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Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bukatyne(f): 11:57am On Jun 19, 2015 |
damiso: Na real sister... Met my husband in 100L 1st semester so no random dates Before him sef, I do not go on yeye dates.... Had a guy who in desperation paid for my photocopy N20... (after a while together). Once went out and we shared a cake... Why buy two; are we hungry I always told hubby; let's buy the ingredients and cook ourselves or buy films and watch or stroll around. People tell me I am strange anyways; I 100% believe them. It is just now that I am more into going out things; I guess growing up/evolving. I do not get money = romance thingy; My parents gave me so why would spending yours be romantic to me? Stroll round, watch films, cuddle, surprise appearance somewhere... Now you are talking Remember one day hubby waited for me at the gate of our estate (closing late that day) and he started saying fine babe, fine chic wat's up? I had walked past and it dawned on me it was him and I went back.. See us laughing; now that's romantic I don't get it either; a friend showed me a chat where an ex- was begging for house rent it is that pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ObiOkpor(m): 12:22pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Nneka123:To watch each other like a television set and probably pluck some mango fruit to sale in the market. Hope i answered you correctly? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by An0nimus: 12:31pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Nneka123: to pluck mangoes I guess. can't let those sweet mangoes waste like that. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Obodo999(m): 1:10pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
All these hungry Ladies sef, na wa oh. smh. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bellong: 1:33pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
cedaraustine: Everybody who reads stuff in this section knows my gender. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by pickabeau1: 1:36pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bellong: Maybe he wants to take you out |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bellong: 1:40pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bellong: in these days of ritual killers and gang rapess and all what not, any girl who follows a guy she doesnt know well to anyplace hidden is taking a risk. (The case of that absu girl raped by her male friend and his 6 other friends come to mind.) Nobody says they have to go to expensive places and neither is there a rule that the money must come from the guy. I don't know what's so hard to understand about that sef and why we have thread popping up and down because of it. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
I used to read a lot of these back in my days Pure love things. tpiadotcom: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
damiso:Some guys who know they only have sexual interest in the girl will still complain that she is high maintenance when they both know they are in it for what they can get. The guy wants to get between her legs and the girl wants his money yet somehow, both of them expect the other person to be the 'mugu' and give up their bargaining chip easily I laugh. If they are both genuinely interested in each other without the incentive of sex or money at the back of their minds, they don't need anyone to tell them how to arrange convenient inexpensive dates. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bukatyne(f): 4:01pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
cococandy: In Kulyie's voice, Gbam! |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Stillfire: 4:02pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bellong: Rotflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chillisauce: Absolutely. She's only playing with her life. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Stillfire: 4:13pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bukatyne: This is how you know those from reputable background. What money can you give me that my dadddyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy has not done in 100 folds? That is why Naija men do not work on their sour character, because all they need to do is to have money and that's it, the average naija girl doesn't care if he's a he-goat, she will die there. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ireneidiva(f): 4:34pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bukatyne:That was in those days. Stroll to a guys house now and get raped. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva: So how do we get out of this dilemma, the girls don't wanna fvck and the guys don't want to be magad.... I think you guys should allow the boys continue wiht their "come to my house syndrome" while the babe's keep up with their "let's go out" syndrome.... The more persuasive person wins it.... The 0p of the first thread started this sh1t |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva:All guys are not perverted. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Ewuro4: 5:13pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Glutton for Punishment Money, food, shopping bags ... That's all they know like dem papa dey starve them. If you really wanna hang out with your boo, what's wrong with a walk in the park & coffee/drink to hydrate? Must he pull his wallet everytime Earn yourself some self respect jor. Charity they say begins at home. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bukatyne(f): 5:20pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Stillfire: 100% correct A man should not do chores, the kids are the woman's responsibility, she should have all the characters et al Yet you call them sperm donors and CFOs and they start whinning Thanks |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by damiso(f): 5:21pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
cococandy: Like I said Cunning man die cunning man bury am. She wants your money, you just want to chop and clean mouth = equation balanced |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by bukatyne(f): 5:23pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva: Which days, this was about 8 yrs ago You can stroll to his gate if you are scared of rape. Again, I think the type of guys ladies hang out with is very important The point is that if you don't want to visit his house so early in the relationship, you can find in-expensive or no-finance-needed activities for a date. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by damiso(f): 5:31pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Parents have a lot to do seriously. Firstly try and have the amount of children you can at least give the BASICS plus a little extra once in a while. I know it's not easy but like you said about 80% of charity begins at home. My mum was still buying my clothes till I got to 200l and a strange top or slippers would have warranted serious questioning. I had course mates who were sending money home to their parents,paying house rent , buying cars for their mothers shuo a pikin in school that is not working. And before people spring the poverty card there were loads of gals from extremely poor backgrounds who still did not think sleeping with guys to get money was acceptable. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ireneidiva(f): 5:42pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
njokusboy:Relationships are not just about sex. Some people choose to wait. There are many inexpensive places to hang out. And guys should chill jor, how much is a plate of food or just drinks sef |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ireneidiva(f): 5:44pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
FrancisTony:Some are. So how do we know who is who? Heard girls complain about guys being all over them when they visit. Better to avoid it until the guy can be trusted. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ireneidiva(f): 5:46pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
bukatyne:8 years is long enough. Anyway I agree with you. Its better to choose an inexpensive public place with cheap food and drinks. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 5:47pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Hahahaha I can relate. If I got a gift, she would ask me "who is he? Me and your father don't know him.Take it back." And When I'm like 'I'm an adult, can't I do what I want?' Her response? "Go and be and adult in your own house. Not under my roof!." I resented it. But now I know better. She obviously knew better than me that no gift is really free. damiso: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva: I personally do not have a problem with taking anyone I fancy to anywhere in this world... what I find unsettling is the consensus that people need to hang out to know each other, can't "knowing each other" be done in the boys house? |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva: The fact is that no guy can be trusted, a guy who wants to sleep with a girl would be patient enough, nd it's easier to strike when she presumes he's trustworthy enough |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by ireneidiva(f): 5:52pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
njokusboy:For security reasons its not safe na. The guy could rape the girl or arrange his friends to do that. Its better to know him in public places until u can trust him at least. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
njokusboy:or you could go to the girl's house. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ireneidiva: I already answered you, most guys already have a motive before they approach any girl, if what he wants is sex, he'd get it eventually... you can only delay |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And 'taking Out Syndrome' by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
cococandy: Nope, maka why nah? Ladies houses are usually uncomfortable.... |
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