Am so scared of dating because more often than not the guy always ends up suspecting my every move. It got so bad that my last date accused me of being too close to my cousin, my own blood. Most people think am lucky but they don't know what I go through. Right now am so tired of this dating ish. Any other person going through this? Please let's share.

hehehehehe

Hun

thatnaijabae:
Am so scared of dating because more often than not the guy always ends up suspecting my every move. It got so bad that my last date accused me of being too close to my cousin, my own blood. Most people think am lucky but they don't know what I go through. Right now am so tired of this dating ish. Any other person going through this? Please let's share.

Dear,

Do you give them a reason to suspect your every move.?

And are you certain it is not your own projection or paranoia?

And, what if it is a way you unconsciously 'sabotage' your relationships?

Dunno tho. I seek enlightened answers too sis.

Haba...relationships nowadays confuse me

Babe just start wailing

Xiadnat:


Dear,

Do you give them a reason to suspect your every move.?

And are you certain it is not your own projection or paranoia?

And, what if it is a way you unconsciously 'sabotage' your relationships?

Dunno tho. I seek enlightened answers too sis.

Haba...relationships nowadays confuse me

I don't think I do anything to lead to that. I just don't know.

All these lesbians sef!

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Midehi:
hehehehehe

it's not a fun post please.

Truth24:
Babe just start wailing

I guess you think am kidding. Am not.

Dorrobucci:
All these lesbians sef!

Am not a lesbian.

tabisegroup:
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I guess we are all entitled to our opinions.

My dear a perfect relationship takes work,sacrifice, tolerance and endurance, maybe you give them the impression that make them doubt you,if you've had this problem with about 4 guys then you should check yourself, try to figure out what you're doing wrong. A perfect relationship takes lots of work.

thatnaijabae:
Am not a lesbian.

Any proof?

Btw, you look like one.

thatnaijabae:
Am so scared of dating because more often than not the guy always ends up suspecting my every move. It got so bad that my last date accused me of being too close to my cousin, my own blood. Most people think am lucky but they don't know what I go through. Right now am so tired of this dating ish. Any other person going through this? Please let's share.

It means the men you date are insecure.

Go with a guy who is secure and can trust you always.

Dorrobucci:


Any proof?

Btw, you like one.

I hope you know you are wrongly accusing me of being a criminal. Homosexuality is a crime in Nig. Be careful please.

are you sure u know "pun" means?

cuteboy2:


It means the men you date are insecure.

Go with a guy who is secure and can trust you always.

how do you know a guy who's insecure or otherwise?

Cos gurl to are jealous

thatnaijabae:
Am so scared of dating because more often than not the guy always ends up suspecting my every move. It got so bad that my last date accused me of being too close to my cousin, my own blood. Most people think am lucky but they don't know what I go through. Right now am so tired of this dating ish. Any other person going through this? Please let's share.

thatnaijabae:
how do you know a guy who's insecure or otherwise?

One sure sign is always suspecting all your moves, even with a cousin!!!

Lack of trust is another. If someone is monitoring all your movements and does not give you space to live a normal live, then the guy is insecure.

That one is not love. He is simply over controlling you.

thatnaijabae:
I hope you know you are wrongly accusing me of being a criminal. Homosexuality is a crime in Nig. Be careful please.

.

Sorry, I was referring to the lady on your DP.

Be open as much as possible

BOWOTO:
My dear a perfect relationship takes work,sacrifice, tolerance and endurance, maybe you give them the impression that make them doubt you,if you've had this problem with about 4 guys then you should check yourself, try to figure out what you're doing wrong. A perfect relationship takes lots of work.

I support you bro but mightnot be her fault tho

thatnaijabae:
Am so scared of dating because more often than not the guy always ends up suspecting my every move. It got so bad that my last date accused me of being too close to my cousin, my own blood. Most people think am lucky but they don't know what I go through. Right now am so tired of this dating ish. Any other person going through this? Please let's share.

Firstly,any guy who wud date you knows dat he is in for a fight to keep you. But it shud not be a fight cos u chose him ryt? Now its ur job to keep reassuring him that ur 100% his. This is done both in words a lot of words!!!! n a lot of action too. Dnt say it n forget do things to show it. Another issue is the foundation.of ur relationship

Musicminista:


Firstly,any guy who wud date you knows dat he is in for a fight to keep you. But it shud not be a fight cos u chose him ryt? Now its ur job to keep reassuring him that ur 100% his. This is done both in words a lot of words!!!! n a lot of action too. Dnt say it n forget do things to show it. Another issue is the foundation.of ur relationship

but it's not good for people to assume falsely.

thatnaijabae:
I hope you know you are wrongly accusing me of being a criminal. Homosexuality is a crime in Nig. Be careful please.

Wat i do is ignore these types. Dey are plenty on Nairaland just go.on with ur conversation. n ignore

@Op, don't rush into any relationship for now, since u have identify the deficiency in your previous relationship, all u need now is to keep your head straight even though u may need companionship at the moment.
Make friend first before you accept any proposal from opposite sex, then from there u guys u will know each other flaws whether you are good to go

It is well

Musicminista:


I support you bro but mightnot be her fault tho

yes bro it might not be her fault, she should try to limit her male friends,i don't trust girls with too many male friends.

naijaboiy:
And then some fake pictures too

Boss I hail oo long time where have u been?
Hope all is well