian mentality that your level in life is determined by how much money you make or your educational background is quite honestly annoying; every occupation should be accorded it's dignity, housemaids offer an essential service to the society and should be respected as such. That stated, when a woman fails to realize that part of the seduction process involves the respect and care she offers her husband I.e in the little things she does, like making him food, paying attention to his attire, etc if she totally reneges on these duties and leaves it to the housemaid, she effectively sets up her husband to be seduced by the housemaid; besides, a housemaid is so awestruck by the attention she receives from the master of the house, she is willing to submit to a lot of things madam no longer deems necessary and if you're a man, you know there's nothing more flattering nor seductive than a willing woman....in short, it is my opinion that when a man begins to cast a lustful glance at the housemaid, it's a symptom that madam is neglecting her duties somewhere....enjoy yaself 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Brugo(m): 10:28pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
. I don't blame the man at all. Just a booty call... nothing more. I blame the maid who seduced the innocent man. I also blame the wife who saw the signs and turned a blind eye. . 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by bee444: 10:29pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
No one is to blame! But don't you ever leave a housemaid alone with your husband. Men are as faithful as their options. Regardless of faith or strong will, a man will always be a man. Please don't bring the idea of " I trust my man". Trust is when it does not relate to women. Men are very adventurous, and curiosity they say kill the whatever. Nature can't be defiled. The most powerful are struck down by the power of the punany. As faithful and God-fearing as I am, I couldn't take my eyes off my wife's sisters when they came visiting. As soon as I made the move on one of them, she reciprocated. God came down that day to save me... I was about entering that promise land, then a knock on the door. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by vislabraye(m): 10:29pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
agarawu23: In all fairness, you can't blame the woman for hiring a househelp. She just can't do all the domestic chores especially when she has children and a career. But where I will blame the woman is if she naive enough to employ a matured sexy woman . But the man should take the responsibility of being faithful. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by peeparty(m): 10:30pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
sir pls to avoid story that touches d hrt.avoid anything daht would bring yaga yaga in ur home freecocoa: 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Obike10: 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Aminat508: give credit to gist.mania. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by luthorcorp: 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
blame the dick... 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by vislabraye(m): 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
bee444: Gbegen.... wife sister ? Lol. She sef bad Oh... |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by nwakaibeya1: 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
many of the maids are not maids in the real sense of it the husbands see them as beautiful grown ups due to the world in which those maids come from and belong knowingly and unknowingly to them because many of them are used as night traders,which is spiritually designed and it takes the spiritually powerful to escape the traps of this maids and in some cases the wife connives with the maids spiritually to ridicule the husband all are designed in the spiritual expecially when the wife is a shoe shinner where the maid is all these things happen spiritually and then manifests physically and human beigns cannot decode them ordinarily even the so called born agains are worst hit but they continue to pretend and suffer in silence and shout pastor ride on and suffer at night vigils and fasting without results and dwell in HOW I FOR DO?and the so called pastors have no solution because they the pastors and prophets lack the real JESUSCHRSIT light ,the mantle ,the power that be to deal with this hidden nations so ITS the three people involved 95% AND the solutions are available but who is ready to come to the LIGHT?many keep asking what is the LIGHT?off the electricity bulb in your room and light is back to see the minute reaction of the LIGHT we refer to and its consequencies then think of the LIGHT the POWER THAT BE we talk about? 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by hardisha81(m): 10:32pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
annoymous:gate man In this issue?... are u from Lagoon ethnic group? 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by 989900: 10:34pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Baboo13: I agree with everything until the 'stoop so low part' . . . that is exactly where women lose the plot, you call it 'stooping low', the male homo sapien calls it 'bush meat'. 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Swagk101(m): 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
richidinho: |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by francizy(m): 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Blaming the househelp is like blaming GEJ for what is happening in Nigeria presently.. Channel the blames to the right quarters! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jrerico1(m): 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
I think the man brought himself so low, but the woman should be blamed. No matter how occupied she is, she should persevere bearing in mind that her child will grow and the responsibilities will be less. Pinched Girls are looking for slight opportunity to snatch people's husband, sometimes these temptation is irresistible |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Swagt101(m): 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
freecocoa:Dem warn u now u dey claim stronghead, Na dog wey wan lost no go listen to the hunter's whistle oo.... |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Aminat508: You go sweet kiss,choi see lips like center of agbalumo |
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