I have been dating this girl for about 3months now; two days ago, she sent me a worrisome text that got me thinking. Please read below and tell me what you think I should do.

This is how it all happened, 4days ago, I traveled from Owerri to Portharcourt for a seminar. When I got to the PH, I boarded a taxi to get to my destination. Few minutes after I step down from the taxi, I realized my phone wasn't with me, (I mistakenly dropped it inside the taxi)and the taxi was long gone; so I call my line immediately, and the taxi man answered the call, and told me he is on his way outside the state for a work, but promised he will return the next day. He said I should come to their company the next day to collect it.

The next day, I went to the taxi company and they gave me my phone, the battery was dead, so I want to my hotel room to charge it in other to contact my girlfriend (whom I know must have been trying to contact me for long) ( I don't have her number offhand yet) to let her know I arrived PH safely. Immediately my phone got some life, 3 messages from my girlfriend entered my phone, when I opened it, I was shocked to see the content.

In some of her messages to me, she said "you think you can do anything with a girl, and go free? After I finishing dealing with you, whenever you see a girl you will you will run for your life, that is if ever you will survive. No matter where you run to, I will find you. This is not a threat, this is a promise... you have just dig your own grave, In your next life you wouldn't mess with a girl like me. You were deceived by my calmness, that's why you think you can do anything you like to me.. Lolz! Had it been you know me well, I doubt if you will try nonsense with me. Go and ask very well about me, pple who know me well will tell you that you are finished dude, you will see fire, you mess with the wrong girl, RIP in advance bastard , we shall see who laughs last".

After reading the messages, I was wondering why on earth will she send such to me, so I called her phone several times, but she kept declining my call. When I was scrolling through my phone to uncover what went on, on my message outbox , I noticed this text message was send to her from my phone during the period my phone was with the taxi man: " DON'T CALL THIS NUMBER AGAIN, YOU ARE DISTURBING ME". I think she was calling my phone after I left it in the taxi, and the taxi man stupidly thought the best thing to do was to send such message to her to make her stop disturbing him while driving.

Now, I'm still in PH, planning to travel back to Owerri tomorrow. She is still declining my calls. I have send her several text messages explaining what happened, but got no reply from her. I have called her neighbour to ask about her, and she said she hasn't seen her.

Truly, this made me realize I don't really know her that well, or know what she is capable of doing. I don't even know if I should report the issue to the police when I get to owerri, or I should just take it as an empty threat.

What will you do if you find yourself in this scenario? Will you still continue with the relationship if she finally realize you are innocent?

Ok

your returning to Owerri to meet ya already dug grave

She is an insecure psycho. She won't believe your stories until you present a strong evidence. I think you might need to contact the taxi man and tell him to explain the whole situation to her. In addition, you need to have a strong word with her.

she can do nothing, its just a threat and since she allowed her anger take d better side of her, I know she will be regretting her text to u, that's y she is scared of picking your calls. na small pikin dey do her.

Ogbeni this is just a pure case of misunderstanding, just give her 1week to chill am 200percent sure her head will return to factory default

vizkiz:


them don release you

They think say them fit drown us not knowing say we be garri

Bro, I will advise you to discontinue the relationship with immediate effect. Even after sending a couple of messages to her she still did not shift her ground. If I were you, I will report this issue to the police. You sounded reasonable hence u don't need such girl.

vizkiz:


welcome back nigga!

Thanks bro....
he my wife?!

vizkiz:


you keep wife for my hand?

Wah r Broz for

..

Okpe ohhh!!!! see serious gone

vizkiz:


I get one fine babe for you though

How e go be na

Abegi , this na serious matter o. Don't just read and go, Your advice is highly needed

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If this is for real, Op u too dey fear! Haba! Pls man up brother, I can even perceive the fear from ur post, all because of common text message! How old are u?

Don't call her again, when u get to owerri, explain things to her, & if she doesn't give u room to explain, pls give her time to cool off. why would she threaten to ruin your life, what possibly has she done for u to warrant such threat?

Only if you can do this ... No calls ... No Text ...Nor Visiting Her ... Till Her Brain restore Back ... Lastly Be PrayerFul ... Otumorpkor tinz .. Diss Girls Aint to be Trusted

snakebeat:

If this is for real, Op u too dey fear! Haba! Pls man up brother, I can even perceive the fear from ur post, all because of common text message! How old are u?

Don't call her again, when u get to owerri, explain things to her, & if she doesn't give u room to explain, pls give her time to cool off. why would she threaten to ruin your life, what possibly has she done for u to warrant such threat?

hey man ... Why not snakebite ... As moniker ...

2dice:
hey man ... Why not snakebite ... As moniker ...

Lol...

hahahahahahahahahahahahahshshshahaha.........sincerely speaking this story funny die.



my advice::::::::::::
I guess you both just started dating,those messages were typed out of anger.you need to explain your assss out before she believes you,Dont just relax and think you have explained enough.If I were her,I would do worse.it takes a whole lot of trust for her to believe your story.

Dollyak:
She is an insecure psycho. She won't believe your stories until you present a strong evidence. I think you might need to contact the taxi man and tell him to explain the whole situation to her. In addition, you need to have a strong word with her.

good one there... Btw, you know say una own 2 much?? y must one go the extra mile to convince you guys na...

SMH 4 GIRLS

Go back to that taxi office, ask for that very taxi man, he will take u from ph to owerri, then she will explain how it all happened, after she must have believed u, break up with her.

I knew he typed such out of anger, but it is too much nah, to threaten ur bf like that, "mbanu"

my brother....

This one is Stronggggg !!!!


Option 1, report to d police on getting to owerri for proper investigation, WOMEN can do and undo (WO-MEN, Wo unto Men)...


Option 2, wen u get to owerri call me, lets cut the chickens head off, for threatning a MAN...


Option 3, Report it to TB josh for proper deliverance on her, she might be .......


Option 4, #BuhThatIsNonOfMyBusiness !!!

Dollyak:
She is an insecure psycho. She won't believe your stories until you present a strong evidence. I think you might need to contact the taxi man and tell him to explain the whole situation to her. In addition, you need to have a strong word with her.

So u do visit d romance section too ...hmmm, miss political iron lady . Nice!



@op, ur girlfriend is obviously highly insecure and immature. If I were in ur shoes, d relationship is all but dead at dis point. If she's so angered enuff to tell u dat u don't really know nothing abt her...u should take dat statement seriously. But then, u know her better dan me so she just might be d type dat spews off d top witout necessarily meaning it, whenever she gets mad (still not a gud sign either)

magneto:


So u do visit d romance section too ...hmmm, miss political iron lady . Nice!



@op, ur girlfriend is obviously highly insecure and immature. If I were in ur shoes, d relationship is all but dead at dis point. If she's so angered enuff to tell u dat u don't really know nothing abt her...u should take dat statement seriously. But then, u know her better dan me so she just might be d type dat spews off d top witout necessarily meaning it, whenever she gets mad (still not a gud sign either)

lol. Yeah, I do once in a while . Yeah I do agree with all your points. She is sound too immature for my liking.

It is crystal clear she is a psychopath. Do the right thing else your case would be the case of girlfriend stabs lover to death for cheating claims.

Dollyak:

lol. Yeah, I do once in a while . Yeah I do agree with all your points. She is sound too immature for my liking.

Absolutely. I bet ur nothing like her tho