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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 6:08pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar come on. You cant call me a warrior biko? What happened to words like "sisi". Social justice Sisi sounds better. Funny enough, i consider myself a very open minded person. I'm usually able to let a lot of things slide. But when it comes to public behavior and social welfare...........i'm very conscious of what goes on around me, and i HATE it when people do things the wrong way, because tomorrow the same people would start complaining that "government" didnt do enough or isnt doing enough. Dont mind me. Firstborn tinz. You're just built into a disciplinarian without asking. Meanwhile, i know you know i believe i'm smart. If that guy looked anything like a Junkie, well...................lemme leave you in suspense. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
freecocoa you should be teaching strategy in assault and insult . That your approach, odikwa very strategic. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 6:15pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
bodashee:Nwanne'm, one can never be too careful, especially in a country where people still say "don't you know you are a woman, why challenge a man" |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 6:43pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
edwife: In that case maybe there is more to that post than what i read I read it to mean the inevitable clashes of belief systems As you rightly noted, a chrislamic marriage will have issues.. though they belive in God I even know of issues amongst Jehovah witnessess and other christian denominations so this one is in for a lot of debate and arguments right from the get go |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 6:50pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
At the bolded do you mean things like falling in love? freecocoa: |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Pickabeau1, it's Friday!!! Fellowship or club? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 7:06pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Abeg leave me alone, since when is falling in love stup1d, all I know is that anyone can get it wrong sometimes. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:09pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:11pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: LOL.. u dont need to be harsh about it I only asked to be sure Yes logic and love dont mix and i respect you for accepting that the heart wants what it wants It now behoves you to make compromises to make the relationship work Can u do that |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:17pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Okayyy... I see Gotham is your baby tonight.... Cool Series shaaaaa.... I'm going to burn some caloriessss....*Ukkkwwwwwuuuuu* |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
have fun then.... keppyy: |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 7:27pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1:That wasn't even near harsh, you people always read me wrong. I can and have in the past, I just haven't really been in that phase where 'forever' is so glaring, that's why it seems too much. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:56pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: well... you may be right that we wrong-read you.. heck.. who knows we can only interpret based on posts...y'know Yes forever.... first thing you have to know is that a relationship is about compromise all the time Because you dont live for yourself anymore U always consider the impact of your actions on the next person i dont know the fellow in question But if i were him I will be continually saddened if my partner did not share the same belief i had AND actively did not support my belief Note the word AND Its one thing not to believe in God and keep it to yourself its another thing to actively push for that nonbelief On the issue of intelligence, bluntness can make someone feel bad even if well intentioned 3 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 8:38pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Well, I don't really push for nonbelief, it is usually people, who try to 'preach' to me when they know my stance, though he doesn't do that anymore but I still have to chip in when the topic comes up na, except I'll never have to talk about religion or God anymore with him, which I doubt possible as he even loves to hear me talk,he always wants to know what I think about something. Being blunt doesn't mean rude na and it's not as if I am always blunt, I just like to say it how I see it, with diplomacy ofcourse but all the same, I willi work on it. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 10:01pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
freecocoa:Pls answer yes or no to these q 1.Will you support Bible education for the kids when they come 2.Will you support special prayers n fasts 3. Do you support the notion that the husband is the head of the family |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 10:27pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
[/b][b] pickabeau1:1.Yea. 2.Yea 3.No |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 10:33pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 10:35pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Lol. I grew up with church na, look where I am today. The truth is that, the decision is not one you make for someone. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 10:56pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: Yes..you r right On the third one......I will wish u d best |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 11:00pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
pickabeau1:NL is different from the real world, I've never even had to have that conversation with any bf before, it won't come up if you and your partner know/understand each other. Thanks anyway. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by An0nimus: 11:30pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
This thread strong gan @bodashee you did the right thing jare. Personally, anytime i'm in a bad mood at the ATM and someone jumps the queue or tries to pass his ATM card to someone in front of me I tell him that I am well aware of what he is doing. Some days I bluntly refuse these 'queue jumpers', other days when I'm not in a rush I choose to ignore. One church brother once told me that as a Christian i'm not meant to be 'claiming right' when things like that happen. Me ke, except i'm in a jolly mood(which is most times). If not, well I laugh in Ogoni |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:04am On Aug 08, 2015 |
freecocoa: Cool |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 8:04am On Aug 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Help! My mentions are no longer working! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by ApexTitan(m): 9:26am On Aug 08, 2015 |
This thread don fall hand. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 9:29am On Aug 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: How |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 9:37am On Aug 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Wasn't getting any mention alerts despite being mentioned. It's just been fixed though. Thanks. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 10:28am On Aug 08, 2015 |
Lol, those two are at it again. Now I wish my mentions weren't working |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 10:45am On Aug 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: It happens to me a lot.... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 10:48am On Aug 08, 2015 |
edwife:HI edwife. Is that you on your dp? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 10:48am On Aug 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Lol yes.... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 10:52am On Aug 08, 2015 |
edwife:Holy salamanders! I totally imagined u different |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 10:54am On Aug 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: I don't understand it,why do everyone imagine me old,short and fat? That's what i am told...Lol Well,c'est la vie. 1 Like |
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